She’s just delusional   She’s most likely never had any friends or family or family be honest with her, so she prob genuinely thinks she’s a catch. Which makes it even more cringey bc she’s coming from a place of sincerity   Nobody has sat her down and said “look sweetie, you’re morbidly obese and if you want a patterned who is In shape in attractive, you yourself need to be at the very least bc thatd be hypocritical to demand someone overlook your physical imperfections whilst you don’t overlook theirs”