"But then, she has to say it because no one else will, if I know my fellow Brits well, she is most likely ignored at parties, laughed at in the street and guys don't glance twice at her. She is a dickhead" Yup, agreed. I reckon it's also told that it doesn't matter if it brings it up. That someone will see it for who it really is. It's likely surrounded by REE-ing crabs in the same bucket of mediocrity and resigned to their fate whilst moaning at how unfair life is. Pathetic.