That's awful :( As a housewife it is one of your primary responsibilities to make sure your family has a healthy diet. I got married very young and I didn't know how to cook when my husband and I moved in together so we ate a lot of take outs and ready made meals, we both gained weight that year and I was horrified... So I started trying out different recipes and just putting time and effort into cooking and learning about nutrition. Been together for 12 years now and he loves my cooking and I always make sure to prepare healthy, balanced meals so that we both live long and healthy lives. In my opinion feeding your loved ones junk = not loving them.