My stepmom did this to me too. Every kid she has ever raised was a fatass child, but at least I got out of it. Her older kids never did and have so many complications with diabetes.  My stepmom is now raising my niece, well, for daycare, 7am to 6pm, and lemme tell you, the garbage she puts in her mouth is horrifying. I've watched her not once, not twice, but dozens of times spray whip cream out of a can directly into her mouth. She loves it. She's two and I constantly see her eating cookies, fast food, pop, candy, all kinds of junk.  And my sister doesn't care because she herself is 300lbs and eats the same shit.  I can't wait to see how this all turns out...