Why are so many of these whales "poly"?   I think because they don't want to admit they aren't mature enough for a real relationship- so they just settle for being a bunch of cuck-beta last-resort cum dumps and try to convince themselves that this was a lifestyle choice that they made, rather than something that is a direct result of their disgusting bodies/ behaviors.    I think people put a LOT of weird self-importance on being poly, as if it is some "in" thing.  I've tried it, and frankly I don't have the energy for poly.  Too many bent feelings.  But I will reiterate the fact that I don't believe fats actually practice legitimate poly.