Yeah, came here to say this. Fat women are almost uniformly loudly demanding people tell them they're beautiful. Fat guys are more rarely "hurr I'm a big guy and it's great" and more often "shit I'm fat, better be funny or something to make up for it." Fat men can still be, and usually are, utter buttercunts, but they don't do the screamy "HONUR MUH CURVS" bullshit fat women do.