Self love comes from caring for yourself and your body, not from a website getting high five'd from a bunch of other obese, lazy fat fucks trying to convince themselves they're "worthy". You're only as worthy as you make yourself. "The fat, genderless body I find myself in" YEP, that just happens sometimes. (When you sit in front of a computer 19 hours a day shoveling ice cream and chips in your hole whining about how "unfair" life is!) Life is unfair. For most people it's hard and you have to work for what you want. Get out of the bed, quit taking selfies and jog around the block. Can't jog? WALK! Can't walk, CRAWL! It will get easier! Just gonna get fatter laying in bed feeling sorry for yourself.