Personally when I was doing the online dating, if I came across a guy that looked good and I read a profile with him just talking about fitness and going on hikes and rambling on about health, that came across as slightly intimidating. I like those things, but in moderation. I don't want the only conversations in a relationship to be about how much you lift. When I read that I think of someone who lives, eats, and breathes gym with no time to think about anyone else.  Was that actually how they were IRL, or was it just an attempt to repel fats?