I was on fph discussion and someone commented about how we were banned.  It was amazing seeing the situation grow.  Fph caused me to see how easy it was to lose weight.  I felt i had to try to lose weight before i could truly hate.  I went from near smallfat of bmi 24 to lose 25lbs down to a bmi of 20 to 21 and am not looking back.  My gym rock climbing grade increased steadily as I lost weight l, go figure.