"Men are stronger than women and should restrain them if necessary not throat punch them" Bullshit. If she starts throwing punches then it's on. Start fighting like a man and get knocked the fuck out, just like a man. An attitude like yours is why when I was working in a nightclub I had to punch bitches in the face. They had been coddled by people like you and then got drunk and started throwing punches at someone like me with the mistaken impression that I wasn't allowed to hit them back.