I struggle with my weight. I am naturally skinny and wimpy. I compensate for this by going to the gym. I literally, physically struggle against iron and steel so that my weight can change. And it works. It's slow going, and it's hard. It's a struggle. But when you struggle, you make progress.  The problem with fat people who claim to "struggle with their weight" is that it's just the opposite - they've never struggled at anything in their lives. I don't consider going on a diet twice a year and quitting as soon as it gets uncomfortable "struggling." Staring at yourself in the mirror and hating your body isn't "struggling." It's acquiescing. Giving up at something because it's hard doesn't count as struggling.  When I hear a fat say that they're "struggling with their weight," I shitlord them now. If I'm feeling kind, I'll say, "struggling how? What's your weight loss routine?" They always hem and haw and never have an answer. If I'm feeling really shitlordy, I'll say, "struggling with your weight, or doing absolutely nothing?"