So true. Porn was always hush hush erotica and hidden magazines. All of a sudden it became big business. Interesting side note - Porn queen wrote a tell all and said the reason they all started shaving the "playground" wasn't for sensuality, it was because they were all getting crabs. Suddenly men and women started shaving and now the majority of males and females under the age of 30 aren't even aware that grown women have hair there. It may have also contributed to the underage thing - as a lot of these shaved "naughty bits" (to quote Church lady) are indistinguishable up to a certain age with children.  Mulled this around for quite some time.  The other thing porn has done is wiped out the whole courtship thing, the buildup to a satisfying sexual experience for both parties, added to the insanity of anal (sorry, there is ZERO benefit to the female with anal. Guys have that prostate thing going on, but women who say they love it are trying really hard to have you love them for loving it. Or they're into S&M. Just sayin')  Thing is, the introduction of Porn, social media, gaming, selfie-obsessions, FakeBook posers... all this leads to isolation, unrealistic ideal and ideas, fear and loathing, fear that you're not perfect enough to be seen naked, fear you aren't up to par in the bedroom, not exciting enough. It's not just the Incels that express these fears. We seriously need a reset.  All you glorious bastards on here are just fine the way you are. You are fine in your imperfections. You uncomfortable in the bedroom? Read The Joy of Sex and learn a few things. Be honest. Be brave. And you young'uns - Please reproduce! We need more smart kids! thank you for coming to my TED talk