Has anyone considered she might be on meds? There are many meds that can make you gain weight and if it is a med she has to take and maybe you can't change the script.  Doesn't matter. Fat is fat.  She also might be having mental issues of postpartum depression which can last quite awhile if not treated properly with the right meds and some of those drugs cause weight gain.  Nobody cares really.  I'm sure she realizes she's gained and calling her nasty names doesn't help. PLUS there are millions of men who love ruebenesque women.  Pig fuckers could go die too.  Just remember, as you get older, you better best believe you might not be skinny forever. Would you say this about your mom or sister?  More fat logic.  Banned.