What honesty? If it was honest, it wouldn't be over 500 pounds. "One day, you're 150 lbs". Ok, that's honest. "A year later, you're 180 lbs". Again, ok. Honesty, and to be fair, it can happen to anyone, but if you're human, you'll realize you've fucked up big time and reverse course by now. But at some point "it just snuck up" is no longer an honest explanation. For a standard female, 180 is probably a good dividing line. She's already overweight at around 150 and obese at around 180. If crossing into obesity isn't a wakeup call, then nothing is. 200? 250? That's less than half her current weight. There's no possible excuse for that. But this sack of shit kept expanding by over 250 more pounds. And now she's honest? Nope. Her explanation isn't even truthful. She says she'd be more active. The amount of food she's eating, she can't possibly be active enough to return to a normal weight. She's easily eating more than 3x her BMR. The only way she would fix it would be to eat less, and you'll notice she never mentioned that. If she just ate at a normal rate (not a diet, but a normal daily intake) she'd easily lose over 5 pounds a week. No medical services required to do that. No need to "bite the bullet". Just eat like a human. She could eat like that obese 180lb version of her, and lose "just" 5 pounds per week. She could eat like a disgusting 250lb sack of shit and lose at least 2 pounds per week. That's not her being honest, it's her in denial. It's fatlogic.