[People who hate fat people] see body love as a move toward people taking charge of their lives and choosing what they want to do, no matter what the culture says.  They aren't taking charge of shit.  They're letting their impulses and urges control their actions  A person who hates seeing a happy, liberated person wishes they had the strength to do that, but they are too entrenched or “bought in” to the way things are right now to see it as a beautiful thing.  You're not fooling anyone.  If you have to constantly say you're happy to assure everyone, you aren't happy.