You wouldnt tell your kid "Fuck school, fuck homework, you don't need discipline, just do what makes you happy!" But that's basically what being fat is about. I was thinking about how people here say letting your kid get fat is child abuse, and I think, the argument is that they just want their kid to be happy. But the thing is, it should be about wanting your kid to be happy and healthy.  Most concerned parents wouldnt let their kid drop out of school or treat their education that way, in the name of happiness; but then they turn around and say it's totally okay to treat your body and your health that way.  I was thinking about it as I poisoned myself with this fucking chicken panini thing that I made for dinner haha. I was just thinking as I waited for it to cook, "god fucking cheese on bread on breaded chicken is the worst fucking thing you can do to yourself" so maybe dont listen to me. I have a lot of random ass thoughts all the time haha. It is tasty though, I made homemade whole grain bread and onion marmalade with some onions that I found out were starting to rot.