Recently my oldest daughter has put on a few pounds. She snacks a lot over friends houses. Their parents have cabinets full of shit, unlike our house. She expressed to me that she realizes her slight weight gain, I regularly teach her about healthy eating and exercise. She asked to download 'My Fitness Pal' as she knows that I calorie count along with my working out. I say yes and we discuss that she still is growing. I have friends who I tell that she joined, you can make 'friends' on the app. I was not prepared for the judgement I received for allowing my 14 year old to use the app, like I was terrible for allowing her to recognize her slight weight gain. To me its good to be aware and in touch with your body. I feel her seeing her heathy calorie intake is good and if anything would avoid an eating disorder, am I wrong?