I'm not terribly great looking. I have odd body proportions for a dude. I am, however in fairly good shape. I own my own business. I've never had a problem being hired because of my looks. I'm also in a field that doesn't necessarily care who the hell you are as long as you can get the job done. Skills > feels. Since I slimmed down, even though I'm not in the top 10% of good looking guys, I've actually been approached by women. Not every day, not every week, but it happens. I didn't know that shit happened after you were out of your early 20s (note: after my early 20s I packed on a bunch of weight). Apparently it happens when you're in reasonable shape. Since I've decided to date again (no more waffling!), I've been out a couple of times for coffee with a couple of ladies who are in shape in a matter of days. How did I accomplish this? By not being a fat ass.  EDIT: There's a distinct possibility that a normal sized penis is hiding under that fupa. Mine looks positively magnificent compared to what it did when I was a planet. There's no fat around it, and it can get proper blood flow.