This. She needs a place to rest her head but her head shouldn't sink into it. My pecs will do just fine. For some reason people on the internet seem to thin  7660  k that fit dudes are rock hard and uncomfortable to hold and whatever. These are people who have never touched a muscle. I mean, yeah, if I'm flexing and have a pump I might as be carved out of marble but if I'm just laying in bed chilling well... muscles are flesh; they have give and she can comfortably rest her head on them. These "oh I like my guys to be snuggly" girls are just girls who have only seen fit bodies in photos. They've never touched a bicep.