Fat "active" moms A while ago I started a group on Meetup for parents of toddlers who get together once a week to do a group hike or whatever we decide. Anyone can join in and we post a week ahead of time what we are doing. Well this past week someone wanted to get in one last kayak trip before it gets too cold.  I have extra kayaks so I volunteered to bring them in case someone didnt own one. Now everyone in the group is pretty fit except a grandma that tags along with a mom of twins.  We have had a few fats show up for one or two trips then ghost which is what happened on this trip. We planned a picnic by a lake then we would kayak after. A fatty arrives and introduces herself. She has a 2 year old with her. We start the picnic and she has brought mcdonalds .... Whatever. We carry on and start unloading the kayaks. She just sits on her phone while I unload my kayak and the one she's going to borrow. I get it down to the lake and tell her it's ready.  Then she asks "who's staying behind to watch the kids?". We all got kind of quiet and I told her the kids come with us usually unless there's a newborn. I told her I had an extra life jacket in my car her son could use if that was a problem. I could tell from her facial expression she was upset. She thought she was going to get free childcare while she kayaked around the lake. Her son was very interested in the kayak and I assured her I would help get her started. She didnt stay for long and left the kayak on the shore. I cant believe this cow actually thought a stranger was going to watch her child while she kayaked in someone elses kayak....