No, even I, who is pretty militant in my "You are a man with fake boobs," statements, make an exception for the small minority of trans people who truly just blend in--the non-autogynephiles, the ones who do not claim that being a woman means being a sex object to be treated like a sissy slave or whatever creepy fetishist bullshit. These people have been calmly using the women's bathrooms for years with no one even noticing; they actually live and present as women, with no grandstanding, no militant showboating, no "women have penises," bullshit--because they are the ones who actually do have their penises removed, who do behave like women. I was discussing this recently with a friend and said that while I do not believe there is such a thing as a "woman's brain," I do think there may be such a thing as a "woman's soul," and I am willing to believe that a tiny percentage of men might have one. These men, without exception, seek men as romantic partners, have maternal instincts and are drawn to what was traditionally called "women's work," (at least in their private lives), do not expect to be treated differently, do not get into "trans activism," and do not claim to be better women than real women. I have no problem with these transwomen--the jury is still out on whether I think surgery benefits them more than therapy would have, but I still have no problem with them and accept them in women's spaces. These people would never tell a woman to "suck [their] dick," and would never threaten physical violence against people who do not accept them. They do not march to support men who have raped and murdered women because those men now claim to be "trans girls," the way the autogynephiles do.  But yes, like you said, the ones the activists push are perverted pieces of shit like this dude, who thinks he has a right to define the word "woman" the way he wants and women must follow suit; it is the ultimate fat loser's way of subjugating women and forcing us to bow down to him. He can't get us to pay attention to him as a man, so he will bully us into paying attention to him as a woman--while openly perving and creeping on us, and forcing us to play along with his sexual fantasies. The whole thing just infuriates me.