COLOR ME SCHOCKED: Woman who weighs 420lbs reveals she ONLY dates skinny men as being with a partner her own size would limit her in the bedroom archived garbage article Woman who weighs 420lbs reveals she ONLY dates skinny men as being with a partner her own size would limit her in the bedroom - and her current lover admits their sex life is 'explosive' Are they talking about when she takes a shit afterwards? A 420lb (30 stone) woman has reveals how she only dates skinny men because relationships with men her size would make sex 'difficult'.  Why is this news? It's just a typical selfish, narcissistic BRAAPhog. Merchant advisor, Nikki Baker, 28, from Ohio has been 'fat' her entire life, but being teased by her peers has left her with thick skin and after being scouted by a modelling photographer in 2009, she decided to embrace her body with pride. She has since discovered many positive traits that have increased her confidence, particularly regarding her love life.  Nikki, who is size 28 to 30 (UK 32 to 34) now insists that she prefers to date skinny men, as being with a man of her build would limit her sex life. She has been casually dating a man called Brandon Noland, who says that their sex life is 'explosive', and reveals he was initially attracted to Nikki for her confidence. he was initially attracted to Nikki for her confidence. No he's clearly not a fetishist, he likes fungus and trying to penetrate pounds and pounds of fat. "I could tell right away that she loves her body and has a lot of confidence. That and her dyed hair and fashion sense were what initially attracted me to her the most,' Brandon said. 'I think what I love the most about her body is the way it feels. She's soft and has a particular texture that makes touching her just wonderful. It's really hard to pick just one thing here though, there's a lot to love about Nikki's body. there's a lot to love about Nikki's body. This is why we need to stop glorifying people with mental illness.  Our sex life is pretty explosive, we're still in the early stages of getting to know and exploring each other, and we're both pretty well-suited for each other and capable of making each other feel great. It's a blast.' Nikki says that while she has always had confidence in herself, the road to embracing her body hasn't always been smooth. You mean "not smooth" like her cellulite-ridden body? "I've been fat my entire life. I've gotten ridiculed by strangers and loved ones alike, and to be honest, it messed me up pretty badly,' Nikki said. "I grew up confident, at first. My mum always tells this story about me in the playground when I was about five years old. 'Apparently, some kid was making fun of me being fat while we were playing after school and I stopped, looked at them, and said, "I could beat you up right now, but I won't." I just smiled and walked away. I lost that confidence for a little while in my teen years, but I think that's a pretty accurate reflection of my current attitude towards the haters. Wow, being completely delusional is "confidence" now? Sure, any female is able to beat up a man. And then on top of it, being a complete fat fuck. Do these people live in some kind of fantasy fairy bubble world? I'm sure the mom told her she was "brave". Nikki has a message for those that criticise her for her body and confidence and to other plus size women. 'I feel like if you're offended by my comfort in my own skin, you should maybe take a step back and figure out why it bothers you to see someone that loves themselves,' she said. 'I know it sounds weird, but to see the confusion on someone's face when they realise that I'm fat as hell, I'm a vegetarian and I exercise - it is hilarious. 'It has been a long and hard process. It's difficult enough being a fat woman. But being a fat woman that openly loves herself? People act as if my confidence somehow steals their own. "People act as if my confidence somehow steals their own." Yea, that is EXACTLY what is happening when people look at you and are disgusted. Great psychoanalysis there. Not just sassy, pretty and confident, but a fucking genius to boot.