I am absolutely looking to subtly shame her, thank you so much. Some of my friends and I are preparing ourselves to play tennis regularly once the weather gets warmer and I just joined a ballet class. I was actually trying to avoid going to class in my tennis skirt and polo (planning to go right after classes) since it seemed pretentious at first but little details like that will probably make her think about her own choices for a minute. While I would love for her to get sick of my "twig lifestyle" a part of me wants her to stick around and see me with my ballet bag, to see me rush out of class to go jogging before work, to see me have my lunch of fruits with organic peanut butter and flax seeds (and talk about how that's my treat for the week). I want her to see someone who takes care of themselves and for her to abolish the notion that diet and exercise is depressing. I want her to see how happy I am having the lifestyle a human should be having so she can realize how badly she fucked up hers.