My daughter's first sleepover with a Hamily Walked my 8yo to her friend's. I knew they were different, but the mom is very obese. We talked about being busy SAHMs (stay at home mom) & food came up. Ok, it came up bc I brought cupcakes over as a hostess gift. I said I love baking (true!) & was hurrying home to try out a chicken meatball recepie bc the ones I buy at sprouts have too much sodium for me to eat (side effect of being an (recovered) alcoholic, don't start, kids, fucks up your heart) So she starts telling me how she's eating healthy, vegan, but sometimes, & she incorporates nuts instead of everything & blends them in a nutrininja & then uses that instead of (insert something) and then sometimes they aren't. Ugh, I wish I could have told her idgaf about her food habits, I tried to say I wasn't eating chicken meatballs to be a shitlady, just that they were going to be tasty with spinach & freshly grated parm. :( But she said they were being healthy & vegan & blending random shit into food. I really wish that I had said nothing & just dropped off my daughter & cupcakes :(  (Edit for the point) she's really fat, & I'm not. I showed up in shorts & a tank top, 😨 & she was a try-hard on the "we eat super vegan healthy". Except that they were going to have pizza (I fed daughter before, she hates pizza), & then they were making baked ziti. (Lol of course vegan baked ziti) Just pls stop try hard SAHMs. Come to the light, just stop with the bullshit