man im 38 and its already too fucking late. i dont wanna be fucken - edit CHASING after fucken kids - after kids at 60 but you hit the nail on the head about your friends website. dating sites are a scam. I know of at least 3 that either actively pay women, or encourage by other means i.e. discounts on membership women to 'like' people they have absolutely no desire to speak to what so ever, and another one was full of fake identical profiles with different names and photos. Eharmony itself is a fucking confidence scam. Either youre attractive or youre not. If youre not, youre not gonna meet shit. Notice theres no ugly cunts on the ads.  Ive also noticed on the latest round of ads one of the 'met 9 years ago on eharmony' pairs do not actually ever appear in the same frame together so even the fucking ex suckers know what up.