Fatfished by a guy on Tinder Hi everyone!  Long time lurker, first time poster, blah, blah, blah. Also, this is more of a rant, so bear with me.  So, first off, I use to be a planet in high school. Once I started college I came to terms with being gay, and also realized I didn't want to date a planet, so I lost 70 pounds (220 -> 150), by, here it goes, NOT STUFFING MY FACE 24/7. Shocker, I know.  Anyway, I went to community college my first two years, and this year I moved to a university, and I decided to try Tinder. I ended up matching with a guy, and we decided to meet up. In his pictures he was definitely attractive, and he recently posted to Instaham and wasn't fat, so I decided, why not? When we finally met up I almost didn't recognize him. He clearly was the person in the pictures, but those days are long gone for him. I didn't call him out though because i'm not at all confrontational, but I wish I was. We just talked, and I've been very short with him since, which I think has given him the picture. First off though, what do fats expect to get from fatfishing?  Do they think no one won't notice an extra 50 pounds? Also, while dieting wasn't that hard for me at least, why would someone choose to give up being attractive just to stuff their faces 24/7, and deal with all of the health/lifestyle problems that come with being obese? Finally, my real rant is, why do fats think they deserve to be with someone who actually cares about their body? Working out will definitely speed the process along, but it isn't a requirement to losing weight. I haven't really ever stuck to a workout schedule (I want to build muscle mass, so I will soon), but I lost weight and kept it off just by not eating so much. Why is it so hard for fats to understand calories in/calories out is all it takes to loose weight? You won't have a ripped body without working out, but you'll still loose weight and be human again. That's the end of my rant, and if you made it this far, thanks for reading! This is really the only community I can safely vent to without being judged.  TL;DR: Got fatfished by someone who use to be human, but is now a small planet. Edit: Just wanted to say thanks everyone for the comments and upvoats! This was my first time using Tinder, so lesson learned. Also, verification (hopefully) coming soon. I've tried sending messages for verification, but after I send the message Voat just says my Sent Box is empty. Edit 2: I'm an idiot and don't know how Voat works. Verification coming as soon as possible