Anyway, she's not wrong for dumping that guy. He turned into a lazy dishonest child.  In light of various stories on this sub, I feel like "if they get called shallow, they're in the right and the other people are in the wrong" should be a rule of thumb.  There's nothing wrong with sexual preferences--if I stay with someone my cock can't get hard to, it's not romance, it's a platonic friendship--and it's not like people who say "you're shallow!" have good personalities.