Account Deleted By User Sorry for the length of this post... This literally just happened and my head is still spinning.  So I live in a really nice apartment complex. Generally speaking, everyone here is well educated, fit and just decent human beings, with a few notable exceptions. I took my kids to the pool today. Super nice, huge pool with lots of lounge chairs and cabanas and what not. So my kids are playing in the pool and I'm camped out on a lounge chair. I decide to take off my tank top and shorts and get a little sun because it's a little cloudy and I'm very fair completed so it's a good day for me to be uncovered without burning. I had your standard, run of the mill triangle top bikini on. I usually stay in shorts and a tank top if I'm not swimming, but in the evenings it's not unusual for there to be a lot of females in rather small swimsuits there. And our pool has no official dress code.  It's the middle of the day on a week day so it's just me and my kids at the pool. Then these two female planets, a small planet male and a combined total of five equally obese children show up. I'm assuming they are new residents because I have never seen them before. They take up residence a few chairs down from me even though they literally have the whole pool area to pick from. They then proceeded to carry on with all sorts of rudeness, including cannon ball jumps into the pool close enough to splash me. I'm like ok, whatever, because I figured my kids would tire out soon and want to leave. Well I was right, one of my little minions got out and said they were tired and wanted to go home and could we please go to McDonalds. I said absolutely we can go home but no McDonalds today. They just came back from a week with their dad and he lets them eat that nonsense so it's a little adjustment for them to be back home eating whole foods. My kid is generally a decent human, so he just went about his business getting his towel and nonchalantly asked why no mcdonalds. I just said because we had oatmeal for breakfast and they had put brown sugar in it, and they had already had a popsicle this afternoon and that was plenty of treats for the day. He was cool with it, I told him we could go get sushi or I would grill something and he was super happy and picked sushi. We gathered up our things and went home. That was literally the total extent of the conversation the hams overheard between me and my kids and we were there for maybe 15 minutes total after they showed up.  I got a call from the complex office manager a few minutes ago. Apparently someone called and complained to the management that I was dressed in a revealing manner and was being rude and cruel to my children and it was disturbing the other residents who were trying to use the pool. Fortunately I know the office staff pretty well and stammered through an explanation of all that, and the call ended with her basically saying she assumed it was nonsense and just wanted to check in with me about it. She also said that she's aware security is a big thing for me and they got my apartment number off the gate fob which I left on the table beside me and did I want a new fob with no number on it. Totally not relevant but yeah I do.  So this is seriously how my life is going to be now? This has ruined my whole day. I live in an area of the country where being fit is a little bit of a novelty, so I get attention and looks everywhere I go no matter what I wear. I just wanted to work on my tan a little bit because I have been hitting the meal prep and running routine hard lately in preparation for a trip I'm taking and I'd like decent pictures and not looking white as a ghost would help. My whole day has now been ruined and I don't want to go back to the pool, ever. This sucks. Since when do fats get to make the rules about what I wear at the pool? They had the whole pool to choose from too, they didn't have to sit where they could see me.