Does anyone here have friends in your life whom you no longer spend time with because their weight legitimately bothers you? I have a few casual friends who have become acquaintances at best over time because I'm genuinely uncomfortable in their presence. These people have been huge ever since I've known them, and they've had plenty of time to get in shape, or at least lose a shit ton if they simply made an effort. But they don't. More than half of their posts on facebook are FOOD related, such as "oh my god this pie looks amazing". If a fit friend shares something food related, I'm fine with it. But when people who are grossly overweight do the same, I just find it ironic.