Not to mention that usually if you have a large bone structure you will look big and boney. People get concerned sometimes because you can see every rib and every back bone on me when I'm at a bmi of 20-21. My sister who's much more petite in structure probably has a bmi of 18-19 and while she looks smaller she never looks nearly as boney as I do. Big frame = fat and squishy doesn't compute.