So sorry for your loss and your Grandmother's loss. She sounds like a great person. I believe this happens a lot. My Mom died 5 years ago and they did nothing to save her. They kept giving her needles to shorten her life and I had constant fights with them but my 'progressive brother' fought on their side. There was 1 night that I got to spend 4 or 5 hours with her where she was her old self because I solidly refused to let them give her the needles. She was awake, talking and even laughing then my brother and the nurses had their way. There's more to it but it would be long so i'll stop here. Just know they are killing people every day in the hospitals.