I can't up voat you enough. I wasn't taught much of anything from my mother, the best of my upbringing was taught by my grandparents and a great many years observing and learning on my own. Until I mention I grew up the way I did or let slip my lack of care for luxury items (it gets questioned, I'm not ashamed to point out excess, and a lot of people are put off by that I guess) people don't know I didn't know to brush my teeth til the dentist came to school or you're not supposed to eat ketchup on bread alone. We live in a country full of fucking infants demanding respect.