I understand that success is different for each people. Like for someone who's been injured and in a coma, taking a few steps is a success. And for an anorexic to feel comfortable eating is a success. And for a pro-athlete it's a success to break their time/record and for a kid it's a success to have peed in the potty and not in their pants. But fats just want to stay fat and want everyone else to cheer them on. "Yay I'm fat! I'm meant to be fat! Cheer me on! I love my body I'm strong!" Hell no I'm not gonna cheer you on during your journey to "self-love" and whatever the fuck that means.