Hand job and blow job tips Hi, I (25F) have given my bf handjobs and blowjobs for a few times in the past. I have observed that he takes a while to cum in both cases (HJ and BJ). Does that mean I am not good at it? Is he not attracted enough to me? Am i doing it wrong? He is the only guy i have been with so I have no previous experience either and i feel clueless. Please provide tips for giving him maximum pleasure and making it an unforgettable experience for him. @Guys: Please feel free to comment what makes u feel good and works for you. What is it that you love when your partner does it for you?