That's why you can't be unequally yoked.  Your mate should be your best friend, an extension of yourself, like minded and like hearted.  For far too long we have chosen with lust rather than with love.  Its better to be alone than to be in a relationship that makes you feel like you ARE alone.  Choose wisely.  And remember, the truth about the things we know WILL come out, and we will all be vindicated.