content: Father here - uh, yeah, at 5 years old my son is entirely my responsibility and its also my responsibility to educate my wife on the dangers of relationships with anyone you didnt grow up with. A stranger is a stranger. Immediately family only allowed to be alone with kids and if you think you can finally catch a breath because your kids are old enough to play outside alone with older siblings in place of a grown adult supervising the safety. Yes its your fault. You will never rest. There is no break. Safe places don't exist. Either you or your wife goes all in with full strength on those precious kids or you will have blood and death on your hands.