I really appreciate the insight your comment brings to this, and it's a valuable part of the conversation (so can people please stop downvoating, disagreement is a healthy part of progress.) While we do agree and disagree on many things, the fact that we had a platform for our views and that they are respected. I feel that you frame feminism, even the oldest versions, with a bit of malice, but I expect that only comes from the realistic frustration that comes with still having to deal with this shit in 2016.  The best we can do is continue to work together, support each other, and see each other as people, with no gender rivalry. Here's to the sane and caring people who put humanity before gender. :)