Seriously.  I just went in there and posted that as a woman I don't take too kindly to fat men harassing me or trying to guilt me into dates -- when I was single that shit happened every fucking time I went to lunch/a bar/club alone or with girl friends, sometimes even when with a date already, when my date would use the restroom or get our drinks.  So why in the ever-loving fuck should fat women expect men, especially fit men, to date them?