content: For the rape joke in particular which I feel put me off him was the following https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rUmuj_QD_4 To be honest I understand dark humour and stuff and I think some jokes about rape could be could considered funny Patrice O'Neal for example. It's not even a joke he's doing he's laughing at the claim that the men were raped and it was "unwanted". i.e laughing at victims, There is actually quite a serious issue with men who are raped because the general consensus is oh your a man you should have enjoyed it. Imagine if he did the following about women. I.e sniggering and saying "you know you wanted it". I actually quite liked him before but after that it put me off how he could be so smug and just dismiss and ridicule a serious issue. Again it's not the joke its what he actually thinks.