This is a similar situation to complaining about the quality of food at an Asian restaurant to a group of Asians, then explaining when they ask that it is an Asian buffet in the Deep South of the USA.  Yes, the food (porn) is terrible, but the thing to blame here is you and where you went.  Hopefully that helps clarify things. Yes, the fat-girl invasion of fetishes is a problem, just as it is in every other situation they are invading, but fattit and porn are things you should be staying away from or at least exhibiting shame in going there. Fattit because it's a pile of trash, and porn because, dude, it's porn. We all do it, but there's no need to be an autistic sperg and actually talk about it.