As a pole dance FYI, there are three types of pole dancing: acrobatic, lyrical and exotic/classique, and of those three only exotic is necessarily seductive and sexy. I like all of the styles though, I guess my own is closest to lyrical, which includes more dancing and grace than the acrobatic style but isn't as provocative as the exotic/classique. Here's a good example of acrobatic/athletic pole: https://youtu.be/Re4FnLsho2M?t=2m18s