Ive been told that im quite intimidating, probably more so now that im more muscular (that was when I was about 160lbs at 6ft). The more confident people I met (i.e. slim people) were generally fine with me. It tended to be the shy women at uni who were more into me, which was fine there because there werent many fatties at all.  Outside uni its a different story though. Fatties dont seem to be able to comprehend that intimidation can be done with good or bad intentions. The difference can be explained as imagine someone holding a gun to your head compared to meeting your favourite celebrity.  Its just fatties are desperate to conceive both as the same. Never been asked out by a fatty though, thankfully.