Honestly, it was hard the first couple of months because I thought she did sincerely want to change her lifestyle and lose the weight. But as time has passed and I've heard her stories I just really don't even care anymore. She takes care of this old lady and their grocery shopping day MissM always wants to stop at this great burger place that serves unbelievable milkshakes.  The first couple of times hammate told me, well I had to get one bc I don't want to hurt MissMs feelings I was like.... ooookie dokie. Keep telling yourself that.  I just don't care anymore. Now when she says she stopped for a milkshake I say "good for you! You earned it!"  Seriously, not my job to help someone that sabotages every step of the way.