I'm a mother, pregnant with my 3rd. Pregnancy doesn't make/leave you fat. Even those who chubb out in pregnancy can return to a normal size. It can affect your body shape some. But not to the extent that you have a large fupa. I've gotten pretty fit between pregnancies. While I will always carry some stretch marks, I won't also carry the beetus or an extra 20-50 pounds. Women who ise pregnancy/kids as an excuse to get/stay fst are so delusional.