Dad bod is the body of guys who were ripped sportsmen 5-15 years ago, the "real curves" woman equaivalent for men is the 20 something neckbeard who has been obese since 12 and hasn't done any form of sport or anything classified as physical activity since the school stopped forcing him to do it at 16. There's just fat all the way down, and if all the fat was removed they'd be a skinnyfat with zero functional strength who could barely bench the bar.