To Tumblrinas: Fat people are undesirable partners REGARDLESS of looks Like most of you I am admant I want a fit partner. Being a guy I know I will get flak for that preference. In fact as a BLACK guy, I'll probably end up with a white girl or someone who isn't black since like 3/4 or more of black women are fat(called thick and curvy, bleh). Sure I might desire a physically attractive partner(that shit is natural, finding a healthy mate to produce viable offspring), but here are several reasons aside from looks why it's better to have a fit partner spouse: 1.Children As we know obesity comes with numerous healthy risks including not only contracting diabetes, high blood pressure and so on, but also the increased risks of your offspring having those. Not that genetics make you fat of course, but it puts you at greater disposition for it. Also there's the fact of increased birth defects, including a higher likelyhood of the child/children having autism. I'm on the spectrum and my mom was fat when she was pregnant with me soooo, yeah... Also if you are the partner who has a job with long/odd hours (military, law enforcement, etc) wouldn't you feel better knowing that your partner was having your kids sitting down wolfing down Twinkies in front of Spongebob? And if there were an emergency like a mass shooting,fire, etc would your partner be fit enough to scoop up the kids and flee for safety? 2.Lifestyle While it is sometimes nice to do the typical dinner and a movie, we probably would like to do something active every now and then. Hiking, bike riding, swimming, jogging, and so on. If you are into martial arts like me having a partner who is also a fighter gives you a constant training buddy. With a fatty, they either can't do these things or can't do them nearly as well. I can tell you from my experience my own fat mother despite years of weight loss attempts constantly goes out to eat with friends. And also there's been some times where she was sitting on the floor or even bed and needed me to help pull her up. 3.Stress As a relationship progresses into marriage, and then kids come along as does your career and so forth that leads to more things to stress about. This isn't a bad thing in and of itself, and if you are with the right person this is easily manageable. With a fat person, their weight and the health issues that come it are just another thing to worry about and pay for along with rent/mortgage, utility bills, kids extracurriculars, etc. This especially applies since this also means that said partner will probably take more time off work if they can work at all. There. 3 big reasons why being with a fat person is undesireable and nothing about looks. Take that Tumblr.