Exactly like I respect bodybuilders a lot I just dont want to look like that. But I respect the work to get there because ive put a ton of work into getting to wear I am and im not the most fit person I could be. I care a lot less about the specifics of things on women like breast size or on men like penis size if they look like they at least put a bit of effort into their bodies. Thats sexy to me, though a muscular man to me is basically heaven.