I am so sorry! I send you my cat-lady love. And trust me, I always bring up the consequences with my mom and even fb message her links to stories like yours (before she blocked me). I'm not giving up on my baby. Unlike with human fatties, it is my job to make sure the animals in my life stay healthy! Since I have started this ongoing war, he has at least maintained his weight so maybe in the near future I will notice a drop in it.