Although I'm in great shape I don't consider myself particularly attractive, just average looks-wise. I generally dress casual and don't show off my body much. I don't wear makeup and I don't "do" my hair beyond making it look presentable. I even wear glasses. I've never been friendzoned and almost every male friend I make ends up trying to date me. I get hit on unexpectedly on a regular basis.   This is what happens when people develop the mentality that calories don't matter and obesity is okay.  The fewer fuckable women, the more valuable they are.