Hashtag me too. It's almost as if wanting to be a victim is a self-fulfilling prophesy, and some people choose to never get over it cause they like having oppression points. Instead of taking control of their lives and moving on, they ree about trigger warnings and ptsd and turn into fat crybabies as a way to try and control others. They want to blame their whole sad life on one thing that makes it Not My fault. They enjoy the drawn out performance of grief and wrongedness they can use to draw attention to themselves because they have chosen to have nothing else going on.