Basically it's like this: If a guy has six-pack abs and defined cheekbones then he's an enlightened man who isn't a slave to society's artificial and unrealistic beauty standards. If the guy is balding, has no chin, is short, or (heaven forbid) he is fat, then he's a disgusting chubby chaser and she is a wonderful woman with a lot to offer and isn't here just to satisfy some fetish.