How I became a Shitlady pt 1 Read part 2 and part 3 here. I went for an eye appointment a year or so ago to get some new frames (note: not at wallyland).  I was by FAR the most skinny and attractive person there, in my jeans and tshirt and lack of makeup (nobody wants to get up-close-and-personal with foundation, so I don't wear it when I go to doctors/dentists etc).  This will be relevant later. Large 20something Obeast and her mother arrived after I'd sent my new frames to the back to get my prescription added.  They too were looking at glasses, and since I wander as I wait rather than sit, I eventually ended up on their side of the room. As I approached them nonchalantly looking at the glasses on the wall, I felt the waves of hate.  Why?  I was just another customer, just like they were? I migrated away, not wanting to tackle the wall of hate. Five minutes later my glasses were ready for my fitting.  Young 20something attractive thin eye doctor and I sat and fitted them.  He took his time, I took mine, we chatted about lunch places in the area.  When I was done, he moved over to fit the obeast.  Hardly touched her, fitted her glasses quickly and with minimal chat (ie:  "comfortable, yes no?"  "Any vision disturbance?"  "Allright, you're good.") I pondered this as I drove home (because if somebody hates me I try to figure out why to remedy the situation) and realized they were probably jealous of the attention he gave me, and didn't give the obeast.  Thus was born my dislike of fatties who hate me pointlessly because I'm attractive. Also, no, Dr and I didn't go eat lunch together, I had to work that evening and didn't have time. :'( Edit:  No flair yet.  I JUST got my flair on Ratty when FPH got booted.  I'm going to get this one legally too, because I work for things I want, I don't expect it to be given to me for free.