Well-written and a great piece for anyone considering "helping" a hamplanet. You are apparently a functional adult who can not only realize what needs to be done to keep a home clean and working, you can operationalize those steps and write them down. Nothing enrages the fucked-up and incapable more than being reminded that life isn't just a hazy obstacle course with changing stations, and that other people not only can understand what's happening, they have expectations of others' behavior. Fucked up failures prioritize company over self-sufficiency and believe that everyone else is the same. With enough fuck-ups around, in emergencies enough change can be scrounged/things can be pawned/parts collected and a reasonably competent person involved to manage a temporary fix. They waddle from disaster to disaster, surviving by trading low-value favors with other gross and stupid people. What's worse is that some people believe that functional people owe the chronic fuck-ups energy, time, and mercy well past the first time they show themselves to refuse to grow up and take responsibility for their behavior and its results. In some monkey part of the human brain, there must be a instinct to keep the social group as large as can be supported by local resources in order to maximize predator watch and alarm/avoidance. Reasonable humans understand that fats are exploitative, selfish, and damaging enough to be considered predators.