Yes, because I totally said that I was fit anywhere in there. I know that I have shitty core strength and I don't enjoy working out.  Those are facts.  Which is kind of the point to me - if I can't do it as a normal healthy weight person, a fatass definitely cannot do it. So, I really couldn't care less what you think about that.  I'm more into just doing a lot of cardio like walking and using a hula hoop.  I'm not fat, I'm toning up and that's pretty much all that matters to me.    In regards to my partner, I honestly don't know what he's capable of since he underestimates himself a lot.  He hasn't timed himself so I can't say what's fact and what isn't in that regard.  As other people here have said 25 sit ups is possible in a minute, and that's fine and I accept that as they would know better than I do.  I think we can both agree that it's not possible for fats to do 25 sit ups in a minute though.  More power to you if you can do 65 sit ups in a minute too. Yes, I'm ignoring the rest of your post. Have a lovely day :)