Rule #1 about approaching a confrontational woman, who's analyzing your transcripts: stand your ground, don't apologize for your opinion, diffuse tension with humour. This is a type of shit-test, and they will resent you for having no backbone. "That's no excuse to shit on our relationship in public" "When did I do that? Was that you, dating that guy? You cheating on me, and this is how you tell me? How could you?!" "Don't be stupid." "Well, when in Rome." "that doesn't mean I think it's okay for you to run your mouth like that and tell peopel ou  7ffa  r relationship has the depth of a middle school kid's first crush." "I wouldn't date a fat chick. I don't care how 'deep' our relationship is; if you're gonna let yourself go, I'm gonna move on. I'm not going to lie about that to you or anyone else. Would you like for me to start lying to you?" You can see where this is going. Of course, the best thing to do would be not to date women like this in the first place.