As a woman who would rate as maybe a 6 if it weren't for the fattening, I don't think it is all that tough to end up with someone nice. My husband would probably be classified as more of an 8 in light of the fattening. When you take good care of yourself, you can compete some with more attractive women. That's where having a compatible personality comes into play. I mean, you still wouldn't expect a 2 to end up with a 10. But with there being more fat women then men, a woman's status as attractive goes up just for being human size.