Let me just give you another answer from the point of a straight male: I've spent years in a sauna and swimming pool locker room. I can say with conviction that the few humanoid females who date fat fucks have no grasp on reality.  They see fitness as an outlandish, unrealistic thing. They settle because they are either losers or have serious self esteem issues (see fox/grapes).  Sick people like you and them might even be able to enjoy such things in a twisted way like the degenerates you are, but you'll never know pride.