Dear Butterhuffers You want to know what men want? What they REALLY want? Look at reddit's NSFW. Look at their Amateurs, "realgirls," or anything of the sort. Or use whatever social media you like. Look up "sexy women." You won't see heifers. I keep hearing that women have "unrealistic" expectations. These are what men REALLY want women to look like. This is men, collectively choosing beautiful women independently of any media or modeling or diet agency/industry. You won't find a model runway, or billboard or magazine cover in the bunch. There won't be any touched up photos- just candid beautiful women. You don't see guys pulled over to the highway wanking it to billboards, or jerking it to touched up magazine cover women in the checkout aisle at the supermarket. There is no modeling or diet industry "brainwashing" going on.