I really struggle to understand how they think of food with emotions and relationships, I have seen that in the fats I know myself and I never understand how, when they have had the same lessons as me and live in the same society as me can think of food so emotionally,  to me it is just something I have to do to live, food is fuel and nothing else. Saying that, I would love to cover my SO with whipped cream and go to town lmao :)