FPH is one of the few places where people actually act and talk like normal humans with a brain should.  When I started talking about depandapotamuses--I'm autistic and thus have neither a filter nor volume control--my dad growled at me about how there were military guys nearby, they would beat me up, and he'd tell the cops "no, sir, I didn't see anything."  Also, that there were immigrants around so how dare I bring up immigration problems.  He didn't realize that I knew an Air Force EOD tech IRL, and that guy was rare-unicorn-tier shitlordy ("I think being fat should be viewed the same as being an alcoholic").  Air Force regular personal work out at least once a day.  For EOD techs and everyone else who trains at a special forces level, it's 3 times a day.  How much sympathy would people who work their asses off have for someone who sits on the couch, gets fat, wastes money and whines about how raising kids is such a hard job?  Army wives don't even have to pass fucking boot camp or do a single pull-up, all you have to do to not be a hamplanet is put the fucking fork down.  Sorry, Dad, Air Force people aren't all socially conservative beta white knights.    Even if someone did get mad at me for talking about his fat wife, I'd stand by everything I say.  As Gavin McInnes said in response to a leftist who wanted to fight him--"the facts don't care if you live or die"--beating me up or getting me to voice agreement out of fear doesn't change the facts, the facts don't go away because we stop believing in them. It's notable that shutting down arguments with threats of violence because you've offended someone--with no attempt to refute the argument--is the same tactic used by SJWs, theists, and everyone else who could get easily trounced in a debate involving logic, facts or even anecdotes.  "You think black people have a higher crime rate?  That makes me want to punch you in the face!"  As if intimidating people means you've persuaded them. ...and that's why I'm so fucking obsessed with American culture having a taboo on--not even calling someone fat or anything confrontational, but mentioning deathfats at all or being honest.  If we were sane about fat and allowed to be honest, we'd have fewer dependas and neckbeards, because it wouldn't be taboo or bigoted to cut them off.