My best friend has a 1 year old, and last time I saw her grandma was feeding her a lot, and she had  2ad0   a beer belly, which was hilarious, and I remarked on it. And my friend was like "Yeah not good. (Husband) doesn't like that." So this time the baby slimmed down and lost her belly and my friend was like "Thank GOD." Im sure moms would claim she's fat shaming her kiddo, and setting her up for anorexia. Instead of buying her candy I buy her books. And she chooses veggies over pretty much anything already.