yeah but see herein lies the problem. youre not allowed to be anything but polite now. and why is that? because lawyers. every hurt feeling now ends up in a threat of a lawsuit, and lawyers need to get paid, and we have this nice litigious society set up around it. So instead of the doctor being able to say 'Go fuck off and die on your own fat cunt i cant help you' without threat of being sued because 'reeeeeeeee it was rude' they have to dance around legalese. Even fucking child care workers are not allowed to say no to a child, nor are they allowed to make any kind of negative comment on reporting about a child. So a hard 'child has developmental problems and does not accept direct verbal instruction from a teacher and may have autism problems'  Then becomes a soft and negotiable 'Child is wonderful at meeting lifes challenges head on and will often ask questions about what they are being told, they are independant and unique in mind and spirit' (aka Does not fucking accept instruction, Keeps asking retarded questions, does not do what theyre told, and is dumb as fuck)