Hey, while I empathize with anyone on the loss of their mom, the bequeathment reminds me of a friend I've known for years, still my friend, but whoa  always has the money for very expensive alternative health measures, and paradoxically has no qualms about spending all that money.   I realized, not a regular job, tons of free time...do the math. No stress in his life....I likely have a cat food future. Np, my future is bright in my forever home. Can't buy THAT with money. Woo hoo! Also I am comforted by the thought that sometimes tuna is cheaper than cat food. lol