I'm sorry your husband also had this experience, it's so frustrating for people who genuinely need it. I had panic disorder (before therapy and meds helped sort it out) as well as adhd, and trying to get anti anxiety medication was practically impossible.  Apparently, it's a common scam for ham women to claim focus issues to get adderall, then complain about anxiety to get benzos, so that means people with real mental illness are getting screwed because hams would rather scam meds for money than actually do anything meaningful with their miserable excuses for lives.