Cousin can't stand my "hate" against the fat. All because he's obese himself. A few days ago my cousin got miffed at me. He accused me of truly hating fat people. Now I don't hate, and never had. But being fat is disgusting, and it's like smoking. Smoking harms you, and so doesn't being overweight. It's a god damn addiction to some of them. But you can change the way if you can. But that's the thing, he wants people to work around him. He's ok at 300 lbs and climbing. I've gotten so pissed because he won't loose the weight. He's says his family has lived long with being more than 300 lbs/21 st. So haven't my grandparents and smoking, BUT ITS CLEARLY NOT HEALTHY. No matter what I've said, he doesn't believe that being obese is unhealthy. If being underweight is unattractive and people call you out on it, then they should at being obese. It may not affect you now, but it will later on. There's so much more time to gain even more weight. Thank you all for listening to my rant.