As a teenager I had a 22.9 BMI and I remember my best friend shitlording me often.  My grandma told me I was getting chunky, my boyfriend said I was the biggest girl he'd ever gone out with.  Half a lifetime later that's practically a hate crime.  Clearly all this "let's not talk about it" nonsense is working out for everyone.  I seriously wonder if I'll have CPS called on me by the time my kids are grown just for not being obese.