I feel bad for feminism I feel bad for what feminism have become for the majority of people, even tho I still consider myself a feminist. It used to be about equal rights and opportunities for men and women, based on their actual capacities rather than on their genitals. My grandma fought for her right to have her bank account, and the fact that, when she started her career, she needed her husband authorization still upset her even now she is retired (and she is the greatest shitlady I know, love her). I still think we, in some aspect of our society, need feminism, be it to help women in other countries less lucky than us, sustain planned parenthood, or demand the right for men to have the same importance as a parent than women. You know what? I even think body acceptance is important: the fact that you have a scar, dwarfism, an amputated limb, congenital deformity... doesn't make you less of a person. But eating so much your body expend itself until the point you get folds even while standing up? It shouldn't be accepted, nor encourage as it is nowadays. Calling someone sexist because he or she hates fat people makes no sense: fat women are as low as fat men  on the scale of human values. Screaming "misogyny!" because you've been called a fat cow doesn't make you any less of a fat cow. And loving your body is not compatible with burying your organs under several kilos of fat. I know there is some red piller on this subverse, and even if I don't think we'll ever get along, I hope I can make some people realize feminism is sometimes not that bad depending on which feminist you're talking to. That's another thing I could add on my endless list of  "What fat people have ruined" (RIP out curves) PS: and sorry for my probably terrible grammar.