content: The problem isn't "My wife is having sex with other people".  Nobody honestly gives two shits about that part. It's the justification the guy is using for it that makes no fucking sense and is an absolutely pathetic excuse.  "I'm empowering my wife through feminism!" is bullshit.  Grown adults have choices to make, and being in a relationship doesn't take that away.  Sure, most people just click the default settings when they say "1 relationship please", but at least they don't go "PATRIARCHY MADE ME MONOGAMOUS!" They say "I choose to be monogamous becau  3016  se I feel closer to the person I'm with that way. Screaming that the patriarchy made you monogamous is quite ridiculous, and shows that you have failed to examine yourself with an adult mindset and determine your own preferences.  It shows a lack of communication in this person's marriage, as well as a lack of spine to stand up for himself.  In short, it shows he lacks the power to be a mature adult, which makes me think marriage and kids probably aren't for him anyways.