This is the same for so many of the latinas I work with. Always coming for attractive white women...bitch, I didn't make you have a baby at 14 and keep the baby instead of adopting it out. (Now NEITHER of you stands a chance!) I don't make you wear 5 lbs of makeup that makes you look like a graduate of clown college. And I don't make you spend your free time/disposable income on booze and tattoos instead of, I dunno, museum memberships and junior college tuition. Your life is shit because of the decisions you make, not because white people are a thing. Pretend you're Asian if you don't want to 'act white.' All the successful cultures value self-control, education and stable families. The unsuccessful ones refuse to acknowledge that.