We have already caught on, well, us logical thinking ones who base our knowledge on experience instead of what we hear/read/see in media and from others.  That is why the marriage rate is abysmal for us guys 18-34.  We see the double standard regarding men and women, hard not to when it's all over the internet.  We're expected to marry down, go all in on marriage and kids, take on all the risk and can have it taken all away on a whim.  Feminism was never intended to provide equal rights to men and women.  It was intended for women to be able to act on their instincts while being protected by law, and not having to take any personal responsibility for their actions.