Holy shit that piggy is crazy   "looks can be changed and improved, and our personality cant." This is simply not true. Most people can't change their body type, height, weight (more than temporarily), skin tone and appearance, facial features (without surgery), etc. Everyone can change their personality in healthy ways. I'm not FA because of my personality; I'm complimented on it frequently. But my looks have doomed me to reach middle age untouched and unwanted.