One of the reasons why fat people say we shame them One of my current housemates is fat. Goes on about cooking, how she comes from a family of cooks, and is trying to eat healthy, all the while she FRIES spinach in a pan swimming in vegetable oil. I didn't say anything, but declined her multiple offers to eat some.  I was sitting on the sofa wearing short shorts cause it's hot as fuck and we don't have air conditioning, and my fiancee was cooking wurst. He asked me how many I wanted and I told him I only wanted half of one cause I already ate breakfast after he went to the bakery. Then I told him "I hope you aren't trying to make me Molly" FIY "Molli" is a name for a fat person in German and he was all like "Nooooo! No Molli! But no diet. More sport!" (He is a keeper!) She saw him cooking the wurst and realized she had undercooked some sausages she fried yesterday, which thankfully my friend / her partner did not eat, so they were sitting in the fridge still. I told her to "boil them in water for like 10 minutes... besides, it's healthier than frying them" When our food was ready - she had originally said she wanted one - she declined and went into her bedroom. Oops. I wasn't even meaning to fatshame her.