My summer is now over because of my dad's inability to lose weight. I go to a military college, so my summers are precious to me at this point.  I don't get to see my friends much at all like I used to in high school because it requires a degree of paperwork and approval (typical military style) and my weekends aren't at all that free either.  The only time I would get to see my friends would be on the off chance they were in town on a weekend, which them being in college means rarely if at all, or during my breaks, which also is for a limited time since my dad lives in another state than where I "live" (parents aren't divorced, just a shitty job situation).  I haven't seen my best friend except for maybe 3 times in a 2 year period because of this, but this is not because of anything fat related, and I just deal with it because its a shitty side effect of my college and family situation.  I'm just worried because in just a couple years my friends will all be off getting jobs and starting families, and I don't want them to fade away without contact.  I was looking forward to a summer of finally being able to see some of them for once, but then this shit started. THIS is what pisses me off here. My dad recently gained a shit load of weight. I believe he got to 400+ lbs. at one point.  So just recently, his pelvis just said "fuck this shit, I hate carrying your ass" and collapsed.  Obviously causing extreme pain for him, because bone is scraping bone each step he takes.  Now I am tasked with flying down with literally 3 days notice to take care of him (basically do shit for him because he hurts too much to do things for himself).  Now I can't see my friends at all this summer because I'll be down there the whole time until I report back in August.  I've never had to spend a lot of time in the other state, so I don't know anybody down there at all. This is why I hate fats. They do this to themselves at no fault other than themselves and then get delusional as if they don't know what caused their injuries. My dad literally said "I don't know what's going on, but..." in response to knee problems he had as well.  Fucking hell. In all honesty, who the fuck cares what they do to random people in public. Sure, its shitty, rude and inconsiderate, since they are disgusting animals, but when you have to drag your family down with you is when you really should be ashamed of yourself.  You don't realize the damage you are doing to your family when you willingly destroy your body. Lurking fats,think of how you are literally shaving off years of your kids being able to see you alive.  Think of how much they will be obligated to help you when you get immobilized and can't do anything a human can.  Now put down the fucking chips and run. Sorry for the wall of text here, I just need a place to vent. I don't know any IRL shitlords I could vent to, so I guess this'll do. Thanks for reading.