You said it. She is so into waving her “see I’m different” flag the first thing in her bio on autostraddle says “Vanessa is a queer something something something.” And just can’t take that she is the only reason she quit. Not anyone else. But like her whole “marginalized peoples” posse, they gotta have anyone else to blame for their own failures. Also, notice her happiest moments centered around eating—the apple, the avocado.