It's like fat enablers with 400lb children who can't stand up anymore: "Oh but there was nothing else we could do about it." "He just gets so cranky when he's hungry, you HAVE to give him something." "I can't stand to see him suffer when he's not eating" "You don't know how HARD it is"... etc. Just a huge bag of fucking excuses and looking to shift the blame on someone or something else.