I had a crab in the bucket moment with my mother on valentines this year. (She's like 220 pounds now...) I got up to get some food wearing leggings and a slightly tighter shirt. (My work clothes hide everything and she usually sees me in those.) She remarked I look thinner and I shrugged it off.  Later she was going to the store so I asked for a can of iced tea. She returned with one... along with a 300g bar of chocolate. My Valentine's "present". IT'S MASSIVE.  I couldn't say no but I think I'll give it to a homeless person or something.