My mother told me that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. This makes perfect sense when a fatty talks about body love... It's not love, it's the opposite of love. Love is staying at the gym an extra half hour because you can always do one more set. Love is eating nutritional food that helps your body thrive. Indifference is sucking down sugar and gravy until you are a fat, make-up covered walrus. That is not body love, that is the opposite of body love.  anyway, there another gun in the arsenal. I speak my mind constantly, i hold back for no one, and i always do it respectfully. When they equate being fat to body love, i bring that up. You should too.