I was on a call with a business associate a few years back and we were joking that we could now afford trophy wives. Okay we were half joking because we're both married with kids. Once a year we're in Vegas for a convention and a lot of us enjoy the entertainment. That's all I'll say. I can't remember a single one of us looking for the "sassy, big girl with kids" personals. I must be remembering it wrong because everyone knows real men are into the Tess Munster look.