He will eventually turn.  Once a fattie does something particularly heinous, he will see.  I used to be the same way. I think a lot of us were.  I wanted to believe that fat people were simply kinda gross but probably couldn't help it.  I know how "hard" it is to eat healthy.    The media wants to push that view on everyone too.  Safe spaces and anti-bullying and anti-discrimination: people WANT to be nice to each other, but our passive nature is being taken advantage of.  We WANT to protect those who legitimately need protection from discrimination (race, gender, sexuality, etc), and the blubs have hijacked those movements to alarming effect.  He will turn, or he will be one of them. That's the cut and dry.