Have you seen Return of the Jedi?  That's what that this kind of selfish looks like from a business standpoint, and look how well that's doing!    Fat people seem to think that their opinion is the only opinion that matters, and when you believe that no one else matters, then no one else will believe that you matter either.  Rest assured, all of these self-absorbed butter huffers are intensely lonely.  There's a difference between "self-love" and "selfish".