Oh, poor little you. So tell me, who are all these loose women fucking? Each other? Sounds like they're not having a problem meeting like-minded men. I find it hard to believe there is this disproportionate mass of men looking for a long term relationship running into a shortage of women looking for same. Just face it, you're a socially awkward nerd who can't talk to women like a normal human being, or are way overestimating your desirability and attractiveness. Probably both.