In a lot of stores I wear a L. I'll buy XL for an oversized look (chambray shirts etc.)   I'm 6'1" with annoying boobs  (32D) so depending on the style I have to accommodate. I also sew and alter my own stuff to accommodate. I love to thrift shop and I'm that shitlord who buys the xxxxL to make a cute dress out of a plus size top.  That said, she says "little tummy" and I assume she a fat.