If you have tit cancer, chances are you may have to get mastectomy. It's a possibility and acclimating yourself to that reality is the only sensible, mature response. Otherwise you're a fucking ostrich, sticking your god damn head in the ground and hoping everything works out magically. Deal with reality or reality with deal with you. It's not insulting. It's just a fact. Too bad, so sad, life isn't fucking fair. And I say this as a dude who's had to deal with nut cancer.