Gross POF fat. Link to slimgur album https://sli.mg/a/2Zue67 Online dating. Not so great. I'm an in shape, okay looking 20 year old girl. These gross 28+ men message me from time to time. I'm a polite person. I'll write back no thank you and I will say that it's because fitness and healthful living are important to me (even though it's already on my profile) because I don't lead people on or lie. Usually they back off but this guy propositioned me for paid company or paid sex. Nothing on my profile suggested I was looking for a "mutually beneficial" relationship. I dress modestly and I just write normal things. What the heck makes some gross almost 30 year old guy think he can offer not terribly much money so he can sweat and slobber all over a younger woman who is objectively out of his league by a good deal. Edit: It seemed like I was hating this guy because he was older.  It just added to the creep factor that if he actually is 29 that's already considerably older than 20 and who knows how old he really is.  I've gotten some messages from seemingly legit guys who were late 20s to 30s and fit that were polite and without getting into my personal life, experience-wise it doesn't seem to work after a few dates when I've gone out with older men.  So for those I usually just write a brief explanation why I wouldn't want to and I always say I'm flattered and for the record they usually just write back thanks and good luck.  When I reread what I wrote, my post seemed super third-wave feminist and misandrous.  Gross.  >.<