true true. Just say, "I know how much you hate war. We used to protest together. You might want to take a deep breath and read this. I know it doesn't fit with your narrative, but maybe suspend preconceived notions for 2 minutes and then think about it."  The thing is, even if they fight you on it, it will open a tiny little hole in their thinking that may explode open once the IG report is out.