I prefer them to try to lose the weight but only so they aren't a burden on our idiotic socialist healthcare. I feel no obligation to give them sympathy or to treat them like brave victims as they want. They are no better than druggies or diseased sluts. People who make stupid life decisions should live with the consequences and the shame. In an ideal world they would have to pay their entirety of their healthcare costs and they would simply die. Same goes for all these unhealthy women who need hospitals and drugs just to give birth, they should die along with their babies. The weak need to die and society is far too protective of these parasites, especially females.