I think the word you are looking for is Beta. Beta's are creepy because they force themselves into the picture and, they don't take no for an answer. Beta's are the problem as shitlords most of us fall under Alpha's we aren't afraid to speak our mind or to strive for goals that seem unobtainable. There is a big difference between creepily huffing and, puffing up to a member of the opposite sex and, telling them why you are the ideal romantic interest and, casually letting the chips fall where they may. Shitlords aren't afraid of the consequences for the most part so I feel as a whole we take the go big or go home route as in you know what that redhead at the bar may shoot me down or we could end up fucking like rabbits let's see where this goes and, if we are shot down we can gracefully dismiss ourselves from the situation without obsessing or making a big deal of it.