A fat cop kicked my trans friend and me out of a public pool. My room mate's brother is trans and living with us for the summer.  He had top surgery, but male hormone treatments are very hard on the body, and he doesn't feel like he needs them. He had double Ds and getting top surgery improved his mental health and happiness enough to make him feel comfortable with his body.  He doesn't get that "M" on his ID though, but he's ok with that for now. My pool is in the hood.  There are lots of shootings and stabbings in this park at night and lots of fights during the day, especially at the pool where lots of people on the east side congregate on a hot day, so there's ALWAYS a cop at the pool.  9/10 he's fat, my theory being that since it's fenced, they give the fatties pool duty just in case they have to chase someone down. If you've never lived/worked in, visited, or even driven through poor urban America, let me tell you, it is FAT.  I live in a diverse city, and there are fats of all kinds.  Male fatties, female fatties. White fatties.  Child fatties.  Two of the lifeguards were chubbers for crying out loud! The first thing I see when we get in the water is a fat woman with no top, just a white tee shirt and bikini bottom.  She has these giant floppy boobs with wine cork sized nipples, resting on a smaller roll, resting on a bigger roll, resting on a belly/budding fupa. You can see all of this through her wet shirt!  And she's not even swimming, just sitting on the edge of the pool yelling at her kids.   We wanted to go to the lap side of the pool but I hadn't swam there since the summer before last, so he got out of the water to go ask the lifeguard by the giant fat fuck cop how to get the laps wristband.  The lifeguard started telling him and was interrupted by the cop who told my friend that he had to put a top on.  He tried to explain (his voice is still very female) but was cut off again by the cop, "I'm sorry girls, but there's a city ordinance against being topless at a public pool." He's from the south and really used to this so he didn't argue and we just left.  I'll never forget what he said when we were leaving, as we walked by all the bloated fatties enjoying the water, "that guy right there, his hairy manboobs are hanging out and he can stay.  Mine are gone, there's nothing here to see, and I am the indecent one??" Why isn't the body acceptance movement for people like him?  His transformation and his scars, and probably even his body mods and tattoos make people so uncomfortable that they don't even want to share a pool with him.  Next time a fatass tries to talk about body acceptance, tell them they need to check their privilege. I'm deeply disgusted and morally offended by their walking corpses, if I had children I wouldn't want them to see people so fat that their bodies are disfigured into rolling mountains of adipose.  And yet they are free to be nearly naked at a public pool while my thin, otherwise "normal" bodied trans friend and I are told to leave. Fat people are so delusional about being underprivileged.   They would never get booted from a public place for their size (unless of course they can't fit through the door).  Too bad their glacial sizes leave no room for amputees, transgendered people or people with birth defects.  When was the last time you saw a wheelchair bound person of effyourbeautystandards?