Family Hams Guys i have a predicament, I have a ham of a little cousin who's about 16 years old. I love her with all my heart, and shes like a little sister to me, but the shitlord in me sees that she gets bigger every time i see her. It sucks, because i go away for college and i always been her helping hand, and i somewhat feel that i am at fault here. She comes from a very shitlord family, and i honestly don't know how she got to that point. I asked a few friends and was thinking of doing an ask reddit or something, but i felt the ham sympathy would overtake any actual discussion. I wanted to see if you guys had some similar situations and how did you go about handling it. She and my brother are the only ones overweight in our family but my family sucks at being direct with someone without being assholes about it.