She is tbh. This has sealed my belief in that study about obesity and intelligence. Just not sure if low intelligence is the cause of obesity or the other way around. In any case, fat seems to equal stupid on multiple levels.  At first I felt guilty for these thoughts because she is helping me out. But my presence here is helping her just as much and the dumb is getting to me now. I no longer feel guilty at all. The more excuses I hear and dumb shit that comes out of her mouth the less I care about her feelings. I'm just hitting back with cold, hard, truth at this point.