Does having babies really turn you into a ham? I am thin and in shape and love my body and I keep hearing just wait until you have kids from fatties. When I get pregnant my lifestyle wouldn't change. Not that I plan on getting pregnant anytime soon but I would still exercise and eat well. It terrifies me that I will end up like them one day, and it scares me to have kids ever now. So why is it a thing that moms have to be overweight? There have to be sexy and in shape moms who have had kids right? I am starting to think hams say this only to scare people they are jealous of and to feel better about their own fatness.