People on here made a huge deal over the uber thing, and to be honest, that didn't bother me as much. I chose to get a cab, he didn't force me to. And I insisted as to not put him in the awkward position to choose. But I think he just needs new friends. He works a lot and doesn't have time to meet people, so I hope to introduce him to peers and get him away from fats. He used to do competitive body building, so he will probably wake up once he's around normal people.