I think people have been told far too often that they are indeed special snowflakes, and they don't realize that reality is what it is. They can claim to be a size 2 when they're a size 24, I can claim to be an expert in nuclear reactors cause I saw that movie about a submarine this one time... reality wins though and both of those things are lies. They need to understand that they are who they are and they can change, it or act like it, but they won't fool the world, they'll only fool themselves and look like idiots in the process.