Meeting up with old friend I have an ex that got in touch with me recently; he was fairly fit when we were together four or five years ago. We made plans to meet up, and he's going to drive down to me in a week or two. Thing is, he sent a picture the other day and I just could not believe it. He has gained over a hundred pounds since I saw him last, and he was fairly nonchalant about gaining twelve pants sizes. I'm not even sure I want to meet up anymore, especially because he mentioned that I was some of the best sex he had ever had. I'm inclined to believe he thinks that's what's going to happen should we hang out again. Blegh.