A few months ago I was vehemently opposed to dating and happy to be that way because of this kind of thing and because so many people wait to get in a relationship then let themselves get fat. Then I accidentally got a date (I didn't realize it was supposed to be a date until it was far too late....I'm a bit oblivious sometimes). She eats right, we run together, she does marathons and is helping me train for one, and she makes fun of fatties. My only concern with her is that she'll make a joke about them, but is a little soft hearted when it comes to them but I can live with that as long as she's not supporting them or getting fat herself. Anyway, the point is that it is absolutely a minefield, but sometimes you can accidentally cartwheel through it and come out on the other side unscathed.