It's really insane. Gotta stress that I'm in no way excusing her weight. But obese men in these kinds of things always bother me more because you can pretty much predict the timeline. He's not just making her a wife, but a widow as well. A testosterone and fat combo just isn't good on the human heart.  He will have a heart attack because of it. And it's pretty probable that by the time it's gotten bad enough to kill him that it'll have gotten bad enough to take some serious hits on her health. Not to the point of killing her yet. But to the point where she'll be nearly crippled and probably struggling to take care of any kids. Assuming they're even able to conceive through the fat. And that's not being mean or cynical, it's just going by simple stats. It's not sweet, it's depressing.