I agree, there is no separation. You walk with God or you walk in fear. That is what free will is all about. As far as God is concerned we are all covered by Jesus Christ. If our sins are to be questioned he will question His son not us.  I know that it is hard for people to understand but the logic is this. Jesus claimed us and paid for our sins. He paid for the sins of the world. In a way, any problem God has with us will be brought to Jesus By the Father.The father would only speak to us about a problem if Jesus said he was not responsible. In a sense He is responsible for us before the father. Look at Adam and Eve. Adam was the responsible one so God spoke to him first. Adam rejected that responsibility so God turned to Eve. We are all "saved" in the sense that Jesus paid for all sins but we are not all going to heaven. We have already been judged on the cross and we have been set free. The great Judgement to come is this We will judge ourselves. The problem we have is not that God will not accept us. The problem is people that do not accept his forgiveness now will not be able to endure  His presence on that day.  Since they refuse forgiveness they will not be able to overcome their guilt. They will hide from Him. God desires that none would perish yet some will.  Someone once asked a stupid question "If God can do anything can He create a mountain he cannot move" They think that statement is wise. It is a foolish statement. Let's ask a much simpler question. If God is all-powerful can he force you to follow Him? The answer is no. He limited Himself by given us free-will Free will is a powerful gift. At the same time it can be a terrible gift. The path of truth is to trust Him with everything. Anything else is a lie.