That right there hits it on the head. You do it because you're an adult - you don't need someone up your ass telling you that you stink to do it, and you definitely don't put it off until you fucking reek. Meanwhile, this grown adult claims that not only does it not like to shower, it only does it once in a while after being nagged enough. Shit, my damn GRANDMOTHER wasn't this bad, and she was basically bedbound/heavily limited mobility in the months leading up to her death, and yet she STILL managed to fucking either get a regular shower OR use babywipes/get a 'sponge bath' on the days that she couldn't manage a full on shower. And here I'm seeing someone <30 who doesn't even do a proper 'shower' - she wipes down with a rag sitting on a fucking toilet in a halfbath because she can't get up the stairs to the regular bath.