A sad realization You ever think that your holding out for someone better until your 30s has screwed you in dating? 30 yr old train every day work 50 hours a week for a great job. I look good awesome hair that is starting to grey at sides but there is no baldness. I have enough muscle to fatshame in a collared shirt. With all of this i still notice the looks. Its uncomfortable to go to the deli at work because i get forced into awkward conversations with deli hams. The skinniest actually asked me out. I declined and she told my manager that i harassed her. Go out to the bar. Its a total trainwreck. Friends hook me up with other fattening friends. On and on and on the cycle goes.  I even try to cull my friends group of fatties. Last bit. I dont really like dating younger. Some guys do but i find i have nothing in common with them. I just dont know at 30 everyone is either fat or taken. TLDR Dont hit 30 song shitlords and ladies. Its lonely in the sea being a proud salmon. Edit: also tall so imagine the suck salad that is with fatties.