I still think this is my favourite comment  Hey Im a chubby woman. Hit the gym 3 times a week, walk 5 kms per day at the weekends. I cant say I eat healthy within my country 's cousine culture but Im pretty sure I eat healthier than an avarage american person. I have fantastic results when I go for a check up. Im highly educated and have a large social circle. I have a fulltime job and have my own ambitions. How am I not for being a mother just because Im chubby? Do I seem like an irresponsible person? I think its time you start being honest to yourself. Its all about the looks you care for. And it would be helpfull for you to stop stereotyping people. You know, with what you wrote here anybody can stereotype you as a wannabe hotshot idiot. See? Pretty easy.  OMG 5KM (little over 3miles) over the weekend oh my! We have a star athlete here