So fucking lame. What did he think was going to happen when all 270 pounds of him showed up in person?     I don't get this either. It's beyond the point of trying to "win me over with personality", because of the misrepresentation I know their personality is shit to boot and that they're not comfortable within themselves in the first place.    I'd walk right back out and only a person with zero self-esteem would stay. Probably what he's counting on.