My deathfat Mother's side of the family. Had my grandpa's funeral over christmas weekend. Here is my rant about this side of the family and why I stopped visiting them when I became an adult and able to avoid them. Haven't been there in 8 years, last time I saw them was at my brothers wedding in mid 2011. We are in our late 20s. My mom’s side of the family is an eight hour drive away. My mom is the middle child, she has two sisters Maggy and Lisa; two brothers Jordan and Brad. My mom and Jordan are typical 50 year old average fat people. The other three are deathfats, with the sisters having gastric bypasses. They had initially dropped down to maybe 250 pounds(Lost about 100)  but are now back up to at least 300, they are about 5’5. Oddly their parents were always trim and fit. Their mom sickly thin now, having lost her mind and will after her husband died.  Well the three death fats decided to have the funeral (xmas weekend) two months after being cremated. They were blaming it on the grandchildren because we all live out of state now  with two of us needing plane tickets. Which doesn’t make sense since we all have jobs that give us bereavement pay/days. In actuality they are just stupid, lazy, can’t plan for shit and afraid to tell their mom about it.  They hired a carer for 1500 a week to live with my grandma at her house a year ago. Which pisses my mom and Jordan off because they have jobs that make more than that and the three deathfats don't make that combined. They live less then 15 minutes away.The three of them wont rotate the days and take care of her and save that money which is cutting directly into their inheritance. They were going to split 750k in just their bank account alone. Now that's down to about 400k already( Other poor medical decisions as well). Which cuts into how much I might get.  Maggy and Brad still live together in their childhood house that my grandparents gave them for free. I never thought it was weird until I told my friend that. But saying it out loud it's sad, my aunt and uncle are in their late 40’’s and still live together. Never moved out of home, their parents had to move out. Brad never has had a girlfriend as far as i can remember. Maggy has a boyfriend who is dumb as fuck as well, and superfat(not deathfat yet..) and 20 years younger.  Lisa ended up marrying a deathfat at the age of 40 who is around grandpa’s age and a family friend at one point. This guy is the loudest alcoholic asshole ever, he makes sure to bring up his time in the army and working on Air Force bases as soon as he sees me. My whole family are veterans and he loves talking to us. He's hit her already before. But she had a daughter and she deals with him and therefore we all do.  Their daugher thankfully is normal.  Funeral did go smoothly. But watching them eat was just sad. All the food was out of crock-pots. And they just keep eating plate after plate. Its a continuous feeding session. And everyone brought a dessert  and best believe they finished all of them. They didn't discriminate any of the food, the vegetable and fruit platters were finished as well. I just avoided them all as much as I could and talked to my cousins and family. Sorry about writing style, I just got back and havn't slept yet. Names have been changed.