I had a ham-mom smugly tell me at preschool drop off that she doesn't have time to work out because she's focusing on her kids. Bitch, you're telling me you can't get your ass out of bed an hour earlier and go for a run or do body weight and HIIT in your living room before the kids need to be herded? You're telling me you can't cook healthy food for everyone and your whole family is eating crap? That's why you're a butter barge. Not because you're focusing on your kids. Because if you were you'd lose weight just running around with them at the playground and eating the nutritious food you've prepared.