A lot of "Doms" think they can charm their way into a sub's pants by calling her degrading names and sending nasty, unwarranted PMs. Props to OP for putting him in his place and not crying in her car. Subs probably have more control over a scene than a Dom does because if the sub doesn't want it, the scene doesn't continue. I'm a sub like OP, no one gets to call me a whore without my permission and I'm sure the majority of subs feel the same way. These Doms are the most pathetic neckbeards that exist.