I both agree and disagree with your second point. I've seen plenty of bitches get all uppity and try to start shit and they get beat. They deserve that. I've never personally been beaten, because I'm not antagonistic and I'm generally a good judge of character so the people I associate with wouldn't do anything like that to me. However, I've also had friends who would get beat for no reason, I've had to step in more than once. I'd say 50-50 more or less, at least in my experience. It's bad form to say that women usually get beat because they're the instigator. But I also don't want to say that the never are.