It must be infuriating to be judged on your parental skills for doing things for yourself (I don't have children so I don't have to deal with this).  I can only assume fats act like this so when you point out their lack of self-care they can claim "HURR DURR I DONT HAVE TIME FOR THAT I SPEND ALL MY TIME TAKING CARE OF MUH KIDS munch munch MUH KIDS COME FIRST!!" Yeah as if taking 1 hour out of the day for yourself = neglecting your children.    They are so retarded though that their opinions about what we do should matter to us about as much as the opinions of an amoeba.  Other humans know you're doing the right thing.  The opinions of non-humans don't matter.