The main problem with dating sites, right there. Even unattractive women will get messages just because the ratio of men to women is so massively skewed. I've had some luck here and there, but I still haven't figured out the secret to actually getting dating sites to work, as a guy. (It probably has a lot to do with where I live, though. If I lived in a big city, or at least a less redneck one, I imagine I'd do better.)