I don't think that's a true statement. I think most people don't give a rat's ass how you get off. We just hate being reminded every 12 seconds that you're a guy who sucks cock or a woman who eats pussy. We just REALLY DON"T CARE. Geez, 4.5% of the population is gay and we hear about them 24/7/365. Even my friends who are gay and normal are sick and tired of it.  And no, I don't think that's an oxymoron. One can be straight and a wacko, and one can be gay and normal. It's hard to find your soulmate. If they happen to be the same gender as you, well, you play the hand you're dealt. But you don't need my permission to love who you love. And you don't even need to tell me about it. As long as your sweetie is of legal age and there's no coercion, go for it.