That's a natural human psychological condition. Two things that make people overcompensate for insecurity are looks and "princess treatment." Normal people that achieve based on internal factors don't give a fuck about how others view them. People that achieve from externalities and constant affirmation require that constantly to turn off their insecurities in themselves. That's why calling a White man any name typically does nothing to them. Calling someone Joe, when their name is Bob, will typically produce a "Oops" followed by "don't worry about it" because their internal identity isn't tied to Bob. Call a secure White guy a nigger, or a cracker, or a stump, doesn't make a fucking bit of difference. Calling a nigger a Nigger triggers a visceral reaction, because they have no internal confidence, and external naming that enhances their internal insecurities will result in a fucking chimpout.