Fucking thank you. If you're a functioning adult, you shouldn't need people to hold you accountable. It's nice to have encouragement, sure, but that's different from someone standing over your shoulder and telling you something is bad.  Literally I live within walking distance of one of the original cafes in town (great food), my favorite pizza place, a really good cafe, a Greek place, another Greek place, etc. Like all the food is right next to me but I don't usually go get it because I don't need someone to tell me what's good for me or not. That's stupid.