Fat shaming works My friend and I booked a trip to NYC a few months back. Shes asian, very short. I haven't seen her in years. So we start the trip and I discovered  shes fat now. Caught her eating pasta, sugary snacks and trying to dress as though shes skinny.  Shamed her when we went to eat. And caught her eating a protein bar, I reamed her out. Asked her if shes an athlete. She said "everyone needs protien" " I go to the gym".... Totally not an athlete I said.  We met up with an actual athlete,  shes a very fit runner. We went to hard rock cafe and ordered salad and she did too. Loolololol. She was going to order the ribeye.wtf ! Thats too much food for a petit asain lady.  At lunch the runner and I ordered soup and she did too. Shes catching on. This trip is good for her.