This is so true...I also game and get irritated because femayos take over voice chat and won't stop talking so I refuse to participate on discord nowadays.  I also noticed that majority have a pattern of lying, they always have some sort of abuse story and want everyone to feel sorry for them.  As for the fat guys, they are not any better from experience.  I've been manipulated into feeling guilty if I don't give them enough attention so I just play co op games quietly and let them think I'm male.