Women naturally tend to seek out men who are more successful than they are.  There are good evolutionary reasons for this.  They also tend to expect special treatment from men because while women are important for the reproduction of the species, they tend to lack several attributes that would have led males to succeed in harsh natural conditions, which would mean that women would've needed to rely more heavily on men than men would've need to rely on women. The combination of these things in addition to their own frustration due to their weight making them unattractive is what I believe makes female hams much more vocal and entitled than men, often choosing instead to blame men and place all of the responsibility on them for not finding them attractive.  It's probably what feels natural to them.  It sure as hell isn't an excuse by any stretch.  As civilized human beings, we ought to have enough self awareness and personal responsibility to avoid such behaviors.  As well all know, hams are severely lacking in those things. Men aren't blameless either.  Many men enable women because we also tend to naturally want to support and protect women, and we ought to also have the self awareness and responsibility to avoid that behavior, especially in an era where we are all supposed to be equal.