i mean, to be honest, men arnt as snowflaky. i mean yeah some dudes are going to feel bad about shit that they cant change. however, while i am only 5'10 i am not weak and can fight. also my value isnt solely based on my body. my ability to make money, my intelligence, my charisma all just a few examples of how i can attract a good woman. a woman while those are benefits arnt valued as much to a man that already has those. so all that being said, its not a critical that a man be tall. is it preferred? probably.