My Current Girlfriend Made Me Fat This is a throw away account because I'm currently a verified shitlord on fph and a pretty active member in this forum but, I know this will ban me. Possibly cause a shitstorm on here too. Errors possibly because writing on a phone. Where to start? I've always been a fitness freak, strongman lifting & biking in particular. After moving away from home and going through a break-up in a pit of desperation and loneliness, I signed up for a dating website. Unbeknownst to me, full of massive whales. All sucked until I met her. She was a little chubby but, not a ham like all the others on this site. I fell in love with her attitude, and have been dating ever since.  Her lifestyle has rubbed off on me. After work, I just go to see her instead of the gym. My diet went from 80/20 paleo to 100% whatever crap I can throw together with her. She has gained probably 45 lbs since we started dating and in the process, so have I. My muscles are so atrophied and I have accumulated at least 10% more fat. My thighs are jello, I have more than just a beer gut, & man boobs now. I have been steadily working towards being human again, even casually shitlording her. I hate seeing her stomach and flabby arms. Her ass is wide and she is lazy. She eats so much. I see her parents and think that could be us one day. My parents are both fit, hers are sedentary as fuck.  The only way I can have sex is think about shitladies, and think about how disgusted they would be in seeing us naked together.  I fell in love because she did have an awesome personality and was not super fat. I thought I could make her fit instead she made me fat. I mean, I made myself fat but, her lifestyle took over mine.  Shitladies, when you see a fit guy with a chubby girl. Just know, he is suffering. It's not so easy to "dump the fat bitch" when you built something together. My sanity is slowly coming back. I've lost 10 lbs this month (of the 50+ I put on). She maintains her fat. Everytime I wanna walk away, something about her keeps pulling me back. I can't quite figure it out because it is not her FUPA.  I get so sad when I see a thin girl alone, knowing there are guys out there that could make her happy but they are stuck in an obese relationshit. While awaiting the banhammer, do you foresee a future in her actually getting her shit together as I get my body back?