I went through all that too, back in the late eighties, early nineties..told the 'authorities' I would move to another state, later I ended up doing a remodel for the local school superintendent cause we were the only ones he would trust, lol.  Oh the stories. Jay Sekulow was a huge help back then to homeschoolers. We traveled the country and took 'learning' in stride, now all my kids make good money, two have masters degrees.