Fats and kids So I couldn’t sleep the other night, and ended up laying in bed on my phone, opening up Facebook, and pissing myself off.  I want to preface this by saying: I don’t mind people who don’t like and/or don’t want children: your body your choice! (As long as you’re human) That being said, a video was going around my feed. A fatass wannabe Shakespeare spewing out a “poem” about how she didn’t want to have kids because they’re disgusting and it would ruin her lifestyle, AKA she’d have to actually take care of herself for 9+ months, and spend money on baby stuff instead of cheetos and Taco Bell.  Anyway, as ungraceful as the poem was, it was the comments that really boiled my blood. It went 2 ways: fat women claiming PCOS and crying about how they’ve had 10 miscarriages, or tumblrina fats spouting off disgusting comments and complaining about how they’re “tired of being judged for not wanting kids” (as If they’d ever even have a choice) YET there was ONE SINGLE comment. An actual human simply telling her story about how she was diagnosed infertile and how she always wanted kids. No hateful comments, just her story. My GOD the comments to this woman - all fatty fats telling her to fuck off and stop “trying to make them feel bad because they never would”. As someone who also would love to be a mother, but whose fiancé is infertile, it’s really tough seeing these beluga whales talk the way they do.  Side story: my sister and her husband are having a hard time conceiving, so I went with her to her specialist ONE TIME and I have to say, the two of us combined were the smallest people In there. All fats, of all former genders lol