content: There also is a difference between a boss and a leader. "Bossy" is barking orders at people, boys and girls can be bossy. Leading in that example would be inspiring the other children with your creativity and ideas, or taking initiative to start building the play props or whatever. Who knows that particular story, could be she joined the boys playing and wanted to become the director. I don't think this random twat's anecdotes are worthy of further discussion.