And the recipient of the compliment wasn't fat. https://oikotimesofficial.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/lindita-halimi.jpg The amusing thing is that hams still somehow manage to extract offense from the compliment. Even though Lopez implied that having a fat girl's voice can be a good thing. Their problem is not that they encounter hate or are shamed, they hate themselves and they are ashamed of themselves. Anything and everything will remind them of that.