My wife is technically a spoonie, used to use the term until it caught like wildfire, she has POTS, (we suspect now) Fibromyalgia, EDS, and keeps getting more and more health problems due to POTS. She weighs 84 lbs on a good day. It's fucking horrible to watch someone you love go through all that shit and then on top of it, people are horrible to her about her weight.  She's Brazilian and these fat spanish bitches were making fun of her in Spanish behind us, and she just stopped, turned around and answered in Spanish "You mean this anorexic bitch that can understand you?" They said nothing and tried to laugh and giggle about it, so we walked behind them to the elevator, which they didn't even have the balls to get on. As the doors closed, I said the only spanish I know is correct, "PUTA." I don't even fucking care I will go to bat for my wife any day of the week over this stupid shit. Oh, this happened last week. This happens every week. Some fucking bitchy person decides to comment on her not realizing SHE IS ACTUALLY ILL, walking behind us, taking photos of her,. Oh and she's in pain every fucking day. She can't sleep at night. She has a heart arrhythmia that hurts her and makes her pass out when it skips. I'm so sorry for what you go through. There are people like you, I promise if I ever heard anyone being a bitch about this shit I will personally educate them even if I don't have a disorder. Same to OP-- this would never fly around me, I would fucking shame her until she cried her way out of the gym, not for her weight, but for the fact she is an ignorant hateful person.