Absolutely. I do not like cake, but I used to show up to the birthday things to be polite. However, cake always makes me feel sick for the rest of the day and it seemed like there was a birthday every week. I had to stop and I had no idea I was an agent of the patriarchy. I just though I didn't want to feel bloated and sluggish all the time. It is amazing that fats can't use the fact that they do not like salad and apply that to some people not liking cake.