Food or Husband? It should be easy!!!!  I probably bring it up far too often on here. But as the cancer progressed my wife pretty much went through torture just so we could spend more time together. The impact on my own health was less severe, but not exactly easy either. And it wasn't something we needed to think about. We were married. We were the most important thing in the world for each other. It was obvious that we'd fight for each other against anything no matter what we were up against.  The idea of just throwing a spouse away for a sugar high is gross beyond words. Even more so with a kid involved too!