Yes, I am just pointing out another way that hams are terrible with infants.  If they d  616  on't smother them in the womb, they have a much greater chance of doing it once they are born. I have two little ones and it's incredibly frustrating to not know where the risks of SIDS actually come from because we're too concerned with coddling fee fees.  So they just tell everyone that if you put a baby in bed with you, you will definitely roll on it and kill it.