Normal BMI person here and this sub is often far too hateful for me. I mean I dislike HAES as much as any normal person should and I am a health and diet concious person but I often see underweight people here being glorified (like why? it's unhealthy too), healthy weight but not super toned people being mocked and while some of the stories I read on here are entertaining others come off as entirely self-absorbed and narcissistic.