Hire a lawyer doesn't even have to mean sue the school. Just sit down and have a "friendly chat". With your lawyer present. I speak from personal (or rather, familial) experience that this works wonders. My brother has learning disabilities and so he had an Individual Education Plan, or IEP in high school. The school administration was shit at complying with this, even though and IEP is a legal contract, stemming from the Americans with Disabilities Act, and created with the school's imput! Thankfully my father was a lawyer and had no issue filing a lawsuit on more than one occasion. Thankfully, they never went to court because the school would immediate step up their game once the suit was filed. Also my parents have ended going over the teachers/principles heads to the superintendent. That worked too. (This was of course a nightmare for my family to deal with, but the school really did fuck up, repeatedly and substantially.) Honestly, sounds like your school is creating a harassing environment for you. If your family can afford it, might be worth spending $200 for a consultation with a lawyer (some lawyers do free consults though, I hear) to at least know what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior (legally) from school staff. Because they may be toeing a line here.