It's things like that more than anything else related to the whole fat thing which really gets to me sometimes. The fat is horrible, but it's a symptom of something in our culture that's far worse. This general idea that people shouldn't hold themselves to objective standards. That there's something wrong with looking at a failed attempt and labeling it as such. Because without it there's no moment afterwards where someone asks why they failed and how to do better next time.  Instead everything's a success. And in everything being labeled like that we're entering into something where there's just no point in trying. It's not that bad yet. And I think that the course of the culture as a whole is just starting to really correct for it. But it's enough to be worrisome.