That's the real problem there. Many people want to feel they are a special fucking snow flake. No you aren't. You aren't special. You aren't a celebrity. You're just an ordinary person grinding out your life. Friends and family make you feel special and care about your feelings. No one else does. When we as a society reward mediocrity to spare peoples feelings we regress as a society. I HATE the special snow flake mentality. You see a lot of college kids having it now too. I'm on board with the theory that helicopter parenting is what fucks people up because they don't know how to turn hurt feelings into motivation to do better.