They know they're revolting so they immediately go on the defensive and start over compensating. Imo there's a time and a place to discuss sex and outside of that, you come off as a desperate slag even if you are hot. How a ham thinks anyone wants to hear that shit idk.  The worst part is there's actually nothing truly kinky, they're not sexually explorative, or sexual people who are just liberated. they're just whores. they let guys stick it wherever they want to because otherwise they're not going to have a guy to stick it anywhere and then they brag about how "oh my God I'm such a sexually liberated girl cuz I'll let a guy put it in my butt hole" and it's just pathetic. Being a whore != kinky