Thank you for understanding. My aunt thinks that he should lose weight too but but won’t put in any effort. And her youngest has tooth decay from too much god damn sugar. Hoping that by me taking over the cooking, I’ll model better habits. Don’t need any more diabetic, deathfat kids. At least then I can say they got a fighting chance.  I’d like to think “depriving” them of sugar and junk food isn’t abuse lol. Like for ffs, my cousin was about to pick out Coca Cola and marshmallows as a “snack”. Managed to nip that in the bud.