I feel bad for staying away mostly because I know my dad doesn't really have anyone, and because I know my siblings don't really have a lot of positive role models. My brother visits as often as possible, but he refuses to be around the stepmonster. They have the ham's parents, but they're ham's too and they just spoil the kids. I feel like I'm one of the only sensible people they have, and I'm never around to help steer them in a good direction.