Exhibit A: all the slovenly, obese and old gay men on Grindr who have never counted a calorie in their lives.   To the point that they're the majority of what you'll see.  Users like dranedry even said it made them want to question their sexual orientation because everyone in the potential dating pool is unfuckable.  And that's just the male side of the dating pool. It's a cruel fucking irony that the one time dating sites exist, gay marriage is allowed (instead of gays being a target for the police, government, etc. as recently as the 1980s, when the Navy thought a woman named "Dorothy" was the ringleader of a secret gay conspiracy), swinging is allowed, BDSM is allowed, birth control is widely available--the people in question are unfuckable. If America had been such that bears in 2018 looked like bears when /u/RawScent frequented bear bars, we'd have an exponentially happier future.