Gay Privilege is having a built in land whale filter.... It's a running "issue" that gay men hold a higher standard for appearances.... aka we're more shallow than most other sub-groups of people.  Some meant bitch and moan about there being a need to be more inclusive, I on the other hand enjoy the stigma.   I can't tell you how nice it is to hear: "Ugh, swim suit season, I'm not eating that" "Can we do a late happy hour, I gotta get to the gym" "Can I have a vodka cranberry, no cranberry, CALORIES EW!" "We can't go there for brunch, they don't do egg whites" "You sure we can't dance tonight? My abs look better after dancing" etc.... We are continuously watching each others weight, and helping each other stay ... active :P