No means no. Stop asking. I was never an O-Beast, but I was about 15 pounds overweight. Over the last couple months, I've lost over 20 pounds through strict dieting and exercise, and for the first time in years, I actually respect myself. I used to eat like shit, and I had a pretty terrible drinking and drug use problem, but I went sober cold turkey, stopped smoking and doing drugs, and now I eat 100% healthy and feel amazing. I'm actually putting on some muscle, too. But some of my friends and family members - ONLY the ones who are still fucking pigs - do something "innocent" which really annoys me. They know my history, and they know how hard I've worked to feel good, get clean and be healthy. After I've politely asked them multiple times NOT to offer me the shitty food and alcohol they shove in their faces, all of a sudden they all seem very keen on asking if I want to try their loaded cheese fries, if I want a beer, if I "want a cheeseburger since that little salad couldn't have filled me up," etc. None of them EVER did this before I got healthy. EVER. No. I got a fucking salad for a reason, and I already told you not to ask if I want an extra-butter-bacon-chocolate-fudgefuck-surprise after my meal. And no, you're not asking out of kindness, you're obviously jealous or sadistic, because you know god damn well that I will not eat the greasy ass shit cram into your stomach every day. I don't want anything out of your trough, so quit it with the, "well I just wanted to offer to be nice, teehee" bulllshit. I'm not a fat fuck like you anymore, and I don't want to be one. Poison your arteries with that Cheesecake Factory toxic waste if you want, but stop trying to tempt me with it just to provide yourself a few seconds of schadenfreude so you can hate yourself a little less for a change. It doesn't work, because unlike you, I have willpower and self-respect.  I quit booze and heroin, and you can't even quit McDonald's. So as irritating as it is when you ask me if I want a McGangBang with my salad, it's also a nice reminder of this fact. Unlike these delusional Fat Acceptance losers, I have an actual reason to be proud of myself. TL;DR - I worked hard to be healthy. I don't want a piece of your deep-fried lard. Fuck off and stop asking.