Yep, 'smallerfat' picking on momma heifer. Classic. When it's calf gets married and pops out a kid, 90% chance the same mentality will carry on, you can tell by the subtle complaining about keeping the house clean (poor thing! that's all she has the energy left to do! /s).  Once a guy comes around, he'll be the one cleaning and cooking. Then it'll be like the calf's dad, He'll stop giving a fuck yet stick around.  Endless cycle. Enablers get to reap in victim points while deluding themselves it's everyone else who's dysfunctional.