I get what OPs trying to say, and how crazy it seems. But it's a really common reasoning. Especially in children. They generally know their abuser, it's not a one-time assault, they feel powerless, unable to get away or tell anyone. So they take control of the one thing they can do and try to make the abuser not want to assault them anymore. The abuser often tells them they couldnt control themselves because the kid is so "pretty/beautiful". I volunteer a lot and when I was younger I was in a mentor type program, kids that were acting out often got pushed into the program. And we were taught to recognize classic signs and symptoms of everything from abuse to depression to whatever. It's sad how many children get assaulted, you hear crazy numbers like 1 in 4 young girls, but since you never seem to see or know anyone who has been assaulted it seems like a made up statistic, sadly most either hide it or try to pretend it never happened.