Is the worth of a relationship with a woman her vagina? And at that, do you really want that worth to be from an extreme case of the fatties? The worth would be from raising kids and doing stuff together with the family, no? Not sex, I would hope. This sex=value mindset is something that seems to start around 12 years old, but I think it should stop around the time you reach 17. I don't think you should have this mindset at all, but especially after 18. Finding worth in being useless is not very good. Finding worth in being a slut. This seems to be on both sides, so it's not like it's just women or just men. I do understand that women get shit for it harder and more often than men, from what I've seen online, but perhaps offline it is the same treatment, either way it's not specific to one or the other sex.