I assume in this case, the kid saw the photo by sitting in the same room as moomy or whoever while they were online. There's a lot of mature content online that isn't straight up porn. I grew up in a mostly fat family where the term HAES wasn't used cause it didn't exist yet, but the underlying attitude was still there:  "I don't take pills for any condition" (Yet.)  "Lots of thin people have illnesses" (I'm one of them; but I know being fat wouldn't help my actual conditions, and my conditions aren't ones that would go away by not being fat)  "I go to work and am active" (meaning walking to the bus stop to go to work.)  Even as a young child, I knew there was a difference between being fat and being thin or fit, and that the latter was preferable. I don't remember there being any fat shaming on shows like Sesame Street, or news like CNN that I watched every night - because watching the conflicts in the Middle East and Germany are great dinner table material - so I'm pretty sure I didn't get it from the media. Though Ham is considered Haram...