When you pray, You Thank God for what you want in life. Eg "Thank you God, for giving me ..... " God don't wills it. It's up to you what you want. If you wills it, you'll get it. It's not up to God to don't let you have it, doesn't work that way. It's up to you to wills it. Here's another example https://voat.co/v/GreatAwakening/3201603/18456762