I don't know why I even bothered to be nice. Today I saw one of my cow-workers that I haven't seen in a while. I thought she had lost weight because I know she's diabetic so maybe she was trying to get it under control, right? So I said to her "hey have you lost weight, you look like you have!" being all nice and happy and the like. She said "well I haven't been trying but maybe, thanks". Later on who do I hear bitching to another co-worker about me saying "she only said that because she doesn't need to lose weight!" then she gave me a death glare from across the room. Wow. I was just being fucking nice and you take it as me being a bitch? Just wow. Talk about being insecure as fuck. I'm glad I won't end up being a fat, middle aged, diabetic, smoker who's dating a married man 20 years older than her (they've been dating a long time and he won't leave his wife, ha!) and who is nothing but bitterness on the inside. I was just being nice because I genuinely thought she had lost weight. Way to make the work place hostile over nothing, for fuck's sake. No wonder fat fucks think "concern trolls" are a thing. The dark mentality of these people is unbelievable.