Fat Logic that Really Grinds my Gears Was going to comment on another thread but I need to rant Fats and their "REEEEEEEElationship" with food. Hear me out on this one. A quick google search defines relationship as the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. This is what gets me. Food is inanimate. You cannot communicate with food. Food is fuel for the body. Nothing more. Humans eat to sustain their bodies. We eat to provide the necessary nutrition for survival. Hams on the other hand, food is an addiction. It controls their lives much like a narcotic would, and like an addict they cannot control their addiction. I cannot fathom living such a lifestyle. How can one live a life where all they think about is eating their next meal? What's worse is the mentality. As if it's some kind of struggle to find something better to do with their lives than eat. And yes I'm well aware that most of it is laziness, complacency and lack of any sort of willpower, but to call it a relationship? That's false justification for being a fat gluttonous fuck. It's a lie they make up to soften the blow of their problem, much like they prefer "plus sized" or "curvy". And it personalizes it to make them sound like the victim. As if it's food's fault that they eat too much.  Dear fats, here's a reality check. It's nobody's fault but your own. You are the result of your own poor decisions. You do not have a relationship with food. You have serious issues with self awareness, self control, and now with this HAES bullshit, serious narcissism. The bullshit you post online might fool your fellow fats, but those of us who understand what food is really for, we know the real truth. You hate yourself, and you know it's your own fault. You just can't accept what a fuckup you are. Keep pointing fingers fatty.