I stopped speaking to my fat cousin. (Rant) I am usually a passive and quiet person publicly.  I have resentments and annoyances but I try to let them go and not fuck up everyone else's day and my own with vulgarity and rudeness.  Up until this incident I hadn't ever raised my voice at someone, let alone swear at them.  I have broken my composure and politeness because I can't fucking stand fatasses. My cousin and I were pretty good buddies up until we went to different high schools, and she started getting fat junior year.  Cut to post high school, not even community college, getting married to this gross fatass with an earring and a soulpatch and having two kids that she is turning into eatbeasts.  For the record, I'm not a kid person at all.  Since they're in my family I know how to be polite and not condescending.  However, generally the kids in my family know I'm not fun and bugger off and find someone else to entertain them.  I'm not mean to kids though.  My mom, aunt, sister, and this cousin and her husband and kids came over last weekend.  It had been awhile and geez they really like blew up.  She has to be 300 pounds by now.  Who knows what the husband is anymore, and the kids had some serious heft.  And of course the kids were stuffing their faces with three cupcakes a piece.  Well more like they were licking all the frosting and tossing the cake itself since it wasn't practically pure sugar and actually had eggs and flour in it.  I had made like 20 thinking that would be plenty for 8 people with leftovers for everyone to take one or two home for other family and to leave one for my roommate.  Wrong.  They were gone.  Anyway so these kids who are 9 and 5 and who should be at the peak of hyperactivity actually got tired enough to volunteer to take naps.  Their metabolism and body weight is already fucked up enough that even with all that sugar they were tired.  So cut to a little later and the younger kid wakes up and she had shit her pants.  I was taken aback because like I said I'm not a kid person, I don't like dealing with clean ups and stuff but I was thinking that seemed kind of old to still have bowel incontinence?  I didn't want to embarrass the kid so I wasn't making a huge deal about it but later my cousin fucking offered up this information: apparently her daughter has had chronic constipation for a few weeks and has become too afraid to use a toilet that she won't go to the bathroom on her own anymore and when she goes to sleep she involuntarily shits herself.  What the fuck.  I know for a fact because my aunt and mom are kind of these old biddy archetypes and always talk about how my cousin doesn't make her kids eat vegetables, that they basically live off of Kraft mac and cheese, chicken nuggets, white rice, whole milk and sweets.  This is a kid who had been able to control her elimination before and directly because her mother feeding her this garbage now cannot control her bowels and is afraid of using the toilet.  This story is kinda out of order but basically so after my cousin told me about her daughter's chronic constipation, and I asked why she wasn't giving her fruits and vegetables ("she won't eat them"), I then also asked if she at least had those pull ups that are meant for older kids who have bed wetting problems.  And this fat scum degenerate mother tells me that even though she fully knows her kid has been shitting herself, she won't make her wear a pull up because her kid "doesn't want to feel like a baby."  So not only is she abusing her kid but she's that fucking inconsiderate that she let her take a nap in my house in my guest bedroom knowing that she would probably shit herself.  I asked to speak to her outside because even though her kids fucking annoy me, I have the decency to not scream and swear in front of them.  She came outside and I screamed at her for a good full two minutes about what a piece of shit she was.  And told her to never come into my house again and that if she didn't kill her kids she might get them taken away.  She was crying and her husband came out and tried to yell at me and I told them to get their kids and take them home and to take her daughter to a doctor.  My aunt has disowned me but fuck her.  My sister is staying out of it and I have the courtesy to not bitch about the situation to her because I know it makes her uncomfortable but it's making me so angry thinking about my mom and aunt and this cousin calling her and probably talking about what a terrible person I am.  My mom is still trying to smooth things out and if she doesn't leave me alone about making amends and if she doesn't cut it out I honestly don't know what I'm going to do. Fuck this fat piece of shit garbage dumpster who won't take care of herself, who married a repulsive lard monster to validate the fact that at least she isn't as fucking fat as him, and is abusing her children and letting them endure physical and mental trauma because she won't give them fucking fruits and vegetables.  Fuck her.