Hammy Hatred I was in the arrangements office helping my boss with some paperwork and out of the corner of my eye I notice this planet, she was not only testing the craftsmanship of the chair she filled, but glaring at me too.  It's not the first time something like this has happened either, I started to notice it more and more as I've gotten into shape.  For years I was fat, about 5' 6" 150-160lbs, and never noticed any looks of disgust.  About a year ago I decided I hated jiggling, changed my life, and got fit.  I'm not, "holy fuck look at him!" athletic or anything, in fact I'm pretty sure I'd collapse half way through a 5k (bad sinuses and 8 years of smoking) but I'm fit.  130 lbs, I run a mile, do sit ups, push ups, my friend lent me a some weights, I have muscle tone, etc. etc.  It's so weird, 20 years ago I would have been congratulated and supported, now I just get nasty looks and so many people want to know if I'm "eating enough" and they make sure I know that I "need to make sure to take vitamins," because eating a balanced diet doesn't give you proper nutrients... apparently.  So much nonsense.