I wish you the best of luck in finding that woman.  Seriously.  I'm from a different, older, generation...the younger ladies all seem to want careers these days.  That being said, a woman who is willing to be a housewife and full time mother ABSOLUTELY MUST pick a man who is honorable and trustworthy and leaves her with absolutely NO DOUBT of a lifetime commitment.  Ladies today KNOW that...otherwise....they can be abandoned, with children, and little or no opportunity for income.