"Fat" is always said to "not be an insult," but... In every post written by/about HAES and fat activists and all that hellish stuff, I always see shit similar to this:  "I'm so tired of being called fat." "People shouldn't comment on weight." etc.  But... why would you not want to be called fat if being fat is so happy and okay and good? Why should people not comment on weight if all weight is beautiful and no shame should be behind it?  Aren't they kind of contradicting themselves?