I am definitely on board with your distancing-myself advice. Luckily, when I transfer in September I will be living on campus which means I will be buying my groceries more regularly and so on; I really think that will help me be at the place I want to be health wise. But you do have a good point, if things are written down, there is a lot more accountability. It's just things are very tense even on good days. The last bit you said is rough to swallow, but you are correct: doctors, my dad, friends, family members, and I can say anything and everything we want to try to change her, but ultimately, the only way things will get done is if she decides that's what she wants. Thank you for your input, I really appreciate it.