They're just lazy... it sounds idiotic when you apply it to other things:  • I want to hear I'm a great marathoner, but don't ask me to train • I want to hear people call me Dr. but I won't go past my Bachelor's • I want my car to do 300mph, but I'm buying a 1982 Ford Pinto • I want to hear I'm desirable, but I won't take care of my body You can want anything in the world, but don't ask to be given credit for your "wants."