I agree completely.  In years to come some people -- obese right now -- will look back at this sub and at the now banned reddit sub with the same name and think, "Tess told me things that made me feel good about being fat, but those hardasses made me get myself to a state where I could feel good about my body at all times, without a support group to help me.  Who I thought was my friend was my enemy, and who I thought was my enemy saved me from her . . . and from myself." On the other hand, there will be fats who just stick with Tess until she collapses into an unresponsive pile of flesh from cardiac arrest.  They will do so because that is the easier path without regard to the fact it is the wrong path.  Those dumbasses will always be with us, though I hope they will be fewer in number once the bullshit and unnatural fat acceptance movement literally dies out.