Well, obviously the only "living with hams" stories you're going to see here are the horror stories. Why would someone post a, "I live with a hamplanet, and their eating habits are disgusting, but it's otherwise tolerable" story? I mean, I'm basically in that situation - one of my roomies being a ham - and yeah, her hammy habits are disgusting. But it's otherwise just not a story. She's got a stable job, she's not bad at money management, she does more than her share of the cleaning, the pets in the place are all hers and they are well-cared for. (She has to administer several daily medications to one - I've only ever seen her slip and forget a dose once, and she was extremely upset she forgot. And the cat's not gonna die from one missed dose.) Just generally, all the usual elements that go into a living-with-hams horror story (extreme carelessness and lack of consideration for others) isn't there. I read the fatlogic subs for years BEFORE moving in with her, so I definitely had it in my head to watch for red flags. But it's not really been an issue. Patterns exist, but you have to judge a situation individually when you're actually in it.