When just existing is enough to make fats feel bad Hi all, old story but I thought you'd appreciate (and no doubt plenty of you have had similar experiences). A year or so ago I went to a birthday party of a friend from high school, where I ran into another friend from high school I haven't seen since. She was always chubby and a bit weird to me (I've always been pretty small) but when we were young it wasn't as bad or noticeable. Well she's ballooned up to low-end obese, but that's not the weird part. There was a bunch do food at this event but I wasn't having much since my man and I had already had dinner, but I was helping bring snacks down from the kitchen. This fat girl is stuffing her face with chicken wings, and out of nowhere starts justifying it to me. "I don't normally have wings but its a party"  "I haven't eaten anything all day"  "I know I need to lose weight but these are just so good!!" It was so funny watching her project this shit all over me just because I'm the same size I was in high school. All I had to do was exist and it was enough to freak her out (and my BMI was like 22, not even that skinny!)