BDSM and fats As someone who is really into BDSM, mostly the dom/sub subset, I absolutely despise how fats have infiltrated it. If you go to any convention, or even just a home group or party, there are so many fats it's disgusting.  There is nothing nastier than fats trying to act like they're sexy or attractive. Fats in bondage look DISGUSTING, with leather straps the fat spills out and just makes them look like a jabba-gimp hybrid and with traditional shibari ropes, they look like a christmas ham.  Fats ruin everything, especially fetish groups. I've noticed this a lot but it came to a head today when I came across a page on tumblr with a really gross obeast who brands herself as a sub, specifically a little, and is trying to sell snapchat access. It's a gross looking beast and I didn't want to post it here for fear of making you all blind. I can put the link in the comments if you people want it though.  I personally am a submissive, and I think it's completely laughable when fat piggies try to be "subs" or "littles". You're like 3x the weight of your dom, you couldn't be actually dominated or picked up or held down which is most of the fun of being in a d/s encounter anyways....