Yeah, just because you're fat and no one will date you, that doesn't make you queer. It's really awful for the lesbiannnn community especially. I can't imagine what it's like outside of Los Angeles. At least here, (almost) everyone cares enough about their appearance to not show up to nightlife stuff if they are real tubbos. Don't get me started with the kink community though... good lord. Not super into it. Went to one event, will never go again. Kink should not be a synonym for disgusting and huge but it really has become that. :(