Devious ham mother drives daughter to kill her Did anybody see the HBO documentary "Mommy Dearest and Dead"? Good grief fat mothers are evil as fuck! That monster was working on her since she was a baby. Hams will do anything for attention and not have to work. The endless scheming that she did at the expense of others was mind boggling. The insanely tight grip she had on her daughter interacting with the real world  is in line with ham moms wanting to control their children. The pathological lying that many of us seem to be all too familiar with, myself included, is one of the hallmarks of this documentary.