The fats are started to roll into the comments because it's the top post in Relationships.  Firstly, Regardless of the rest of the man's behaviour, just because he's fat and hairy doesn't mean he can't take his shirt off. Just because you don't like how he looks doesn't mean he needs to cover up. So, you need to learn to get over fat people not wearing a shirt because fat people can do what they want with their bodies, so that part of your disgust I don't have much sympathy for