yeah. but not even focusing on physical  repulsion, obesity is as off-putting as knowing someone you get with other will cheat on you. that mentality to it. isnt there a whole new world of people inbetween the unattainable dream girl & the lowest of the lows. fats dating each other isn't the mystery. im just genuinely confused as to why someone would orbit someone with that mentality (with no silver lining: a pleasant personality etc) seems soul sucking? i guess it is people settling but thats sad because the fat clearly gains joy. theyre dating out of their league & are being humoured