I'm in this boat, too! I have anxiety, so I signed up for online dating to avoid the bar scene, and I've since gotten a ridiculous number of messages (1k+!). I guess it's because I'm a healthy young lady, but I'm only pretty average looking so this amount of attention is pretty disproportionate to my actual attractiveness.  I've gotten plenty of messages from hard-pass fatties and 0% matches, and I just can't be bothered to open them at all. I have a troll sense of humor, but not enough steel to troll fatties IRL for fun unfortunately.