Thank you! I don't have an engagement ring because well we were engaged without one, so she seems to think a simple white gold band with diamonds is cheap. No bitch. We could have financed $5000 for a huge rock but instead bought him a new car because his died. Asshole.  And don't worry! When I start showing showing in a few weeks I'm positive she will hate me more. :) and you hit it on the head with her. They have a 5 year old with such bad speech problems he just mumbles gibberish. But instead of sending him to a speech therapist, they hope it'll work out in time. God. My toddler is a bit behind with her speech and I'm sending her to an evaluation to make sure she's 100% because THATS WHAT GOOD PARENTS DO!!