Seriously. Being the victim of actual sexual assault (assume she is) is not something you can choose and often can't prevent, especially if you're a kid. But not getting help for it and denying that you might need help because you're a "strong independent woman" or whatever is stupid. And blaming all of your problems on something that you can get treatment for (trauma is very treatable nowadays with therapies like EMDR or DBT) and then saying "I can't get thin wah wah wah I was raped" is just insipid nonsense