content: You cannot honestly look at the legal financial structures around marriage and think men should partake in that or that it's fair to men. Personally I've been with my girlfriend for years but the fact that she is a lawyer scares me. If I marry her I'm looking at an 85% chance that she serves me a divorce, 80+% she gets the kids the house and all our assets, 90+% I have to pay her allimony while fucking her new man in my house - thrown in jail should I be unable to pay.  Would you gamble with those odds in Vegas?  Then why would you play with those odds in real life?