Holding open a door, taking care of someone when they're sick, talking to them about personal shit is just stuff I do for/with all my friends. Doesn't matter if you are female or male. If you are gonna be friends with someone just be their friend. If you throw up in my car however I will make you clean it up the next day. I still stand and watch you clean while calling you a pussy for not being able to hold your liquor. I once had a female friend throw up in my car. Once I made sure she was okay and home safely, I cleaned up the bulk of it. Then I woke her up the next day and sat and watched her as she vacuumed and perfumed my carpets and back seat. I also called over about 6 mutual friends and we drank beer as she cleaned. She kinda expected me to let her off the hook because she is a very pretty girl and she is used to getting her way from men. But as I told her I didn't let any of my male friends off the hook for doing the same thing. I'm am asshole, but I am equal opportunity asshole.