Well actually I live in a diverse middle class neighborhood but one of the surrounding towns is definitely more on the ghetto side. That being said, thanks dude. Sometimes it's not easy being a black guy who strays from the stereotypes. I see so many fat black people everywhere(of all races, but still) and of course being  a young dude it sucks that the dating/social pool is limited, especially within my hobbies relating to comics/anime.  And yeah, I share experiences and vent because well, isn't that what this is for? Sharing stories and acutal experiences IMO do alot more to reinforce that fatties are often just as bad inside as they are outside and why to be fat is not a desireable trait. Not everything can just be pictures or the SJW stuff.