First time experiencing a Fatfisher while online dating On mobile so sorry for formatting. I was fatfished for the first time last month when I decided meet a date from OkCupid for coffee. In hindsight he had only one profile photo so that should've been a giant red flag. Lesson learnt. Guy clearly has eaten a few extra cheeseburgers since his photo was last taken. Overweight and a hint of a double chin, while his OkC photo was of a slim Asian guy. Should've listened to my instincts telling me to sneak away before he could see me, but I don't have the heart to stand people up. Well I tried to end the date as quickly as possible and bail. Next day he texts to suggest another date. I call him out on his weight gain, his response is: "lol I just love food too much!". No shit. I block his number. Today he sends me a message from him on OkC asking for feedback on where he went wrong and what he needs to improve. Okay then. I reply honestly to say he should be more honest with his photos and upfront given the weight gain and should take more recent photos. And that I was more put off by the dishonesty above anything else. His response? "I didn't know you cared so much about appearances. I didn't take the photo, someone else took it for me. I suggest you look at your own photos before judging others." Why do fatasses who lie about their  appearance to attract a date always play the "wow ur so shallow, you're ugly anyway" angle when called out about it? TLDR; fat fuck from online dating site lies about being a fat fuck, asks for my honest feedback then calls me shallow and ugly when I provide my honest opinion.