She already goes to the gym. Well something I can't pronounce but it's like jujitsu. She had been talking a fit guy in there and really liked him. But she was also talking to this other ham and really liked him. So, fit guy had been pushing for a relationship, she told him she didn't want that right now. He said ok, then she saw him with another chick which bothered her. Believe me, I told her, you can't have it both ways. He wants to be in a relationship. you didn't, he moved on.  Now she's focusing her attention on this ham dude.