Some people are just socially behind ... I guess he was a late bloomer with a lot of nerdy hobbies, that's a recepy for loneliness and desperation ones the need for romantic connection arrises, and, being socially behind means you do not know how to hit on attractive women, they can be intimidating ... or playing stupid games ... desperate fat "women" do not do that, they cannot afford to lose anybody who showed interest. So here we go, kinda cute and shy guy with a passive-aggresive cunt.  I always think about those guys as having their helping wheels on ... just long enough as to know theres nothing magical about vaginas and to move on to a big boys stuff and ditch the cringe worthy fat shit ... have some hope, nothing is black and white ... well, with exception of fats.