Socal shitlords unite!  Shows and fests used to be my haven from the fats as I spend my time dancing in front of the stage. Sadly they are even invading that formally safe space... i was at the UZ show a few weeks back and a borderline death-fat "female" used its ham mitts to forcefully push its way to the front (instead of doing how the people do; dancing/moving with the crowd and sliding up in the openings) of course it was hot in the club so of course it was nasty and sweaty. I was sweaty, as were the people around me, but we were sweaty from an activity we were enjoying together. Ham was sweating from, well, being a ham. Ot srood there like an unmovable rock, every guy that started to get pulled into its orbit it tried this psuedo seductive dance act, of course it quickly had a foot of space around it as we all scooted away. The scowls and grimaces from all us humans also at the front so stuck in its vicinity did warm my Shitlord heart.