I posted it, and called it coddling because the author is telling women it's okay to gain weight after pregnancy in a very duplicitous manner. She's saying to her readers, look at all the good things you've gained, and ignore all the bad things you've gained. If this article were just about all the joys of motherhood, and weren't an intentionally surreptitious attempt to tell fat women it's okay, by using the word "gain" as a double entendre, then you'd be right.  Idk if you read to the last line, but the fuckery is most certainly about.