Why do fat chicks talk about 'something to hold on to?' Seriously. Fat people shame fit people about having nothing to hold on to.  Have they ever tried to move a sack of pudding?  You can grab it, and it shifts around. It's impossible to move.  When you grab a fit girl, you know what you're touching. It's easy to pick them up and move them around.  Why do they think having excess rolls is a good thing?