One of my friends is a gainer... And I hate it! He knows I'm in school to be in the medical administration field and tells me that he's happy the way he is except for the occasional depression that comes with obesity (yeah you can't be fat and happy). When I told him how obesity makes the jobs of paramedics harder, he said screw them and that if he dies on sight, they should just cut his body up into parts and cremate them because once he's dead from obesity, nothing matters anymore because he at least lived a good life gorging like a pig and enjoying his own fat fetish fantasies. What bothers me the most is that like most fats, he said that humanity will end and life has an expiration date so might as well live a short happy life than to live a long miserable life. Fats can't predict the future because humanity has always been advancing to me. Then he says that he at least lived like a man by eating like one and people like me shouldn't obsess on looking like teens or young men all because I've been gearing myself towards J-pop and K-pop fashion lately. I tried to tell him that death from obesity is the most painful experience than cancer alone. But he doesn't care. I hate where the American youth is going and their twisted perception of beauty thinking that obesity is beautiful and should be a social status. And to add more salt to my dislike of the American youth culture, some of my ham coworkers called me nuts for dropping $200 on mall clothing than on food. I'd rather look like a rich suburban teenage boy and be called nuts than to eat three calzones at the cost of my feet and my gainer ex-friend at this time of writing admits to eating three calzones and an entire pizza box in one sitting and called it his meal. At least my future in America will involve looking into health history files of hams and being shocked yet amazed at their list of beetus meds and insulin and being paid good money for this. TL; DR Friend finds out I'm in grad school to be healthcare administrator and tells me he likes being a fatass because it's his fetish and told him to lose weight or die a slow painful death but didn't listen and I left him.