And this after she started her article with:  You decided to kick off a new relationship with lies of omission. Going out on dates with someone while secretly harboring bigotry against their body is fucked up.  So if the guy decides not to date the ham because fat sows are fucking ugly, then he is at fault because supposedly attraction can be changed for the convenience of landwhales. And then when it turns out after 1.5 years of trying that this is in fact not possible (duh!) he is at fault again, because he fell for those ham lies and should have known better, and how dare he not tell her in the first place.