Fats really are ignorant... Made the mistake of opening my mouth and giving advice to a fat.  The conversation started because they said they wanted to lose weight but couldn't afford to go to the gym and I told them they didn't need a gym to lose weight.  Now they won't stop talking to me because they want to lose weight.  I really hate wasting my time but it's not in my nature to be a completely heartless bitch and tell someone to work it out for themselves.  Especially when I know how difficult it is when starting out and figuring everything out yourself.  So I told them how I lost weight and how to calorie count and gave them a lot of advice about how to slowly change your lifestyle and just make small changes to your diet like slowly cutting out soft drink and sugar and such.  I think some of it got through but she has been saying some really dumb shit and not taking on my advice towards exercise at all.  i.e. that when you're pushing 200lbs as a small woman you shouldn't be worrying about exercise until you've lost most of the excess weight, lest you injure yourself. Anyway I didn't post this to complain about having to help someone. I just wanted to share some funny, gross and deluded shit she told me.  I don't devote a lot of time talking to her because I'm just not into carrying parasites or wasting my time, but I've had a couple of conversations so far that have made me laugh and cringe. "I really like frozen pizzas but they are like 800 calories.  So I realised I can just have half now and half for another meal."  It's like... how do people not realise this on their own?  I have never downed an entire pizza in my life, I cannot fathom how anyone can just sit there and eat an entire pizza in one sitting by themselves and think "this is normal".  I mean I guess she realised that yes, this is a problem and needs to be changed, so she's progressed more than what most other fats do at least? "I just did 25 sit ups in one minute"  I called bullshit on this.  My partner is reasonably fit and he doesn't think that would even be possible for him.  That's like one every less than 3 seconds, which if you're doing a proper situp I don't even think is physically possible [EDIT: Correction - not possible for a fatty but possible for very fit humans].  Then she told me that when she was fit, she used to 65 sit ups in one minute.  Uh yeah okay, less than a second to get your entire torso off the ground and then back down?  I told her straight up that I'm pretty sure that whatever she thought was a sit up wasn't actually a sit up.  Especially when she admitted she couldn't fully sit up because of her gut.  She tried to argue with me so my partner sent me a link to give her on the difference between crunches and sit ups, and she still tried to say she was doing sit ups.  So I said that if that's what she thought she was doing I wasn't going to argue with her over it... (whilst rolling my eyes IRL).  She then complained her lower back was hurting - mind you this is all after I recommended that she start by just walking around, because exercising like that wasn't going to do shit for her and was probably going to just lead to an injury.  But fuck me right? Not like I know what I'm talking about, lol. "Jumping jacks".  So she told me when she does jumping jacks the entire house shakes.  I told her that it was probably not a good idea to be putting that kind of strain on her joints with the excess weight she had.  Especially after she complained about having terrible knees and that's why she couldn't do push ups... (my partner was like you don't even use your knees doing push ups unless you're doing those half push ups).  She then comes back after presumably doing said jumping jacks and complained that her tits hurt because she wasn't wearing a bra when doing them.  I just kind of face palmed and said yeah that's why I don't do them at all.  Big tits and jumping over and over is just a big hell no for me. "I don't think my lady bits are normal"  This was really fucking awkward and not something I really wanted to discuss with some woman I didn't know but whatever.  I'm mature enough to just say it how it is.  Long story short she's 20 something that has never had sex or even been able to stick a tampon up there.  I told her that her muscles are probably just really tight from never having had any experience and stuff and told her to see a gyno if she was really worried about it.  She said last time she went and had it checked out she had some kind of infection going on.  I told her that all of that would stop happening when she lost weight and that's why she should take it seriously.  Then she completely grossed me out by saying sometimes she doesn't wear underwear to bed just so she can air it out.  Underwear is not something I will sleep without, that's just way too gross for me.  I noped out of that conversation before it went any further lol. [EDIT: To be clear sleeping in underwear is just my personal preference.  More power to the shitlords and shitladies who sleep completely nude.  What grosses me out is a fatty with infections sleeping without underwear, sorry that I didn't make that clearer). Anyway, at least the good news is she hasn't swallowed the HAES pill and seems to genuinely be keen on helping herself.  Guess I'll see how long that lasts.  I hope she makes it, but I'm not certain that she will.