Slow it down lady!!! I am not forty yet. I will be gracefully sliding into forty in a few years.  That is exactly the problem. I genuinely don't give a shit what other people think of me with only a few exceptions. I would never want someone thinking poorly of me if they were my gram or someone like that. Everyone else can go suck an egg.  This girl has been jealous of me since I met her at 10 years old. I have always let her make a fool of herself with her actions toward me and it makes her boiling mad. It is entertaining to me.