Help! My roommate is turning into a fattie! My new roommate started out great. We cooked meals together, she was clean and courteous, etc. Perfect roommate material. Then she broke up with her boyfriend of three years. I understand how break ups can be traumatic and sad, but she is responding in the absolute worst way possible. Eating her feelings and binge drinking. Instead of hitting the gym and showing him what he's missing, she's lost all care for her body. She's stopped working out with me completely and now just sits on the couch when I go for my morning runs. She used to do yoga every day and cook and prep chicken breast in bulk and keep a freezer full of fruits and veggies for when we ran out of fresh ones. Today I went grocery shopping and struggled to find a place to put my frozens because the freezer was filled with bagel bites, ice cream, and pizza rolls. I love a nice bit of ice cream every once in a while, I'm not trying to food shame, but I don't keep three tubs of it on hand. Our cupboards are full of poptarts, instant ramen, chips, and children's fruit snacks now. It's become nearly impossible to get her to eat anything that isn't junk food. She made boxed mac'n'cheese that called for one tablespoon of butter. She put in four tablespoons and ate the entire box. It was four servings! She's also stopped drinking water and now keeps drinking diet pepsi like crazy. She drinks about 6 a day. She also drinks a lot of booze. Not like the glasses of wine we used to share in the evening. Now she makes really sugary concoctions or goes to the bars and drinks like 8 daiquiris and shit. Not even good mixed drinks. We had some friends over and we were going to make sour amarettos. We have a great recipe for our sour mix, but she completely ruined it by adding twice as much sugar as it called for. No one could drink it so I had to improvise and make something else for our guests. The other day we went shopping at the mall and ended up eating at the food court. We went to chick-fil-a because it had the shortest line and we were pretty hungry. I'm a firm believer in moderation. I see nothing wrong with having the occasional fast food, but there is definitely something wrong with eating it every day! I love pizza, but I'm not going to eat the whole thing. I just have a slice or sometimes two. You have collarbones. You know the drill. Anyway, I get a grilled chicken sandwich. It has 320 calories and 5 grams of fat. I decide I also want to have some fries but I don't want all of them and ask my roommate if she would like to split and order. She says no and that she is getting her own but that she will gladly eat what I don't. I decide to just get a small order and go to sit down. As I'm sitting, I begin to wonder what's taking my roommate so long. When she finally comes to the table, I realize it's because she got so much food. She got a large diet pepsi, a fried chicken sandwich, a 12 count nugget, and a large order of fries. She proceeded to eat all of this and insist on getting a refill of her drink because "it's free a refill". The worst part was watching her eat the fries. We had somewhere to be and needed to get going. Instead of simply throwing out the rest of her fries or taking them with her in the car, she proceeded to stand by the trashcan and shovel as many as she possibly could in her mouth, holding them in her cheeks like a fucking gerbil. I can't make this shit up. It was absolutely disgusting. She wasn't swallowing them. She just kept shoving and shoving until it was coming out of her mouth and starting to drop onto her shirt and the floor. People were staring. I was mortified. I told her to spit the damn fries out and I'd be waiting in the car. I really can not paint how disgusting of an image it actually was. I am not joking when I think she stuffed 3/4 of a large order of waffle fries into her mouth. She had to spit some out in the parking lot. She could have just brought them with her if she wanted them that badly! She didn't even enjoy them. Just wharfed them down like some sort of vacuum cleaner. I felt sick. I feel sick just thinking back on it and typing. I don't know what to do. She has gained a significant amount of weight rapidly. I've tried not so subtly shitlording her. I've tried offering her my healthy meals that she used to eat but she orders takeout instead. I've walked around in my workout clothes doing pilates and pranced around in my bikini. I've asked her to go to the gym with me but she refuses. I don't know what to do. I'm trying to stop it before it's too late but I don't know if I can do much else. Please help!