I literally just got home from a house party that was specifically for members of my gym. No hams and everybody ate reasonably. Someone brought a polaroid camera and took pictures of us.  Everyone had something interesting to talk about and a lot of people we're genuinely interested in the things I was saying too. It was an amazing social experience. What's crazy is that even though my gym is a black iron gym there are more women than men, so there were a ton of ladies at it pic related: https://i.sli.mg/Tand4K.jpg My gym is literally the embodiment of anti-ham. Swole bros and sisses that all have each other's backs.