those who are fit are viewed as gold dust   Oh absolutely, I feel you. I'm a fit woman and I have tons of fat, disgusting men trying to hit on me everywhere I go, they're like oh, there's a woman in shape, she must want to go dig through my folds to suck my cock. It's usually enough to just say "Um, you're not my type" while looking them up and down. It's a shame that you can't say more because those spaces are meant to be so positive.  And yeah fatties in bondage is hilarious, it just bends into their fat so much and overflows, sometimes the rope disappears.