This dude is beta af too. He is absolutely smitten with her. I haven't met him yet, will be meeting him in a few weeks and I'm interested in analyzing him tbh.  One thing I will say is he is a very caring soul. They have already talked about the possibility of him selling his farm (he's getting old and lives a day's drive away) and moving closer to where we live. He includes me in whatever living arrangements they have which honestly, I'm humbled by. Apparently he has a full apartment in the basement of his current home and was insistent that I live there if hammate decided to move his way. He's never met me so, I'm just floored.  My friends kinda dropped out of my life after my brain injury, this perfect stranger is willing to bring me into his home. He just happens to be into bestiality too I guess.