Yup. All the praise like her great face, personality, humor etc., but she was fat, and so he wasn't interested. It's the image hams have of themselves. Of course they are perfect creatures, with just a bit of 'blubber'. If someone is not interested, they must have liked everything, but society, or the patriarchy, must have told them its wrong to date fat women. It's not that they are narcissistic 'persons' with a superiority complex, it must be the one thing which is easily seen by looking at them. Not the one you would have actually talk to them (or read their complete bullshit.) Now that I think of it: "(would have such a) pretty face", "funny", "smart" are all the things thin friends would go tell her, since "You actually look good" is simply even less believable. So TL;DR we have to deal with bullshit like this, because there are not enough shitlords out there telling hams the truth.