[Anecdote] One time my ex gained weight.... and I flipped the fuck out. I hadn't seen him in a couple of weeks (long distance) and he had mentioned that he gained a few pounds. "Oh? Let me see!" Thought it would be cute and that he was just over-exaggerating. Dude had a double chin and a slight gut.  I freaked out. "No, no. You need to lose weight immediately. What the fuck. You will not gain the freshman 15." I mean, this guy was a video gamer. He had a lovely natural build too. 6'1, a nice chest and a nice back. His legs were extremely muscular from lugging New Rock boots around all day.  However his diet was shit. He drank soda three times a day. When we were in high school, that wasn't a problem because he hardly ate anything at all except for dinner and his mom homemade everything.  But once he graduated and started going to community college, he slipped and started doing the COD doritos and Mountain Dew challenge. Which became his daily diet.  Was I being too harsh?