Really, that exact issue is one of the big reasons why I'm uncomfortable identifying with either feminism or the left. Despite, in theory at least, agreeing with most of the major stated goals of both. The changes in life for a lot of women in the middle east following all the military action really drove home how complex real world situations are. When you hear interviews of women who for the first time have been able to get actual help with things like spousal abuse it's pretty hard to have the same kneejerk reactions to military action.  In general I've just been getting more and more disillusioned with anything that places a simple label on a very complex world. Aside, amusingly enough, for FPH. The one issue that most people want to make more complex than it really should be.