I personally feel like there's a huge difference between "I don't feel attracted to black women" and "black women are ugly" that can be attributed to racism. That being said, I wouldn't want any black woman to date you, I think every fit black woman should look for someone who enjoys them for what they are, not for the ally points they bring along. Pity dating someone is the worst kind of social justice.   Now can someone explain to me why people here like to call reddit "fattit" and meanwhile buzzfeed doesn't have any...insulting nicknames?  Call it BuzzFat, it's a common occurrence around here.