My overweight mom skinny shamed me yesterday I tried to sleep on it, and calm down a bit. But I'm still frustrated with my mother, and just need to vent. I saw her yesterday, and she started out very sweet, complimenting me on how I looked lately, and that I looked like I did back in high school when I was still playing soccer year round. I said "thank you, but technically I still have 5 lbs to lose before I'm back at that place. And I've been working very hard to get there recently." And then her claws came out. "Ahh, ok Mcbeast2. So that's the number you're obsessing about. I was wondering when you were going to stop." I just turned to her in shock at that point; I wanted to make it known that no, I am not obsessing over 140. My goal was actually 150, but when I got there, I didn't feel like I was done. But she's my mom, and I knew if I took it further, she would punish not me, but my daughter and father by trying to cut off contact for a bit. But it's very frustrating because I know this is coming from a place of jealousy with her, and it's not my fault she lacks commitment to her health.