I think the issue that is often tried to put across is that sexual preference and desire is something the individual has very little control over. So people who use the terms 'map' or 'non offending pedophile' are therefor not committing a crime because they aren't acting on it. Those people are then trying to break away from the 'actual pedopholes' and group themselves into lgbt+ since they aren't breaking laws and it's 'all natural'. One of the reasons this has gained a lot of traction the past couple years is because it could end with either the lgbt+ regressing 20 years, or with sexual preferences being a controllable and changable aspect of a person, therefore making straight the 'correct option'. It's all just pretty disgusting really, and we should not be giving the time of day to these people. Tldr: pedos who dont actually commit the act think they are ok and its all natural, and its a fine line between sexual preference being uncontrollable and gayness being controllable.