"I don't see anything sexy about her body... ...she's just a twig," said my aunt, speaking about a pretty, human actress in a movie we were watching. What is up with that? For all time up until recently that actress would have been universally accepted as attractive, even by my aunt.  She also saw a picture of a body builder during a competition and proclaimed "I'd rather be with a fat guy than someone like that. It'd be like sleeping against a rock." What a coincidence that her boyfriend is overweight. I responded by telling her how nice it is to be with a guy who can easily lift you over his head.  Has she forgotten that women are supposed to be small (in comparison to whales) and graceful while men are to be strong and hard and built? Or is it the extra 40+ lbs she's gained since last I saw her?