Fatties are trying to shame and cry-bully their way to being socially 'accepted', seeing any criticism of obesity causing poor health as a personal attack.  Let's just forget the billions in healthcare costs alone and also the torrent of actual, scientifically credible information as to why this is, and protect their feelings with 'body positivity' and all this HAES bullshit. If they're even condoning this in your group OP, it is time to bale.