I feel like I need to be super careful when I'm talking around kids because of HAES bullshit. I keep it focused on positives, like "keep on staying active, or else you won't be able to climb trees!" or "if you eat too much, your stomach might hurt" or "you might need to get cavities filled next time at the dentist if you eat all that chocolate" or "if you save some of that candy, you'll have two treats!" I don't bring in anything about appearance, though I'm sure the hardcore FAs would hate on me for trying to imply that eating a bagfull of candy in one sitting might be slightly not so healthy.