For some fucked up reason, "fat privilege" has become a thing.  As if being lazy, having no self control, and eating shit is a fucking uncontrollable event.  You don't have to be fat.  You may never look the way you want, but you will feel a millions times better if you start being active, and try to eat good foods, and portion your meals.  Would you rather feel like you could eat a little more after every meal, or feel like you're not sure if you can stand on your own?    To be fair, I think a lot of these people have the mental illness of "instant gratification," but be all have that.  You have to decide that you would rather be able to walk than to eat until you feel sick.  Unfortunately, I feel like a lot of these people have grown up with this, and it's hard to break that mindset.  And, when they do, they act like they're betraying them.  For the few that want to escape, it's like trying to escape from a cult. They're indoctrinated.  I worked with a 200lbs 5'3" girl from a fat family.  She said "even when i was young and slim, my parents said I was big....that's just how I was made."   BITCH, YOURE A 5'3" GIRL....if you ate like a small girl, and were as active as small girls, you would look like them. Biology isn't a soft-science anymore.  I feel sorry for her....she's so sweet, but she's been lead to believe that her body is not under her control.  Also, she will not cook food.  I make food for our dogs, so they don't eat some dried bullshit they sell, and she said "You cook more for your dogs than I do myself."   Man...that's fucking sad.  This girl has been brainwashed in to thinking that her body is not under under her control.  She has to be stupid to believe that, but, it's still sad that so many, and sweet people, succumb to such a terrible mindset/propaganda.