I entirely agree. I think that social services were right in taking her away - the parents were giving out about an eight year old child being aggressive!! - but what's the point in taking a child away from an enabling environment into one in care that does just the same. There's no discipline, no teaching in consequences. Is it disappointing she died at 20? Yes. But she had shit parents, shit care and fuck all will of self to make a change which makes me want to blame HAES and other false ideologies out there. Emotions have nothing to do with the fact that a 20yr old died in this way.