You're missing the point.  If she did that in privacy and didn't flaunt it for the whole world to see its a private matter.  When it's thrown in our face and I'm forced to accept that moral degeneracy its wrong.  Somethings have no business being publicly flaunted.  You should be ashamed if you're fat,  a drug addict,  an alcoholic,  a slut, an adulterer,  and alcoholic,  because these are not acceptable behaviors and shouldn't be normalized.