Ugh. I dated two fatties, back when I was concerned about people thinking I was "shallow". Look, I would say, I'm not shallow! I love my boyfriend for who he is, not how he looks.  Well, both of them revealed to me "who they were" the hard way. One dropped out of college and always gaslighted me for not being as "worldly" as him, and then cried to his mommy (who he lived with) when I broke up with him because I was growing up and going to college, and he was almost three years older than me with no job, no schooling, and lived in his mom's house. The other attempted to keep me hostage in his dorm room then threw my phone out the third story window when I threatened to call campus police. Yep, fatties have Great Personalities, and you're a shallow asshole if you don't date them. Ugh. Fucking never again.