"Ladies, you have to lower your standards!" said the ham to the shitladies. Gay FAs are the same way, be they male hams or female hams.  Caleb Luna gets to exclusively prefer thin young white males, but GOD FORBID those prospective dating partners have any standards whatsoever that don't include male Tumblrinas with Problem Glasses.  Fat lesbians get to ask thin women to date them, but when a thin lesbian says "no"--the exact same fucking sexual preference Hammy herself has, remember--the thin woman is "shallow" and a villain in the eyes of the group.