100% agree! The woman I married is not the best-looking gal I ever dated (she IS pretty cute, though).  But she takes care of herself.  She eats salads twice a day, yet can enjoy meat and snacks because she EXERCISES, too.  It was her personality, her slim and healthy body, and her looks, all combined, I fell in love with. Had she a great personality, was pretty in the face, yet a fattie, I would not have dated her a second time (we met online).  I tell her how much I enjoy her taking good care of herself, and that I'm still very attracted to her physically after 10 years.  I know she likes that positive attention, enjoys us eating healthy together, and evening walks or bike rides.  I'm very happy and a lucky man.