It's nothing to do with gender. We had two U.S. ships getting rammed by large tankers in the last couple of years, both had advanced radar systems, and nobody could figure out how it could possibly have happened. Think Chinese fake ultra mini microchip which was discovered to allow hacking.  It was installed in motherboards made in China especially for extremely high resolution video chips. Like would be in advanced radar tracking displays. (Also as would be used in DEWS weapons, which are suspected in the California fires.)