I love wearing crappy but comfortable clothes, no makeup etc. I don't wear makeup for work and I occasionally get comments from sofa bisons out in the wild about my appearance, but I've not had it from a fellow shitlady yet. Then again my resting bitch face is level epic.  Edit: I'm sorry to hear about your wedding, and the dress. Get it taken in, and rock it. Fuck everyone else, it's your day to be epic, don't let anyone ruin it.