See, on the other side of that, I've met exactly one dude who had his shit together, was athletic, a total shitlord and a gamer. We've been together for 5 years now, gaming together as well as going to the gym. Most of the other guys I game with are just man children that forever leach off their girlfriends or parents. As many gamers as there are, it's still slim pickings if you are looking for someone attractive and fit.