I got a bug up my ass and decided to Tweet to that glitterlaser thing's "SO" and let her know that maybe the seat of her car broke due to 400+ lbs of weight flopping down on it, not due to a manufacturing / design flaw. Apparently I was wrong, and a bigot and insensitive and "literally insufferable". Thank God for their truth bombs. Who knows how long I'd have carried on being so uninformed about the HAES issues and community.