My sister married a man who's like 6'3" who exercises on a daily basis and loves to watch sports. She was hoping over time that he would become less interested in physical activity and sports... Needless to say they're currently going through a divorce. I saw this coming since the day of their wedding. Also needless to say my sister is obese. She says she wants to spend time with me, but whenever I ask her if she wants to come walk the dog with me she says "No thanks". Her idea of "spending time together" is going out to eat.