I hope to god it's a fad that will die, but it appears to be wishful thinking-- /u/Baba_OReilly felt the same way about 80s rap music (which mostly sounds like shit, if you've ever heard it), and it's still around. Cultural fatlogic will be around as long as we have a high percentage of dependapotami--notice how common fatlogic is among non-SJW fundigelical gay-hating Republicans.  It sucks because the advice FAs give people is the very advice that will make them unhappy in the dating market.  If you want the kind of man you see on the cover of romance novels, you do have to look feminine and be human-shaped and care about whether or not men find you arousing.  If you want to have a pink mohawk and look like a bald Jabba The Hutt, you are well within your rights to do so, but it's hypocritical to do so and then get mad that the opposite sex doesn't find you attractive.  Same with neckbeards.  Same with gay FAs like Caleb Luna and Judy Freespirit.