Never mean. I just can't let it out. I'd rather punch him in the face than tell him to die in a fire. I told him many times to leave me alone, that I didn't want to go for coffee, to stay away from me, etc. I thought I was "safe" after 3years of not hearing from him. I guess not! I wish I had the voice to tell him he is a disgusting pedo loser, because that's the truth. I just hope he is not touching teens anymore.