The only reason obese women dress that way is because they want to be looked at. They want to be oogled and oggled by men the way a fine-looking shitlady is. But by saying something like, "women are not there to be stared at by men" or whatever the blubber beast said, it's making it seem like she is the one saying not to look at her, instead of the truth that no man wants to look at her because she is so revolting. It's a sour grapes thing.