Ran into an ex, holy cow! Had a nasty breakup years ago mostly due to her weight gains. She was a psycho stalker after that, ripped on everyone I was seeing, said how she was so much hotter. Ripped my current GF for being tiny:/. One of the last things I told her was I just want a girl that looks great in a bikini and that shut her up like a gut punch. We haven't seen each other for years. So I'm in a new office and I see this fat chick walking by smiling flirtaiously. Realized it was my ex about the same time she realized it was me and I'm thinking holy shit, she got even bigger! She covers her face with some documents, says "oh god" and rushes by.  Afterwards, I hear a group in the cubicles next over refering to me as captain america, asking who I am and someone says my ex knows me. So then the conversation moves over to her and she answers really briefly that she knew me and says she's really busy. Then she sends me a message about how she was so terrified to see me and said some funny, nice things. I responded I was just there to work. She then sent more stuff and said she gained weight because of an injury which is bullshit. I broke my leg and was in a cast for months and lost a lot of weight as a result. I just ignored her after that. The times I saw her after that were really awkward, she was obviously really ashamed and I had a hard time hiding my repulsion. I just don't know how anyone gets to that point. How do they even look in the mirror to brush their teeth?