I can't agree more on the guilt. Intellectually I totally get it. If you're raised getting takeout a lot you're not going to find it embarrassingly wasteful. Or lazy. But emotionally? It just constantly amazes me how quick most people in cities are to just have someone cook something, then for someone else to drive it over to them. It's like if I found out that almost everyone had been hiring someone to come in and make their bed for them every morning. I mean it's hardly a big deal as long as they're not fat. But it's just so weird seeing people do it without the slightest bit of embarrassment.