I definitely agree with the selfish part, I'm more curious about why "you are a terrible person if you are not attracted to fats" rhetoric is more prevalent in FA circles than "fat is hot"(shudder, thinking about fatties who think they are hot).  We went to Rio, but mostly stayed in touristy areas. It was quite fun actually. Or, maybe we didn't get robbed or died because they were all afraid my ex-ham will eat them if they come close.