"You must give fat people a chance in dating!" - my experience So way back when I wasn't even into FPH and hadn't realised how all overweight people share one common characteristic - they're shitty - I actually lived with a fatty for a short while. He wasn't deathfat, but had a gut and sported a B-cup. When we were dating he was like, yeah I like being active, yadda yadda, but when I moved in the reality turned out to be very different. I should've known, but I was young and oblivious... Anyway living with a ham is very lonely and lots of work. He spent all his days and most of his nights in front of the computer and chugging soda. He could never be bothered to cook with me or sit down for a meal, but he sure loved to snack - empty crisps bags everywhere, and oh god the soda cans. He could down 40+ cans of soda a day. Anyway, as he barely moved he wasn't the active guy he claimed at all - he considered 15 minutes of treadmill in front of the telly once a week an indicator of an active lifestyle - he never even walked his two poor dogs, just let them out on the yard. We went to a national park once where I really wanted to hike around a mountain and on top of it, which would've been a gasp staggering 5 miles. "The park is closing in 3 hours, you'll never make it!" We eventually compromised to drive to the trail which led to the top; he struggled for like 8 minutes and then turned back and said he'd wait for me at the car. So much for couples fun... And you know, this is the reality if you date a ham. They're all like this - you don't get fat by leading an active, happy lifestyle, you get fat by being miserable, not moving and eating shit. They'll also try to get you in their crab bucket - he constantly called my dance lessons a waste of time and instead encouraged me to do "something that will change the world" aka argue on Reddit all day all night, like he did. I'm glad I got out of that relationship and his hellhole apartment in just three months. So no, I won't give obeasts a chance in dating, ever. They're awful, slobbish, boring partners who have a terribly low libido and usually erectile issues. Next!