Went to America was shocked! Kinda rant. Anyway I live in Spain and although there are some fat people(probably not even considered fat by us standards) and that's pretty depressing its no where near the problem I saw you guys in the US have i feel like nearly every woman i saw was well overweight to me that is very disrespectful to the men. Even Bridal shopping I see only fat women...come on guys how can you marry a woman who cannot care for herself how do you expect her to raise healthy family that way? I have never seen a person whose ass the size of a whole 2+ person bench before or a girl about my age so fat in short shorts on with weeping diabetes sores all over her legs look like she was rotting alive she was actually catching a plane I was you have no idea how happy I was to sit away from her. Fat kids probably weighing twice my weight but half height asking for more food and the food was all comforting bad but served by the bucket It was like some sort of unreal horror show. I found my time in the US so depressing and horrible I also gained 5lb in a month lost now. I worry because soon I have to move to Washington State with my US military husband. Is it bad there? :( really not looking forward to it honestly. I don't know someone tell me I will be OK please! My username is fattietothinnie only because at once I got to 200lbs obese but not above 'average' now I'm 125lb but still working on it.