Fatty flatmate leaves stains everywhere I am so angry right now. I share a flat with a BMI 42 hambeast. As it often happens with flatmates there are different standards for cleaning and noise and such. I slammed the door once when I was in a hurry while she was having her late morning nap and got shit for days for waking up the beast.  This morning I went to the kitchen and there's a huge stain that looks like shit on the cupboard. We have light furniture so a large brown stain is extremely visible. I inspect and it's barbeque sauce from fatmate's late night cooking. Giving the beast the benefit of doubt I leave it and go to work. When I get back, the stain is still there. I message her asking why there is a huge sauce stain just left out to dry and she pretends it's not hers. She went to the kitchen and completely missed a huge brown stain on the white cabinets.  All of her kitchen appliances are filthy, there are coffee stains everywhere as she never wipes up her spills and there's always sugar on the table as she doesn't seem to notice she is making a mess. There's grease stains everywhere. She used to regularly miss the bin when throwing out her coffee grinds and denied everything when confronted so I started sending her photos of the messes she was making and she was so surprised that she never noticed! How can you be that much of a filth goblin?? We're going our separate ways in two months and getting our own places. I can't imagine what her place will look like once she lives alone and doesn't have someone constantly cleaning up after her (I clean the common areas because I want my boyfriend to come over and not think it's my shit).