Well it's something important to remember when women complain about stuff like cat calls.  Most of the guys doing it are repulsive. Imagine how irritating it would be if women the size of Tess Munster regularly yelled after you with some weird sexual comments when you are just walking down the street.  Now the flip side of course is that any woman who defends fatties and says you're shallow for not dating them loses her right to complain about catcalls.  Even if she's not a fatty. It's totally ok to be grossed out when gross people hit on you, just as long as you're consistent.