Double Standards Ok so I met a guy he happens to be a few years old than me I'm 33 he's 42 we are both a shitlady/shitlord respectively. I have a ham can't call her a friends cause she is a selfish bitch but i've known her most of my life since Jr.High. She is fat, selfish and lazy the typical ham. So hamzila decides to come down and bring her much younger fiance yes i guess it's ok for her to be a cougar but it's not ok for me to date someone who is older. And she will flat out tell me i am disgusting for dating an older man while her man is skinny but admittedly just "settled" for her fat ass. I am getting tired of her coming over my home just to criticize my relationships. Really her "fiance" is just using her fat ass for a place to stay and cigarettes. And he treats her like shit which she deserves.   Edit: forgot to mention it has the beetus and both live off SSI so if your living in America your tax dollars are going to support her fat ass.