we're going to just have to agree to disagree about person 1. I had a post edit with more detail about why I included the second individual, but somehow I fucked that up.  That example was in response to a thread or post in the recent weeks about lipidema.  I never meant to claim that anyone made fun of her because to my knowledge no one here did such a thing. If I wanted to leave FPH, I would.  I never made any comment about leaving.  If you like a group of people, you don't just leave because they did something once or twice that pisses you off.  You say something and try to get some feedback like I did. Even though we do not agree, I appreciate your response.