My friend's stepson got roped in by a dependa's daughter who had dreams of becoming a dependa herself. She met him before he enlisted, convinced him to enlist and then married him 2 days before basic so he could get the extra money. After he finished basic and his occupation training he found out that she spent all his money on restaurants and clubs and wasn't making rent. Of course he's a dumbass and stuck with her and now has a kid with her.