Fat Asian mum "sharing" food with her kid So I attended a family dinner and sat next to one. We ordered a few dishes to share, with individual white rice. The whole evening, she was fussing over her kid, like “Boooy, you want this chicken/egg/fish? Mummy get for you, we share kaaay?” And proceeds to pile food on an empty plate. And proceeds to finish more than 3 quarter of what she was supposedly sharing with her kid.  Her kid’s 8 by the way, and have been getting his food from the turntable on his own the whole time.  The thing about Asians is, not all of us will be in-your-face about your weight. We are taught to be nice to people. So most of us will smile and pretend like we dont see what’s wrong with you, especially if you’re related, but we damn well will talk about it behind your back. And she knows it. So whether she’s doing it consciously doing it or not, I’ll never know, but lady you ain’t fooling anyone with that sharing with your kid thing.  TLDR; Asian fatties are more self aware, but food is more important so....