Sadly, I can't make comments to her as I do dearly love my brother.  He's been in the process of losing his weight, so he's not blameless at all mind you, but he's always been an insanely smart and caring guy who just ended up with the most worthless women.  He's done good and been steady, so we hope he joins our ranks within the next year! I think on his own he'd stand a better chance of reaching his goals, weight included, but we all know he'd never divorce the mom unless she directly endangered the child. And as much as I'd want her out, I don't want that on my nephew. We all live very close, so we hope we can just take the baby in a lot and give him a better start. Oh and I later learned she had a very early epidural, so that's why she needed rolling? It took 2 doses because they only last 12hrs and I guess she needed one riiiight away.  I had one for the last 4hrs of my labor and wasn't rolled, so no idea why you guys.