I like you,ideologicidal. I also agree with everything you said and don't have much to add because you've said it all perfectly and I'm a straight woman who just happened to have gay men in my life literally since birth. I trust my gay male friends more than any straight female friends I've had. Unfortunately, quite a few of my gay friends were molested when they were young but just as many of my straight female friends, and even some straight male friends were also molested when they were young. I don't think being molested had anything to do with whether they grew up to be straight or gay. That's just my opinion.  Child molesters are disgusting evil creatures who need to be punished to the fullest extent of the law.