My 9 year old cousin ripped my pajamas I saw the topic of childhood obesity mentioned in another thread. And it made me think of the time my cousins came over to sleep for the night. My cousins love going to my place and I love seeing them. It’s jusy the one 9 year old girl. From the age of about 4 she’s rapidly been putting on weight. Like probably 15 pounds every year. She had an accident and messed up her pajamas. Ok no problem. She saw an old pair of pajamas that I had, they were galaxy print with stars on them. So it attracted her.  Next thing I find is her crying in my room. The pants wouldn’t go past her thighs, and there was now a small rip. The top looked more like a crop top on her. All I felt was anger for letting my cousin eat herself into obesity so young. The mother is obese and while my uncle is a normal weight for his height, and so is her brother it’s only the mom and girl who are obese. My cousin ended up having to borrow my younger sisters pajamas. And the worst part is, my sister weighs about the same as her, she’s only 10lbs heavier than our cousin and 5’11. Cousin is about 135lbs. Height unknown but already has a FUPA. Meanwhile my mother and sister are somehow confused on why she was fat since she “barely ate when she comes here. “ I tried to explain that just because you see them eat like that here doesn’t mean they eat like that at home?? What is so hard to understand about that.