Office porker makes inappropriate comment about my miscarriage I just had an early miscarriage, as in, I was estimated to be about 10 weeks along before it happened. Early miscarriages are common, but I had still gotten used to the idea of a sibling for my son, so I am pretty shaken by this. At lunch break I shared this with my office coworkers, and like sensible people do, they offered comfort and anecdotes about their own experience. Not office porker of course. She said "well good thing you already have kids, some struggle with even getting pregnant"  My expression was just kinda blank back then, 'cus I wasn't even sure what she tried to convey. In retrospect I'm sure she was talking about herself because she's married but with no kids. Still tactless as fuck.