What gets me about TRP folks is, yeah, sure, if you belittle people with no self confidence and low self-esteem, yes, you can torture them into giving you what you want. But what's the point? I want to be with a strong, confident, independent woman.  Not a dependapotamus.  I want a woman who is as career and success driven as I am, and anyone worth their salt will drop people who insult them in meaningless ways like a bad habit. Treat people well when they deserve it, and don't waste your time on people who don't matter.  It's as simple as that. It's much better to be in a relationship with an equal, and to work together to kick the ass of the world.