Super polite super shaming Last night, my husband and I went to a cabaret. As we approached the glass double-door entrance, a huge ham and her normal-sized partner approached from the other direction.  My husband started to open the door for me, and when I saw the ham, I started to open the door for her. (We're a gay couple, polite guys open doors.) So the two of us ended up holding the double door wide open for this beast - and she needed it to get in.  It was just the most delicious moment of polite fat shaming I've ever got to participate in. After she passed in, I let my door close and let my husband hold the single door for me.