"But you don't uderstand kids with autism, this is impossible" - parents of kids with autism.  You know, it's like the parents that have 500lb kids. Somehow every thing is "out of their control", "he's just that way", "he can't help it", "we can't do anything else", "help us". I honestly have very little sympathy for whiny fucking parents who live off making excuses and look to push the blame elsewhere.