When they try to relate with you about health problems.... As I've mentioned before, I have had back surgery. I had a number of issues growing up, including orthopedic because of my herniated slipped disk hitting my nerve here and there. I have two. I only got one fixed. Anyway - I have a page of my "recovery journey" because I got bored in my first month of recovering. It is a very slow and frustrating process. I am now at 3 months and stay active as fuck because it hurts to sit for more than 15 mins. Driving is a nightmare for me so I've taken up walking everywhere unless I really have to take the car.  Long story short, in my page some ham decided to comment on my page about her issues, she's apparently having surgery in September but I'm sure she has to more than anything because of her weight. She's 300+, who knows how tall- like all hams there are no body pictures to see. I'm petite, have always stayed between 100 and my biggest- 115lbs growing up. Yeah, this isn't a contest but your weight is not helping your back problems and you should quit eating junk food while youre at it cuz recovery is definitely not going to be the same as mine. Might even be more painful.  I'm actually doing alright. Still have to take pain killers to keep up with the left over leg pain where my disk was hitting the most, but seriously staying active helps A LOT. I gained weight my first month, lost it after being able to walk on my own.