maybe it is caused by the nagging blob that he lives with?  Who wants to bet that the other side of this story is him talking about how she's trying to sabotage him at every turn? That happened to me, and luckily we weren't married. Hell, this could have been my ex's post a couple of years back. We had problems that had nothing to do with my losing weight (on both sides, I was no saint), and they were compounded by my losing weight while she remained a planet.  This is exactly the kind of thing that she said to people around her. She blamed everything on my weight loss. Fight? I was cranky because I didn't eat. She went shopping instead of paying bills? I was just cranky because I didn't eat. I no longer found her fat ass attractive? I need a burger.  They start out as shitbags, and turn into nagging shitbags once someone becomes human again.