Rant about Fat parents I met family for brunch yesterday. My brother in law is fat, actually class 2 obese maybe class 3. His wife is class 1 or 2 obese. They have been fat their entire lives. Both are from families of humans so there is no reason for them to be so massive, but that is not my rant. See, these porkers have 2 kids, one is 5 the other is 2. So we are at a fancy brunch spot and fat mom lets the 2 year old order french fries - sure she "makes" him get a side of fresh fruit and one fried egg. The 5 year old gets a plate of pancakes and bacon. Of course the 2 year old only eats the fries, he plays with the egg but never actually eats any of it and he refuses the fruit because it is not sweet enough! Then she gets both kids a lemon aid - aka sugar water. The 5 year old eats all the pancakes and they were fucking huge white flour and sugar disks covered in butter and syrup….I was just so pissed. No child needs that much garbage and this was a meal at 10am!  I have RA - I've posted before about being disabled… I've recently had to register as disabled because my hands do not work well and I'm just sick all the time. Yet, after Brunch I took the kids to the park and ran around with them…I threw them in the air and carried them on my shoulders and climbed the monkey bars…you know all the normal stuff humans do with little ones. At one point I had one kid on my shoulders and one in my arms running around with both. Today I'm so tired but it was worth it. Of course both parents - both of them are over a decade younger than I am - just sat on the park bench watching and commenting how "strong" and "healthy" I am; they said I have so much energy! Fuck them! I am not healthy but I'm not a fucking cow who feeds her offspring sugar and oil at 10AM!  Thanks for letting me rant. Please, for the love of god, do not let FPH die. I need this sub so very much. I need to know that there are people out there who understand if you let a fucking 2 year old decide what they want to eat of course they will pick french fries for breakfast!  Oh yes, of course, both parents had garbage meals and cleaned their plates. And the kicker was the fact that after the kids played with the egg and fruit they never intended to eat fat mom offers it to me because she did not think I ordered enough food for myself! I had plenty of food and why the fuck would I eat shit you kids played with - sure we are related…. but honestly, who in their right minds offers you what you just saw their kids play with? WTF is it with fat people and food! Not one of us is in any danger of going hungry, not one of us has ever been in danger of going hungry but yea, sure I want a fried egg your kids just poked with their fingers or fruit your kid pick up and licked and then put back because it was not covered in sugar! / End rant.