Attractive women should not have to suffer the indignity of being expected to accept anything less than a trim, toned dude.  Had a small fat hit on me today, very politely in a shy "hi I think you're pretty and I'd like to get to know you" kinda way, but dude.. look at me...look at you... do you see why this is an issue? Society has us raised to be sooo polite and "lady-like" and teaches us to not be shallow, but fuck...come on? Fat chicks make sad cow eyes and bleat their little hearts out on the internet but they don't approach and harass hot men to the extent that fat men do to hot women. And when I say fat men I include this new "frat daddy beer gut" dad bod bullshit. Fuck young relatively successful men that thinks it's okay to lust after girls with bikini ready bods when they have an unapologetic beer gut.