Agreed. As a lady in a field that pays well enough to be a sugar momma, I try to screen out the boys like the throngs of "entrepeneurs"/"self-employed" who are just low-level weed dealers. As a non-shitty feminist/egalitarian, I don't think it's unreasonable to expect both partners in a childless couple to work actual jobs. And I don't think it's unreasonable for anyone to expect work talk to be a thing you can connect over.