Exactly. YOU should be the inspiration to others, not the one who feels nervous about posting pics. Funny thing about the  kids. My sister in law has 3 kids and was what made me make the post in the first place. She's not even that fat, she just gained some weight, nothing gross, no big deal. My therapist, who is 40 with 3 kids, is fit. Maria Kang, the famous fit mom with 3 kids who got so much flack online also has 3 kids.