I don't know about other people, but I intend on raising my son as a shitlord. My husband and I generally don't buy soft drinks, chips, cookies, or other processed snacks, and we're not gonna start just because we have a kid. And I won't be using food as a reward, or a cure for boredom. "Mom, I'm hungry." "Good for you. Dinner's in half an hour. Go drink a glass of water and then set the table." Or, after dinner, "mom I'm still hungry." "OK you can have seconds, or you can have a piece of fruit for dessert." I also intend on teaching my son about nutrition, starting from a young age. I'll let him know that there are healthy foods and not healthy foods, and that you will get fat if you eat too many unhealthy foods. When he's older I'll teach him about calories and macros, and I'll also teach him how to cook. I kind of worry what his dating prospects will be like in 15-18 years if they're already so awful now, but I hope he'll be able to find a nice shitlady (or shitlord) who will make him happy