Help me shitlords, you're my only hope. My wife, who I love dearly has gained a lot of weight. We originally met through the gym, dated and eventually got married. Fast forward to today, 6 years on and I feel like I'm stuck. You see, she was diagnosed with cancer around two years ago and it devastated her and me. She started getting angry because we've always adopted a healthy lifestyle and then suddenly she started eating everything and anything. She's now in remission, we're very hopeful about the future but I'm feeling terrible because I don't feel attracted to her any more. Of course I'll stand by her, but her decision to 'fuck it' and eat everything we previously thought repulsive has taken its toll. I don't know how to approach the subject of her getting back to how we were. Any thoughts?