shitlording with my grandpa So I told him about HAES and effyourbeautystandards after I saw another poster who told his girlfriend or wife about it and she just started laughing. My grandpa litterally started laughing as well and told me that was so ridiculos and that curvy is not a thing and its just a nicer word for fat. he also said and I quote " I hate how I always have to avoid the word fat now a days, I have to say larger, or curvy when in reality they are just a morbidly obese sack of shit who needs to stop eating so much" I just about lost it at that point. He agreed that there is nothing beautiful about being overweight or obese and then we had a 20 minute disscusion about how we hate fatties so much.