Is my mother taking advantage? 19 male , I work as a dishwasher at golden corral working 30 hours a week, closing BY MYSELF from 3:30 to 10:00 pm 3 days a week. my paycheks are about 460-500. And my mom is always complaining about me not doing any dishes when I barely eat or me not cleaning up but Im at work 90% of the time. Some days shell wake up and start yelling about dishes in the sink and threatening to kick me out. Before i had a job she told me i could stack my money rent free, now all of sudden she wants $100 a month, now i know what youre thinking that aint shit but she also charges me gas money ($7 to work and back which is about $14 a day) for taking me to work which is 3 miles away, $14 a day adds up alot, and I kinda feel like all this shit is draining my funds. The crazy part is i dont make any dishes and theres never any groceries in the house so what the fuck am i paying for. She knows how hard my job is too and still wants rent every month. Some days shell even come home with a bottle of liquor and nothing to eat, she doesnt really cook much either and wont wash her own dishes most of the time. Also my little sister doesnt do shit and makes a mess all the time.