I've actually played the "but I eat loads and loads of stuff. Take aways all the time!" card before on it. I went out with a guy who had a drinking problem before, a lot of the food I prepped for him was 'recovery fatty dishes' (but he did work out to work it off externally) and we got into a bad habit of getting TA twice a week. I made sure that we were over at their's once or twice for the feasts just to wind her up.  I think that's one of the reasons she made sure to only order junk the next few times I was over after breaking up with that guy. She knew I was trying to be healthier, and I'm fairly certain thinking about it know, that she intentionally ordered from the places he and I used to, in order to try and upset me with memories. Ugh.  I think I might actually tell her that despite eating and eating, I just keep losing more and more. And then express worry and upset that I am. The increase in her blood pressure might cause a heart attack!