Take your despair and go make me a sandwich...you are talking like a lady.  Call you single mom for a pep talk and then grow some balls and a brain because you are eating the narrative like soy mustard on the top of your beyond meat "burger".  The whole nation is fucking fine, there are small groups of people who are "your caught" as texasinfidel would say but if you are seeing many of them you are watching too much TV or hanging out in the wrong goddamn places