Right? The entitlement was palpable it was honestly disgusting. I'm happy to grab something off a high shelf if a short person (keyword: person) asks me for help, but there's no way I'm going to get fatty's stash of cheese. I'm curious, do you mind when people get things for you when you're struggling to reach them? I grabbed something once for an older man who was having trouble reaching for something and he seemed appreciative, but I felt a little weird because he didn't ask and I didn't want to come off as patronizing or anything like that.