he knows he's gross and ugly but still tries to play on people's sympathy like he's just some poor unfortunate guy. I honestly find that more worthy of hate than someone who tries to paint everyone who doesn't find them attractive as a villain.  You might hate this more because its straight up manipulation. Its just a weaker, fatter version of "If you leave me I'll kill myself", where you're supposed to feel so bad for whomever you give them what they want.