Because nothing is acceptable to someone who is bent on painting their self as a victim.  Nothing.  First they will demand recognition as a victim, then they will demand special treatment, and then that won't be good enough and they will demand better special treatment, and so on, and so on.  The way to solve this is to say no, and keep saying no. This is not about health or survival for them, this is about being a shrill demanding entitled greedy controlling manipulative piece of shit until the day they die from their gluttonous habits. How this works as a fatty is they want to be able to stuff their faces without any social consequences.  So they will lie to anyone and they will shame anyone they have to.  Even if everyone around them avoids saying anything and suppresses the urge to give in to the awkward and judgmental glances/stares, which are perfectly natural behaviors in themselves, they will still say they are oppressed and they will do it even louder than before because now they know it is working. You have to shame them.  You have to speak the truth.  You have to say no to them.  You have to use them as an example to discourage others from becoming like them.  If you don't, they will literally destroy society from within as they continue to multiply and make entire nations weaker, fatter, lazier, dumber, and less connected with reality.