society has made it too easy to provide acceptance, it's the mentality of there are no losers, only winners.  it's no longer about the journey, the experience, or the basic's of putting forth effort - it's we are winners,4th place to 10th place now get's prizes and trophies, why bother being anything outside of that, hell they gave you a trophy for it so you must be doing it right.  as someone who has seen racism in it's true context, i cant put into words how these obeasts are watering down our basic principles of humanity and decency