This a 1000x. I hate to say it but OP needs to man-up. I personally think much stronger bonds of attachment form when you do it the old fashioned way. I also think the vast majority of women on dating sites are life rejects. I mean, it is so easy to find a guy. My girlfriend gets hit on a minimum of 3x whenever I take her out. I can only imagine what it is like when she's out with friends. Anyways, unless she has experienced a lot of bad luck or geographically can't find a guy, most girls on dating sites are total zeros. OP,you can't rely on other people to do your work for you and be satisfied with the results, and your discontentment validates that statement.