The Mr will come around! When you have the news 6 months ahead of time he may not acknowledge but he'll remember.My love of 30yrs is the same way ! I had a breakthrough the other day ,she told me this weekend  "I need you to take me to the shooting range,last night I tried to wake you up and I heard something outside" I think to myself "yes honey,bought you a nice .380 years ago,Glad I didn't give it to ya then,it'll be a nice surprise" Things come around!