And a reply Was he non-stop shoveling food into your mouth or something? I don't mean to sound insensitive, but self-control is all up to you..you know, because it's called self-control. Blaming your weight gain on your SO sounds like an easy way out versus owning up to the fact that you let yourself go when you gained back 100 lbs.  Also, I know this subreddit is a safe-space and since I am not agreeing to all of your opinions, please let the downvotes commence. Shadow banned in 3 2 1..