I dress mostly androgynous, too because i don't want attention from anyone when I'm out in public. I want to be left alone and how better than to be basically gender non-descript? So this guy and his  statement "I wondered, would he have approached someone in the same way who was taller? Hairier? Less fat? Fat in a different way? Darker?" makes no sense to me. I believe the answer is no, not likely. You are approached because you are a walking joke. I have never, not once, had anyone come up to me on the street and approach me in such a crude way. This is why obeast females think they are so desired because, apparently, this shit actually happens. And because this happens to them, they asssume human females get the same attention.  I can't speak for all human females, obviously, but I don't think many men would have the nerve to approach us in  that way.