Thank you Mrs Ferret for saying what I was thinking. I know a bitch just like this. 33, just fresh off her third divorce and longest marriage (9 months married, thats her longest) true definition of southern trailer trash and has an IQ of about 90. This bitch is so smug and so full of herself its ridiculous. Raising her two idiot kids to be the same way as her, already the three year old girl is obese and the baby (who, when her ex husband filed for divorce from her and had been unemployed for some time told her money was tight, she goes and gets knocked up) is fat as fuck as well. Anyway, I digress... This idiot will go around telling everyone about the terrible exes shes had, her three divorces, etc not realizing that shes the dimwit that keeps picking them. All three were fat, useless and stupid and she jumped into marriage with all of them extremely quick. Last two she baby trapped, and then thought they would change for her because "they realize what they're about to lose and will grow up when they find out" lolno, they ran for the hills. One of her exes was friends (was, not anymore) with my SO. He was fucking shocked when he saw our home. 'Its just the two of you, why do you need such a big place? Wife and I should have a place this nice, we're the ones with kids! But she refuses to even clean or cook so it would never be this pristine.." Like, what the fuck? I have ovarian cancer, I work my ass off progressing my career, and so does my SO and yet we still have time to clean and cook healthy meals. Why? Because we're adults. Your kids are fat and dirty, you're unemployed and neither you or your wife clean or cook, just stuff take out down your throat and complain about money. He was always like that, she thought she could change him and neither of them realized they were the problem.  We no longer associate with the lowlifes after I damn near kicked her teeth in after she stole from me and was dumb enough to leave it in plain sight when I dropped her off. "We needed it you could afford it better" Was her excuse as I took my shit back and held back the urge to cold cock her teeth down her throat. Losers like this will always attract other losers and think they can change them, only to find out they cant and that change requires effort from within and self discipline, something they don't possess.