Mixed feelings on a fat who is actually making the effort So what do you guys think about fats who are honestly making an effort to lose weight? My friend is a small fat (160 at 5'4) but she used to be normal sized. She gained weight after she was raped by her then boyfriend and depression ate. She constantly talks about fat being disgusting and is repulsed by herself and others bigger than her. She actually does go to the gym 4x a week and watches what she eats. At her highest weight she was 215 but in a few months dropped to 160 and is still losing. She is actively trying to lose the weight and not just saying she is like most hams do. She asks me how she looks all the time but i don't want to say anything because of what she's been through. What do you guys think?