Somehow I managed to get married when I was ~210lbs obese to a 123lb woman. I keep hounding her to this day on why she never said anything to me earlier, but I had that same mindset of "Well, I'm married now, I don't have to look good for anyone else." You guys were a good kick in the teeth and getting verified back on the other FPH was one of my proudest moments. Having been there, I have even less sympathy for this kind of attitude then I ever would have thought a few years ago.