What's it with fat people claiming to be raped? I was talking about how will I succeed in America and if all fails, I would look into returning to Vietnam and attempt to work in one of their embassies or consulate general offices overseas though preferably in America mainly due to family ties in America. Then came this fatty talking about how hard her life was and how great America is. So it went along the lines of this: Me: Do you really want to know what I want to do with my life in America? Fatty and Sympathizer: Yes. Me: I want to work in a bariatric hospital as an office manager which requires a master's degree in healthcare administration. I want to prove my worth in America and I want that job because I was shocked that in America, there are people who literally eat themselves to death through morbid obesity and sell videos of themselves doing that on adult websites. These "people" are otherwise known as gainers. Fatty: So? That's their choice and it doesn't affect others. Me: Then why does it take five nurses to care for one bariatric patient? Fatty: People die all the time and that's their choice. Me: You two watch My 600 Pound Life? You know how painful that is? Sympathizer: I do but look, that's their life and choice. Fatty: I don't because it triggers me. Me: It may be theirs but it affects others too; their families, the medical personnel who deal with them, and their friends. Every time a bariatric patient dies because they refuse to follow doctor's orders, their doctors have to sign their death certificates and have to think about what they could have done to save their lives. This is the guilt they have to live with forever because they have gone beyond their means to care for them only for them to give up on them. Fatty: Again, that's their life. Me: Still affects others with lasting results. Fatty: Look, in America, if you live here and have citizenship here, you are American no matter what. America is the world's greatest country because our Founding Fathers promoted free will. Everybody has the right to live what they want without criticism from others. We fought for this freedom. You don't know my pain. I was raped and I overate to compensate myself- Me: sighs There are other people who were raped but in the end have done what it takes to care for themselves. Fatty: No listen. Different people deal with different things differently. Me: Some more self-destructive than others and this is why doctors and counselors exist to prevent this. Sympathizer: You can't force people to do what is right for themselves that is their choice and their own lives. If they say no, you have to respect them. If you plan on working in a hospital, you must have patience. Me: You know, Dr. Now can only have so much patience. There's been cases when bariatric patients have been kicked out of hospitals on discharge orders by their doctors for refusal to stick with their treatment plans. Sympathizer: They did everything they can but in the end, its up to them. Me: Then they must listen to the painful consequences their doctors will say to them and that by accepting them, they have agreed to die a slow and painful death. Doctors live to save others lives and don't want them to go in such painful ways. Fatty: Again, their choice. Not yours or others. You need to have patience since people are different. Me: Then they have to do their part to follow their doctors' orders. If I do become an office manager in a bariatric hospital, I want my patients to leave with improving results. I will not let them leave sick and dying painfully. The doctors and nurses will be the ones dealing with them the most and I'd be in the back checking progress reports. I want to do this job to remind myself that its important to take one's self with care as much as possible so they can live as much as possible to indulge in anything they want. Its a lot better than overindulging and living a short, painful, and unhappy life. TL;DR: I want to do healthcare administration in a bariatric hospital if I get accepted into graduate school to remind gainers that overindulgence is painful and not worth their personal financial investments which applies to fats in the HAES movement. If I fail, I will return to Vietnam and work for their government because I believe my loyalty to that country will get me the jobs I want from their Ministry of Foreign Affairs than just my knowledge alone. Fatty brags about how America is truly free and that fat people in America deserves to be respected like individual humans simply because America is all about freedom despite the flaws I see in America. Fatty then claims to be raped to try to get pity out of me and I could care less since there are other people who were raped and didn't let themselves go and did something about it for their own health.