So true. I'm attracted to blonds with nice arms/shoulders for instance. I can't help that I like light hair. I'm also not attracted to dudes that are very hairy, even if they are well built. It is perfectly acceptable for me to have these preferences. I also prefer a man who is somewhat fit, who can lift a reasonable amount of weight and that can run around. Fit dudes are more fun to be around. It's funny because I married a dude that is blond with nice shoulders/arms, who is strong and can run around. He's kind of short. But I would prefer short and fit any day over tall and flabby. Most everyone has preferences. It's what makes someone else's 7 or 8 your 9 or 10. Nobody has the right to be seen as attractive to anyone else. My husband is a 10 to me. But he never ranted about how chicks who like tall dark haired men should find him attractive. And that actually is genetic. In my experience, being somewhat fit, a good person, good hygiene, and a hard worker gets most men plenty of attention.