This is exactly the attitude to take. Fuck this pandering to feelings bullshit. If a person's confidence can be shaken to the very foundation by hearing people talk about calories, counting, and burning them...they clearly had no real confidence at all, and the problem is THEM, not the world. That guilt, that shaken feeling, that negativity that wells up from hearing people talk....comes from the inside. From hidden shame, that they all have and try to hide. That said I hope this isn't something places start to jump on doing. Like any restaurant needs another reason to try to hide the calories and true contents of their food.