My ham brother Longtime lurker, first time posting so sorry for the wall of text to follow. This incident with my hammy brother happened a week ago but I'm still stewing about it, literally cannot stop thinking about it.  I am of Asian decent and the thing about asians is that shitlording it a cultural pastime. Being fat is one of the WORST things you can be, it shows you are clearly lazy and selfish. My people are farmers who spend their days in rice paddies and still plow fields without modern equipment, now I'm "lucky" enough to have grown up in the good ole USA so my siblings ( 5 of us) and I have  had a soft life compared to my family back in the motherland. 2 of my siblings are fat, funny enough its the only 2 who drink and eat to excess but they SWEAR they do all they can to keep the weight down and it must be some underlying genetic thing. Anyways I really don't care if they want to be so fat and disgusting, it's their short life not mine.  FatBrother wasn't always fat, he played football and was generally active but not anymore, FB of course has a big fat girfriend  (BFG)  and as all hams are wont to do, they started a hamily. Like I said, I don't care about fats ruining their lives but the innocent child must not be allowed to live like her bovine parental units. I thought, yes this might be the catalyst that would make my FB do something about his weight.  FB trys to be a good dad, he would do a better job if he wasn't a 280 lbs heffalump. So FB came by by last week to see  me and just catch up  but all I can think is how fucking fat he is!  He huffs and puffs when he's standing at rest, he wheezes walking down the hall and he breathes so heavy his nostrils visibly flares. I'm trying to just have a conversation about stuff but I'm so distracted by his breathing I just slowly start to rage. He tells me his BFG wants to be a stayathome mom  so she can focus on raising the baby right, such a dumb statement, that ripped off the flood gates of my hate for their fatness.  "Are you fucking kidding ?!" I bellowed. " She's is already so fucking fat her back aches and her knees hurt. The sweatshirt she left here last time could be used to make a parachute for a gorilla.  Your apartment is a mess all the time, you guys always smell musty and or sweaty. It's gross! You seriously cannot be happy with yourselves, How can you walk by any reflective surface and not cringe at the sight. You guys take up the whole fucking couch when its seats 5! 3 people can take shelter from the sun in your shadow. When i see couples like you and BFG, I ALWAYS take the next elevator because I don't trust the cables. " He stares at me in obvious shock, I have said things like this  before but this time i really wanted to get to him in a way that will maybe finally click.  More hate for his fat pour out of my face and I end it with " FUCKING DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR GODDAMN WEIGHT!!!" He stares at me tears swimming in his eyes but I have no sympathy . I tell him, " If you didn't look like a circus freak on display, I wouldn't say these things to you. I love you but your fat is a disappointment, Your lack of drive and willpower is appalling. Better start saving up now for  supersize coffins you fat fuck. "    He was at my house for all of 10 minutes, he usually stays an hour or more , but had things to do all of a sudden. I feel bad now, not because of anything said, I'm just concerned that I won't get access to my niece anymore. I know how vindictive fats are especially since BFG has isolated FB from the family before.