Its just an excuse at a gift grab. If I have to see one more Instaham pig reeeeeeing about "even after muh gender reeeeeeeeveal party & baby shower I still dunt have erething I need fur muh babay" Ill scream. Nobody cares in the slightest, and its up to you to provide for that kid. Long ago when I was a fucking retard, I dated a guy who had two kids with his ex. After he filed for divorce, the ex found out she was pregnant, like four months along. He left her for becoming a fat selfish pig that did nothing but eat, cry about "muh depression from the babay" (sidenote: your kids four, stop blaming ppd on it) and the kid ended up to not be his. Not hard to figure out since sex=kid and he hadn't fucked it since it got fat, but anyway, I digress. She had a fucking baby shower after the gender reveal that nobody came to. Tacky seeing as both kids were girls, and she should've had shit from kid number one to use for kid number two. Stupid ham tried everything in order to shirk responsibility and have others pay for her mistakes. Im not against kids, but hams shouldn't have them. They're already shit people, they make even shittier parents and in turn, you get the shittiest of children. They need to be sterilized and then barred from IVF.