Dudes a fucking sperglord neckbeard or some shit. Dudes apparently disgusting. Its probably the best the dude can get. Hes not able to have standards.  OP do what you want or kill yourself or some shit. But posting here is dumb.  For the record I agree with your friends. You probably can't do better if its that big of a deal. Just being real. I'm not going to take some obstinate moral high ground and tell you being alone or crazy would be better than being fat - the real message you should take from this thread is that you should make your own decisions  instead of trying to please guys on FPH who you probably won't ever actually interact with. Although you've blown this chance already so it doesn't matter if you "made the right choice" or not. You're the one who has to live with your actions. To everyone else, your life is just a big joke, to be laughed at.