How best to shatter hams on online dating? Just wondering. Lately, I've been crushing them by asking the fathletes/ones who think they're people, to physically demanding dates and just ditching them by leaving them in the dust. Often, they don't have it in them to show up at all, and by not taking my phone with me past the start, I avoid all trouble. Either way, I don't let them slow me down. What's yours?