"Because everyone is so shallow and superficial, they just can't look beyond her weight to see how awesome she is!" Because dating and being physically intimate with someone has NO relation to being physically attracted to them on any level, lol. I have no doubt she wouldn't expect gay men to sleep with women or straight men to sleep with other men--you are attracted to who you are, right? It's biology--but somehow that logic will fly out the window when it comes to herself. Fatlogic. Sorry, lady. A nice person will be your friend and may even love you as a human being if you really are so amazingly wonderful as you say you are... but physically no one sane is attracted to this except maybe deviant fat fetishers who embrace anything that is unnatural or against nature and science.