When he married her she was 1/2 the size she is now. It seems like a bait and switch on her part. And he does have a bit of a hero complex. Nice enough guy and I'm sure he would be happier with a more active wife but he doesn't strive me as the type to give up more put up. Not my cup of tea but I'm sure she will feel even worse with a hot husband and she's getting fatter.