While that is often the case, there are still plenty of women that go after terrible men. Coal burners for example. Imagine a highschool boy trying to date but every girl is a coal burner, even after paying the toll multiple times. That's going to cause some internal confusion on how women want to be treated. I'll admit my own "nice guy"/hero complex when I was younger. Best men I knew (looks and personality) were often single and the worst men I knew were juggling women. Society wouldn't be filled with 30+ single mothers that have payed tolls and had miles of dick, if women dated good men. There are plenty of examples of women having poor taste is men, men having poor taste in women, and fatties feeling entitled to someone out of their league.  I will add "nice guy" is closer to polite child than good man. But I can recognize both sides of the argument.