Real body positivity and analyzing behavior instead of words I noticed something on social media. Many people I know have young kids now. I noticed that after having kids, the moms don't really post pictures of themselves (even with their kids) anymore. Incidentally, most of these moms have also gained weight or have yet to lose their pregnancy weight. Do you see where I'm going with this? Body positivity - Women, if you've gained a bit of weight or have just gotten older and are not as young and fit as you used to be, don't feel bad. Keep posting pics because we know you like doing that. Except you don't. And you DO feel bad. Even after I just told you to be positive about your body.  Fat logic - So many of these heavier moms are still steeped in fat logic, being totally overly politically correct, saying the BMI scale is wrong, it's normal to be fat, feeding their kids tons of sugar every day etc. The crushing blow - Ok, so if there's nothing "bad" about being fat, then why don't you post pictures of yourself anymore? You yourself feel or look fat and it makes you feel horrible, so horrible that you don't want to be seen by your friends and family on social media anymore. Yet you still support all that plus size, I love my curves bullshit? Judging by your actions, you are being hypocritical.   Game, set, match.