Fat Black Mother The other night when my mom was making dinner my and my bf really didn't want anything because we had a late lunch, just an hour before hand. My mom knows my bf and I don't really like our food smothered in butter, something which she always does. When I mentioned it after seeing the food she took a spoon and ate all the butter chunky off of our plate. It was just so god damn gross, I really lost my appetite after that :/.