Thank you, that means a lot. She really has turned a corner, at least at the moment. Last time we met she had been discharged only 2 weeks and she looked so much better. Her eyes were brighter, her concentration was back (and her delightfully dark humour, which I sorely missed) and she didn't seem as sensitive to the cold. But it's like an addiction, relapse is possible, it's just ensuring that she's not put in situations that can trigger (the actual correct use of the term!) a relapse.   She's got such a strong mind and personality that I honestly think she's going to viciously fight the temptation to undo all her efforts. And she loves her family so much, so I think even on the days where she'll struggle to love herself and make good choices for herself, she might tap into the love she has for her family, and fight harder. She genuinely is a remarkable woman. I'd love to tell her about this site, but have my concerns obviously.