Some of them have so much weight that it would take months or even years. Yeah the fact that they could solve their own problems but refuse to makes it even more infuriating. "I literally cant lose the weight muh thyroid muh binge eating." I never understood why they bring up binge eating as if it makes it ok. No, if you have a  7000  n eating disorder, you need to deal with that. I mean, its not really an eating disorder, but if they want to treat it like that it still doesnt excuse doing nothing about it. If you think you have an eating disorder you wanna get that in check so you dont teach your children bad habits. Ik its not ideal, but have you looked into adoption?