Oh she's in control.  She's controlling herself right off a cliff.  She chooses to have every meal and every snack. The worst part is that you can't confront her.  Not only will she lie to you, but she will sell that shit hard.  She'll be emotional.  I've seen it too many times.  She'll sell it so hard that she'll be convincing herself while she's trying to convince you.  And she'll make herself the victim.