I'll pretty much second this. Like OP I'm a single dude at 30, but like you I'm super OK with it. I'll do my thing and if I find my shitlady then neat. If not, that's OK too. Being single is so much better than being in a relationship that's not quite right. Last relationship was not quite right. She had lots of fatlogic seedlings lurking under the surface. Any setback threatened to set her off down that greasy path. Never such a situation again. The buck stops there.