I feel like no one knows what healthy looks like! I had a baby 2 months ago and my BMI is fine but I'm definitely still squidgy in the middle. Everyone is already like "you lost your baby weight so fast!" and "you look so good, don't lose any more!" and "don't you think you look better now, before you were so skinny."    And they legit believe it. It's not crabs in a bucket, they aren't fat. It's just that no one knows what a body should look like anymore!!