I wouldn't even dignify it with a response. Being human size means you can afford to be picky. Bessie here obviously can't.  Imagine being so desperate for validation that you a) even consider talking to a creep like that, b) MARRY them, and c) announce to the world that you met because he has a fetish for your disfigurement so SOMEONE finds you attractive. I'd say she has no self respect but no fatty truly does.