Not to sidetrack but I think the “children should be able to give consent” thing can be done in a non-crazy and non-pedophilic way. Obviously putting a fat kid on a diet is nowhere near the realm of sex or bodily autonomy, but sane consent for kids is not forcing children to hug/kiss/sit on the lap of a relative or family friend if they don’t feel like it, and not picking them up if they don’t want to be picked up (and explaining why if it needs to happen anyway, for example “I know you don’t want to be touched right now but the doctor needs to feel your tummy so he can figure out what’s wrong” or “I know you don’t want to be picked up right now, but we need to get you into your car seat and you can’t get in by yourself.”). While the “ask a baby for consent to change their diaper” thing from a year or two ago was silly, I think it’s realistic and reasonable to say “you have control over whether or not someone is allowed to touch you or pick you up” is very reasonable and sets them up well to understand consent in a sexual context when they’re adults. Reinforcing that you don’t have to cheek kiss an adult or get picked up by an adult if you don’t want to also helps protect kids from pedophiles.