That's a point I missed, is the laziness. If you can't be bothered to play with your kid, don't have one. Kids aren't something you should shut up with food, pay attention to them. Raise them, interact with them. Children are not born craving chocolate, they're born ready to make lasting connections with and learn from their parents. Why ruin something so amazing? I'm glad your dad was able to give you those memories. I see so many kids suffering and am more and more grateful for my mom and dad... Making a kite sounds fun enough that I kind of want to do it for myself haha