This is probably gonna sound really tumblr-y, but don't hide who you are.  Whether it's on FPH or in reality.  True, fats have ruined the face of every subculture they become a part of.  But fats ruin everything and everyone knows that.  Don't let them take away something important to you.    And while I don't get on FPH as much as I used to, from what I've seen people here don't care about who you are or what you do or don't do with your private parts.  As long as you're not fat, you be you.  And if anyone says otherwise you'll have plenty of people on here backing you up.