I agree. The narrative that's being pushed now is that fat people are outwardly beautiful, 100% of the time, no exceptions, so you know they don't believe it themselves. If they were truly physcially attractive and healthy, they wouldn't have to declare so often. Encouraging a delusion, a flat-out lie, is only going to hurt them. You only emotionally coddle children like that. Hence, I get these grown adults confused for children all of the time.  Making matters worse, they're ruining the healthcare system, and don't seem to care. I've never seen a fat person talk about the distressing impact they have on the world, only how they want to manipulate the world to make room for them.