I get that the same accusation can and has been levled against us. But I think the main point these days is that they want to pat each other on the back and feel good about themselves just for existing. They want to set the standards very low, and shake their heads at crazy fat people stuff while still thinking of them as the baseline for comparison. So in contrast, their doing anything normal just elevates them to superstar status in their own mind.  And that's really the difference between them and us. We recognize that fat people aren't normal, there's something wrong with them. And not being fat isn't laudable, it's what's expected of any rational adult human being.