I love reading r/relationships for the drama (sue me bruh I don't have cable tv), and this is my biggest rage, like your partner is fucking shit just leave! I'm amazed at the men and women on there like "oh my partner beats me, tells me im a stupid retarded slag, steals my money, doesn't work, I pay all the bills, they kick my cat, slept with my sister/brother/daddyuncle, but I love them so much how can we work through this!?"