It's always funny seeing FAs puzzle over why gay men praise fitness and hate obesity, because they can't fall back on "diet culture is a way to control women!" rhetoric.  They like attributing it to prejudice and CrimeThink, too.  Especially if a dating profile has "no X," as if that's caused by ideology and not what does and doesn't make an individual's penis erect.  Unfortunately, the same can't be said for lesbians and they are considered the fattest demographic, which has shortened their lifespans despite also being the demographic least likely to contract HIV/AIDS.  At this point, the best move is to get your girlfriend from overseas instead of trying to find a non-landwhale in the United States.  Several lesbians on here did exactly that.