I would argue more so. Grandpa molesty did a number on my psyche, but I've never been fat. Meanwhile my sister is getting bigger every single year... One of us is a bitter wreck of a human being obsessed with sjw nonsense, the other is happy and feeling really optimistic about life; talking dance classes with the missus.   One of us has a massive Netflix and Hulu addiction while the other is happily getting out each weekend to explore this great country.    I'll let you guess which sibling is which.