Nope, and I think it will come to segregation. There are a lot of advantages to being fit and good looking. I'm not trying to blow my own horn and I've never thought I was particularly good looking but apparently other people do and it's opened a lot of doors for me. Why would people who make an effort to look good want to be with people who think putting make up on with s trowel is all that's required to overcome the fact that they eat like gluttons and special things need to be done for them just to participate in things. Maybe I'm an asshole but I don't want to wait while some fatty catches up! I think A LOT of it just comes down to personal tastes and what the fuck do I actually have in common with these people. What would we talk about? I don't buy my clothes in the HUGE section. I can wear a pair of jeans without a whole bunch of "hacks". I don't need to worry about fitting in a chair or whether I'm going to be able to participate or not because of my weight and quite frankly I don't want to be inconvenienced by someone who'd rather live a lazy, irresponsible life.