Hey now, I read the profile of every girl I ever messaged on okc, and it turned out to be a complete waste of time.  80% of the messages I sent out were never responded too. I never sent short boring messages either. It's just the way it is. Girls get the attention, guys give it, it's a waste for a guy to invest anything in a girl he doesn't even know because there's a huge line of other guys out there already. Especially if they aren't fat. The only messages I got were from fatties messaging me first which I just ignored. It's like fishing, I could go out and spend hours trying to craft the perfect lure to catch the exact fish I want, but in the end it's the guy who throws his line out 300 times in an afternoon who catches something instead of the guy casting once with a 'unique' lure. It's also exactly why I don't bother trying, it is a complete pain in the ass and waste of time. A guy can tell whether or not he likes a girl just by looking at them, why bother learning who they are until you're actively dating them, it's a waste of fuckin time.