Yes! I made it really simple for my new GF, ever go above 25 BMI or above 35% BF and we're done, but my work turning her into a shitlady is going fine so far, I tell her an occasional fat people story, give a look of disgust when I see a fattie, and yesterday when we were swimming (was like hamfest, god damn hams everywhere, swimming just attracts them) she pointed out a fat person and said how disgusting he looked, I almost shed a tear of joy Never compromise, set boundaries and your SO must respect them, sure you can love them but getting fat is just disrespecting towards you as they don't want to put effort into looking good for you