I know a couple of women who, though not fat or smokers, lost their looks unusually young and found they missed the catcalls and so on, and one of them says she gets rose tinted glasses about being groped sometimes (she went from being a stunner at 16 to what, before fatties, would have been well below average for her age by 22). I suppose it is a question of the grass always being greener. Attractive women get so much aggressive sexual attention that it is at best annoying (and potentially far worse), whereas most men and ugly women get so little that it is a pleasant change when and if it happens.