But...but...it's all about HER! She's the bride, don't you understand? The guests are really just her audience, not real people that she is obligated to actually play hostess to at the party she is throwing. Who cares what THEY want? SMH, man. Your guests are not your fucking accessories, they're real people to whom you have an obligation. "If you don't like it, don't come." I seriously wish every person there had decided on the morning of not to show up after all. "You told me not to come if I wanted to dance..." Heh heh heh.