Are young women now so goddamned fat in general that men can't determine women's age? I'm in my late forties and, thanks to an auto accident, sometimes walk with a cane, and more rarely use a walker. I don't go to any efforts to try to look young such as fillers, botox, extreme make-up, or hair dye (though I don't get grey hair yet). Not that using what you can to look your best isn't a worthwhile pursuit, I just don't have the patience for it right now. However, young - and I mean really young - guys keep approaching me and treating me like a peer or at most like I'm five or ten years older than them rather than twice their age, or 15-25 years older, whatever. I'm genuinely confused. Even though I don't think I'm vain, could my brain be starting to collapse into the sludge of "Tee hee I'm so sexxxay" that is so repulsive in hams? If so, I hope I get rabies to speed things up. Or are young women generally so fuckin' fat now that men do not know what the cues for aging look like, since so many of their contemporaries have looked forty since they were fifteen?