Apparently Any Kind of Calorie Restriction is Related to Anorexia... So today I had fat nurse again in the hospital ward as my nurse.  She was late doing her rounds for medication and blood pressure.  When she came, I already ate my breakfast. Two pieces of brown toast with jam, a tea, and I ate a couple bites of the scrambled eggs. She asked me if the eggs were okay. I said they were fine I was just full already. Then lunch came around. I ate my salad, a small milk, half a brownie half the vegetable stir fry and I left the beans. The nurse came in a second time to deal with the planet across from me (he needed his bandages changed for his disgusting open beetus wound). Then she came over to me and asked why I didn't eat the beans. I told her I'm not a big fan of them. Then she started to lecture me about calorie restricting and how dangerous it is. I told her I was eating a fine amount of calories and that I kept track of them on my phone. I told her I eat less being in the hospital because I do far less activity than I used to, but I still eat about 1200-1300 a day. The ham began to tell me how restricting calories in any form is considered disordered eating and could be labeled as anorexic. She said that people who eat nothing all day because they plan to have a big meal later and want to compensate for the calories can be considered anorexic, and anyone who purposely resricts food intake for any reason needs to get help from a nutritionist.  Long story short I now have to see a nutritionist or a dietician or something tomorrow. I don't freaking get it?? I'm eating proper amounts of healthy food a day! How come the hamplanet across from me who eats probably 10,000 calories a day from junk food doesn't have to see a nutritionist? The worst part is she said all this in the range of the hamplanets hearing, so now he probably thinks that if the hospital tries to make him change his diet he will be "anorexic". This is bullshit just because someone is skinnier than you and eats less than your fat mouth it doesn't mean they are anorexic. UPDATE#1: I told the night nurse who came on shift (fit, pretty blonde lady) that I was upset by the nurse earlier and I told her everything that happened. Ive actually been crying most the day. She assured me she was going to look into it for me and make a complaint with me about the nurse. Apparently I'm not the only person who has had a problem with her either. I'm still going to see the hospital dietician because it's already been put through by the doctor. But it's just to talk about helping me have more of an appetite by having different meals, or having more smaller meals more frequently, or adding a meals replacement drink. I'm going to tell her it's hard to eat across from fatty fat and that I'm upset about what the nurse told me.  Thank you for your recommendations.