Agreed.  I'm a petite lady so my TDEE is naturally way lower than a man who's taller.  If I can stay fit eating enough for my size, there is NO FUCKING EXCUSE why these giant men get so enormous.  They get to eat like twice as much as I do and still stay a normal weight, yet they abuse that and still get obese.    Also, I'm bitter that obese men can legally show their tits in public but if a woman sunbathes shirtless she gets a fucking fine.