This.  My husband and I would never cheat on each other...we have a pact that if either of us were to consider cheating, we'd come to each other first and try to salvage the relationship.  (He is very anti-cheating, as am I.)  He would never screw a cow, as he is completely unattracted to them.  We've been together 15 years (anniversary in 10 days!), and neither of us have ever wanted to cheat.  THAT is a real relationship, not what this bitch described. As per her thinking she is somehow better, and trying to write this like a victim...yeah, she's not.  She is a piece of ass on the side, that will do anything to please a random man to get "stuff".  She's not a "keeper", and barely is a piece of ass.  She's not a good person, especially if she is not concerned about her own moral repercussions of being involved with a married man. She wrote this trying to convey that she was a victim, and all these vicious married women coming after her to beat her ass.  You bet your butt, I'd show up on her doorstep with a goddamn crowbar ready to rip her a new smile if I found out she was with my man.  She essentially would have had a hand in destroying a 15 yr marriage, and 4 kids' lives.  But, no, we shouldn't blame her...because she's just a hole to fill.  My ass.  She's equally to fucking blame.  It takes two to have sex. Also, my husband thinks the "men told me that I am too smart for them" is code for "men were trying to dump her and saying anything to get the fuck out of it."  Almost like a "no it's me, not you honey" thing.  I have to agree with him.