Yeah, it's the children who mostly get to me. A lot of these people were hopelessly raised, but everyone has the agency to make their lives better. My husband was a fat kid and he lost all of the weight his crazy mom put on him—and he was horribly depressed because of his weight. I'm sick of HAES people lying to themselves 'cause if there was a super easy, magical way to lose the weight, they'd do it in a heartbeat.