Don't let it discourage you! If it's any consolation, I'm the same weight I was when I started dating my husband 10 years ago. There are a lot of other happily married shitlords on here (according to the survey results) so it is possible. Just find yourself a nice shitlady that likes going cycling/climbing/running/etc. with you and never let yourselves get lazy. Keeping yourself looking good for your spouse makes for a happy and sexy marriage.