And don't forget the ultimate example, author Terry McMillan. Fortysomething, overweight, single mom, goes on a vacation to Jamaica and is convinced that the young hottie she hooks up with there--who she chased--thinks she's the sexiest woman alive and loves her sooo much. She marries him; does a huge round of publicity; writes a book about how see, fat older women can get young hotties, too! which is a huge bestseller and is made into a movie... And you guessed it, as soon as a few years have gone by he drops her for a dude. Because he's gay. Toni is shocked--shocked!--by this but refuses to accept that she had any responsibility in the situation at all or that she should have had a smidgen more sense. You really have to wonder not just about the level of delusion among these women, but about a society that encourages them to have these delusions. All this "You deserve a hot guy, sister, no matter how fat and unattractive you are!" bullshit is literally putting these morons at risk when they believe it.