I agree that the dating scene for a shitlord is dismal, but we can't ignore that the "men" are blowing up too. It might happen a few years later on average for men than women, but I am hoping to not be a single shitlady later in life. If I wasn't so bad at guessing their ages, I would gather evidence. Unforntunately, they all look pretty haggard to me. Maybe someone else who is better at that could confirm/deny it.