That's because you're at a more commercial gym. More "hardcore" gyms with powerlifters are full of strong fats who are actually very fucking strong. The thing that pisses me off is they hit the gym for 1-2 hours 3-5 days a week and look like shit. I love getting stronger, but I'd take a 3 plate bench and be lean and healthy over a 500 pound bench and look like shit. I mean, if you're that dedicated to the gym, you best be in good health. Throw some cardio in and control your diet so you at least look good considering these strong fats spend about 5-10 hours in the gym a week.