Yeah, and "you're not fat, you're beautiful" is a fun one. I was in group with a chick with a similar story who hated compliments, shit like "you're beautiful" triggered this awful kind of self-talk because she associated words like beautiful, healthy, strong etc with being fat, to the point that she had a meltdown early on because the group leader congratulated us on taking our first steps to getting healthy by attending (don't remember the actual words, but it was something like that). As far as I know she doesn't talk to her family all that much, assuming she's not relapsed since I knew her. It's basically fucking abuse at that point imo.