He also throws tantrums when asked to clean up after himself as he lives in his boyfriends parents house but feels since he is a guest that he should not have to do any chores.  Felt the notion of "my house my rules and if you don't like it you can leave" to be absurd.    Refuses to work.  Respects nambla.  Prob a lot more but I didn't feel like reading all of that either.