Yes, thank you! I'm gay and avoid anything "community " driven because of how obscene the events tend to get. For fucks sake, why does everything have to revolve around sex anyways?! Those of us that have families and want to live normally are now the outliers, cant even be a part of the groups unless your a fucking glammed up show-pony.  The amount of fat fucks that show up are the norm in the south. But dont worry, at least gay men are still absolute shit lords and do not compromise. It makes lots of miserable slobs cry when they get essentially black listed on grindr because of their blubber