Whenever I hear someone talk about their "relationship" with food, I think of the guy who's in a romantic relationship with his car: http://www.tlc.com/tv-shows/my-strange-addiction/videos/my-car-is-my-lover/ Unsurprisingly, he's a fat fuck too. On a side note:  the rest of us are working hard to stay fit  It's not even that hard. I work out 5 days a week. It's what I do. It's part of my life. And guess what? It's not any harder than, say, brushing my teeth. It's just something that's part of my daily routine.