This is one of the main things that pisses me off about that.  Someone I went to school with (who is now getting fat lol) was telling me about how she “came out to her family as feminist” and was making a really big deal about how hard it was for her to “come out” and blahblahblah.  I am bi and had recently come out so I was fucking pissed that she would refer to that as “coming out” Like listen bitch, your family isn’t gonna disown you for that shit.   I hate it when people take something that’s a real issue (ie body positivity originally being for ppl who have birth defects or scars or lost limbs or vitiligo like my brother) and co-opt it to whine about some irrelevant shit.