A sad fact of life is that even if you're decently attractive, the man/woman of your dreams may still not like you. Attraction and love are much deeper than physical appearance - but in 99% of cases, it's the first thing people notice and it's what draws people to you. In a perfect world where everyone was decently fit and well-groomed, personality would be much more valued initially. But ironically, in this world full of lazy obeasts, physical appearance is of MORE importance. You could be a 10/10 in one person's eyes and the person you love doesn't see a damn thing worth dating. That's the harsh reality of love. But if you take care of your body and try to be a good person, you'll eventually find someone. Fat fucks don't deserve anything but other fat fucks.