I guess that's a result of having to constantly censor myself over the last few years.  It got to the point with my mother's side of the family I'd had enough. I put it out there in no uncertain terms that if I heard another comment about my weight, whether or not I'm eating enough, or how skinny I am, I was going to start commenting on their weight. So far, so good. But I also avoid them as much as possible, so that's helped too.