It was a pretty damn weird conversation.  She's never said anything like that. Think about it, she saw a huge bloated kid (undoubtedly brought about by her parents) wearing the same thing as her, then she thought, "OMG is that what I look like".   I was really perplexed because she doesn't ever care what people think about her.  Like peer pressure/group approval doesn't matter at all to this kid.  She was triggered at a very primal level by a hammy and I didn't realized for a bit what was causing the problem. Edit: I wasn't very clear that when I say I handed her my phone I had put it on selfie mode so she could see herself and that she didn't look anything like the adipose monster.