Thirsty male feminists enable those bad choices, look at them. "confidence and attitude" is atmosphere, this guy is nuts if he just hand-waves girls into camgirling without either of them understanding how to control atmosphere and how to manage the crowd.  Those aren't small things and girls are getting terrible advice if they're hearing that shit.  The devil is in the details, the small things that you aren't elaborating on. "I did not notice any un-symmetry with your boobs at all." doesn't notice this (NSFW)?  Tell her it doesn't matter maybe, but try to honesty answer. "There are lots of chubby chasers out there and desperate guys who will tell you how hot and 10/10 you are. In my opinion you are a 4/10."  Honesty gets ignored and not as upvoted, classic circlejerk as she replies to the thirsty enablers making them the main focus and the hard truth of reality gets hung in the town square.