They met while he was in prison, years ago, maybe by being a pen pal or something. (Files and his first wife split up. His real last name is Sutton.) Then he and Pam became serious and she waited till he was pardoned in March 2016 to get married. They seem genuinely happy. He has kids previous, some are on facebook, don't know about her, if she had any. Weird, he was best man at his friend's wedding when they were young, his friend was the killer of Tippet (Gary Marlow), his daughter is on facebook. They are, in the pic, standing in front of the grill in Chicago where hitman Charles Nicoletti first approached Files to discuss the Kennedy hit, Files was playing pinball there. Just a kid really, but already a bad guy. In prison Files (Jimmy) became a professing born again Christian and became a completely different man. I would have no problem letting him stay over, he's that different. But he's killed many people. Sad.  I don't think he's fully safe now but to a large extent probably he is but he has always looked out for himself regardless, and has had bodyguards. He does have info and evidence that some authorities may want so that's bothersome. He's not long for this life either way. He lives in his old mafia area so they may protect him or he may feel safe there.