I am 5' 6". During the last vestiges of marriage to my awful ex, I got up to 147 lbs. I was nowhere near as fat as her but I looked and felt horrible. Lost the ex, lost the weight and have never felt better. Even got an upgrade to my BF.   :D  This chick is deep in denial. With her attitude, I doubt she'll go anywhere but further down the HAES rabbit hole.