content: This is what I think this banana head was thinking. Just get a girl up on stage to actively return his "affections".  See guys, she's into it. It's cool! I'm not molesting anybody!  Just ignore that his power level is far above hers and she has to play along with this pantomime or face behind-the-scenes consequences. Even if only of the in-familiy or peer group variety.  You want to help Grandpa Joe, right Mary? Just give him a kiss. Go on. There's nothing wrong with it. It's just a little kiss. What's wrong with kissing?  Literally the language and social pressuring tactics of an abuser to work around any resistance to their goals. And not just his victims, but us too. Groomers don't just groom the child. They groom the people around the child also. The people who should be that child's active guardians.