He Gimme, someone tagged me and mentioned the fuckeatingdisorders sub, you're welcome to join us. As a veteran, I would definitely recommend hitting up an Army doc and asking for a referral in town so you could get help from non-military docs. While you're a dependent and not a service member, eating disorders have a higher prevalence in military personnel than in the civilian population, so getting help through the military might help the doc you see recognize eating disorders in military personnel.  I'm sorry you're going through this. If you want to talk, you can talk on that subverse or you can message me directly. You can also contact me on Twitter (lemonlifts) or on Skype (gourd.dammit@gmail.com).