I can still tell them apart if I take the time to look, but a BMI over 30 means I'm not going to bother considering them a person.    And fuck them so hard (not literally, the horror!) You're spot on with that analogy.  I hate that it's their "thing" now.  I dye my hair, I have tattoos, and I love jewelry. But I'm also 5'6" and 105 lbs.  I use fashion to enhance my looks, not to distract from how disgusting I am.