I don’t understand how anything can force someone to feel shame. Even comments directly trying to shame someone do not force that person to feel shame. Shame is a completely internal phenomenon. I don’t understand how they’re all over social media exclaiming how confident they are but can simultaneously be shamed.  You can only feel shame if you realize that something about you is shameful. News flash, it is. Realizing you are different from normal/acceptable society and feeling shame for being “excluded” gets to the core of human social evolution. Shame is meant to help you survive. We shouldn’t cater to shame, unless it is around things that cannot be changed or are out of the indovodual’s control. Everyone should be ashamed for allowing themselves to get to the level where you don’t fit on an amusement park ride.