I'm pretty sure it's a family of hams. Like I said, the husband also gained 10LBs and doesn't care. His wife gained 40LB. Obeasts just cry fat-shaming because it's easier than addressing problems.  I was huge when I was young. I lost weight because of the shaming my family and friends gave me (Asian). Love them for it now, hated them then.  Absolutely disgusting.