In all seriousness- being a gay woman is not as celebrated as being a gay man. There are more fictional characters and non-fictional personalities on screen that are male than female and this defintely affects how people view lesbians. There is no array of lesbian idols to look up to, there is merely two pigeon holes for lesbians- sexy and porn-esc, and obese and manly. Because gay females have a harder time coming out they emotionally overeat their feelings and insecurities. Pair this with no education on food and calorie control, and sprinkle some 'it's rude to call someone fat/you're promoting eating disorders by even mentioning to a parent that their 9 year old weighs the same as their 14 year old sister" and it's a recipe for a fucking fat mess of lesbians.  This behaviour is ingrained in the lesbian community because of the emotional and physical defenses they have built up over the last few decades. They want to appeal to women who are on the fence, so they look more masculine. They want to appear like they could beat the shit out of you if you say anything negative, so they look more stocky and masculine through body girth. They are unhappy with their appearance but don't believe they should improve because beauty is skin deep/haes/the rise of SJWs. They eat their feelings because they are unhappy, but refuse to acknowledge that being fat is a psychological affliction because they probably had a rough time coming out and now they can't handle any type of self assessment/analysis to address the real problems they face. It's easier to blame someone else/society. In short: us lesbians do have a tougher time coming out and being openly gay because i don't believe it is as celebrated as being a gay male, and it is over sexualised. The lesbian community doesn't do it's self any favours by refusing to address the real problems inside the hive, and continue to be fat, hostile assholes to anyone who doesn't look or think like them, which is the real fucking irony here. Despite a growing number of female human shaped celebrities coming out as gay and giving us more gay people to look up to, I think with SJWs and the FA movement will only make the lesbian community worse.