My friend's GF has just stopped talking to him, because fatlogic My friend's a human-sized 20/M (L) who, a few months ago, started dating another friend, a smallfat 21/F (J; also used to be thinner some time ago). I, these two, and another friend of mine (M) now all go to the same college and live in the dorms - the two in one room, I and that other guy in another.  Today, M wanted L to come over here at a certain time and go shopping with him. L did not come, so M decided to meet him in his room. When he came there, L was there with J and I don't know what they were doing, but apparently L was there in his underwear. When M entered the room, he (IIRC) said something about not wanting to see some things and J jokingly replied that there wouldn't be nothing to see anyway. L fought back with "And you have a big butt!" Well, J got offended and stopped talking to him. The only thing she's said since was that she's going to stop consuming all sugar and salt to lose weight, then maybe even something about starving herself. For some reason, L had a cake and Oreos for her, she refused both immediately. Turned out that this wasn't the first time someone told her something like that, except the others weren't joking, so time time she missed the joke. In fact, L has been known to be a "chubby chaser" so there's literally no way he could have meant that as an insult. It really amazes me how easily offended she got. Fat apologist M of course started saying "But she's not fat!", I said something along the lines of "CICO, doesn't matter whether she eats sugar/salt or not, what matters is the total energy intake." which probably pissed the two off a bit because I effectively suggested that she may (well, does), in fact, need to lose some weight... I'm searching for a current photo of J, will add if I find any.