If my husband fed himself into a monstrous blimp who couldn't do anything much but sit around, eat, and whine (this fatbitch certainly isn't taking the kids cycling or swimming, or anywhere else) I would leave him.   I like you more and more every day. My ex-wife (former hottie) did this. It ended badly. I look and feel great and she has diabetes and looks 80. Fat people are absolutely horrendous relationship partners in ANY sense.