And here's not what we are looking at: ▪Taking part in fun social events ▪Being invited to go hiking/camping/anything that requires the remotest amount of physical dexterity ▪Being taken seriously about anything ▪Being comfortable on a hot day ▪Looking good in clothes ▪Not being short of breath after walking from the parking lot to the store ▪Looking good naked ▪Being desired in any way ▪Camradarie of team sports and competition ▪A happy life