Archetype, the silent protector: good guy in relationship dynamics: Understanding social media behavior.

Abstract: 

This review research article explores the complex dynamics of relationships, focusing on the figure of the silent protector, in various relationship stages. I will delve into their social media behaviors, their interaction with the 'one', their stance against dark triads, and their protective nature. This review also aims to offer a comprehensive understanding of the silent protector role in comparison with the 'narcissistic savior' archetype, also, in comparison with the truthful guy archetype, and the angelic guy archetype. A nice guy has typical behavior other than a narcissistic or psychopathic dark triad. The protector's inherent sense of responsibility and commitment sets them apart from these destructive traits. They will have to learn to be truthful as well as nurturing, which will create the angelic guy archetype. Maybe including lessons of empathy and understanding about the pain, trauma, and lack in providing survival chances it caused being half a guy, to true loved ones, which might even motivate them to become a truthful guy as well and make themselves a more complete being. The good guy is a real Superman behaving from love. A protector/ good guy/ nice guy is caused by oxytocin in men making them sweeter. This type is the same as the mother archetype. Archetypes are also evolutionary and inherited, this causes the collective unconscious awareness of the types, and it is instinctively known. Women seek nice guys for long-term relationships. The protector/ good guy/ nice guy/ mother archetype can end up being trauma-bonded by Dark Triads. Dark triads would have the genes mainly from their fathers and the good guys are the mother type, this could also cause an archetype couple, with typical types of children. The abusers work on losing independence, self-esteem, and dignity, which will keep the victim trapped. It is used to have power and control over the good guy, children, one of the good guys, and the loved ones they have. So, they will need to be independent again, build self-esteem, and learn to believe they have dignity. They will also need an escape plan to escape the Dark Triad. Future research, can be about how the protector evolves in changing environments, with changing societal norms and changing digital landscapes. Also, further research can be about how culture shock can influence this entire process of leaving the Dark Triad, and committing truthfully, besides being a good guy. Further research can explore the marital fraud the Dark Triad actually has within these marriages, and what they used it for, for what crimes.