^ I know a lady whose dead husband was a Navy Seal, and she said the exact same thing when I hinted at it.  "I completely understand why these guys wouldn't want American women." It seems like spec-ops-related people tend to be really shitlordy in that they think about the exact same things--fat people, IQ differences, etc.--that I do, without me priming them or introducing them to it.  One guy I know who went into the Air Force to be an EOD tech said "being fat should be treated the same as smoking," completely off the top of his head.    Fat people would complain that it's "not fair" that he drank a jug of Tampico Punch every three days, but he did workouts before coming into work and spending an 8-hour shift sweating in a warehouse.  Those calories were budgeted.  That's what fat people don't understand.