It's like, imagine you're playing poker with your friends, and you've been dealt a really shitty hand. Are you going to whine about it, and say it's their fault that your hand is shitty, and demand that they change the fucking rules of the game in your favor, just for the sake of "equality"? And if you are, what kind of friend would you be? Would your friends want to play with you often if you behaved like that?