My heart breaks for you, my friend.  You tell it best - false accusers discredit the efforts & story of the true victims.  I rarely tell anyone my story bec  17ee  ause I was not harmed, physically or psychologically, and do not consider myself a victim.  Sadly, that title and the true story belong to people like you.  I am big on prayer - know that you will be kept in mine.  Peace to you ~ peace.