I'm so sorry...maybe a bit tmi (girl stuff, shitlords), but with how heavy, irregular, and painful my periods have become, I've begun wondering about my own fertility (I don't think having a period every other week for 6 weeks is exactly a good thing). In the future, I'd absolutely love to carry and raise my own child, but I'm terrified to find out if I'm fertile or not.    To know that you can't carry your own...I can't imagine the feeling. I'm so, so incredibly sorry. I wish there was more I could do or say, but at least the hams will die young and live miserable (whether they admit it or not) lives up until that point. They are the shittiest "people" in general and try to hurt others to drag them down to their level of pain. It's fucked up.    Just know that we here would never view you or anyone else as a bad mother for being thin. That immediately makes you a better one: you'd be able to keep up with your children and raise them with a great example of health.    I don't know what your plans are or what you'd want to do, but if you were to decide to adopt a child, just know that that child would be very lucky to have you as a mother.