I LOVE the "selfish" part. Why does society automatically presume that being selfish is a bad thing? Probably because being selfish usually means you are taking something from someone else and keeping it for yourself. So by not having kids, who exactly are you taking something away from?? Oh right, not a goddamn soul. Doing something to better yourself without harming anyone else can hardly be considered selfish, it's just a flawed thing they like to say to make themselves feel better, because they aren't being "selfish." So ha, their life might suck, but at least they don't fall under the false definition of selfish that they invented....? lol