Exactly. Being fat is only "okay" in the sense that, legally, bodily autonomy means no one can force you NOT to be fat, and you're not gonna go to jail for the extra adipose tissue. But it's still impacting those around you in negative ways, even if you refuse to admit it. You are essentially breaking social contract, and need to come to terms with that instead of saying "waaaah I'm fat and no one likes me, you all should love me even though I'm an entitled sack of shit who smells and takes up more space than I am allotted!"