He IS a rapist. All these autogynephile pieces of shit are rapists, in the sense that they get off on playing "lady"--and especially on other people playing along. Which means every time this hulking, balding, smirking behemoth gets someone to call him "Ma'am," or is allowed into that holy of holies, the ladies' room (where he will probably ejaculate on the walls), the person speaking or the people who let him in are playing into/along with his sex fantasy, and the women thus unwillingly forced to allow him to ogle them and listen to them pee are also forced to be part of it. It may not be actual penetrative rape, but forcing unwilling women to participate in your sex fantasy is what rapists do. (Of course, women being called bigots if they don't want to let a grown man leer at them naked is not "rape culture." "Rape culture" is putting scantily clad women who fully consent and are paid to participate in your advertising, or commenting on a woman's figure or clothing. Telling women they're stupid prudes for not wanting to share a steambath with a naked erect man, though, that's just being a good feminist.)