There are two types of people in this world. When faced with a horrible accident, some will try and do anything they can to help/prevent it. The others record it with their cellphones.  How someone immediately reacts to a tragedy tells a lot about them. For a good person, finding out they miscarried will immediately spur the question 'how can I prevent this from happening again?' and the deep pain will be an incentive to make any sacrifice necessary.  A useless sack of shit will immediately think 'wow, this will make such a good pity story'.