were listening. i had youtube country playlist playing in the kitchen. a man came on who looked totally feminine. i just put it into my kids heads. they were like thats a man. 5 mins later my middle guy says... you know what he does look like a woman... its all about bringing it out to the consciousness. i also do it with my wife... she watches a lot of friends and golden girl re-runs. she thinks im nuts... but i persist anyway.