I'm mexican, as you probably have noticed we tend to have a very funny fat distribution where it stays mainly around your middle/arms/back while keeping skinny looking legs. It is a hilarious but disgusting shape LOL  I strongly empathize. @orange-avocado's comment comes to mind.  It's why black guys go for fat black women but not fat Amerind women.  The "dumpy," most unsexy fat distribution is also the most dangerous fat didtribution.