Yeah, it's just hard feeling like my GF is the only one I can talk to about feeling out of shape.  I am 6' and weigh 168 or so, so I'm not anywhere near overweight, but having been 4% bodyfat my whole life, even 10% feels off.  I guess I am glad there is a place for us here.  None of the fatties, save the one I was originally showing the picture to, get that.