As a gay man, I can tell you that there are more fat gay men than ever and I can also say that they are just as unpopular as ever. Which, sad to say at my age, as a fit gay man, still makes me a real contender in a gay bar.  I’d expected, in my declining years, to be able to ogle the young one happily from a perch in the corner of the bar with a martini in hand. Now I literally have to beat them off to find some peace.