Shit, I'm 28 and I had an abusive childhood and even I've gotten through the majority of it by now, and I ended up with a restraining order only 4 years ago. I was fighting back against all the shit  when I was in my teens. Yeah, it's hard but boo hoo, I have no sympathy for someone who keeps whining about it without actually doing anything. Fat people like this pos just have no drive to better themselves so they become a burden on everyone around them instead of trying to deal with the obvious problem. Pathetic.