Fatty breakdown, blames others and race (long rant) Background: I've worked with this girl (Biggy) for years, she has pictures up of her when she was in HS, pretty, in shape blonde, is now twice that size, mobility problems, always complaining about being single, early 30s but looks older. Our office is mostly non-white and most of the girls around her age have a guy. I am blonde and date every race but recently since I've known her just Hispanic and Asian. I'm friends with a black guy in the office since college and I know he only likes white or light girls. We have done sports and bodybuilding forever and we talk about it a lot because we are the only guys in the office that care about it and are terrified of becoming like everyone else. There is a blonde guy in the building, also athletic I'm friendly with primarily because Biggy wouldn't leave him alone so he started having conversations with me to avoid her (told me the beast wouldn't leave him alone). Biggy has asked me countless times about losing weight but stops anytime I mention calories:)  Anyway, Biggy says to me, "What the hell is with guys not dating white girls?!" I said I don't think that's the case at all and she said you don't and I said I've dated every race and plenty of white girls.  Then she days she is the only single one in the office and all the girls have men and I shrugged. Then she mentions the other two guys and I said the black guy prefers white girls, and the blonde guy only likes light eyed white girls. At this point I'm thinking the 3 of us are the only fit guys around and I know we all like fit girls and although I really want to point out the obvious, its just not worth it. Anyway, she gets kinda watery eyed and says more of the same crap. 15 minutes later she comes up and asks about losing weight and working out. I tell her calories in calories out for the hundreth time and she makes some lame excuse about eating healthy. I say it doesn't matter, too many calories and everyone gains weight and tune her out when she says she hardly eats. Then she starts talking about not having time to go to the gym and I've had it. I say, "You don't need to go to the gym to lose weight. 90% of weight loss is the amout of calories you consume. Anyone will lose weight if they limit their calories sufficiently." She teared up again and walked away like I had slapped her or something. I just don't see how anyone can be that delusional.