My favorite thread on there was a while back, this dude was dating a ham for like a year. His family didn't like that he was dating a ham, but they shrugged it off. Around the holidays, they surprised his family by stopping over when they thought they wouldn't be able to, and walked in on his family talking shit about the ham and how they were glad she wouldn't be there. Fucking r/relationships told the dude to break up with his family. Not like "well, if your whole family thinks she's terrible and obnoxious, maybe you should consider how she'd fit in if you got married etc etc". No - stop contacting your family. Maybe they just all have really shitty families that turned them into the crazy people that they are, but yeah, they're crazy regardless of circumstances.