This raises an interesting point. The type of person this attracts is an authoritative person who wants control over an incapable, childlike simpleton. She is advertising hoping to find someone to tell her what to do and micromanage her life. Who does that describe? Feeders. That is exactly the feeder relationship. You have the control freak feeder dictating every decision and the helpless, submissive feedee who only takes orders. Just another level of contradiction in the fat thinking.