content: My family came over to this country well after slavery (WWII era) and I have no idea what happened to my extended family. It's almost statistically guaranteed they died in camps. My family's hard work and assets were stolen during that time. I don't fucking complain about it.  The beauty of this country is anyone can make it within one generation. I studied hard in school and worked hard my whole life to earn a decent living. I don't blame other people for my failures and I find people with those sort of complaints insulting. The only difference between her and myself which I have an advantage is that I am more intelligent.