Former Co-Worker Whining on Facebook. Can't Conceive. Oh my god. Fat former co-worker. Had weight loss surgery, packed weight back on, took up smoking to try and lose again.Now she and morbidly obese boyfriend (not husband, although both are super "Christian") can't conceive. Gee, I wonder why? It's not like their hormones are all fucked up by the fat. It's not like they should try eating real food instead of Dunkin Donuts twice per day. And it's totally not like getting fitter in general would up their sex drive and lead to them trying more. These people are so fucking stupid that it's a blessing they can't conceive.