YES! They are fucking everywhere in the kink scene. They ruin events. They're always the grabby ones that don't respect people's wishes or privacy.  I think because there is an element of acceptance of different tastes and kinks in BDSM that these fucking obeasts think people should accept their disgusting excuse for bodies. I was nearly ready to give up on kink until I met my current play partner(Korean, stunning, kinky as I am and bangs like a shithouse door in a storm)