My ex did the same. She went with a 250-300 pounds fat sack of creepy shit. I don't regret quitting that. My big ex though, I'm getting some much needed revenge soon (she cheated on me). Got invited to her wedding (close friends with the guy she's getting married to (not the guy she cheated with)). It's in Jamaica. Gonna be ripped in a year when I attend. Hopefully with a date, but if not well hot Jamaican women?