My neighbor's wife did the same thing. She went from attractive and confident to total ham planet. He left her after hanging on until the kids were school aged. Surprise, surprise, once she was on the market no one wanted her and he was swimming in milf pussy. She then went ahead and dropped enough weight to get to small fat. She continually bashed her ex-husband for not being attracted to her even though she knew deep down, no one wanted her at ham planet size or else she wouldn't have needed to lose more than half her body weight to get a date.