"I want them to apologize to any women they might have hurt because of this attitude."  How about women apologize to shorter men  for all the "must be 5-10" dating standards. It is not like anyone can control their height, unlike weight.  Disclaimer: Before anyone goes there, I am 6-1, so this did not effect me personally, but you see it in dating profiles all the time. Edit to add: I don't think anyone actually owes an apology for their preference. Just saying that if we are going down that road, then people who cannot actually help the reason for their pre-rejection would be first in line.