Lol no, he's actually the opposite, more of your typical manly/strongly opinionated and not afraid to say it dude. And I don't know what happened, just that he has apparently been extremely pressured in the past to stay with women he wasn't attracted to. He's been pretty fucked up by stuff because it's been a journey trying to get him to say even a little bit about himself/his past experiences. They must've gotten pretty fat, cause I've gained weight with him at times (still healthy of course) and he didn't care. He also told me he was hangry at the time I messaged him that