Yep, that's the reason why the rest of the family reacted the way they did to the news. I'm sure the autopsy results said it was "heart disease" but I'm also sure that even if the cause of said disease was listed that it was ignored or conveniently overlooked. Before the cause was even known everyone else in the family actually knew what the real causes were. One of my siblings suggested that the death certificate should read "Partied too hard one last time". I think that's what has been bugging me the most about it. I get treated like I am a bitch (because at first I refused to even go to the visitation but caved because of bullshit) when I am trying to be a responsible person and do the right things and all of a sudden you can't even state a well known fact about the deceased because that makes you mean. But yeah, I'm the bitch. I'm sorry maybe this post was just me needing to vent. I'm not really sure any reaction other than walking away would work. It's just depressing. My family is so fucked up.