No shit. Look at the comparison between ham and its human twin sister:   ham is poor, works a crappie job and lives in a shitty pig sty. Sister is successful and lives an awesome life of travelling.   ham is stuck in a failed marriage with another ham. Sister is engaged to an Olympic athlete that adores her.   ham is saddled with fucked-up kids. Sister is happily childfree.   ham is disgusting, fat and ugly. Sister (TWIN SISTER, mind you) is beautiful, thin and fit.   How the fuck do you look at all this and don't see it's all your fucking fault? You can't even blame social, genetic, age or any other difference in your situations, since both had the same exact start in life. You baked your cake, piggy, now you get to eat it. The only people blameless in this whole fuck-up are the kids, that are getting hosed and set up for failure in life by being born from and raised by a useless fatty like you. Not that you being fat and lazy had any effect on them, perish the thought, it only affects you of course.