It's funny you use grapes (even though I know it's hyperbole) because grapes were a huge food for me when I was anorexic, however I would eat maybe 5 for the entire day. Eating 5 grapes for an entire day could definitely be considered anorexic. I used to be there. When my boyfriend met me, I would freak out over eating an extra saltine I hadn't accounted for. I would cap my calories daily at 500, period, and then work out excessively on top of that. Maybe once every few weeks I would eat a cheeseburger or something, and immediately go puke it back up because I didn't want to deal with the fallout of the extra calories. During my period I would allow myself extra chocolate, but also added half an hour of extra cardio to those days.  I fainted a lot. Whenever I would faint, I would go down a protein shake and run off the extra calories later. And I still didn't think I was thin enough. I would pinch the nonexistent fat on my thighs and practically cry over it because my thigh gap was 'barely' there, when I can now look back and realize I had a huge mental problem. Fats don't have anorexia. Anorexia becomes everything, every second. 'Ana' was my best friend, my inspiration, my motivator. If I got a hunger pain, 'Ana' would remind me how disgusting fat cottage cheese thighs look. If I wanted french fries, 'Ana' would prompt me to think about the disgusting grease and nutrients I wouldn't be getting making the treat a waste.  If I wanted a fruit juice or something sweet, 'Ana' would remind me that water has no calories. If I was craving something sweet or salty (my vices, esp. on my period), 'Ana' would convince me that nothing tastes as good as skinny feels. I browsed thinspo and anafriendly blogs and had an extensive support group telling me what I was doing was for the greater good and this pain would be so worth the killer body I would have. I got grumpy. I got bitchy. I became obsessive. When I would fall off the bandwagon, I would browse my inspiration blogs and immediately start feeling guilty and go puke. I never considered myself bulimic either, but I definitely had binge/purge tendencies from time to time. Sorry for ranting as a post reply, but this shit pisses me off too. The fact that we aren't fucking eating an extra 20000 calories a meal does not make us anorexic. You skipping a meal does not make you anorexic. You cannot be fucking obese and anorexic at the same time, how the shit do they not understand this?!?!? From people who have experience anorexia, it is maddening. Fuck these stupid cows and their HAES bullshit.