It's probably because of a lot of the places I've lived. But I find the beer gutted "dadbod" type of fat to be the absolute worst. Even more so than planet sized women. I think most fat women at least know they're fat. But the average not QUITE obese yet fat guy will have this giant sweaty mass of fat hanging off his gut, right there for him and the world to see, and still not get that the giant mass of fat means he's fat!  I mean sure, there's the occasional real women have curves person who seems to actually believe the shit she's selling. But I think they're the minority while beer gut guys who don't get that they're fat are the norm.