At my gym some of the fittest, more muscled guys are douchey and arrogant. I like guy who is fit like me, but if kindness and acting decent to people are seen as "beta" that's fucked up. Fortunately my guy is both very fit and also a kind and decent man.  I also think if they did ask a cross section of women in this, then some of them were fat, no doubt, and probably would think the heavier guy was normal sized. So they probably skewed the results. They always mess up everything anyway.