Told her, she's not quite there yet. One step at a time. She's come a long way from someone who used to be horrified at my public shitlording when we were out together. Ironically, she's always had a very low BMI, and was teased mercilessly about it in HS. Weight is was a sensitive subject for her. But you can only deal with buttergolems so long before their baseline shitty personalities make even the kindest, most forgiving human go full fatdeath.