I'm with you, critical mass. I'm a shitlady and I hold the door for anyone coming behind me. I don't do it for anyone's gratitude. I do it for civility and a sense that we are all in this together. The fatty female ( and it's usually an entitled fatty female) who strides through as though she's a queen just enrages me. (By the way, I'm used to men stumbling ahead just to hold the door for me, with a smile. Just saying.) Fatty lardass probably doesn't know how that feels.