Fat tells my wife I'm abusive for telling her to lose 5 lbs So I am married to an Asian woman living overseas in Asia. My wife and I were back in the USA a couple weeks ago and my friends gf's obeast of a friend was talking to my wife. At one point my wife mentioned how after our trip she will have to probably drop 5 lbs from all the food we ate (I tend to get my pizza fix in the USA since it isn't the same in Asia so a couple weeks of unhealthy eating compared to our normal routine).  The fat couldn't believe my gf was serious and then asked her why and if she had an ED. My wife said no, just that she's ate more and hasn't been to the gym for a couple weeks due to traveling and that she is sure she probably put on 5 lbs and the last time she put on 5 lbs I told her she needs to lose it.  The fat told my wife that she is too skinny and that I am abusive for saying that to her and controlling. She told her that if she were with a guy like me she would leave him. I overheard what the pig was saying and calmly replied "You would never get a guy like me. We both find it important to keep each other happy in our marriage and work hard to not let ourselves go or take each other for granted." The pig was not happy and pretty much remained silent the hour or so she was there before she finally left without saying goodbye to my wife or I (not that we cared).