I will never back down from a perfect setup; I'll execute it with total assertion. Yet to have anyone say anything besides what boils down to, "shit, ya got me." If they do get mad, I simply point that fact out: "how do you expect me to see a lay-up like that, and not slap it out your hand? Don't hate the player." I've done, pretty much, exactly this... dozens ... hundreds? I dunno, a lot of times and no one is pussy enough to cry bigotry. Maybe OP just has to work on his delivery.