As a man, I have a HUGE (heh) fucking problem with this bullshit. No-one of a sane mind, nor those who fucking aren't fat think you look even remotely sexy. As a leg and ass man, who digs it when women wear nice heels (probably because of the way they make your ass and legs look)...WITHOUT FUCKING FAIL, the fats will decide to wear 'sexy' heels with whatever the fuck they think they can show off with, in addition to putting a fucking mainsail's worth of fabric over their ass.    Look, honey.  It's not a good look. The only saving grace is that you're not showing a see through fabric over your ass so we see your crack.  And, like I said I like heels like the next guy.  But when your feet are fat...when your toes are fat...it doesn't matter if you think you have a great pedicure.The problem is, you're not wearing a thin stilleto, you're wearing a thick (heh) heel, or you wear a wedge or whatever the fuck it is.  Whatever you have to--to balance your fat so you don't fall down, go boom. It just ain't working.  You're not hiding your fat, you're not fooling anybody.  Please.  Please.  Stop.