Holy shit. First off, how dare you. My method of fitness, my passion for dancing does not in anyway imply anything about my "whoreness." Its a fucking sport. You try doing an iron x handspring, shoulder mount mount, or holding your whole bodyweight up by jut one knee and then tell me that to my face.  And asking for it? How fucking dare you. I wasn't raped by some stranger in an ally after I loudly proclaimed I pole dance. I was raped by my boyfriend two months into dating. I spent months battling a mental breakdown because of all the victim blaming I experienced and the only reason I am still alive is because even on my worst days, I still found energy to pole dance. I had to eat so I could pole. It fucking saved my life. I would have extreme panic attacks when I tried to make it to class, but would calm down after a pole workout. It allows me to not need medication for my mental illness, it connects me with other pole women who are some of the most supportive people ever. It gave me confidence, a body I am in love with, and strength enough to carry my current partner around. Im 115 pounds and can carry a 150 pound man around like its nothing. So shove off with your stupid victim blaming ignorance.