As a corollary, I think this is what fat people are truly pushing for with the 'fat acceptance.' They want fat to occupy the same tier of pity/inevitability that mental illness currently has. It's not their fault they broke the chair at the restaurant. It's not their fault that they need two seats and only pay for one. It's not their fault that they are causing massive financial strain due to medical care, work accommodations, and the bitchiness that accompanies their poor self-esteem.  Burn fats.