I lost a baby when I was 5 1/2 months, so I know the feeling (about 7 years ago though). I wasn't fat at all and no one even knew I was pregnant. I lost it due to having kidney problems. Kidney problems. Something mostly caused by diabetes. Which is something caused by being fat. Fuck fat people. Why did I get kidney failure at such a young age? Everyone at dialysis is HUGE and has diabetes type 2.   Sorry about your loss OP. Never forget! P.S. I didn't know my kidneys were dying when I got pregnant.