Per Wiki they divorced/in-process-of-divorcing:  Personal life and death[edit] May married comedian Lahna Turner on July 3, 2005. The couple had two children, a daughter and a son.[4] In October 2015, Turner filed for divorce seeking joint custody of their children.[5] May died of cardiac arrest after battling pneumonia for several weeks on October 6, 2017 at the age of 45.[6]  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ralphie_May And yuck: http://www.tmz.com/2017/02/28/ralphie-may-estranged-wife-restraining-order/