Middle aged, past their prime women get off on having power over people. That's the root of feminism and where the whole 'strong, independent, etc' came from. It's not about raising someone's confidence, it's about having social and political power over someone. They are training these young men to be subservient to women and accept their awful behavior. Think about all the middle aged teachers that had no place in a classroom and got off to the power they were unjustly given. And yes, the whole rape is about power thing is all projection. Once a woman loses her youth and beauty and she has no other worth she has to force people to care about her.