Thank you, and may you encounter care and empathy, for every path is fraught with peril. And seriously, buttsex, when performed carelessly, is life-threatening. Use protection. Lube and (gently) stretch before penetration. If (you) will forgive the TMI, @zeb438, I consider the sex I pursue recreational. Heterosex is pro creational. Creates life. Manifests a living being. It is a sacred act. There is nothing that I can do with another male to match it, but I'm not trying to match it. I'm trying to have fun sex.