My 21F girlfriend wants me 21M to get a vasectomy. Let me start by saying we have been dating for 8 or so months and things have been great. We had a talk about our future a few months ago where I expressed that I couldn’t see myself having kids but also I’m young so things could change. She does want kids which makes this weirder, we talked about the possibility of a vasectomy and how it was reversible but it simply isn’t something I would want to do because I’m not entirely sure how reversible it is. She has on a few occasions expressed her discomfort with taking birth control and all its risk but is completely fine with the risk associated with a vasectomy. Anyways onto the meat of this post. This morning she called me and started the call by asking me to remind her why I don’t want to get a vasectomy and immediately I felt like this was a red flag. I explained to her that it bothered me that she was bringing up this subject again but she kept going about the negative side effects of birth control and how it could affect her body. At this point I came right out and told her it was a red flag to me and after a few minutes of arguing even me looking for other people that went through this and reading her the opinions of other people in this situation, she came to the conclusion that I just care about my own comfort more than hers and hung up. Now I’m worried that I might have overreacted but also I feel that she is trying to pressure me into something that could affect me for the rest of my life so that she can be comfortable in the short term. Am I in the wrong? And what should I do in this situation?