Probably has a former ham friend who is now trying to save them from dying an early death.  The ham also is now suffering from cognitive dissonance;  the former ham has overcome all of the "condishuns", and now the ham is realizing that all of their excuses are meaningless. If someone THEY PERSONALLY KNOW can lose the weight without surgery or magic pills or guhneticks, then... THEN....  SQUEEEEEEEEE SQQQQUEEEEEEEEEEEE  Seriously, drug addicts have more manners than this.