I mean, any well adjusted person would see success and aspire to it. My Fiancee the other day was flipping through some magazine and came across a hot, fit model in an ad and said "Man I need to hit the gym..." and NOT "WOW the patriarchy is fucking oppressing me with this ridiculous standards RAPE!!!!" Not shamed, not angry, not oppressed... she was Mirin'  And that's what healthy adults do when they see success, they admire it and strive to achieve it. It's a lesson you learn when you study the psychology of success in any form, The things that you hate become impossible to attain.