It's because we teach people that everyone is absolutely entirely equal and nobody is better than anyone else, which is flat out ridiculous.  Instead of giving the tub-o-lard a participation trophy, we teach it train harder?   Instead of giving the butter huffer reassurance that they're fine as is, we tell them to unfuck themselves? Nah. We're starting a whole new generation of kids getting FUCKED FOR LIFE because nobody wanted to teach them the harsh realities that exist outside of their feelings.