I think the "logic" works something like this: The ham-female experiences a world where her emotions don't come from inside herself but rather they come from the outside world.  Seeing a pretty woman makes the ham-female feel bad, therefore the pretty woman forced the bad-feels on the ham-female. I think you also see this with the men who get angry when a woman rejects them romantically even if she is polite about it. The child-man experiences a world where his emotions don't come from inside himself but rather they come from the outside world.  He likes a woman because she is beautiful.  To him it feels like her beauty forced him to like her.  Her beauty is like some supernatural force that took control of him.  Then she rejects him.  How cruel is that?  She forced him to like her and she she rejects him!  Obviously she only did all of this to hurt him.  What a bitch! A mentally healthy person experiences their emotions as coming from inside of them.  But someone with more child-like-thinking experiences their emotions as being pushed on them from the outside. At least I think that's how the "logic" works.