But don't you realize that by getting dates with tall, handsome men while being thin means you're allowing the patriarchy to control you? /s Seriously, they just spew this garbage because the men that they so desperately want aren't attracted to them.  They mental gymnastics their way to a reason that doesn't hurt their obese fee-fee's. Then they all tell each other how brave they are for being so fucking disgusting that not even the lowest of the low will fuck them. It must suck to have your SMV be in the negative.