Right? Do you remember being a kid that age? Seeing weird shit like that can really fuck with you.  I never saw anything like that but I did see my great grandfather that didn't have legs (he wasn't fat we were all just weak) fall out of bed and none of us (great grandma, grandma, mom, and me 11 years old)  could pick him up so we had to call the emergency services.  My grandma just kept talking about how hot the EMS dudes were and trying to flirt with them while my great grandfather who lost his legs in a war was right there helpless and probably embarressed. It was sad and shameful. He didn't talk a lot at that age but I think about it now and it was really sad.