Male: can fuck intensely for hours without orgasm? I recently started a new relationship with a very sexual girlfriend. 2 months in. Background: I have an unfortunate past in repressed sexuality via a deeply religious background. I didn’t start having sex until I was 32 (male). The sex with her is the best sex I’ve ever had; we go for hours. Like 3-4 hours. Sweat, intensity, full on screaming, etc never experienced anything like it. It’s super intense, I’m not complaining. However, I can’t orgasm unless I pull out and resort to manual action. Is this normal? The only reason i ask is because she is surprised by the endless experience. Additional background: I run a ultra marathon every 2-3 days so the physical exertion is not unusual for me, but she is surprised that I can go past five minutes based on the previous partners. Do I need to see a therapist for this?