Well you probably never did much to begin with if thats you're opinion... But at the very least, you can talk about it. Learn how to socialize and  Wake people up without making yourselves look like crazy assholes.  Sorry to be a dick. But that's a pretty retarded, and AUDACIOUS COMMENT. Did you ever think it's taking long because you're not doing enough? Maybe you don't get taken serious when you bring it up, because you don't know how to bring it up. Admittedly, I'm making a lost of assumptions based on your 3 word Comment... But am I wrong? Edit: admittedly, one could argue that My comment Is equally retarded and audacious.... But still.