Exactly.  The stuff hams brag about having--"I'm successful in my career," "I have a good personality," "I have cuuurves"--are things that didn't necessarily require hard work.  Whereas there is no way for people who don't have cancer, etc. to be thin besides a calorie deficit, and there are certainly no shortcuts to having large muscles like that guy in Hammy's pic.  The only way to get large muscles is hard work, no one is magically born with them.  Even steroids do nothing if you sit on your ass and don't work out. So Hammy is lazy but feels entitled to a very non-lazy sexual partner.  Naturally she has no interest in males who are even remotely as lazy as she is.