I'm sorry that happened to you. It would destroy me if my husband did that. Thankfully we both hate fat asses. I could tell my husband was nervous about what I would look like after having our son, but I went right back down to pre baby weight in only a few weeks. Now he always tells me how I look too hot to be a mom. I dont understand why women dont want that for themselves. Sounds like you dodged a bullet though. Good thing you didnt get her pregnant before she ballooned.