When your relatives have fatlogic. It is a really frustrating experience and even though I live in a diffrent state then my relatives I still can't escape it.  My last conversation has been quite bothersome and irratating.  The discussion began with me speaking to a family member about my new apartment I am renting in order to save money while I go back to school. Soon into the conversation the relative asked how far I was from the supermarket. I contuined to explain how I was in a very good location and approximately a 30 minute walk radius of everything I needed. I'm very proud of that, and excited how close I am to everything by foot. What makes it even better is how walk and bike friendly my new city is. I did have a car before I moved, but I decided to free myself from the extra money it cost per month. It is not something I miss, even when I had a car I barely used it.  Anyway, after I was explaining my excitement my relative gave a odd pause. After an awkward moment of trying to process my words though the fat deposits on their brain they finally spoke up, asking it if would be more easy to just get a bus pass. Really? Walking is not a hard motion to do, it is a basic function of life.  I declared it was not needed but they contuined to pry into this subject that shoi don't even have enough depth for a conversation. The relative theoretically spoke of my groceries bags and how they must not be heavy.  Well, isn't that obvious? Immonnmy buying foo for one person. A few days passed and I recoved a few messages at random in the same subject area.  It's really frustrating that such a normal topic is being elongated for no reason at all. The message that was written to me was from the same relative explaing they can give me $50.00 to buy  groceries for TODAY if I wanted. First of all, I don't need money, second she implied that $50.00 a day for groceries was normal. No wonder they thought my bags would be heavy. I am starting to assume they think I have a eating disorder due to the fact my groceries bags are light enough to carry home because I bought a normal amount of food for one person to consume.  That would explain the random offer of money.  I don't really have time for this bullshit.  PS Sorry if I have typos, I am currently on my phone. I already had to delete it once in order to edit the title. Yuck.