New perspective on old friends. Since becoming a shitlady among giants it has been easy to reject and criticize fat strangers. It is easy to see them as they are, which is disgusting. No problem there. It is the fat friends and relatives that I felt some cognitive dissonance over.  Anyways... this weekend my family and I went to visit some family friends out of state. We see them maybe twice a year and they are really great people. They have a beautiful home that they have put together. The kids are smart, healthy, and very involved. They are very nice people but there is one rather large issue they have. The wife is obese.  In the past her size never bothered or fazed me as being that large is becoming normal. But fatpeoplehate has changed my perspective and this weekend it did. I walked around their house and saw their photos from over the years. The couple was healthy and attractive when they first got married. Disgusting.  How could you make a vow to your spouse to always be together and then become obese and essentially trap them with you... I can't help but see her as a selfish bitch to indulge herself to planet size and not care about her family.  The poor husband (who never let himself go) probably hasn't had sex in the last two decades. It is just so extremely selfish and I don't think I will ever be able to view her the same again.