This is my current solution, just buying whatever style of oversized jeans fit my legs best. Since I hate having to bunch up a ton of material around my waist, I split the rear seam, cut a V along there and some darts here and there on the waist depending on how it needs to be fit, and sew everything back together but much smaller.  Works great, looks store bought - and I'm not a great tailor or anything. All I did was watch some how-to videos and then practice on thrift store clothes. So if anyone else is in need of properly fitted clothing, give it a try!