content: Issue that blacks don't want to admit is they can't hold large thoughts without putting it on paper or working in   7ffa  a group.    Large picture shows if they teach their kids anything its to trust no one and try not to think about life and just enjoy it.  I've had dozens of black employees I've had 1-1's with to try and help them straighten out their bad habits like friends that get them in trouble or not taking advantage of our employee 401k match programs and save.  They all say the same thing when asked how they were raised "try not to think too much and just enjoy it", you hear that from the people that made you and you're crippled for life.  Bundle it with seeing people like you ALWAYS hating anyone not your race and only SOMETIMES hating your own race, and you're in a corner thinking there's no way out live fast and die young like the rest of your friends.    But the large picture is you set your kids up to fail, either raising them wrong, or not raising them at all and abandoning them like snakes.  But you cry to white people that they need to do things for you, including teaching, but you send an army to class to do nothing but disrupt the lessons and you only come in when your kids get in trouble and don't think this is a team effort. You cry that "it takes a village" but you think you can send your kids to get educated in the village next door and we'll just figure out how to reach you, for you.    It's absolute nonsense, but like ignorance, only those on the outside see it.