content: I have met women that wanted me to choke them during sex, but I don't think it's safe to assume that a majority want that, nor should it be implied that they do. Lots want a forward partner, but anything past that should be discussed previously.  The problem seems to be that we treat sex as sort of a taboo thing and not enough people understand that places like Fetlife exist or maybe don't even realize these inclinations and just hit walls for a while, but everyone should be taught to read signals and take their own needs out of the equation for 30 seconds.