Seeing an ex get fat is the fastest way to get over the failed relationship. Broke up with my long time gf on bad terms a while back and I decided to just let karma take its course. I'm dating again (a nice, fit woman) and ran into my ex at an Old Navy the other day. She ballooned like hell - I'd say she's now easily 170+ lbs at 5'4. Now she's dating a guy whose virginity she took and she bosses him around and he's okay with it because she's the only pussy he's had. I don't know if it's because of the weight gain, but she's also taken the feminism up a few notches and now she's making a career out of "social justice and activism". Yeah, great subject to put yourself thousands of dollars into debt for. I'm not even mad anymore because now I see her and sigh in relief that I'm no longer with her. For some reason, seeing that she got fat is the best way for me to get over our failed relationship.