You don't just get to pick what your gender/sex (same thing) is.  Actually, they're not the same thing at all,  which is exactly why the PC marxists (i.e., destroyers of civilization) have worked so hard to confuse them. Sex is determined and fixed; gender is arbitrary and fluid: a person has a sex, a noun has a gender. As Orwell told us so well, destroying language is a precursor to destroying the ability to reason.