My hambeast sister-in-law emotionally abusing daughter who wants to lose weight Hi shitlords, I made a post in the previous FPH about my sister-in-law and her entire obeast family, and how she actively discourages any attempts at weight loss by any of her kids under the pretence that 'this is the kind of family we are'. Well now her 14 year old daughter has decided to finally change her eating habits, and it's working. She's lost around 15 pounds (still a tonne more to go before she looks human), but now that the weight loss is starting to show, her mother is frothing at the mouth. She's arranged an appointment for her daughter with the school nurse (who is also an obeast), and has informed the school that her daughter has an eating disorder and is about to become anorexic.. Even worse, she's constantly shouting at her daughter for what she insists are 'unreasonable and anti-social' behaviours: e.g. not eating cake late at night with the rest of the family after mum has spent time baking it; refusing to order a 'proper' takeaway meal with everyone else (must include fries for it to be a proper meal); refusing to eat doner meat when it's placed in front of her; exercising three times a week; weighing herself once a week; cutting out all fizzy drinks... Pathetic and ridiculous to witness. Have tried explaining to the mum but she's adamant that she knows how to look after her daughter best, and refuses to let me discuss it with her or give her advice ('we're just waiting to see the nurse now...'). It's clear to me that, far worse than the wilful self-harm that fat people inflict on themselves, is the way they fight strenuously to prevent everyone else (particularly their kids) from bettering their appearance either.