Don't give up, my wife found me on POF because I too was discouraged with people on that site. But it can happen and it's better if you make contact to the ones that interest you. Guys like that. I did. Suggest an active date i.e. roller skating or a run in a crowded park. Or may a quick first date for coffee so you can eject if things go wrong. Don't go somewhere secluded until you feel safe. Good luck sister. PS I'm pretty sure there is a block feature on that site. haven't been on it in 5 years though