Straight man concerned about his high number, how do I bring this up with dates who ask about it? I know that this sounds like a humble-brag, but I'd really like the perspective of women and men in similar situations. Please don't downvote! This is a genuine source of anxiety for me! I'm a 31M straight man and I've had 75 sexual partners (I have a list). In hindsight, from being a 21-year-old virgin, this is a mind-boggingly huge number, but going on 2+ dates/week leads to one sexual partner per month or two on average. I'm comfortable with my number, and I plan on keeping up the casual sex until I find a romantic partner. My concern is that when I do find my person, the person that I want to settle down with, they may ask about it. I won't bring it up and I won't care about their number. However, I'm concerned that this will be a deal-breaker for them. Do women care about the number of partner's their boyfriend has had like some guys care about the number of partners that their gf has? I hope that saying "one partner per month for 6-8 years will lead to something like this", but I don't know if that's the best answer. What do you all think? Any girls on here who've dated guys with a ton of experience? Were you ok with it?