They don't give two shits about anything they might inflict on the kid or how much it will cost anyone else. I couldn't live with that, fucking up a kid. I couldn't. I realized this in the middle of undergoing fertility treatments. No, the worst thing that could happen wasn'the not having a child. It would have been being the cause of so much suffering to a completely vunerable and blameless child. We were the ones to pull the plug on fertility treatments. Exactly because every time I turned around they were finding something else wrong with me. My body is just terribly broken as far as fertility is concerned. My husband was scared it would kill me and we were both scared to death it would cause us to inflict a lifetime of pain and suffering on an innocent baby. Hardest decision we ever had to make especially when the doctors were telling us that we were "excellent candidates" for more advanced treatments. Life isn't fair. That's life. You cry and you pull yourself off of the floor and move on. This article is the exact reason that I hate this entitled,  selfish fat ass philosophy these pigs have. You aren't entitled to a fucking kid. You know what,  lots of people have it a million times worse and then some. Perspective is underrated.  I'm sorry this shit just hit me deep down where it hurts the most. This article sums up exactly why I hate fats.