I am not a virgin. I used an online dating site to find a hookup a few months ago. Some women are into bigger guys. This woman was athletic, slim, probably 125 or 130 pounds. Anyways, it was a disaster. I was on top and I could tell she did not like it. I basically covered her. I did not hear back from her again. Sex at my size is really really hard. I get out of breath after a few seconds.