If you're in socal and looking for people to tabletop with my friends and I get together about once a month and do a night of board games ranging from coup to eldritch horror. We rotate who's  7324   house hosts and everyone brings their favorite snack or beer and we make a night of it, no fupas, no weird smells, just normal humans playing board games. One of them is a smallfat but I've never had a bad smell come from him, he still has mobility and presence of mind enough to wipe his ass and shower regularly. Also, he has more games than all of us put together. Most of us are in long-term relationships, too, so there's an even mix of guy/girl nerds and you won't be accosted by horny, mouth-breathing dudes. The reason I offer is because I avoided doing something I really enjoy for a long time because I couldn't stand to frequent the comic and game shops due to the sheer number of fats and the smells in those places. It got to the point where I would feel nasty just being in the store, sitting in the chairs I knew a fat ass had been in before. I wasn't until about 3 years ago I found these people and it really made me realize what I was missing out on because one of my favorite nerdy hobbies is dominated by obeasts. So, I understand your frustration and would like to help if I can. PM if you want details, otherwise, good luck and I hope you can once again game in comfort!