Fatshaming with Christmas gifts My sister in law reached mini moon status after her first child. Baby is now 10 months and she's even fatter. I had all the presents wrapped and ready to go to our family gift exchange when I had an idea.  I bought a pretty sweater dress in L earlier because I thought the oversized look would be cute and cozy. It wasn't. I looked like a kid playing dress up, the shoulder seams were hanging where short sleeves usually end, the dress went past ne knees at an awkward length and it just was all wrong. On an impulse I gifted it to her instead of returning it. I want her to feel the shame of not being able to even squeeze into a large knit dress that has a lot of stretch. Everyone tonight said how pretty it was and she said she loved it. And the best part..my mother in law suggested she wear it to lunch the day after Christmas when we get together again. Cannot wait to hear her excuse and see her dead eyes!