I am walking away from my size 12 , 5'3 " mum". Its 100 percent true that fat people are lazy good for nothing drain on society.  My mum, has gained some weight over the years since I have seen her last. She drinks starbeetus frapps daily , asked me to take her to Sonic and she ordered a medium size ( 1800 calorie ) fancy drink. She rarely eats healthy. smokes a couple packs a day, allows her 5 dogs to void on the floor and her home should be on hoarders. I am doing what I should have done 33 years ago by leaving. Her new "kids" are a 250 lbs caretaker woman for her crippled cash cow husband. The fat has her own parents locally, but needs mine for what, I do not know or care. They can all enjoy each other till TSHTF. I refuse to partake in this mental illness. Also, I fat shamed her all the time and called out her food choices every time. she will be on my 600 lb life in 10 years. Despite being in her town for 1 month, I have seen enough to be happy I never was raised by her serial marrying ass. Bonus tidbit. she was a welfare bum at 50 and had no money till she found him. husband #3. She gets huffy and bitchy when he requests things like, open the door , I need a drink. bitch he is paying for your existance! who is there to call to complain about this woman taling advantage of a USA veteran. UGH Good riddance. Edit for clarity on the caretaker. She is married and she and her husband imposed thier 4 kids onto my Mum and they now call her nana and say I love you. Something fucky about that whole scenario. My mums sister believes it to be a very odd scenario. I believe it to be breech of professionalism. the caretaker has hee own parents in town so why does she also want mine. Thoughts?? She has bitched to others about me because I am 40 and do not value relationships or home ownership and I did the right thing for me by not having kids.