Yeah, this is what bugs me most - deathfats are co-opting a very real message. You will never be perfect, and you should love yourself for what you are. Most healthy weight people will have at least one or two problem areas that still don't look quite right. And that's ok. But hams read this and say I was born fat and you have to be ok with that. Body acceptance means do what you can and don't sweat the rest. It doesn't absolve you of personal responsibility.