You made me smile, that is so sweet of you to say. Thank you. Growing up I always felt bad for my cousin, naively thinking "oh shes just big boned, she can't help it". I always made sure she was included while we were in school, taking her along to school dances (my poor dates!) even dieting with her even though I didn't need to but I didn't want her feeling left out. Well all that did was teach her that she could use me but I'm older and wiser now and my tolerance for her is close to nothing. She has ruined enough special moments in my life for me to worry much about her comfort anymore.