Reverse shitlording FPH, I come to you in frustration at my family. A few months ago my wife and I finally got disgusted with ourselves and started dieting - calorie counting, mostly. I've lost over 30lbs, going from 209-175 in three months, and I intend to keep going until about 165lbs (I'm 6'0"). I've started cardio this past week, too. When my family asked if I lost weight, I told them how much and what my goal was and all they said was things like "you'll waste away to nothing," "that's too thin, you're not going to be healthy at that weight," and "eat a cheeseburger." I see myself in the mirror every fucking day, not these people! I know what healthy looks like, and I have a ways to go to get there.   Some of them started "dieting" a few weeks after I did. One set their goal to get from 215 to 195, at 1lb a week. After asking how their diet is going after 2 months, they said they're at 210 because they "keep going over their calorie count." Yeah, 3 beers after work and ice cream for dessert will do that!   I've become a shitlord, starting with myself.