That's the "point buy" fallacy. I'm a video gamer myself and we often have a certain number of points you can put into various stats. Speed, strength, intelligence, charisma etc. Everyond gets starter points and if you pump one up, you don't get those.  So a lot of fat people think attractive people are dumb and assholes because they used up thwir points on physical attributes. However, life isn't like a video game at the start. It's more like the end game. Did you level up all your stats or did you just sit in the inn and eat twinkles?