I just read the comments below that godawfulness and CHRIST it's like all of the above -- the fatty whining about the fit neighbor that just moved in, the Xtian advice-giving chick, and a commenter down below -- they're all stuck in a teenage mentality!  Like what is this even about losing your shit so badly whenever your husband finds or you think he finds another woman attractive?  What kind of way is that to go through life?  This is why so many of these type of women end up with closeted gay guys -- or real douchebag abusers who use their arrested development to fuck with their minds and run them ragged, damn.