Unless you have learning disabilities, as they stated. I'd guess she's probably a few years behind where you'd expect a child her age to be when it comes to personal responsibility... She should have some responsibility though and should be being taught about nutrition, admittedly. Plus she doesn't buy, portion or make the food and if her parents are anything like mine were, she may not be allowed to leave the table until her plate is clean, even if they're giving her way too much. It's abuse, pure and simple.