I generally am a very rational person, very logical, looking at every point of view/ perspective/angle, I always have reassured myself in matters beyond my control with "everything happens for a reason". However in this I was not concerned at 1st believing what was told to me. Just taking in 1 dissatisfaction at a time and placing it on a mental note shelf. They piled up quick. How they treated me, responded to me, responded to him & how they dealt w/it. Each also being noted & placed away. Internally things were not making sense medically. Making no attempt to comfort him or even pacify me. They were stingy w/info dismissive to my concerns, careless w/him, uninterested & inattentive. Many things I believed to be common place decisions in preventative care were not done until after I inquired about the process. I was calm and assured them that a decision had not been made either way. Once the lines of communication had been opened that day they put on quite a show doing all shorts of things and sent all sorts of medical staff my way to reassure me that all our concerns would been handled & there would be no further issues & that it was his right so if he chose to they would assist in his transfer. Meanwhile in the background his doctor was making sure the other hospital would not accept him. This lasted one day. the next day its all went back to lack of concern, neglect, being condescending or dismissive, or down right mistreatment. Perhaps I'm wrong but someone with an infection should not be left in urine for almost 3 hours, should not have to ask and wait almost 5 hours for medication, should be told about his case and what is happening. They have not brought him food 3 mornings, 1 lunch, and 2 dinners. These are not even the top concerns I've been to underfunded/ understaffed hospitals in dangerous cities that gave a shit more and actually tried more than complacent facility that found my notions of possibly transferring him to be the most absurd thing ever. I am not assuming the worst nor did I mention my crazy thoughts I'm not brain damaged. Honestly I began to inquire on the process before I even made the Wexner connection. On my way to the cafeteria dazed at the situation I found myself in passing a dedication wall to donors of over 1 mil +. Names like L brands, Bushes, numerous foundations, caritable trusts, big name families, the usual types of backing involved in all the nefarious things & that is when it clicked. WEXNER THAT FUCKING WEXNER Epstein L brands, Victoria Secret OMG oh my God I thought my heart stopped, it brought tears to my eyes and took the breath out of my body I dropped my phone & was standing there in darkness. "What, what?" his sisters voice cried out to me. Then I remembered I wasn't & people were walking past me in both directions & turned to my side to see her face. She was scared so I quickly composed myself picked up my phone & reassured her nothing was wrong. In my head & my tummy though I was freaking the fuck out, like biggly. I haven't shared my thoughts w/anyone even if I'm right how would it help them but esp if I'm wrong how would help. If I'm wrong I'm wrong oh well its not the end of the world I fuck up all the time but if I'm right & I didn't try it would be my fault. I lost my 1st love to addiction, I've lost many wars/drugs/suicide, I have lost a child to "sids", Ive seen loved one fight CFS, relatives overdosed on prescription medication that was over prescribed, friends and family lost in the for profit prison system, not to mention seeing the most amazing powerful resilient ppl completely broken stripped withered into shells of themselves from the constant attack on who they were as loyal honest hard working old fashioned Americans. Myself included in most of those examples of this unfair war we find ourselves having been involved in since the beginning of time. If im wrong Im wrong but I am not a rubber necker, Im not a spectator, I am willing to fight Im just waiting for the go so I cant just keep my mouth shut to see what happens. I really just came here to know if anyone had found anything on this hospital in particular or if anyone had any advice on the best way to dig into the hospital. Maybe even if anyone who like digging & wasnt presently tied up in something or needed a brake from something wanted to dig  just as a sign of kindness towards a fellow Patriot/human being that has found herself feeling hopeless and desperate. I am grateful to all you for even taking the time to read my disastrous cry for help. All the advice and words of kindness are truly appreciated. I went to see him and am going again tomorrow. Again I am sorry to have inconvenienced anyone on here thank you. -me WWG1WGA