Not on the time scale of your life:  physical beauty: largely genetically determined, with some help from healthy living and good sense of style you can improve it and keep it going longer slim: diet and exercise, be physically active good in bed: it's a skill, and like any skill, you need to practice and apply yourself young: obviously we all get old  As usual, this message appeals to fats and lazy people, because it conflates unrelated concepts, and puts them on an equivalency, an equal footing. Like comparing "fat discrimination" to real discrimination, for example, or their hunger or self-inflicted 1st world suffering to real world problems.