One of the hilarious things about butter golems thinking they should date bodybuilders is that bulking and cutting cycles prove everything they say is wrong.  You eat more than you really need when bulking because putting on muscle is really really hard, while losing fat is very easy.  So you don't care if you gain some fat as long as muscle gains are maximized. According to fatties though, bodybuilders should have a negative metabolism from having starved themselves so many times. Also amusing is how many massively obese people think it's all muscle. I know precisely ONE guy who is obese due to muscle mass and you can tell just by looking at him, dude is ridiculous and deadlifts over 600 pounds.