I agree with you. I'm 5'7 and 126lbs but after breastfeeding for almost 2 years my tits basically deflated to skin sacks. My 25in waist turned to a 28in (even at my pre baby weight) so my figure is less womanly now. Body positive to me is just accepting that a healthy body has flaws too. Not applauding a mental illness that affects people into gorging to death. Also I'm against the "everyone's beautiful" narrative. If everyone's beautiful the word holds no meaning. I was more attractive before pregnancy, oh well.