About my cousins health. Help? I'm worried about my cousins health. I don't care if shes ugly as FUCK or smelly but I don't like the idea that she'll die very early in her life. How do i bring up the subject with her without offending? I'm so bad at guessing weight and I'm not sure about age but late 30s? I'd sayyyy mmm maaybbeee 300-350lbs? AS for height i guess shes  is 5'7' or 5'8" as I don't recall her being very much shorter than me I just don't want her to hate me and make a lot of drama in the family, you know? I could message her on Facebook, but I will be seeing her in September for a wedding most likely.