SO threatened by me working out So this is something I've noticed as a pattern almost. Every time i get back into working out, my SO immediately without fail has a problem with it. Originally we went to the gym, so they slowly moved the workout window further to the right, to the point it was never possible to get a full workout in when the gym was closing down in 45 minutes.  Now we get a home gym due to COVID, and they complain they want to workout with me, but they're never in the mood. I decided one day to look at body fat percentage calculators, and i got immediate calls of how i was being obsessed and focusing on myself to an unhealthy extreme.  That and this person has maybe 2 chores to do, and at this point i think thye're becoming a fat in the making, they constantly eat out, never cook at home, and have started and continue to fail at doing any and all chores. I have found that when im not working out though, this person doesnt seem to complain at all ...