Spouse, shitlording, and body positivity My spouse and I had a conversation about the #bodypositivity fad that has taken hold in the world. I feel like she is latching onto the portion for people with physical deformities, disabilities, scars, ect.  However, I am concerned that she will be okay with fats. (She has gotten a little chunky and wants to drop the excess, just had a kid ect).      Any suggestions on making her feel comfortable about her body (marks and loose skin, ect) while still trying to keep a fat nonacceptance stance?  Also, she tried to bring up the point of medical conditions causing someone to be fat. I tried to explain that weight gain is not directly caused by the vast majority of conditions that it is attributed to. Any ideas on an angle I can use the next time we have this debate? Thanks guys, I hope that my kids will grow up loving their healthy and fit bodies and that they understand the true meaning of #bodypositivity