You can't force or guilt someone into being attracted to you. It just doesn't work like that. And if you bully someone into dating you, they'll either resent you for it or end up hating themself. It's a no win situation that'll lead to a disfunctional relationship.  But fats don't care. They'll just abuse and bully whomever they date and then blame everyone and everything else when it all goes south. They don't care who they hurt so long as they get what they want out of it.