ffa         So I brought it up. He threw a fit. When he calmed down, I brought it back up. I took my top off and stuck his hands on my waist and was like look at how good I've gotten myself to look for you. I also brought up his ex and how he didn't like it when she got fat when they were together. I pointed out that when I got bigger, I made changes before I even became officially overweight. And I didn't let any of excuses stand. He's stressed, well he will feel less stress if he is healthier. He didn't have anything to eat besides ice cream last night, well he could have bought something better. He hadn't eaten enough during the day, well he should be an adult and fucking feed himself before he binges. I basically used the words "personal responsibility" 100 times.