I don't understand waiting to marry someone you've been with for years if you know you want to be with them for your life. It has never made sense to be, honestly. The fat obviously wanted to upstage both you and the ex-wife, and yet failed miserably because when you're fat, no one cares what you do. The fat "friends" want the fat to fail because they're crabs, and the fit people don't care because its the size of an omnibus.