Losing weight for boyfriend My BMI has been around 24 ever since I hit puberty, so I'm a bit sturdy but not overweight - I've got some chub on my stomach and hips, a basic female body on the upper end of the healthy scale. I'm generally comfortable with my body, I think I look fairly nice, and I haven't really bothered to do anything about my "comfort weight" because I'm lazy. Meh. I met my current, long-distance boyfriend several months ago online, and now we're planning to meet up sometime during autumn. I'm looking forward to it incredibly much, because both of us have very high sex drives and it's a given we'll jump in between the sheets as soon as we get a chance. He's seen nudes and videos of me and he knows exactly how I look, and I know very well he's more into the petite figure. So. I've decided to lose weight before we meet, because 1) it should be obvious he'll want me more if I look amazing in his eyes, and any fatty denying this is fooling themselves 2) again, it should be obvious the sex will be so much better if I'm completely confident about looking good and it pisses me off that some people think this is a sexist way to think. "He has to love you for who you are! Don't change yourself!" is a lazy pathetic excuse. Of course people have preferences and it's my advantage if I fit his. So, I'm trying to lose weight. Yeah, it sucks not getting my daily sweets and being hungry isn't nice, but that's how it's done. If an adult cannot bear not eating cake every day or handle mild discomfort to achieve a goal, they never really grew up. And I'm just picking the right foods and eating less of them - THAT'S LITERALLY IT. I don't understand how some people think it's so complicated and "impossible" - hell, of course it doesn't happen overnight, but you gotta be patient! ...which fatties never are because they usually lack in the mental/personality department too. Honestly this has just made me hate fat people even more because I've realised how weak they really are. Seriously.