Well said. I wouldn't go on a first date on a hike, that's just asking for something bad to happen. And first dates usually involve food. The worst date I ever went on we made plans to go out for lunch, and when I got there he said he didn't feel like going out to eat. Me wanting to be cool and agreeable I said ok, and we had a few beers instead. That did NOT agree with my medication and I ended up feeling super sick, but like I said, I wanted to be cool. Of course I started puking on later that day, and he still didn't want to get food... I don't know why I didn't leave right away, younger-self cringe. And I hate beer :(