This is why tumblr identity politics is fucking cancer. Unless I want to fuck someone, then their gender and sexuality is the absolutely least interresting thing about them. For example: I've been friends with a guy in school for like two years and I've sort of gotten the vibe that he might be gay from mannerisms. I've never bothered asking or finding out and to this day I don't know. Why? Because I simply do not care enough. His sexuality has nothing to do with our interactions as we aren't trying to bone eachother. A sexuality is not a substitute for a personality