Yeah when people start typing up responses to things in a "spirit of the stairs" manner, then I start getting suspicious.    There's just no way that someone could be so calm and eloquent in the moment. I mean, there's a possibility if you have a history of working as a counselor/ therapist/teacher but I don't think that ham op girl has any of these qualities and is just typing up whatever she thinks will make her look like a shining angel of serenity and eloquence.