True true true. I got SO much shit from ham feminist coworkers and family for mentioning that my husband is the head of the house, and that I love doing domestic stuff like cooking and sewing. They cannot fucking STAND happy hetero relationships. Especially between two fit people who get along well. They get upset when they hear about one of my husband's frequent romantic surprises. They don't understand why he opens my doors for me and doesn't let me carry in the groceries. He's a man, and he loves me because I let him be the man. They want what we have, but they don't want to change.  Deep down, these wimmin want a man like mine, but they don't want to compromise. They don't want to drop the bitch attitude. They don't want to admit that women and men are built to be different. They argue that women are just as 'good' as men, but it's like comparing apples to fucking tractor tires. We're different, full stop.  They've been hearing feminist bullshit their whole lives, and have let it bleed into their psyche, and they've gone from just expecting equal legal rights to full-on misandry. They don't understand how a masculine man doesnt equal oppressive dickwad. One former friend asked me how I got a man like mine with my 'indepedent attitude' and I explained that you can't be a 'boss bitch' and have the kind of relationship I do. You gotta defer. She didn't like that answer.  I still have plenty of hobbies, friends, and interests outside of my marriage. I'm not oppressed in the slightest. I just respect my husband and his judgment, and I put his thinking ahead of my own when it comes to matters that affect our family and future. I'm absolutely cherished and spoiled. IF THIS IS THE PATRIARCHY, I LOVE IT. MY HUSBAND MAKES MY LIFE SO EASY