I totally agree. The message originally included that you were worth more than your appearance, which is great. But now it seems to have gone so far the other way that you are not allowed to take pride in your appearance or you are labelled as vapid and enabling thuh patriarchy or whatever. It is I'm sure in most part perpetuated by jealous fatties and is insulting because, when I hear it most, this is implying that you cannot be attractive and smart/successful/strong/etc. Demanding that women cover themselves for "modesty" reeks of nothing more than bitterness over the fact that they are not attractive or smart/successful/strong/etc.