At least it's just looking.  I've had fat women grab my arms and complement me. Not at the gym, but in social settigns. Don't know why they think that's appropriate. Feels so gross. They are always clammy. They also seems shocked when I turn them down. I don't eat right and workout to go home with farm animals. If I can't find a shitlady, I'd rather go home alone. No matter how drunk I am.