Friend has Fat Regrets Friend of many many years (fit/active) was in a low place after a breakup and rebounded with a fat chick. She was about 100lbs overweight. Fast forward 5 years, he convinces her to get thin. Great. Whatever. She goes along with it because she wants kids and Dr. tells her she’ll have trouble conceiving while fat. He doesn’t really want kids and just sort of puts her off.  Fast forward 2 more years, and he finally crumpled under the pressure (no pun intended) of her demands to have a kid. During the previous year of constant contention over the prospect of having a kid she gains a bunch of weight to spite him. Now he has a kid and a fat girlfriend. Only she gains a TON while pregnant and now is even heavier than when they met.  Now he’s resentful (loves the kid to pieces, just the gf he’s disenchanted with) and making constant fat snipes about her.  He Says she snores so loudly it keeps him up and doesn’t get up to get the kid in the middle of the night because she can’t get out of bed easily. He takes the baby for mile+ walks every day and she won’t even walk the block. He’s pissed off that she won’t do anything, won’t lose weight, doesn’t seem to care about her weight or that now he has to do everything because she’s fat and lazy. She’s complaining he doesn’t want sex - he says he doesn’t want to be crushed.  I told him what in gods name made you think if she was fat before she was going to stay the same/get thinner after? Waiting to see how long before the inevitable crash and burn