Strippers usually don't assault their potentials, regardless of comments (they might get weirded out and leave, but they don't strike them).  I would believe the woman was too friendly to an uninterested attractive potential which initiated the whole mess, but her response makes me think she's obviously chubby and very sensitive about it. I'd not strike a guy for calling me fat because I'm not.  I'd shrug and go find somebody else to chat with.