Yeah. From viewing that it seems like the mother is one extreme, and the father is another extreme. So one parent is telling you you're beautiful and feeding you shittons in private, the other is telling you you're hideous and trying to feed you much less.  That would be a shit scenario to be stuck between. BOTH parents should admit she has a problem, but then help her reach her goal TOGETHER through healthy family meals, home-packed lunches, removing junk food from the house, pre-planning snacks for her, etc. Instead, the two are turning that household into WWIII.