It seems like the truly disable people do as much as they can to be self sufficient. One time at a restaurant I worked at this guy came in with his two young daughters in a wheelchair, and I offered to help him bring his food the table. He declined and made the three trips by himself holding the food in his lap. Yet somehow, more than once, I’ve had obeasts come in and make me come to the fucking table to take their order and complete the transaction because they’re disabled and have bad knees blah blah blah. We are a fast food restaurant not the type that waits on you, if you can’t even order at the counter you probably shouldn’t be eating a three thousand calories meal (they ALWAYS get the most calorie dense food)