Do you know a lot of good men that spend their lives in strip clubs? In younger days, I worked in a restaurant in a downtown of a significant US city, so of course I was surrounded by strip clubs.  The men I'd see go in these places were nearly all slobs, hams, drunks, and so on.  You'd see the occasional group that looked like a bachelor party, but considering the number of times people get married in a lifetime, it's understandable that these were not the majority. These are the kind of guys who are not really in a position to be choosy, so far as I can tell.