doctor said she has a very rare disease that makes her look like that doctor told her to start loving herself because there's no way she could look normal  As someone who works in healthcare, no doctor would say this. I even made a post about fatties claiming to have "rare diseases" about their obesity. Even those with Prader-Willi Syndrome, not eating so much helps with weight loss. "Loving yourself" is not and will never be part of any treatment plan.