Oh god, I had my kid early (18) and was a stay at home mom while getting my degree and working a part time job. I hate those get together groups because some are humungous and just sit at the edge of playgrounds eating. ERG. My child is growing up knowing how important it is to eat healthy and stay active.  My house may get messy but it sure as hell will look alright for any visitor that randomly pops by.   I hate fat parents in general, but those entitled as fuck fat moms whose only victory in life was pushing out a kid (and usually on pain meds lol) and think they know everything in life now,  get me really angry.