Even the softball commenters like michaelblue, for example:  Everyone reading this needs to understand that the man who wrote this is just being honest about how fat he is. The people here coddling him and telling him that he's not fat are not doing him any favors. Now let's be honest. If you want any attention in the gay community, you need to look attractive. If you want to get laid, you are either hot or you pay for it. Wishful thinking and "My feelings are hurt" BS doesn't cut the cake. Go look in the mirror and ask yourself when the last time another man looked your way. It's been a LONG time because chances are if you are reading this, you are like the millions of other Americans that are FAAAAAAAAT.