Triggered a SJW, who I thought was a shitlady, on a date. Anyone else lose a potential relationship bc of being an open shitlord/shitlady? So I was on a date with what I thought was a shitlady. Turns out, She was just a SJW, but still wanted to have shitlady tendencies. We were grabbing drinks and the topic of the show catfish came up. I told her that "if I was catfished by someone who was fat, I'd have no qualms telling them to their face that they are fat and disgusting lying assholes." She proceeded to tell me that I was an asshole for not being sympathetic to someone's insecurities, I should take their personality into consideration, and that I should walk in someone else's shoes before judging them. I then proceeded to ask her "and what if you were Catfished by someone who was fat? would you overlook how gross they looked and fall in love with their sparkling personality?"  She proceeded to tell me that "no, I'm not attracted to fat people, But I wouldn't tell them they are fat bc that's rude!" So I guess being honest with what you don't like is wrong, but being passive-aggressive with what you don't like is okay? She told me she didn't want to see me again bc I was a "hateful" person. I guess having standards and not wanting to be deceived= Asshole Anyone else have similar stories/situations?