Wow, that's really sad. And I absolutely don't blame you for not wanting friends over. Even if you hadn't told him no, who tf invites strangers into someone else's house? Lazy people make lazy parents, guaranteed. He was clearly never given any rules or boundaries, because I couldn't imagine acting that way. When our electric got cut off and we had to stay with my mom with our 1-year-old, not only did we give her $800/month (literally all the household bills), but we bought all the food, cooked all the food, I made coffee every morning, did the dishes, wash, housework. Everything. Because even though she's a narcissistic, drug-addicted bitch that lets her bf perv out on her daughters, she gave us a place to stay. And yes, it actually was cheaper than a motel.