She's bragging about how desirable she is, but all she's attracting are cheating husbands looking for an easy lay. These men will tell her anything, how smart she is, how beautiful she is, how funny she is, how they'd totally marry her, but, oh well, already married, so sorry, don't call me I'll call you. How can she not see the obvious signs? If you can't attract a partner that has qualities desirable to you, that just means you don't have enough attractive qualities yourself. You're not scaring away quality men with your intelligence.