Shitlording the family - Is there a line to draw? I was talking to my sister on Skype last night. She lives up north with her boyfriend now, and they have a kid together. The kid is a year old and chubby. I don't know if that's normal; both of my kids have not been chubby like he is. Everyone comments on the Facebook pictures about how cute it is, so I just let that go. People can go batshit crazy when you criticize their kids. Anyway, I told my sister she has put on weight. It was quite literally, "You've put on some weight." She gave me this look. You know the look. It's like she could not believe I just said that. Then it was about a minute of jokes about how I'm a dick. Her boyfriend was asleep on the couch at that time, just right next to her. Later in the conversation, the boyfriend woke up. He doesn't say much. My sister brought up me being a dick again, telling her she's put on weight, and I said something like, "Well, you have." That look again. The boyfriend is smiling. She hangs up on me.