She literally says in her instagram post that she wants the attention. Thats literally all she wants. She is basically admitting that she likes the feeling of being victimized (by her own clothing decisions). This edit took like an hour because I went into a K hole about fucking clothes (I was an art major though so overanalyzing how stuff looks is just where my brain goes naturally): To be honest Im a little bit envious of women's fashion (and maybe you can correct me on this or call me an asshole or something) because it seems like it's easy to pull off if you have a decent amount of taste. There are tons of "cute" outfits, and patterns and shit like that, you can wear tons of bright colors and accessorize or whatever, it seems simple enough to match things that dont obviously clash. I kinda understand that it's not so simple, and also probably expensive as fuck but you can also go to places like TJ Max or some other thrift shop and be more creative. See: How this lady feels like she should be validated in her choice to wear a sparkly crop top with denim shorts.  I wrote a lot more about this but I'm cutting it out for the sake of brevity -- I just am a little bit jealous of that aspect of women's fashion because it seems like you have a broader range of what looks good, or looks cute, but as a guy you could try different styles or something and maybe look good, or cool or whatever, but you might also look "immature" or like a kid, or a bum, or a loser.  Ill wear shit that I think actually looks good together but it's categorized as "casual" clothes, or people will be like "Oh I wouldnt wear that 'out'." They say not to wear graphic shirts, for instance. There are also fewer colors, but you shouldnt only be wearing one-color basics. Sorry for sperging at you so much. I took an adderall a while ago to work on stuff but I got sucked into this because Im retarded. TL;DR: Here is a screenshot of the type of variety Im talking about though. I was looking for those oversized shirts hipster girls wear that goes over the shoulder, but the difference in the amount of patterns and graphics and variety of stuff you can wear is generally proportional in that image to mens clothes, regardless of sample size. And I get that you would say thats a shitty example because those are all good looking women and the men are not, and I get why you would say the men in those images shouldnt wear those clothes - I'm just a little bit butthurt about how lame it can be sometimes. Maybe I just dont know where to look.