Couldn't agree more. She talks to the "plus size" "model" like to a delicate child. "Sorry for posting my weight loss, I'll be more mindful!" Now why would a 400lb "body positive" "model" become upset at weight loss progress photos? If the 400lb "model" is so secure about her 400lb body, why should mere images of another person losing weight be upsetting? Obviously the 400lb-er wishes that she was able to do the same. Seeing someone else lose weight reminds her of her own failure to do so. Without prompt, the 400lb-er automatically takes it as a personal affront, as though the poster of the photos was directing it as a personal insult.  That's what cognitive dissonance looks like. When you have to block out reality because it reminds you that the things you pretend to believe are absolutely false. Normal people grow mentally when faced with undeniable information that conflicts with their beliefs. Weak people block out the information in hopes to continue living their delusions.