As I usually jump in: make sure to bash the "people", not the disorder. BED is a serious disorder and is often developed as someone is working on recovering from bulimia. Or it's often even close to being non-vomit induced purging bulimia. Most people with BED are not overweight and do seek help when they acknowledge the issue.    Hams use it as an excuse because it sounds plausible in their minds. It's not at all what they have, but it is a real disorder. It's as stupid as a ham claiming anorexia nervosa.