That's just fucking sad. Once again I say no blame to a ten year old. You're right, mother does need a good smack upside the head. He's young enough to turn it around right now. I don't think any boy that's pre pubescent has a snake between his legs, the kids ten for Christ's sake. Let him get thru puberty, then worry but you probably won't have anything to worry about unless it's as small as this woman's brains! Poor kid!