"Confident" = "you can't make fun of me, but I can say stuff to tear you down because it makes me look better." Kind of like how "body positive" = "fat positive only; call normal weight, skinny, and fit people names and insinuate that they are bad people, not real people, and/or mentally ill; make sure to point out these people's flaws and call them ugly and unloveable; remind people how fat folks flaws make them beautiful." Or "everyone is beautiful" = "every fat woman is beautiful, skinny bitches are gross, anorexic little boys and fit women look like men."