This should be the top comment.  I am an avid gym junkie and since the birth of my daughter 2 years ago I have noticed that running and lifting and diet weren't working anymore (just figured out with my Dr that my T levels plummeted, got shots and immediately began to slim back down) . I gained weight in one area, my waist. Now I still have 28 inch thighs (lean) 20 inch calf and biceps, 48 inch chest... but there is no fucking way I would ever go out in a speedo, or even shirtless. I can see that I am awful, I can see that I shouldn't wear some things. It is a mental fucking disorder to look in the mirror and say "This Bikini looks fine on me".  That's not how human beings operate. This is insanity, and it's spreading