I kind of understand how you feel. My main focus right now is to have a six pack again, but it's being a pain in the ass. I have an extra kidney from a transplant that sticks out a bit in the lower abdomen (to the left), and scars as well from many surgeries too. I also don't pee and a lot of the excess water that hangs around does it in the abdomen. I'm not giving up though... At least maybe I can get a 5 pack lol.