And what's worse is that they deliberately refuse to acknowledge it.  If they get called on it, all you'll hear is a bunch of weak excuses and jealous whalesong.  All the times I've gotten shit for not being an obese waste of space has been from these bitchy horrid female hams.  Never from a man.  Telling, isn't it.  (hiiii!  <3  i so hope you're doing better today!)