Finished with my butterbarge mother Long time lurker, first time poster. <rant> So I'm honestly just shocked. After doing some work with a friend for my mom she pressured me and my friend to go eat out with her. After a while I relented just to avoid an awkward conversation. When the pizza came my mom called me anorexic in front of my brother and my friend, and I didn't say anything because I was dumbfounded. Why would someone be calling me, a 6'3'' guy who weighs 172lbs, anorexic. After eating for a while she called me anorexic again and I was able to tell her she was wrong and that I would have to lose 30lbs (I think thats the right number) to be anorexic and she, a complete hambeast, was really one to talk, and the conversation pretty much died after that.  But the reason why I'm really shocked is because I wanted to believe that my mom was different than the other hams. we have been consistently going to the gym 3x per week, and while she has been giving it the old beetus try (so not too hard), I figured it was better than nothing. I believed that maybe some beetus-barges where aware of their situation, and that eventually I could get my mom to a healthy weight, but no. She insisted that I was anorexic, and that when she was a child she was also anorexic even though we both know she ballooned when she moved to the U.S. as a ten year old. So yeah, your right guys and I hate to say this. Fatty gonna fat, and my mom is just another fatty. </rant>