My sister asked me today what the heck did I think was really going on.  I wanted to slap her. She wants to know, but doesn't.  When I tried in the past to tell her things, she blows me off and refuses to read info I give her or places I point her to.  She says "I don't have time...just tell me".   I just looked at her and said NO.  Find out for yourself, then left to pick up meds for my aged brother.