It's taken me time to realize that. When I was diagnosed, I honestly believed that I had no control over my body. That one day I would wake up and be round. 15 years in, and it hasn't happened. If I ever hear someone spouting that shit to anyone else, I know it's going to be bad. I am not holding back on the fatlogic-shaming, but holy shit let me hear another one blame "cundishuns" around me- the atomic bomb has nothing on my anger at that one.