If anything it's worse for hetero women. The stats always focus too much on obesity rather than obese and overweight people. Anyone with standards is going to exclude both groups. Once that happens the amount of normal sized women is pretty significantly higher than the amount of normal sized men. There's not one state in the US where there's more normal sized men than fat men. There's not even any where it's a clean 50/50 ratio. Meanwhile it's rare for normal sized women to be the majority in a state, but there are a few where that's the case. Barely the case, but still.  Stereotypes and all that. But I think in general it is fair to say that just as an average there's more women in any group looking for something serious than there are men looking for a serious committed relationship. I don't know, I suspect there's a heavy "grass is always greener" thing going on. People don't take as close a look at the group they're not interested in and realize just how many of the seemingly normal looking people are actually smallfats in baggy clothing.