This is what bothers me. You are just minding your own business, going about your day and all of a sudden somehow you are being accused of having an eating disorder or you aren't attractive because you look sick, etc... haven't been accused of looking like a boy yet but I have wide hips and big boobs (wish they were small because back problems). I'm waiting to hear it though one day when I am in an oversized tee shirt with a compression sports bra on. But yeah apparently I am an anorexic and sick. Sure.