This...  Some things are genetic, that is a truth that few can afford to fix(plastic surgery).  But the size/weight of your body is almost 100% something you can control.  That is the key word, control...    Being attractive is attainable, just perhaps in different areas for some people.  I have met plenty of "8-10" women who once they open their mouth and spew sewage they get an immediate downgrade to "not on my life."  On the other hand, met plenty of "5-7s" who were "cute" in their own way, but their personality gave them that huge boost!  Expand your mind, obtain some experiences (get out of your comfort zone by reading, adventuring, etc) and you increase your worth.  I am seriously attracted to women who can stand on their own two feet and their own mind, always have been.  This can work for anyone.