Old friend went over to the fat side. What is your best way of getting over someone? She and I used to hang out very much in our late teens and were very good friends. She was always fun and joking, never took herself too seriously and all that. I have many fond memories with her. Then we moved to different cities but kept in touch. Last time I saw her was July or August, and she was on the upper end of normal BMI. Then I met her today. In the same way (and probably during the same time...) I embraced FPH and started realizing this is the only body I got, I have to be careful with and take care of it, she discovered "fat acceptance", that joke of a "movement", and has seemingly given up all kinds of standards.    I was not prepared for how fat she had become. Like a pre-fupa stomach and multiple chins. I could barely look at her and I am having a hard time accepting this reality. If it was like before, I would try to get her eating heathy and exercising again, but she's joined the tubblrinas and is a lost cause. She even got the fucking septum piercing! I am sad because we've known each other for a very long time, but I realize it's time to let go. I was so disgusted by her everything, and when she mentioned her boyfriend and what they do in bed I actually had to turn away and change the subject to get rid of the mental image. She used to be a really good looking hourglassy girl and now she's a pig. Help me, FPH, usual "break up advice" doesn't work since I don't fancy eating a tub of Ben&Jerry's alone in one sitting. It almost feels like she died, but how can I get over a friend that's just maybe still alive in there? I can't go through my life hoping she will return and spend the meantime with an obese person instead. It's not the same and I'm angry. At her, at everyone around her who hasn't reacted, at this society... I don't know what to do.