I've honestly wondered if that's part of the reason that I've never gotten a response from an asian woman on any dating site I've ever been on. Not that I'm a "player" or anything (personally, I think that's kind of gross, but to each their own) but I've gotten responses from women of every background besides them. Can't say I'd blame them. The "positive" racism around asians is sickening and widespread, but because it's seen (by those same white dudes) as being about "good" things, it's basically ignored. "Oh, stop being so PC. I'm not racist just because I judge a whole group of people based on a portrayal of them in the media. And besides I want to fuck them. You can't hate someone you want to fuck!" It's so weird and gross. [edit: for the record, I am also a white dude.]