I got called a bully for pointing out eating habits I once made a post on Reddit about my fat roommate and her eating habits - I wrote the post in order to tell people the biggest issues I see with the dietary habits of obese people in general, which is calorie-dense foods, large portions and a lack of care about what goes in their mouths.   Now, this post was just noting what she ate and the health consequences she had as a result. I also talked about how much money she spent on food, simply because it was all junk/prepackaged (since food like frozen veggies, dry rice and beans, some fruit can be pretty cheap).  In response, most people commented to tell me that I was being a bully, and the excuses started pouring out. She probably had anxiety, or depression, or a thyroid issue, or PCOS, or she was raised on that food and she can't help herself! How dare I be so mean as to point out that the eating habits of an obese person are unhealthy! At this point, I'm sick of all the bending backwards that society does for fat people. There isn't an obesity crisis because everyone suddenly got a thyroid condition or got depressed, there's an obesity crisis because unhealthy food is everywhere and some people are so lazy and unmotivated that they'll stuff their face with it despite all consequences. I'm done with trying to be nice and coddling fat people. If you want to be fat, be fat, but don't make the same excuses, and don't expect me not to judge you.