Also, I feel like the reason why so many of us shitlords do what we do is to get the fatties that aren't too far gone to put down the cupcakes.  Being nice and polite and hoping they change on their own doesn't work, telling the fatty they look good in those jeans when they really don't doesn't work.  But for many former fatties, when you ask them what made them change their lifestyle, they'll tell you they got a rude awakening somehow.  An upfront doctor, a concerned family member, a shitlord coworker... The shaming, bullying, and blatant honesty we deliver actually makes a difference. So hell no, I'm not going to give a lardass cupcakes.  In fact, I might just make cupcakes for all the normal sized people at the office and give the fatties a head of lettuce.  They'll go home and cry, but afterwards they might make a change that could save their life.