Hammate has developed the obesity trifecta. Just an update if anyone is interested. Hammate has developed high blood pressure and is now on meds for that. She is also pre-diabetic (which she says is expected because it's in her family) and she is being monitored for that.  The diet has begun anew. She makes weekly progress reports to me, I do not congratulate her.  She told me her goal weight today, which is the same weight as me currently, and if she gets there I will congratulate her.  She met with the man she had been talking to a few weeks ago. As it turns out, he is a pigfucker, so her size is no concern to him. In fact she showed me pics of his 2 former wives and they were much larger than Hammate so she's practically anorexic next to them, ya know? They are both in full on death fat phase. His second wife left him for a black man (they are both white). Not saying anything derogatory about that, just that she had apparently been sleeping with the black man while married to Jimbo (man Hammate is talking to). So Jimbo is a cuck.  And that's that. Today she tried to talk to me about us building a tiny house together. I laughed. It's a dream of mine, to own a tiny home on wheels and she knows it. But I can't share a tiny home! We are talking a home the size of a bedroom, we cannot share a tiny home! And i want my own place again one day. Fuck if I want to live somewhere I can't decorate the way I want and I have to listen to inane gossip and bitchiness all day. Fuck off. Seriously.