I'm a lady-type person! And yes, ideally makeup is supposed to enhance features without looking too obvious. However, depending on the look someone might be going for, a little more obvious might fit. Contrast and balance are important, like when an earthy looking girl in neutral clothing (like in 70's style) wears a vivid blue eyeshadow. There are a few good rules to follow, like playing up only one feature at a time.. Smoky eye + plus bold color lip for instance is usually not a good idea, unless there's some minimalism in hair and dress. That's where the balance comes in. All of this is negated when someone's a sloppy, fat, attention-seeking piece of shit who equates stares with attraction.