I think pillow-feet wants a war. Hi again.  I don't know if anyone remembers my first post: I can't stand pillow-feet Well, we're back in class and it doesn't look like she's going to change anytime soon.  I actually lost my shit before we left on break and told her I was sick of picking up moldy paper cups, that she needs to clean her side of the room and keep the flat clean and she pretty much went ballistic.  Told me that I wasn't her mother and it wasn't that bad and that I was nitpicking and that her schedule was just so busy.  Excuses.  All excuses as to why she can't just throw away her old coffee cups and just clean up after herself.  I mean, come on.  I ended up just whatevering it because I wasn't getting anywhere and it was almost time to go on vacation and I just didn't want to deal with a huge blowup before the holidays.   I requested a flatmate/flat change already and I'm waiting to hear back so that's already been done. In the meantime, it really seems like she's being extra messy.  Ever since we came back there is shit everywhere.  Not on just her side of the room anymore either.  I haven't cleaned ANY of it since we got back (two weeks or so) and it's seriously like she's doing it out of spite now.   So fuck it, I'm not usually like this but she's pissing me off.  She's pissing me off that she's making me into a mean person who talks shit.  She's pissing me off that she won't simply say "oh hey, sorry about that.  I'll try to pick up after myself a little more" like any sane, polite person would expect.  SO!  I'm going to share a bunch of nasty shit I've seen her do because she is really, really gross.  I think there might be something mentally wrong with her because no-one is this gross and also perfectly OK mentally.  And if any of you have any suggestions on how to make her life miserable too, help me out. So far in once semester, I have seen this pig: Pick up dirty laundry off the floor from days and days ago and wear it to class.  I saw her smell the crotch of her dirty jeans once, no lie.  She thought I was asleep.   She wears her socks for days on end. She wears her panties for days on end (ugh!).  I can't even with this.   She has greasy, hair that she wears in that horrible fat person ponytail that looks too small for their fat fucking head.  You know the type?   She licks the gravy containers (ugh!) clean when she goes to KFC and she leaves the wrappers around.  I'm looking at an empty box of  kfc chicken as I type this. She wears these jeans with no button and she has to loop a rubber band around the button hole to keep them up. The back of her feet and ankles are yellow because the skin is so dry and thick. She's got pimples everywhere.  She's got pimples on her ELBOWS. Lately, she's been listening to music without her ear buds when I'm obviously trying to sleep. She's just mean for no good reason.  I don't get it.  If I was being too messy for someone that didn't have a choice but to live with me, I'd at least make an effort.  I just don't understand why.  I wasn't even being mean about it the first couple of times I asked (though I kind of was when we got into the argument before break, but still that was after multiple times asking her) Earlier this morning, she scarfed an entire box of those cherry cordial candies: Queen Anne Cordials  There are ten pieces of candy in those packs and she ate them all in about ten minutes.  New box.  Watched her open it. So, what about it, guys?  Anyone have an ideas about what I can do to make her as miserable as she's making me?  I already won't clean up for her anymore, and I've made it a point to throw all her trash on her side of the room if it makes it onto my stuff but she obviously doesn't care about filth.  And I'm new at this, I don't know how to shitlord that well.  Tips for me or maybe direct me to a few good links that I could read here that's similar to my situation or something? Thanks for letting me vent.