Before I gave up on it, there was a post on eatcheapandhealthy that really got to me. The poster was almost doing OK with laying out changes in eating better. But then she ended in "don't worry, I'm not going to give up on enjoying life and will still be going to restaurants".  I mean more power to people enjoying it if that's their thing. But it's just mind boggling that someone with issues eating still puts that up as something essential to enjoying life.