How do you deal with being a shitlord and having fat family members? Hey fellow shitlords and ladies! I hope you all had a good Thanksgiving and survived the madness of Black Friday. And kudos if you did some shitlording at Thanksgiving Dinner. As for my family, I had over my maternal cousin, uncle and grandparents plus uncle's girlfriend who we treat like an aunt. Pretty much all of them are fat. My cousin despite playing basketball has always been chunky, my Uncle has a huge gut, his girlfriend is hella fat along with my grandparents. Like my grandmother is in her 60's but you can tell her weight has aged her ALOT. Like I've seen older people who have aged quite well then I see her if that helps. A large amount of my family on both sides is fat as well. Thanksgiving was relatively uneventful. Except that my folks kinda shitlorded themselves, hypocritically of course. Like when we all sat down to watch that movie ''The Meg'' about the giant shark they the scene where the fat Chinese kid shows up and continues to eat a popsicle even when the titular shark starts eating people. They were also talking about some lady from somewhere who had a horse face(but of course they are fat). Then this morning, when I was in the downstairs bathroom I heard creaking from upstairs, like lots of creaking from MY room. And when I asked about it my my uncle's girlfriend said ''it was probably our fatasses''. And of course Thanksgiving dinner was your typical artery-clogging soul food fare. As for Black Friday, luckily there was no fights despite my local mall being packed but of course tons of fatties everywhere. Anywho, I would like to know from the veteran shitlords, how do you go about it being fit and whatnot but having family members who are fat fucks? This can also extend to being well off yourself while having family that is ghetto, ratchet, redneck or otherwise undesirable. Being a Buddhist, I'm more Zen with my shitlording. That is to say that even though I may not hate fats themselves, I hate their condition, their behavior and think glorifying and celebrating being fat is pathetic bunk showing how far we've fallen as a species. When the time comes for me to find that certain someone, her being fit is a top priority though I wonder how do you guys put up with any remarks made to you or your partner/spouse regarding your physique being too skinny, or ''too muscular'' etc?