Found it -> https://voat.co/v/fatpeoplehate/comments/1168524/5791009 It started innocuous enough here (https://voat.co/v/fatpeoplehate/comments/1168524/5790337)) but she wanted to argue with people and say she didn't care about being a "true shitlord" and such until eventually she pissed off a mod.  So she's lying, it wasn't saying she has friends who are fat that got her banned, it was (essentially) saying that fat friends are more important to her than being a shitlord / shitlady that got her banned.