At the clubs I have been too it is usually $20 for a lap dance which gets VERY sexual. You can touch them pretty much wherever you want. Sometimes they will say you can get a more "private dance" for 190 but I have never done that. One of my buddies has jizzed his pants during a lap dance. He also told me they suck your dick for the 190. So there is certainly sexual satisfaction to be had at the right strip clubs.