No one is obligated to find anyone attractive.  Because girls who looked like me as a little girl are dieting. DIETING. There are 10 year olds eating fucking salads and lean protein  You mean there are 10 year olds responsible enough to care for their own health and well being by eating healthy? It's not a diet, it's a lifestyle, just because you gave up on yourself and have less willpower and sense of responsibility than a 10 year old doesn't mean you should put said 10 year old down.  Because I am an amazing fucking person, not in spite of my weight and gender but BECAUSE OF IT  Typing things in all caps doesn't make it true or make it an epiphany. You know what amazing people don't do? Demand people like them and talk about how amazing they are. Only fat tumblrinas who've given up on themselves talk like that in an effort to convince themselves that they aren't the worthless self-entitled privileged middle class shit heads they are.  Because you, as a cis gendered man are oppressive by existence alone...and this must be atoned for dating and admiring people who don't fit into your idealized conception of beauty.  No.  Because fuck you.  You wish.  Because attraction is more than just physical.  Why should anyone settle for your deluded lardass, whom I'm assuming will just put down whatever partner they have, when there is a human version of you who is better in every way? Yes attraction is more than just physical, but it is also a large part of it as well. From this post alone I can tell you are neither physically attractive nor have a "good personality" which I'm sure you say all the "skinny bitches" don't have.  Because finding an opinionated genderless or genderqueer superfat genius intimidating is fucking triggering.  No. I've been shot at and mortared. You being uncomfortable with facing the truth is not the same as those with actual triggers, like oh I don't know, loud explosions for someone blown up by an I.E.D. or the look of something that reminds a rape victim of their unfortunate experience.