Thin privilege is not having to use food as bribery. My niece had a swimming class this afternoon. She is 4 and the nephew is 2. I sat with him while my sister went downstairs to help my niece get ready for swim. There was a deathfat beside us with her spawn. My nephew was enjoying some grapes and deathfat's spawn was eating oreos out of the box. Like a full-sized box. My nephew offered him a grape and deathfat glared at him. She glared, not at me, but at an innocent 2-year-old. Deathfat: My child has severe allergies. Be that as it may, I did not apologize. I simply shrugged and continued talking to my nephew while listening to the deathfat's conversation with the spawn. Deathfat: to spawn If you go to your swim class, I'll get you Mcdonalds.  Okay, because that is teaching your child good health habits. Just because that is how she works out does not mean her spawn has to learn those habits as well.