Lived on the SO CA coast my whole life...moved to another state.  Thought I was going to die at first (smallish town).  Nothing like CA and lying on the beaches at Christmas.  BUT...you make new and amazing friends.  Family visits or follows you.  Once you shed the CA skin and realize that other states have much to offer...it's pretty amazing.  I wouldn't move back now for any amount of money.  People are friendly and helpful.  Services are often done on a handshake and a promise of payment.  It's safe!  Lower taxes and protection is legal with no government control (open carry with no strings or paperwork).  Open spaces and little traffic...and no one looks at you cross-eyed when you say, "God bless."    It's pretty awesome.