Quantum-Inspired Attachment Theory (QIAT): A Driven Systems Framework for Understanding the Anxious–Avoidant Relationship Dynamic

Quantum-Inspired Attachment Theory (QIAT) is a conceptual framework examining the anxious–avoidant relationship dynamic through attachment psychology, quantum cognition, and driven dynamical systems.

The paper proposes that escalating attempts to obtain reassurance and reduce relational uncertainty may, under certain conditions, increase pressure within a relationship and contribute to withdrawal, emotional shutdown, and recurring pursuit–withdrawal cycles. It explores whether reducing this pressure may support relational stability more effectively than intensifying corrective efforts.

QIAT is the fifth paper in the author’s completed theoretical framework, following Observer–Mirror Theory (OMT), The Ambiguity Engine (AE), Character Selection Protocol (CSP), and Human Wager Theory (HWT).

The framework uses quantum-inspired concepts as modelling tools; it does not establish that relationships operate through physical quantum mechanisms. It is an exploratory theoretical proposal intended to generate testable hypotheses and support independent evaluation and future empirical research, rather than a validated psychological model or clinical diagnostic tool.