They need hobbies that don't involve intelligence, skills, or physical abilities.  I personally am really artsy fartsy. I like to crochet and knit, along with yoga and stuff it can be very meditative and therapeutic. Michaels, Hobby Lobby, and Joannes are like...bloody cesspools. Fucking glitter art, bead jewelry, "paints", scrap booking, etching, stickers and shit, ribbons all the fucking ribbons, fake flower arrangements?, its like... the utopia for all the fat stay at home moms and military dependas.