Even just one sentence:  When we got together he was a cute fresh-faced young looking 20-year-old. He's now 35 and still looks 20. He's short. He's skinny—and skinnier than when I met him since he runs marathons now. He's almost hairless. He has a small face. He's basically a twink.   That's like saying "boohoo, I'm rich!  I'm so miserable because I don't have the spiritual depth those starving Africans have!"    How many men and women on dating sites would absolutely kill to be with a 35-year-old who looks good?  How many people would kill to have a partner who still looks similar to how they did when they first got together instead of getting dumpy and going off the cliff?  For contrast, this person is 32.