I see what you mean, effeminate men/ soy boys are main supporters of fat feminism and fat chicks. On the other hand I have found out that at least around 30% of gay men and drag queens are woke/aware of antifeminism and fat people shitlording (in Holland at least). Besides effeminate men don't really cost billions in health care spending themselves, they are often having babies with these hogbeasts though, that's the main reason I find effeminate men/ betas / soy boys annoying. If they only did it in the privacy of their own home I wouldn't really care.