How do I tell me gf 26F to stop messaging my friends and parents if she’s not heard from me 27M So my gf if she hasn’t heard from me for a few hours or so can message my friends or or parents asking if I’m alright if she hasn’t heard from me. 2 examples of this over the last month I went to a football match the other week and was drinking with a few of my mates. And she hadn’t heard from me during this as I didn’t have much signal and was out enjoying myself. She ended up texting my mum who was abroad on holiday if she had heard from me. Another example is she was abroad on holiday with her friends. And I had a lie in as I was off work and woke up around 9.30. And she messaged my mum again asking if I was ok. Me , my friends and parents all find it kinda weird and annoying she does this and I want to let her know nicely that we think this behaviour is annoying and a bit creepy. What’s the best way to say this nicely ??