Did I Do Good?  First time poster.  Whisper Shitlord. So I posted a whisper that said, "Fat people are full of delusion and excuses.  And probably fast food".  Overall, I got a hearts.  But one girl didn't like what I had to say.  I could not believe the excuses!  The stuff I read on here is real!  Some of the excuses:  Too busy, genetics, I cause anorexia, calories don't count, PCOS, Thyroid.... I think I am getting to her.  Help me out community and tell me how I should proceed! Below is a quick transcript: (M=me H=Her (typos included)) H: Yep because every single person is the same.  Just how every got person is a conceited dick.  Oh wait that's just you. M: That's the excuse for being fat?  Everyone is different?  Well true, especially diet. H: No I'm not saying that's an excuse  I'm saying not every person that is fat is last and eats terribly.  Is that the case sometimes yea but sometime there are other things going on as well. M: Like what? H: Pcos.  Hpyothyroidism. Genetics.  Just not plain not having the time to be in the gym as often as necessary to lose weight. M: And there are the excuses.  Sure, those things can make it more difficult to lose weight.  But it's still how many calories you need vs how many you consume.  And most people are terrible at even guessing how much they eat.  H: Yes because people chose to have medical issues.  Or ya know be widowed and have a son and need to work 4 jobs to be able to provide for him so when it's a matter of having time with him or working out someone will choose they're child.  Go educate yourself before talk b.s. that you clearly have no clue about. M: It doesn't take time to eat less.  PCOS is the most common hormonal disorder among women.   H:  Seriously?  Yes that's my situation and I meal plan and meal prep and eat extremely healthy and potion control but have hypothyroidism so it only does so much. M: According to the American Thyroid Association, thyroid issues can only add 20 pounds.  If you are eating healthy and honestly controlling your diet, either you are still consuming too many calories or are not being honest with how many you consume.  Your body has to use energy from somewhere.  It can't product fat from thin air. H: Yeah because everybody comes from a cookie cutter and is exactly the same so if you do exactly what works for one person it will definitely work for you.  Smh. M:  Yeah.  It's the laws of physics. H:  Nice try by no. M:  Everyone's caloric needs are higher or lower.  But if you eat under your break even point, you lose.  Eat over it and you gain. H:  Must be hell to be so perfect and be able to work out approximately and he enough sleep and apparently be fit.  You do your thing but shut the duck up with your opinions of other people. M: I'd be willing to bet you have drowned something in ranch dressing in the last 24 hours. H: Haha I don't even eat ranch. M:  Or cake, donuts, etc.  Or even fast food. H:  My dinners are mostly veggies, fish and chicken (not breaded smart ass)  I drink more than enough water have smoothies for breakfast veggies and hummus or a few nuts for a snack, salads for lunches.  But yep I eat terribly.  You're right all knowing master. hugh eye roll  None of the above.  we can play this game all day.  And don't worry no soad either.  Water or tea.  There saved ya another bullshit assumption. M:  It's still about portion control. I love smoothies, but depending on what's in on, it can be 800 calories.  That's a third of my calories and I'm 6'2".  H:  Spinach yogurt fruit cinnamon and sometimes a few drops of honey and powdered greens.  Come on keep trying.  Plain Greek yogurt btw. M:  How big?  And what fruit? H: 12 oz.  It varies.  Bananas, different berries, pineapple, apples. M:  5 oz of Greek yogurt can have between 80 and 224 calories.  A banana can have 100 calories.  1 cup of blueberries 85 calories.  1 apple, 95 calories.  Not even factoring in honey, your "healthy" smoothie at the low end is at least 250 calories and at worst could be double or triple that.  Everything adds up. H: yea they usually add up to 250.  For breakfast.  Sooo terrible. M: And a calorie is a unit of measure for energy.  You can gain weight on fruits and vegetables and lose weight on junk food. I would suspect that calories are slipping in from somewhere. Or you can embrace the excuses, proving that point of my post and be happy playing a victim. H:  Your're relentless huh.  I'm not a victim I'm extremely confident and happy with myself. I just can't stand assholes that have one experience and one opinion and insist they're absolutely right.  And even if I don't eat perfect who the fuck care and what makes it your business?  You need to get over yourself and get a reality check that How other people live their lives or look is none of your business.  Or maybe you'r just bitter because you know women with more than skin n bone fuck better but because of your shitty attitude you aren't getting any.  Your judgement speaks not to your insecurities than anything else.   M: I'm the one that made a post.It must have hit home, since you needed to respond.  Lose some weight, lose the excuses, and love longer for your loved ones.  You have so much fat logic, lol.  And it does impact me.  We have an obesity crisis in this country. It's a drain on our healthcare and social systems.  It's difficult sitting next to someone on a plane or bus.  It's teaching our next generation that it is ok to be a glutinous slob and leave all self control behind.  It's hurting us all. H: Coming form the one inestnet you know everything about everyone and their diets and how they should and shouldn't eat and how much they should weigh.  Lmao wow that's pulling from the bottom of the barrel for excuses now.  Yea pricks like you piss me off because it's people like you that makes 12 year old anorexic.  Yes how dare I show my son what it's like to busy his ads and work for what's necessary and eat healthy and be happy.  See exactly you lump all day people together.  Obesity and far are completely different.   M:  I'm trying to understand your messages, but your sausage fingers may be making it hard to type.  Obesity and fat are exactly the same thing.  One is a clinical term based on bmi.  One is slang. H: Bahaha yep my huge sausage fingers on my 180 lb body.  You must be typing with your little dick to get every key so perfectly.  Yes slang used by many people to refer to all different types of body.  None specific.   M:  There is one body type.  Human.  180#?  How tall? H: If you actually cared youd do something more than be a keyboard warrior.  Learn some fucking compassion and help epople and kids learn how to be healthy be a dietician and make a difference.  But go ahead sit here and judge people that you don't know and not know their stories and do nothing to help.  Oh no keyboard warrior are you going to put my stats in and tell me if I'm obese or not?  Your probably the same prick that if I didn't work as much as I do and needed state aide to provide for my son would look down on me for that too. M:  That's a lot of projection.  Lose some weight and you will lose the delusion.  And trust me, people don't need to put stats in a calculator to tell if someone is fat or not. H:  Haha yea because I'm the one that's delusional.  I'll get right on that, sir.  I don't give two shots what you think.  Oh those damn sausages can't spell Shits* M:  It's obvious you don't give two shits.  About your health or the example you are giving.   H:  An it's obvious you're too illiterate or just plain stupid to know that's not the truth. M:  Oh yeah.  Sure.  Thank you for opening my eyes to fat delusion.  I never really knew that it existed this bad. H:  Hahaha oh my,  Ya know.  Than you for this good laugh today.  You're a riot. M:  Laughter is a defense mechanism.  I hope you can realize that you have a problem and are addicted to food.  Eat to live.  Don't live to eat.