Fat sister in law is actually evil and I can't handle her anymore So ok, this might get a little long but it's all I can think of since last night.  This isn't a fishing trip for pity, but does need some context: My husband and I have had a really hard time having kids. Including two very devastating miscarriages (one at 3 months, another at 7 months). It's been rough. Now I am cautiously happy to say I'm pregnant. This is the last time we'll try this way, because of our work we don't make great adoption applicants (his work is dangerous, mine takes me out of the country), etc.  So, it has been hard for me to watch my 300+lb sister in law have 4 little hamlets. I admit it makes me grit my teeth when I see her raising little hamlets. She has been horrible about me having a hard time having kids, blamed my last miscarriage on me being too skinny. She actually said that to me about three days after the miscarriage at 7 months.  So being a shitlady, I can't really hide this. We cautiously told our families. My mother in law was very nice, gently asked me if I was excited and I said yes. My sister in law chimed in with (I shit you not) "are you going to eat this time or are you going to kill this one too?".  Now everyone (including her husband) was pretty stunned. My mother in law yelled at her to apologize and she sort of did with a shrug. I know I shouldn't care about anything a ham said but that really hurt. I eat plenty, am following a nutritionists plan to the letter. Am keeping my workouts extremely gentle.  I'm pretty sure I can't even be in the same room as her for the rest of this pregnancy. What an evil thing to say. EDIT: Guys, I know this is a "hate" group, but I really want to thank everyone for being so kind and supportive. It is really not easy right now, but I'm really thankful for all the kindness.