This is so well said. We went out to lunch the other day - just a local place, nothing fancy - and there was a 4 or 5 year old climbing around under the booths and screaming while its ham mom tried to coax it out with ice cream. My kid on the other hand sat there quietly in his high chair eating his chicken nuggets and coleslaw. It's amazing what happens when you actually put the fucking phone down and pay attention to your kids.