Anybody Else Notice a Pattern? I saw another "death notice" for an FA last week (not a major one). Her last Facebook post was over a year ago, then she went silent, and then we get a brief announcement that she died. That's it. But has anybody else noticed the invariable pattern that fats seem to take as their lives pan out? Teens / 20s: "Look at me! I'm Healthy! Nothing wrong here, wheeee!" (Posts "cute" pics to Instagram). Early 30s: "Maybe I have a few minor issues, but they aren't related to my weight! I'm still doing great!" Late 30s / 40s: "Health is a construct! Nobody is obligated to be healthy! I deserve dignity even if I'm sick!" 40s / (maybe 50s): "Hey, anybody know a doctor willing to do a bypass/knee replacement/etc. on a fat person (but it's not related to my size!)" 50s: generally fade from public view or social media 50s / 60s: "WILMA WHALE passed unexpectedly. She shall be missed." Just seems to be something that keeps happening.