I have #1 on the way. This used to really scare me before I understood anything about proper nutrition and exercise... I (foolishly) thought that having a kid was like this horrible trauma that caused you to gain weight and there was nothing you could do to fix it, because all I ever heard was fat women wailing about how skinny they used to be before they had kids. Now that I know better, I have nothing but disgust for women who blame their children for their weight gain.