there was a 350lb+ woman at my ED support group today ok yes i recognize that obese people definitely have problems with food. HUGE problems if you will, hahaha. But I can't even believe what happened tonight. I've never seen somebody that big at group before.  So, the facility i'm attending has 3 floors. it's pretty much an old house that's been turned into a wellness/support centre for people with disordered eating. they have a binge eating group, where i'm sure all the fatties usually go. that is their time to shine. the group i was at tonight was for people aged 17-29. i sat on my chair, surrounded by other humans, waiting for group to start. our group is on the second floor, so two flights of stairs. i'm sure you know where i'm going with this. so two minutes into the group, the door creaks open and the first thing we're greeted with is heavy breathing. the hamplanet has arrived at this point. now, there were a LOT of people tonight, so there wasn't a lot of space left on the couches/chairs. if a human had of walked in, we could've fit them on the couch that i was on. but not this beast. i swear to god, guys, she had a fupa that literally just hung to the ground. we were all staring at her like, "where does this bitch think she's gonna rest her big fat ass?" somebody just handed her a pillow. she had to sit on the floor. i don't know if you've ever seen a ham try to get down on the floor, but it's fucking funny as fuck. normal people just bend their knees and sit. clearly this lady didn't have the function of her knees anymore, as she had to grab the coffee table and sort of lean to the side until gravity worked with her. her ass was hanging off the pillow at both sides (this was a LARGE square pillow, probs 20 inches by 20 inches). and of course she sat on the floor right in front of me. one of the facilitators was sitting on the floor too, she was NOT a fatty, but I couldn't even freaking see her over this hill of a person. all around the room eyes were wandering, nobody knew where to look. she was quite literally the elephant in the room. we were all speaking about our ED traumas and whenever she opened her mouth to say something like "n0body takes me seerusly" nobody said a word (the point of the group was to respond to each other). this woman clearly could not relate to us in any way, shape (lol), or form. i don't know why she thought it would be a good idea to attend our group, especially considering the fact that she looked WELL over thirty. obesity sure ages you fast.  i wish i had of gotten a picture but there was no way to do it without getting in trubblz with the staff. even though they were all probably thinking the same shit as my fellow shitladies in the group... hope you guys enjoyed my story. and yes, it was hilarious watching this woman get back up from the floor. it was also hilarious to watch her struggle to keep her back straight, and she couldn't even cross her fucking legs.