She knows if she goes horseback, I'm not and I will not let my son. There is no way I am endangering the poor thing just so she doesn't feel fat. Fuck it, you are fat, mom.  I do keep an eye on child. He's like me- he has a sweet tooth. However, he's also like me in that he will flat out refuse food if he isn't hungry no matter what the treat is. He says he doesn't want to get "fat like his grandpas".