Same here. Was bullied briefly in grade school. My dad told me to find the leader in such situations and fight dirty as hell if need be. Took a couple of punches to his face and the worries dissipated. I have lost many fights but it's fighting back that counts. Also, I have made good relationships with many that appeared threatening. That is a major point that is never focused on when discussing bullying. The bridges that are built by being strong.