Hams have such a warped idea of what 'thin' and 'fit' looks like (YouTube example) My son's birthday is coming up and he has a few food allergies, so I want to make him cool looking cupcakes at home. He's very into our garden, and he likes cacti and succulents because they're plants he can take care of at age 4, so I was looking for buttercream piping tutorials to make little succulent cupcakes. Anyway, I came across a bunch of piping videos by a channel called Cupcake Jemma.  She's an English woman who looks overweight to me, but might just be 'skinny fat' (high end of normal BMI, high body fat percentage). She's not huge, but she's at best on the very high end of 'normal' if not already into 'overweight' territory. She has the telltale arms of a pre-ham at the very least. Anyway, I clicked a few of her videos, and on every single video there's people asking her how she stays so 'fit' and 'thin' and 'slim' owning a cupcake shop and eating sweets. She even has a video where she addresses it because so many people ask (she says she walks her dog for four hours a day? Which seems implausible for a small business owner/someone her size). How bad are things that people see someone who is this size and ask how she stays so FIT and SLIM? https://static.standard.co.uk/s3fs-public/styles/story_medium/public/thumbnails/image/2016/02/03/12/polka.jpg