content: She is obsessed with a group and wants attention, it is like early school years where someone likes you but doesn't know how to express themselves so pick the easiest way to get your attention focused on them your anger.  Back in elementary school there was one girl that would steal boys hats to get them to chase her, she tried it with me. Now I wasn't mature or anything I just collected baseball caps back then so had tons of them many that I didn't care that much about, so I would just wear a different hat the next day and spend my time playing with my friends. She kept taking my hat I kept wearing a new one and not giving her attention, she would take them home. Eventually she came up to me to return all of them and she was now the one that was pissed as she had gotten in trouble at home over all the hats and had to explain where they came from, so this was my fault that she got in trouble as I didn't play her game and chase her to get them back. The behavior seems so similar to me as well as the blame  being passed when caught out on it. this was back in the 80's though so it didn't fly with the parents. I guess attention seeking behavior ends differently with different authority figures around though.