having to teach overgrown children manners I'm on a lake weekend with 3 girls with abs, 1 girl who's skinnyfat, and 2 morbidly obese girls. Obese girl A brought her boyfriend with her. He's chubby, as in the actual meaning of chubby. Obese girl A has also been talking loudly about all of her sexual exploits all weekend... in front of her boyfriend... without being asked. Girls with abs giggle but aren't determined to share every detail of their sex lives in return. The part of my brain that forms mental images gets no reprieve all weekend. Obese girl B has gotten pretty drunk but is coming back down, and we're all sitting around comparing sunburn. She points to A's boyfriend and says "you're burned even in your receding hairline" and he responds defensively that it's just a widow's peak, and B says no, they're definitely bald spots. Now this really pisses me off because I think it's rude as hell that people shit on guys that are losing their hair. There's nothing they can do about it, yet you're permanently disfigured due to your own decisions to eat too much. I told her to walk away because she was being just nasty and rude and needed to compose herself. She does for a minute. After a little bit obese girl A calls to B and tells her she can come back, that it's fine, and they start passive aggressively saying no, because clearly I'm offended and my "feelings are hurt," which makes no sense because I'm a girl and I have a full head of hair. I answered saying no, just because I'm calling out someone being mean doesn't mean I'm being too sensitive, so they can stop trying to make me out to be the bitch. Obese girl A, his own girlfriend, says, "it's fine to comment on his hair, he knows it's receding anyway." So I finally just get up to go sit with the thin girls who have now retreated to the patio, and say "yeah, and some girls get saggy tits but you don't want anyone pointing that out even as a joke, do you?" And I left, and that was the last I heard of it.