Funny enough, my whale of a sister FINALLY admitted to me that her husband has barely touched her in the last EIGHT years. I knew these too always had serious issues, but since me and her aren't that close, I wasn't totally sure because we don't tell each other personal stuff like that.  She told me that yesterday because she caught him jerking it to porn (for the reference, my BIL is a semi decent looking dude, but he's dumb a a brick) and she was FURIOUS.  I just laughed. She legit thinks that he's disgusting. I'm like bitch... almost everyone on the planet jerks it to porn, especially guys. Get over it. She told me he always hated porn... that he told her he thought it was gross... I just laughed again at her naivety... this bitch is 38 years old. She is seriously thinking of divorcing him over this. Their second kid is due in 3 weeks.  (she wanted a baby so they did have sex then, obv, but she said it was just like he did it to shut her up.  OH OH OH I have to add this.... my fiance took out BIL last thursday for go karting and a beer. Now my sister blames my fiance for showing him how to find porn. Seriously. Guess what site it was? PORNHUB. The 38th most popular website in the fucking world. And now she's mad at my fiance. FFS. He took BIL out because he seemed to be really sad lately and he wanted to cheer him up.  Moral of the story is, fat people fucking suck.