That's always people's response to me not eating nuts anymore because my boyfriend has an allergy. "Omg but PB is sooooo good! How do you not eat it anymore?" "But I love almonds! I could never stop eating them!" "How do you just give up Nutella/pesto/macrons/whatever high cal nut product they like" You just don't buy or eat it, there is no how. Ofcourse it's good, nut products used the make up a lot of my diet. But it's just food, were privileged enough to live in a time where there's plenty of substitution or alternate options, getting too attached when there's plenty of options to eat other things is just sad. The worst us when people tell me they could "never date somebody with a nut allergy". Like seriously, not eating one specific food out of your thousands of options is a dealbreaker for dating an amazing person?