I unfortunately think she's gonna whale up as well. Sorry to hear that. Hopefully the kids wake up and listen to you, but considering how the parents are right now... it doesn't look good. And you're right, there's no excuse. My father started a company 25+ years ago, is still the CEO at 65, looks more like 45, runs everyday and has never allowed himself to get fat. The company has over 1500 employee's, so if he can do it - anyone can. She's gonna have to wake up and realize the damage she's doing to her kids, and to herself.  I feel for ya, its sad watching someone with potential go the way of fat fucks. Usually if they allow that to happen, they won't come back.