why are there so many fat fucks in bdsm??? This is just my little rant about the bullshit that pissed me off today...  So after the great Tumblr purge, a lot of people, myself included, transferred over to bdsmlr. For anyone not into the website, there's a mix of stuff that's 'professional' (e.g. clips from pornos or legit fetish models), and stuff that's 'amateur' (e.g. people taking photos/videos of themselves and/or their partners and uploading it).  Here's my issue with it though. Obviously the shit that's camgirls/camguys and screenshots from pornos are pretty good looking, they're eyebleach in most cases, or at least decent looking. The problem comes in when it's all the amateurs out there.There are some cuties on there posting shots of them in lingerie or whatever, but the fucking fats ruin it.  Example - go under tags for nipple piercing(s)  and start scrolling down. You get a super skinny girl or two with A cups at max, a couple of otherwise skinny girls with huge implants, and then BOOM a fucking whale. No, I don't want to see your fucking udders. NO. Instant mood killer. Or like the shots where girls are playing with sex toys. Obviously you can tell what's what on a slim girl, but the fats... ugh. Half the time, I have no fucking clue what I'm looking at. The other half of the time, I'm instantly fucking repulsed, because aside from them having to LITERALLY LIFT A FUCKING FUPA OUT OF THE WAY TO SHOW THEIR DISGUSTING COOTER, it's ALWAYS without fucking fail, unkept looking?!  Deadass, is it just me, or does it seem like the only ones embracing the big bush from the 70s look are the fupatroopers? Like neatly trimmed pubes are one thing, but when it starts looking long and straggly and like a fucking neckbeard chin, you need to fucking do something about it.  My biggest pet peeve that's made me damn near want to throw my phone across the room though? SHIBARI/rope bondage/harnesses. Shit like that is sexy on a skinny girl, but on a fat it makes me want to fucking vomit. They literally look like a fucking sausage. First off, there's no fucking point in doing all of that fancy shit if your fat is literally going to just envelop the harness/ropes. Secondly, tying your breasts up won't fucking make them perky. They just become floppy sacks being squeezed. Oh, and cute lingerie on a fat is a waste of lace.  The point I'm trying to make here is that I'm tired tired tired of seeing the fats posting so much of their nasty naked selves on the internet. And they seem to be prolific about it? For every one or two shots a skinny girl uploads, a fat fuck will upload at least 5 or more, all with some stupid caption. Ugh. Please don't even get me started on all the whining that they don't have a (sugar) Daddy/Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress/Owner/Whatever. No top/dom in their right fucking mind wants to fuck around with a lump of lard.  The only positive is that their blocking function seems to work pretty well, so the moment I see a fugly fupa, I simply block them :)