I know I'm too nice. It's my fatal flaw. I'm also in a precarious situation where I really have to make this living situation work.  So, I'm being as diplomatic as I can be.  The butter thing blew my mind too though! I truly could not believe it. I had opened the box and pulled one stick out months ago. I've made a grilled cheese or two with it. That's it. I went in there the other day, thinking it was the same stick, over half the stick was gone. Look in the box and there's only one stick left. WTF!  I mean, I'm serious when I say I wonder if she's eating it by the spoonful.  Aside from that, it just really makes me angry bc before I moved in here she seriously only ever used margarine. I bought butter bc that's my preference and she just helped herself to it!