The truth is that this is how it really works...  It's just like women who stick a belt right under their breasts and pretend they have a waist... that's not where waists go, they're just shapeless blobs because of the excess fat. You can't really pick a style that's going to make you look like normal humans look, nothing can change your shape, some tricks can mask it a little, but there's no hiding that much extra fat.