For sure. I'm in a very similar boat. I have a good job and an okay life with nothing really to complain about, but I'm very alone and it bothers me more and more now than I'm 28 and pushing 29. Are you in a similar position where you are trapped in debt and so it sort of feels like a holding pattern? I know that owning my house is a good long term decision, but I'm losing have lost years in stagnation because I feel like I'm at work all the time and I don't have the money or time for anything else. It bothers me because I almost don't know what I will do when I have the money and freedom post-debt. Is this all life is? You repay the banks and then wonder where the fuck your 20s and 30s went?