Wow, the mod was really triggered by that one. It's interesting what kind of comments he removed. Like this perfectly inoffensive one:  [–]ElectraUnderTheSea  he would like me to gain some weight to make me get curvy  I was kind of trying to see both sides till I read this bit, he is way out of line by asking you to change your body to just suit his preferences. You just need to tell him you do not believe it is fair for him to ask something like that, and that the request changed the way you see him. As such, it is better if you both part ways and find more suitable partners (if you can find a nice way to tell that guy that, if he is attracted to curvy girls, he should freaking look for one rather than ask women to change their bodies for him, please add that too)  They really can't claim to be a sub about relationships anymore.