I hate how I make a post about a dating service giving bad service and some posters immediately assume that it's the only avenue I'm using and that my life revolves around it.    Of course I'm additionally using websites, and of course I'm not a shut-in and go out on weekends with my friends. I guess hate is to be expected with anything posted on the internet, but the above points are all irrelevant.  This is a place where we come together and hate fat "people".  I chose to leave out the irrelevant stuff, and so should you. edit:  If there's a demand that I show pictures of myself to prove that I am indeed slim, I'll happily link my okc profile.  Although, you asking for that is kind of like a cop pulling someone over for no reason at all and saying "if you have nothing to hide, then you won't mind if we search your vehicle".  It's unnecessary and, frankly, rude.