fat-shame (verb): cause (someone judged to be fat or overweight) to feel humiliated by making mocking or critical comments about their size I've been hearing the term fat-shaming for a while now and I've been letting slide over my head because it doesn't apply to me.  I keep seeing this sub on the front page and I've had an enjoyable read or two. (guilty pleasure) Your Jessica Jones thread made me think.  I have a young daughter so If we see a LW in the wild, I”ll comment on their poor choice of breakfast or maybe on how hard it is for them to walk and we'll move on with our day.   I don't consider it fat shaming. It's a life lesson.  Don't be fat or simply walking becomes a chore.  If you want cake, go play on the monkeybars first.  Pizza on Friday?  Ok – after you rake the yard.  Room is clean? Great – lets go to the rock climbing gym and play on the wall. I really don't get the whole embrace your fat, love my rolls and all that - I find it flabbergasting.  I can't even imagine the level of lazy that must go into pretending all that flab looks good so you won't have to go move around and lose weight.  It's just fucking bizarre. Anyway - you get one, 100 year chance on this rock.  That's it. That's all she wrote. Don't limit your adventure with too much cake.  Treat life like a RPG.  Run around.  Explore.  Go on quests. Stay healthy so if life throws hard shit you can recover.   Maybe do one of these, today. Whatever the day brings - enjoy it!   xo geocaching use your phone to go treasurehunting in your own town/city. Make every chore a quest Sell something on Craigslist. (tip: make an email specifically for this and never give out personal information.  Sell something small and meet them at your local mall. Cash only.)