Obeasts and Online Dating We've all dealt with this (Well, most of us have). We've seen the screenshots. We know what's out there and what to look for.  Personally, I think Tinder is easier because it allows me to only select those which I find to be physically appealing. And sometimes that means I match with guys that are skinny and absolutely hysterically funny and have the BEST personalities and are quirky and good looking in a non-conventional way (because I rarely swipe right for conventionally attractive). Also, no full body shots, no right swipe.  Now, on OKC, things get a little more...interesting. Because just anyone can send you a message. I have it spelled out in no uncertain terms that I will not respond to you if you are overweight in the first paragraph of my profile. Again, full body shots are required and I provide them on both Tinder & OKC. I get messages from fat dudes all the time. FAT DUDES IN FEDORAS, even. Thinking that their charming personality is going to win me over. Seriously? I'm going to overlook the fact that you are carrying around an extra human on your body because you like the same type of music that I do? Oh honey, no. No.  As many times as I swipe left on Tinder out of disgust, at least I can sigh in content knowing that I will not receive a message from that lardlubber telling me he's going to "rock my world." Yeah, like when you walk past me.