Need to vent My parents are hams, and they seem to have zero interest in changing. Whatever, it's their life to destroy. I'm over it.  But they are taking their dog with them.  He's always been a fat dog- they over feed him and give him way too many treats. When I moved in with them, not only did I gain weight but so did my dog. (Not blaming them for my weight gain, but they fed so many treats to the dogs when I wasn't home). Now, because of his weight, he has breathing issues. He overheats fast and can't catch his breath. He also has a paralyzed throat flap due to- you guessed it- his weight.  So tonight I take them for a walk (she dog-sat for me last night) before heading home. He didn't do well at all, but that's to be expected when you won't help your dog lose weight. He's not going to get better. She screams at me, telling me how I'm killing her dog and that I must be doing something to hurt him intentionally.  No. That is what YOU are doing.  She won't put him on a diet because she "wants to make him happy in his last years". First off, food isn't making him happy and cutting back isn't going to lessen his happiness. Why is diet such a bad word, and synonymous with sadness? Second... It wouldn't be his last year if you would help him lose weight!  Ugh. I'm the bad guy now. I'm hurting her baby. She just doesn't see how she lashes out because deep down, she knows she is killing him.  I'm done. I just can't logic the fat anymore.