Honestly you sound heartless. I get you're trying to be against the attention seeking pig in this story, but seriously? Your argument is like saying "how can you love your kid? You didn't plan it and you weren't 'trying' so obviously it's weird that you love your child" like... What?... I kind of get it because this has obviously never happened to you but let me give you my person experience:  I found out I was pregnant in college. My boyfriend and I had broken up after 2 years the day after the conception date, and so I took the pregnancy test alone, then let him know what was going on. Previously, I had been on a pre-med path at my university, was in classes to become an RA, held leadership positions in my sorority, etc etc. I had always thought if I ever got pregnant, I would have an abortion because I wanted to get to a better part of my life first. But as soon as the test showed me I was pregnant, I was repulsed by the thought. I had an immediate love and attachment to my baby, and being the planner and type A person that I was, started planning immediately. After 10 weeks, a reconciliation with my boyfriend, and dropping out of a few extra curriculars because I didn't think I'd be at the university the following year, I had a miscarriage. And it absolutely broke me. I've had shit happen in my life. My dad killed himself when I was 11 because my mom cheated on him with my now-step dad, friend in high school ended up being a sociopath, different shit has made me a strong person. And this broke me.  You're correct on your statistics, but that doesn't make it any easier on the people that it happens to, regardless of what trimester it happened in. It's still a traumatic event to think that you did something wrong that caused your unborn child to die, but on top of that- the baby doesn't just go away. You have contractions, are in pain, and your baby comes out. You bleed a LOT for a couple of weeks afterwards. It's not something to be taken lightly, and it's not something that's "weird" to be devastated by.