I missed this but wanted to say that dating apps are shallow as it is. I think the reason why girls like taller guys is different than guys liking fit girls. A lot of guys are insecure dating girls taller than them so it's where that stigma comes from. I've dated one tall girl in particular who said she never slept with a guy as short as me (I'm 5'10 btw) but it's because I don't care about height at all and even make jokes about her view from outer space.