Then you have pinguids sitting at home wondering how come their life is shit, even though they hear everywhere how perfect they are. Yet somehow nobody wants to fuck em, nobody gives them the promotion, invite them to the party etc.  Oh man this reminds me of a conversation between my husband and a neighbor & the neighbor son's over Christmas dinner -- neighbor's son is just finishing up undergrad as a criminal justice major & was complaining about the sheriffs & CHP recruiters during the last job fair on campus wasting his time, Jesus -- he must be well over 250 pounds & is exactly my height, 5' 5.  And complaining about how the recruiters seem "fake" & "eyes glazed up" unless previous military and "jocks" step up for apps/interviews, even when "they aren't even CJ majors."   But oh no,  one must not mention the two fiddy to 300-pound elephant of adipose in the room.