...Remind me why it is beneficial for men to get married? Two years and this woman spent the second year fattening her ass. A divorce would result in halving all property and the man becoming homeless...? The way this relationship is going it won't last long because the two desire two different objectives - the man a healthy outlook; the woman satiating her apatite. Advice to man, get out early and don't look back. She's shown for the past however long that she's not willing to change. Sooner you get out sooner you can get back on track. Later will result in an unhappy life or just delaying the inevitable.