a friend of mine was in a relationship with a fat fucker for years. She felt sorry for him and had very low selfesteem, it took her a long while to build up the courage to step to this abusive, lazy monster and to tell him she's done. Funny thing: He died a few years ago in a car accident. We know he became deathfat and had troubles driving for the last months. She lost not a single tear, for reasons, as you can imagine.