Same here and I'm a male. Girlfriend is the same way. I'm more of the just order online person but both of us have shopping experiences where we end up buying less than what we went out to get, or even nothing at times, due to lack of clothes options for us. xs and small options are becoming more rare and at the same time there's a plethora of large and up sizes at all of our favorite places we like (liked at this point I guess) to shop.