Haven't read the article, let me guess:  Realize she loves food, not you.    She is using you to buy her food.    You are expected to pay in full for every date, which will be at a Restaurant of Large Servings.    "Let's meet up to hang out" will only occur at a pizza parlor, or a fast food joint.    Physical exercise only consists of waddling from the car to the scooter to the Restaurant of Large Servings.    Forget about sex, unless you have a two-foot dick you'll never be able to get past the blubber.  Now I'm going to read the article to see how correct my predictions are. Edit: Nope, my predictions were wrong. The list, told from her perspective:  Don't hurt my feeeelings.    I'm a special snowflake, don't forget it.    Are you rich enough to buy me enough food?    You are a source of money for food, nothing more. Don't get above yourself.    I want to be seen with you, so I can show off how I tricked a man into buying me food.    You will never, ever tell me I'm fat, no matter how much food I force you to buy for me.    I love to talk about food.    If I call myself fat, you are to praise my beauty and buy me more food.