content: You hate him because you are inadequate and jealous.  You hate that he has an income that affords him the ability to take a van full of people to a ski hill (an income he worked for and earns). You hate that he doesn't put up with a child's pointless whining and doesn't pander to her.  Mostly, you hate that someone like him would never validate someone like you and give you a free ride in life because you "deserve it".