If you're hourglass shaped, then 7 for all mankind is your new best friend.  Amazon has them on sale a lot. I also had luck with james jeans. Citizens of humanity, despite the insane price, are the holy grail of fit for me. Designer brands cater to one very specific shape, if you have a 10 inch difference between waist and hip, these are for that specifically. Only annoying thing is they come super long because you're supposed to hem them to your exact height, so that's a pain in the ass but not the end of the world.  If you're shaped differently you can look up what brands cater to that, you just need to find the appropriate brand for your body measurements. I think it took me like 20 try-on sessions over a few months (mostly online with free returns) to find 3 brands.