That soubds about right. Anyone who would tolerate a partner that demanded physical perfection, whilst refusing to come anywhere even close themselves is likely to be delusional and abusive. One guy i knew in a similar situation was regularly told by his SO that she was the only person who would ever love him,  and that he was such a low quality catch that he should be gratefull that she was willing to be in a relationahip with him. Needlesa to say, he was and still is incredobly fit, washboard abs..... And about two thirds her weight...... And taller