Back when I was still together with my ex I started subtly shitlording. I knew she would never be on board with going full out because she has a fat mom that she loves. It was surprisingly easy to get her to make fun of fat men with me, but as soon as it was about fat women suddenly it was all "some people have condishuns and can't loose weight. My mom has an eating disorder. yadi yadi yada". Typical fatlogic you sometimes hear from normal sized people who don't like being "mean". Next time I'm doing the whole relationship thing I'm getting me a shitlady. Can't deal with bullshit anymore.