I don't think she acted like a victim.  Other people got up in arms on her behalf...because projection.  It's 100% a tempest in a Twitter teapot. It's a VERY boring show once the few interesting Oscars get handed out.  People were probably all daydreaming and not paying attention anymore.  At that point, everyone goes clapclapclap...when the name is called, pause, then clapclapclap when they actually reach the stage.  Awards nights generally suck balls. But people who saw themselves in her got upset on her behalf for literally nothing.