Yeah this is exactly what I think whenever I see an overweight person... At the weight I feel the most comfortable in (about 22.5 bmi) I can pinch a little fat on my belly and a little more on my hips. I pinch and grab around my body daily, and as soon as I can grab just a bit more on my belly, I stop eating chocolate (my only vice, really. lol) for a week or two until I'm back in my comfort zone. I find this kind of slight fluctuation to be a nice way to live - indulging for a while, then cutting for a while. For some reason though this is a concept that fats never ever seem to grasp. I can never ever understand how someone can realise their belly is getting bigger, you can grab fat everywhere, next thing you know you need bigger clothes, can't climb up stairs... some of them are bedbound and even THAT isn't a fucking wake up call to stop stuffing their pie holes. It fucking blows my mind and it should be psychologically studied wayyy more.