You are a tall lady, thus the percentage of the male population that is taller than you is quite small. If that is a deal-breaker then you will have to be willing to compromise in other areas. I'm only 5'6", which is 3" shorter than the average male in my country. Wanting to date someone taller than me is not a stringent requirement. Fats seem to think that they are magical beasts that all attractive men secretly want, and that no level of stringency is unrealistic because they are diva-goddess-princess-fairies. Also, as was stated below, they want to be smaller in some dimension to their partner. Since they are giant tubs of lard, and since even they are not attracted to fatbodies, they look for someone tall enough to make up the difference.