Ladies, serious question. You're about to get married and your husband has an unusual name that makes you uncomfortable. what do you do here? lets say his last name is Bootystank and he comes from a wealthy, proud family of Bootystank. The family really wants you to keep the name and not put a hyphen on it. Your boyfriend is really wanting you to not hyphen the name either. Would you take the name and be a Mrs Bootystank?