The actual "anorexia" part is thinking you're fat when you're demonstrably not and therefore attempting to lose weight when there is nothing to lose. The HAES bullshit is remarkably similar because they think they are healthy when all the evidence indicates otherwise and they continue to shovel in high fat, high sugar, high carb, high salt foods in unlimited portions. I've seen girls I've known since kindergarten literally weeks away from death from anorexia, but people cared enough about them to commit them to psychiatric wards and residential facilities for treatment. I think if you are a HAES deluded fat fuck, the saddest thing is that nobody cares about you enough to make you stop.