Almost exactly this. At 5'6 and 145 lbs. everyone was like, "You're so curvy, DO NOT lose any weight omg!!11!" When I was at 100 lbs. people just pretty much ignored me (except men- I got a lot more attention then, even though I didn't have MUH CURVES- hmmm!) When I gained 40 lbs. back people were like, "Oh you look so HEALTHY now! You look much more HAPPY!" Even though I most certainly fucking was not. Those comments are what actually caused me to stop eating again. Not because I want to look unhealthy, but I know the positive comments are coming from a very insincere place.