I don't use social media, either.  It's like public masturbation the way these people act. Narcissism is the norm and it's a game I have no interest in playing.  I've never seen a beautiful person behave in that vapid attention seeking manner. I've seen a lot of average to below average make complete and utter fools of themselves in an attempt to garner attention. Just my experience.  Beauty is quiet and has no need to toot it's own horn or convince anyone of anything.  It's not just looks of weight. Competent people don't try to convince you  244  . Incompetent people need to loudly exclaim their talents, looks, etc.