That's the thing.  COUPLES THAT GET FAT AREN'T HAPPY.  It's a blatant lie like "I'm a nice guy!"/"I have a great personality!"  Look at /r/deadbedrooms.  There's a number of posts on there where the husband gets fat and the once-great sex life goes out the window.  He can't get it up, he's low-libido, and the HL wife is not attracted to him anymore because he looks like a neckbeard basement-dweller and not the hot guy she married(/u/mk46gunner's comment regarding a 4chan advice post comes to mind--"have him catch you masturbating to a pic of him when he was thin").  Don't get me wrong, [/u/Larry-Man](https://reddit.com/user/Larry-Man] is a perpetually-offended social justice warrior who posts to /r/blackladies and any male partner is better off single than with her, but her husband's decision to eat excess calories is his own damn fault.    Lots of couples have to lose a great, intimate sex life through no fault of their own thanks to stuff like cancer and endometriosis, and then these people choose to throw it away because they'd rather eat a bunch of calories than give a shit about their partner's needs.  Most male DeadBedrooms posters would love it if the only reason their wives refused to fuck them is because they got fat.  Most HL posters in /r/DeadBedrooms try to stay in shape and attractive and get rejected anyway because their spouse doesn't give a shit. Tell me again why we're supposed to have sympathy for people that choose to get complacent because "I'm in a relationship" and wanting to be attracted to your spouse is somehow shallow.  All the happy relationships I've seen on here were treated like a job you don't want to lose.