I agree - I think she liked the way things were, except for the physical pain and obesity she loved being dependent and gorging her maw. The most irking thing was when she discovered that he was texting other women and said that his husband "needs to show more respect". What fucking respect the man changes your rags and wipes your ass 20+ times a day there is no respect or dignity. Hell, she's lucky that the guy hasn't just disappeared one day to let Lupe fester in her own crap and die.