We are also carers of your obese mothers/fathers/siblings, and we give our all in making sure they're safe, well looked after and happy. Some of us struggle to do our jobs due to their weight, but we do it anyway. I've been off for two weeks due to an obese service user, she grabbed my arm and tried to pull herself up (she's 350lbs+ if she's anything) instead of asking me to move her. My back and shoulder still hurt now. I've still been working out at the gym, trying to strengthen what she's damaged .  But no, of course I have no compassion at all, its not like I don't do my job, with a smile, and make sure they live in comfort before they wheeze off. I get my hate out here, and then I have to go to work and be nice to these drains on society.