Do NOT attempt to de-program someone, (friend/relative) if you think they may have gone through some kind of mind control.  The procedure has been brought down to an exact science and they have a big book of rules.  Most people have an Omega personality put in, which essentially causes them to suicide themselves if their programming becomes compromised, or if certain alters start surfacing without being triggered.  If you are not a professional de programmer DO NOT ATTEMPT to 'save' your someone.  You risk casuing even greater irreparable damage.  Read this. https://endritualabuse.org/mind-control-simple-to-complex/