My mind is boggled by this. I'm trying, but I can't even imagine it. I don't think I ever even told my parents about the fights I got in.  Someone at school called you fat? Well, maybe you're fat. Got called a dick? Maybe you were being a dick. These kids don't even know what introspection is. Everything is deflected onto mom and dad who then tell their precious baby that they're perfect.  Reddit had that sub - raisedByNarcissists. Maybe it's time for a new one - raisingNarcissists.