i dated a fat guy before i found fph. never again. bastard would rarely take a shower and would complain that i didnt share food with him (which was bullshit i offered when i cooked he just didnt want it because it had veggies in it). found my wonderful gf now and she knows how much i hate fat people. so to answer your question about fat guys dating thin/fit women, sometimes we don't know how much we really hate them until we've seen their antics firsthand.