Ugh. This fucking blaming their parents for "weight-policing" makes me sick. My mom has always been concerned about mine and my sister's weight. When one of us gained weight she brought it up! And helped us make changes accordingly. My sister hated it, but she still got down to a healthy weight! My dad never cared, and now my five year old brother is 75 pounds. Hmmm... maybe "body-policing" is good?