Ethical dilemma Fellow fitizens I'm a social worker and torn between my duty of addressing one of my kid's blatant disrespect for his fat mom and sister or encouraging him to shame them more. His mother complains to me every week that he "bullies" her and his sister by calling them fatties, ugly, or some other insult about their weight. I am proud of him, but I have to show my disapproval of his behavior because of professionalism and all. I am trying to get him to address their weight in more diplomatic ways, but he is still failing to use my techniques which I'm kind of glad he doesn't because I hope he can shame the fatties into losing some weight. They both are akin to something like this