So, I found this on FatLife... "I am fat (I weigh a lot more than people would guess based on how i look) and I promise you that fat shaming does not motivate weight loss. I have had enough shame over the years to know that. For me obesity wasn't a choice (I was born "off the charts"). I simply can't lose the weight that I need to (even on workout and exercise programs). Now, even though I am obese, I am still healthy. I was a swimmer for 7 years and a diver for 5. Am I trying to change my weight? Yeah. But that doesn't mean that anyone else should have any say in it. If you want to have some stupid fat shaming group then fine, that is your choice, but you have no right to harass people. Just remember that those are still people. Also, to say that we cost the healthcare system money is bullshit. I don't cost the healthcare system anything. I am just as healthy as a skinny person. The thing I go to the doctor for is ear infections which has absolutely nothing to do with my weight. And I'm not the only one. Yes, some people who are obese have a lot of health problems, but not all of us. Finally, it is the beauty standard that causes these issues. Currently people think that skinny (to the point of being too skinny) is beautiful. I'm the past fat has been considered beautiful. If someone can be fat and healthy and abe to functiom, there is no reason that anyone should get involved unless they are asked." -- (Straight cut and paste) I am at a loss for words, but here goes as an attempt: 1) Count very calorie you heffer. 2) No, you don't, not NOW, but you're at higher risk for things later in life. Stop looking now, and start looking 5-10 yrs from now, you fat fuck. 3) You know what? You want to be considered "beautiful", fine, build yourself a time machine and go back in time, OR go to Mauritania. I hear they like planetoids that they can't even get their dick wet because of your fat, over there. -PreCoffee Ranting Derps