I know it’s frustrating, but it’s important to remember that the world is a dangerous place, especially for women and especially while meeting people online. I wouldn’t take it so personally, I would bet (though I obviously don’t know you) that the women who don’t want to meet up with you have reasons that have nothing to do with you and probably have concerns and anxiety around meeting anyone off the internet. 

Aside from that, youre coming across really entitled with the “I’m handsome, I work out, everyone loves me” etc etc mindset. The world doesn’t owe you shit and women don’t owe you anything either, you state that you insulted a random woman for not responding to you…if this is your attitude then you’re going to be single the rest of your life. So yeah it probably is your awful personality, entitlement and clear lack of self awareness.

Maybe instead of looking at it like “I’m not getting anywhere with women” try and take some accountability and think “is there anything I could be doing that is hurting my chances of finding a successful relationship?”