My friends aren't their yet, their not that honest. Shame illustrates a high degree of self awareness and honesty.  The people I am around are in a total echo chamber, they never talk or dispute with people of opposing views. "Conservatives" are just a mental construct, "bitter clingers" out in the sticks who are "racist" and "xenophobic". It should a total lack of appreciation of human beings and an obscene groupthink, "the herd of independent minds."