content: I'm sorry and I can't imagine what those problems and hurdles and obstacles were like, but I'm sure many of us here agree that character is born from hardship and I'm hoping if anything was gained from the she-boon dindu that fucked over your mom's paperwork to the she-boon behavior you saw around you to the assumed privilege others felt you had, today you and your family are better learned of the world and people/animals around us/you and you as a family and as individuals are stronger for it.