It's not mysoginistic to be truthful.  Fat men know they're fat and unattractive and most at least seem to understand that women want a man who isn't a fatass.  Fat women think that by virtue of having a vagina, they're entitled to the same attention as healthy BMI women.  Their inflated egos but horrendously low self-esteem creates this weird paradigm where they know they're unattractive so they shame people for having standards and try to control the narrative by saying that "real men want fat women" because they feel entitled to have any man they want.  No one finds fat sexy and the sooner that people start speaking up and being honest about finding fat people unattractive, the better IMO.