I thought being slim was a prerequisite for the androgynous look. You can’t pull off androgyny if you have giant udders under your sweater, or a giant gut. It sort of defeats the purpose if you have defining feminine or masculine characteristics. Even 2000s The L Word has the skinny androgynous lesbian chick.  I think it’s more them appropriating the term than anything else. And for all the wrong reasons. They think that because they don’t fit into a blue is for boys or pink is for girls box they must be special. When in reality, no one (or very few) fall directly into one box or the other. And even if they did, it’s a cultural expectation, not a biological one. Don’t get me started on the non-binary crowd.... Good god is it infuriating.