It is crazy because they live in their heads with an over-inflated sense of grandeur. Fatties are just so narcissistic that they would rather spend all day taking selfies and being rewarded for it on Instaham than actually being productive.  Narcissists like to think they are perfect despite knowing that they aren't and react badly to criticism.  Actually becoming attractive means to admit that you aren't perfect and could be better.  It also requires being self-critical.  You and I feel good acknowledging we could be better and work on being the best we can be.  Fatties think they're perfect and work on convincing everyone else of the same thing.  It's delusional thinking.