The other 33% of women get the real validation and attention,not because they "deserve" it but because they probably are attractive.  People lie a lot about weight and fats,especially women,but other day I had a moment in which I heard the truth from their mouth.  Not to brag because I have not much to do so but I am now quite in shape (you can see the upper abs,some veins on the arms,not the top form but above the sad average) and I was in a place with some fair and solidarity clothes exposition.  I was near one of them ,I heard two women talk about the unisex sweatshirt,but they didn't have a male to prove,so I just approached and propose myself and they said "finally a man with this body to prove the sweatshirt" and other comments like this that I can't remember.  And I realized after that the men there was a mix of fat,skinnyfat,smallfat or totally skinnyfaggots.  People naturally love fit bodies,it's just that simple.