"...we are your nurses, your bank clerks, your classmates, etc. ..."   I've said this too in a thread once. They simply ignore that and insist we are very young, unemployed, stupid and have mental issues. I am a working professional and I shitlord around with my colleagues. Granted, they don't go post albums like I do, but they definitely don't disagree with the fact being a fat fuck is off-putting and the person's own fault.