But if she's attracted to your body, she's just looking for sex. Quick question I'd like to ask that fatty, would you rather be the guy she runs to for a trip down to pound town or the guy she runs to for a conversation? I'm lucky enough to have a wife that I connect with on a deep human level. But I wouldn't have wanted to get there if she wasn't drooling over how hot I was first. An emotional bond is only half of a good relationship. The other half is wanting to rip each others' clothes off at every opportunity. But fatty wouldn't know anything about that.