While there are indeed legit ones  We don't have to pander to this tumblr bullshit. Look - everyone realizes that your personality is going to sit on a spectrum where you'll have some traditionally feminine traits, and some traditionally masculine traits. Not everyone aspires to be a girly-girl or alpha-bro. We all fucking get that and most of us don't care. But it's not your fucking gender. Stop making up genders, and pretending like normal differences in personalities make you some sort of special snowflake.  And sitting around worrying about how you "identify" isn't helping you get anywhere in life. Go outside and do shit, get good at something. Get over your damn self and worry about solving real problems instead of making shit up.