What finally broke me on the fatties Almost every girl I've dated has gotten fat since after we started becoming serious. But one time, I really fucked up. I enjoy weights and I've done bodybuilding competitions, fitness magazines, stripped etc. I really being in shape and girls like it to at first but then they get complacent, fat and disturbed I continue my routine. This is usually the indicator it is time to say adios mofo.  But one time I let a girl move into my place. She paid rent and we liked doing the same things so it seemed like it would be alright. She stopped going out dancing, concerts, ate all the time, and gained so much weight there was an indentation on my couch where she spent all of her time. I'd guess she gained 50 pounds in less around 10 months. I got so frustrated and asked her to leave several times and then she woukd ask for help. I tried to go to the gym with her but she would do it for a day or two and continue esting and it was just hopeless. She had all of her stuff in my place and when I would tell her to get the fuck out she would disappear for a bit and come back, buying me things acting like nothing happened.   I remember her going out when I would because she was jealous but she wouldn't dance, was constantly tired and out of breath and the only time she did anything was when I was talking to another girl.  Lots of people started asking me if she was my sugar momma or my f**hag (I'm straight). That really bothered me but this was the final straw: I was talking to some girls at a club we both liked and she comes up from her fat stupor telling them to fuck off. They made fun of her for being a fatty and she said "I may be fat, but at least I have him." That was the moment I decided she had to go. It took a few months to get her out and I had to be pretty brutal. But it has been 5 years now and I've not had to deal with a fatty (Kinda an anniversary for me).  Bonus : my current GF is looks incredible and usually wears next to nothing. Fatty stalked me for years after that (still does) and she tried to tell me she was prettier than my GF. I told her the only thing I wanted was someone who looks good in a bikini and likes to have fun. She sobbed haha.