Then they continue with "Your feelings are real and true and valid. And you still should not say them to the fattest person you know." As if a FB post is made directly with them in mind.  "If you think of your own fat body as repulsive, I will believe you are also repulsed by mine." Um. Yeah. "I need you not to forget your values when I tell you about my experience." My values include making sure that my body doesn't get more fucked up than it already is due to my shitty genes.  "Less pity; more anger" What pity? And of course I get pissed off when I'm walking down the street and your fat ass is taking up both the sidewalk and the bike lane.