My shitlady overweight mom Background :  My grandma is obese with the beetus, my mom was always overweight and ashamed (bmi 26-27, had 4 kids), I was borderline overweight and ashamed (bmi 24-25, sisters and brother are slim/normal).   My mom was always ashamed of her size (which wouldn't even be "average" in the USA but living in France she was just fat), and never wore a dress or skirt in her life and I never saw her in a bikini or swimsuit. She thought it was genetics (but really was bad habits her mom gave to her) so she never did much to change it. But one thing was sure : she always hated being fat AND hated happy fat people, and as far as I remember she always shitlorded :  "If I ever get to 70kg (154,3lbs) I will never get out of the house again and starve myself." "If you keep on eating like this you'll end up obese/look like a whale." "If I end up waking up in the night to eat, like grandma, I'll kill myself" "How can this cow dress like that ? Some people don't have any shame." So after being dumped 3 years ago, I lost weight because much sadness and realized it was NOT gunutics like I've been told (now bmi 19-20). I learned about healthy eating (goodbye chicken nuggets/microwaved pizza/pasta) and fitness (hi weightlifting, you' lookin' good), and shared this knowledge with my mom, like her own mother should have done when she was 3 ... Who knew you had to eat only when you were hungry ? Huh ? She never went on a diet, just ate healthy/when she was truly hungry and is now the prettiest she ever was, nice legs, collar bones and a huge surprise : cheekbones. And last year, at 50, for the first time in her adult life she wore a dress, at a wedding ! She didn't even wear one at her own. She was stunning.    I'm so proud of my mother fph, now we can shitlord together, it brings tears to my eyes to see her so happy about herself. Obese parents are the worst, I love you grandma but fuck you, your food addiction, and your oil filled meals, you ruined my mom's life for 50 years.