Re: your first paragraph. Yes. I hit my goal of 125, now 120, and in 2 lbs I'll be technically underweight but really all I want is to be 110 now (then build up muscle I GUESS). It's actually surprisingly hard not to just keep going when you know how much better you could look at a lower weight (applicable to ladies, I don't feel this way about most men though). And, it is fru  6b42  strating when your partner doesn't want to keep up with you, but that's their prerogative. He should have just been honest from the beginning, instead of being a brat about it.