Eating in front of hams What is your experience eating whatever you please in front of hams? It seems to be cognitive dissonance. I explained to my gluten hating no-neck "mother"(who came back negative for celiac) that i finally came to terms with my food fears(that she forced onto me) and that i can eat every single day, any kind of food in moderation i desire, and dont gain any weight. She ignored me and told me that i dont eat carbs every day, despite seeing what i eat. She also thinks she doesnt eat enough to be so fat she has no neck but ive seen what she eats and she eats too much. She pretends im resilient and strong willed in order to do the minimum requirement of managing my weight as another way to excuse herself from taking accountability for her own actions. When she sees me doing well and eating normal carb/gluten food, she tells me that calorie counting doesnt work, ans that im just SOOO STRONG WILLED AND AMAZING. Shes also worried about me becoming anorexic