content: I think two men would have a more reasonable chance of giving a kid a stable, secure home life.  Just because men deal with problems/stress in a more even manner than women do.  Of course, a lot of gay men consider monogamy to be bullshit and regularly fuck other men outside of their primary relationship, and having to watch that could fuck a kid up pretty good. Women are kinda nuts anyway.  Take the stabilizing presence of a man away, it gets much worse.  Think of how badly single moms fuck up kids.  Now multiply that by two. Edit: a friend of mine was raised by lesbians.  She hated it, fought for every ounce of time she could get with her dad, and made damn sure to announce every boyfriend she had very loudly on social media.  She was always afraid of getting labeled as a lesbian too.