That explains why the same bucket-crabs go great lengths to reeee about how gay men are horrible body-shamers when gays throughout history worked their ass off and went to great lengths to look sexy--from Agathon plucking his facial hair, to Abu Nuwas growing the long, pretty curls he was named after, to the Etruscan twinks Theopompus complains about using pine tar as a form of waxing, to the early-1990s Mexico City jotas Annicka Prieur studied taking estrogen, fastidiously applying makeup, and otherwise being the IRL version of the porn comic Mikey Begins--despite the extreme intolerance of their families and a machismo culture.  It's the modern Grindr crowd being fat and extremely lazy about their appearance that's a historical abberation.    "Oppressive beauty standards" aren't a recent invention of dastardly European colonialists.  Persian ghazal writers--whose ideal boyfriend was a masc 18-year-old light-skinned Turkish male (whereas the dark-skinned Indians were sexually easy, but less desirable than a Turk)--demonstrate tastes very similar to those of the Grindr normies PuffedHo hates.  Likewise with Emperor Hadrian's thickly-muscled, handsome and masculine 18-year-old boyfriend Antinous.  This was thousands of years before the "media" blamed for modern sexual tastes. In conclusion, it's a sick irony that the American population and other populations should become unfuckable at the very moment that gay people become accepted.