You don't understand, shitlord!  Wanting men to have a high-T, muscular physique is a way more obtainable, realistic beauty standard than wanting women to have low muscle mass but a BMI below 25.  Getting lots of muscle takes no hard work at all, being thin with low muscle mass means you have to starve yourself!  I don't think anyone expects women to wear corsets.  Exactly.   Or even heels, really.  Plus - do these fatties think men enjoy wearing jackets, neckties, and dress shoes? No, but you do it because you want to look respectable.  Clearly, wearing a tie to job interviews means I'm perpetuating body-shaming standards! The kicker is that you don't have to like uncomfortable clothes to be thin--or to look professional and dress appropriately.  I have sensitive skin, so I can't wear anything itchy such as rough polyester or denim.  For collared shirts, I buy NordicTrack polos because they're soft and let my skin breathe--I don't say "fuck it" and wear T-shirts when my job specifically requires that I dress a certain way.  Temple Grandin has sensory issues, doesn't mean she dresses like a slob--she just wears very formal Western shirts to formal events instead of wearing typical clothing.    Does stress and being shamed all her life mean Temple Grandin stuffs her face and lets herself get obese because her life was hard as an autistic woman with dyscalculia?  Clearly, there's a categorical difference between "you have to have a healthy BMI" and "you have to wear certain clothes."