I'm really glad I don't live in this warped normy world where love is a transaction, men don't expect women to bring anything to the table but a good 'waist to hip ratio,' and all women are gold diggers. I'm pretty plain facially and I'm not 'curvy' at all, but I'm fit and healthy, I'm funny, I'm cool, and I'm smart. My husband is also all of those things, but dedicated his life to a job where he'll never make more than 22k even in a major market. I'm glad we found each other in a sea of people who apparently just want to exchange female hotness for male earning power. Maybe that's why the divorce rate is so high.