Fruit salad of shame So this happened about 7 years ago but im still not over it.   My husband has some childhood associates that we still see on rare occasions. They  are twins and they are extremely heavy, id say around 5 foot 8ish and no less than 350lb (each). Anyway, about 7 years ago we where at their place with some other friends for a get together. This was my first time meeting them. The food they where servicing was junk which i didnt want to eat. When asked why i wasnt eating i explained that im a fussy eater (not really, i just dont like shit) and was told they had a fruit salad for desert. I said something along the lines of 'great, i'll wait for that'. Dessert time , out comes the fruit salad. Its made entirely of canned fruit and its syrup, which i had honestly expected. But is also had gláce cherries and marshmallows added to it. I was then asked if i wanted canned whipped cream ontop.  Whenever these two are mentioned someone will inevitably say 'oh their great girls, its ashame about their weight. But theyve tried everything' and i will respond 'do they still add marshmellows to their fruit salad?' And that pretty much shuts down the pity party.