Unless "self love" is code for masturbation, then she thinks that all shitlords spend so much time working out that they don't fuck or diddle themselves. Which is a peculiar observation, but fits perfectly into the deluded HAES narrative. Hell, it probably takes Tess an hour to find her clit and even then she's not sure. If it takes you longer to locate your genitals than it does to get off, you are a fat god damn yuck fuck.