I agree with this for the most part.  In Texas male fatties are so freaking common and they all take on the attitude OP described and you followed up on. "I'm a big strong guy, I need to eat more because I'm all manly, etc etc etc, blah blah blah", as they inhale deep-fried shit, guzzle beer and wheeze through a shitfit about whatever game is on (because they used to play football in high school, and you call that a block damnit!). They are genuinely delusional way past the point of your average tumblr-fat-activist in terms of denial worse than heroin addicts. It's fucking insane.  I'm not sure that most fat guys think they're entitled to a hot chick though. Some do, but most of the male fupatrons I know that are in a relationship have paired off with someone of similar BMI. There are exceptions to this though. Three couples I know personally, the girl is athletic and beautiful and the dude is a smallfat. The only similar thing amongst all three is that male fupatron is really tall (6'4>) so maybe that cancels out the lard. In one of these cases I know the girl is trying to get the guy in shape and it's going about as well as you'd think.