Right?  Fats are always about instant gratification. Everyone knows that to be successful you need to make choices that will effect you better in the long term.  Why doesn't Tess just give all her money away then if that's the philosophy she goes by is like?  And by the way, I bet the older kid can't wait to get rid of her. She never posts about him anymore (I mean, I don't really follow her, but I haven't seen nearly as many pics of him as the girl/boy young one. Obviously the older one knows he's not part of the family. That bowie kid is the golden child. That really fucks a kid up.