It's so disgusting. All the weddings I've been to recently, women my age are doing it. And you're right - it's mostly hams. Fuck, I was 16 weeks pregnant at my sister's wedding and I had enough forethought to put a pair of comfortable sneakers in my car for after all the photos were done... my bridesmaid dress was floor-length too so nobody saw, but I still had the decency and respect to wear my heels almost the whole day, only taking them off after the garter/bouquet toss