It's not me, it's you My bud used to be lanky.  Over time he's turned fat, to pregnant looking, to obese and now probably crossing over to morbidly obese.  He made a new friend, a truly morbidly obese.  They normalize being obese for each other and reinforce it.  I drove us one day and his friend called my mid-sized sedan a "clown car."  I didn't comprehend at first so I didn't say anything but in hindsight he was saying my car was ridiculously small.  I wish I would have said, "Maybe it's not the size of my car that's the problem."  They're always too hot and the other day suggested the problem was I had poor circulation, explaining how come we experience temperatures differently.  I'm done being polite and PC when they're being such dicks.  I can't wait for the next wise crack.