While I'm  5503   sure it would be interesting to know the exact details of what is going on, I don't feel it worth taking that step forward. I'm in one of those areas where yeah, everything looks awfully nice. However, a lot of strange shit goes on, and there are some whacked out people living in a lot of these homes. Now that said I have good reasons to believe this is yet another dependa who latched onto a military guy. Dependas are famous for being jealous, controlling bitches. Their biggest fear after they pop out offspring is that hubby will man up and leave them. Even though they get something out of it, a lot of them keep their men really down-trodden. It's pathetic. I'm fairly certain this is what's going on.  They are also very good at being massive drama-whores. They will keep up shit for months when they latch onto a target that they decide deserves to feel their wrath. I'm not touching that with a ten foot pole even if I have a chocolate cake of the beetus gods on the other end as bait.