I am not "too skinny" or "mannish." Rant Edit: Added photo link in comments. The photo is one i saved after posting it to whisper since i took photo in whisper and it did not automatically save but it is my favorite.  Sorry about the words and format, my phone just isnt being nice and this was the best I could find tonight! Im frustrated and just finished a workout and an acquaintance from facebook just asked me if I was scared of not being able to get a bf becausee I look to much like a dude with my muscles. Please excuse the following rant:  So I just got my stats and if my phone starts cooperating I will post a pic. But I am 110 lbs, 5'0 tall, have a body fat percentage of 19-20 %. I have visible curves but proper ones. D cup breasts, a 24 inch waist and a 35 inch hip. I have visible collarbones and my ribs are visible but not sticking out. And my hip bones are also visible but not jutting out. When flexed my abs are fairly defined and for the rest of my body I look like I work out but definitely need to keep going to get ripped.  So keeping that in mind, I am so tired of obeasts telling me that I need to eat more because I am too skinny or that my muscles make me to mannish and I wont be attractive. First off I am thin but not like skinny skinny. And I have muscle but i'm not ripped by any means. Are they really so disillusioned that they think these things of me??? Im not even happy with my body yet, I want to ripped to not quite bodybuilder level but almost there. I still fit into size 0 or 2 yes but its not like my bones are sticking out? And for the record men have taken no issues with my body. In fact they tell me to keep up whatever the hell i'm doing because its working. And just for the record I pole dance. Im still pretty much beginner/intermediate depending on the studio and specific routine, but i can start to get into a twisted grip deadlift and shoulder mounts.  Im just tired of being surrounded by obese female cows who call me names, but then ask me how I do it and when I tell them, Keto diet and pole dance, they are like ,"and genetics help you a lot to right?"  Um no. I gained 20 pounds in college which on my frame was uncomfortable but I lost it and have kept it off while building muscle.