When Fats Play Hostest I'm a part of this parents circle and we meet at someone's home, have dinner, visit and the kids play. Well the host house got changed and on the way I looked up the couple who were hosting on Facebook and was disappointed to see they were a good 300lbs and 250lbs. The wife being the bigger of the two. We came in and their house was one of those houses I think we've all been too where the owner just "cleans" the main room the guests will be in and the rest of the place is trashed! The kind of house where it has the illusion of being clean. It doesn't smell, it's not unsanitary but there's just crap everywhere. The kitchen counters are cleaned off but the china hutch and fridge are overflowing with needless crap. Dinning table, covered, desk unrecognizable, book shelves packed and over flowed over to every table near by, random bracelet, quarter, sock on the staircase. Just needless clutter and hoarding everywhere! Couches were beat to death. The super cheap kind you see all over Facebook market place. The carpets are beige and surprisingly unstained but very worn down. Of course the pioneer woman cookbook is out. It's just one of those houses that makes you feel overwhelmed by how messy it is that you feel suffocated! They never provide any drinks other than water which I find odd for their size but also kinda rude as hosts, not even iced tea and we're in the south. The wife dresses nice but the husband is the sandals, the shirt and cargo shorts with neck beard that's never been maintained and looks like an utter slob and yet he works a prestigious job. Tonight was our second visit and they opened up their backyard to the kids to play. Their idea mind you. In a place like this one kid who had to be 5 maybe 4 came after getting hurt and got mud on the carpet. Instead of checking on the girl and her mother the fats fretted over their worn out carpet and the husband scrubbed the floor right beside the girls embarrassed father in the middle of everyone having a deep discussion. Am I the only one who knows that should have waited till after the girl was cared for and better yet after the kids were done outside and everyone gone home? Not in the middle of everything making those patents more embarrassed than they already were I'm sure. Why are fats like this???