It annoys me that if you stay in shape, people will act like you're a narcissist and wasting your time with meal prep and exercise. Start out as a fat fuck and lose weight, though... I don't expect congratulations for maintaining my fitness anymore than I expect congratulations for not beating my wife.  In keeping with that, fats shouldn't be congratulated for doing what they're supposed to anymore than domestic abusers should be lauded for not beating their spouse anymore.