Sadly, my son lives with my obeast ex. She crams him full of food in a sickening way. I only have two days a week to reverse it. I shitlord him all day, (in an appropriate way for a preschooler,not overly mean, but showing strong disapproval), and shitlord in front of him so he understands. I'm sure I'm not the only father who has a ham of an ex who is ruining his children :(