middle aged, shouldn't be shopping as a 20-21 bmi I the junior section. I want badass office attire that doesn't scream try-hard cool mom.  I have the same problem—if you like shopping in real stores, is there a city with a large East Asian population near you?  If you look for the women’s nicer clothing stores or malls in those neighborhoods, you should easily be able to get sophisticated-type stuff that hasn’t been vanity-sized to hell.