When a guy has to go to another continent to get sex you know there is a problem. Feminism has been a equalizer, meaning that there are no more women who have to marry for money/financial security. Back in the day, a poor woman with no education or future literally had to marry some loser in hope that she could some day advance in life. Now a days feminism and modern welfare laws has afforded such women with a sort of safety net and a promise that things can get better (ie initiatives to go to school or get training). No longer is the loser low life needed. But there's a problem-losers still need to get laid.  I feel bad for couples who are from two different countries who have to deal with stereotypes. Like say if you met your husband or wife on a business trip to Thailand or some other typical sexpat destination.