He's 21 and I'm 24, we've been together for over 2 1/2 years, close to 3. I would characterize our relationship as serious, but I've been having my doubts as of late (reasons unrelated to the situation in this post). I know this is pretty weird/silly/immature for me to be worried about and I don't want to come off as someone that sees it as a dealbreaker, because it's not. Our views on health are actually very in line, it's just that he doesn't see the reason to hate on fat people or the shit they spew. I guess the reason I'm ranting right now is just because I was feeling particularly down about his behaviour toward me and him not being my partner in shit just kind of put me over.