Using the average physician's income as a relative benchmark for your income is absurd. Physicians' income exhibits a large distribution based on geography and specialization. It's multivariate and not even close to bimodal until you start to constrain the variables. Otherwise you're picking the average of a distribution for which average is meaningless. Median might be better, but if you make more than a GP or pediatrician, the floor is only about 180k. 180k is not that much.  The swiftness with which you draw attention to your material trappings and appearance would suggest you might be a complete, total, and utter asshole. Women tend to get bored with assholes with no culture and a fixation on how much they make, what their money can buy them. If you're still driving a Bimer, you're behind the curve. They're passe. Audis are both better cars and much better at signaling to women that you're a trendy dude, which is probably a core part of your unfortunate personality.  Be less boring and maybe you can attract a mate. Otherwise you're more likely to succeed trying to bang easily impressed 22 year olds by exploiting their insecurities. They're not aged enough to have wised up to the pick-up artist mindset.