Any kinky shitladies/shitlords here? Most of the time I'm the only person at a normal weight at BDSM clubs and events... only a few are "just" overweight, almost everyone is obese, with many morbidly obese and death fats. It's hard trying to not laugh when the whales try to be sexy, but most of the time it's just repulsive, not funny. There's a stereotype about BDSM people being filled with the fatties, isn't there?