Need advice dealing with a monstrous ham So I was at a friends party on Saturday night and there was this huge girl there, legit bowling ball, and I was civil to her for the sake of saving our mutual friend some embarrassment. Now she keeps messaging me on facebook and snapchat (don't know how she got my snapchat) trying to talk. I've opened them and just not replied but that hasn't worked. Any ideas on how to tell her to roll the fuck off without making our mutual friend mad at me?