My boyfriend isn't a shitlord and I don't know what to do anymore Okay, let me clarify a bit. Physically, he's a shitlord. He's 180cm and around 73kgs (5'9 - 160lbs).  But, mentally, he is not a shitlord. I can't regale any fat tale I experience or see online without feeling regret. I used to send him pictures of some lardwhale I'd see and he'd laugh or he'd often joke with me that he's a "fat sympathizer", a word he learned from me after I kept calling him one. But now he just ignores me or gets mad because it's "all I talk about". Sorry, I hate fat people and they are everywhere, sue me. Also, it's not all I talk about. He often asks me why I hate fat people so much and doesn't seem to understand how much of a detriment to society they are. He doesn't support them, but he doesn't hate them either. I can only silently laugh at fatties when he's around. He's never told me to close the site or anything but he has acted pretty negatively towards me lately, so maybe he's just getting tired of me. I may end up taking a break from FPH and shitlording in general and see if anything changes.  None of my friends are shitlords either. They aren't fat, they're just not shitlords. If they were to know about my shitlord alter ego they wouldn't exactly be excited. I'm okay with losing friends that aren't shitlords, but that would mean I'd lose literally all of my friends.  I guess I'm just a little bit lonely. Sorry for this rant.  Edit: I need to clarify a few things. 1) I'm not obsessed with hating on fat people! It hasn't taken over my life and is now ruining my relationship. I just wish I had at least one person to shitlord with, and it would be nice if it was my sexy boyfriend.  2) He doesn't believe in fat logic and doesn't think that fat people are not a problem in society, he just doesn't think about them that much. He eats very healthy and works out everyday, he's the healthiest person I've ever associated with so if anything he's more of a shitlord than me since I didn't live this lifestyle until I started living with him.  3) I know I need new friends. I just want shitlord friends to do stuff like hiking, running, camping, etc., with.