I've never liked fats, but the hate never germinated until I started using dating apps. I've always sorta disliked fat people. I hate seeing old people limping around a store doing their best while some 30 year old fat fuck uses a mobility scooter, I hate stopping to get fast food occasionally and seeing a family of fats ruining their child's future, I've always cringed at the behavior and logic of those sorts of people use to defend that logic. I don't know why, but my experience with dating/social apps has driven me over the edge. My friends know I like talking to people and one of my girlfriends suggested that I look into apps like this, but holy shit, for some reason I get so aggravated when fats message me. I'm not a supermodel, but I'm decently attractive and I've worked hard to not look like a sack of shit, and it pisses me off when unattractive, unhealthy slob messages me. And of course, these women all describe themselves as "big beautiful women", "curvy" or some other new term to describe being too lazy to actually make themselves attractive, and when you reject them or don't display interest, you can be sure that they'll get upset and either call you names or accuse you of being "shallow" and that you're only looking for appearance. Uhh, no bitch. Do you think I enjoy running 3-5 miles a day? Do you think that it's fun to go to the gym and get sweaty in front of a bunch of other people while I pick things up and set them down in varying styles? Do you think I'd rather not be sitting in my ass watching Netflix and eating ice cream all day? I'm turned off by fat people because they're disgusting, but I'm even more turned off by the personality traits that lead to people being fat. Lack of self control, blaming your personal issues on others and obfuscation of reality to make yourself feel better about your actions are all behaviors you see in the mentally ill, alcholics and hard drug addicts, it's ironic that someone would call me shallow for turning them down over such a lifestyle. Sorry if I'm a bit ranty, I'm just done trying to be civil with these people.