"One of God's Blessings came to me yesterday. My son's wife is a progressive and she has worked hard to keep my son away from me. We have not spoken in what seemed forever. I realized the situation he was in - it is hard to constantly be in the middle of his wife's hatred to me as a conservative and his love for me. I know the marriage bound between a man and a woman is paramount. While heartbreaking, I stayed quiet and just prayed. Last night he called and said he missed and loved me and wants to get together next week for lunch." Ah, that's tough.  Been thru something similar.  Prayer works.  Have a great lunch.