As a tom boy, I can kinda understand aspects of the whole "oppressive beauty standards."  Those aspects being that women are expected to wear makeup in a professional setting, high heels are seen as more professional than functional flats, and other cosmetic things that our mothers teach us we must to do be lady like.  Well Fuck it... I want to cuss like the boys, I dislike being bothered with make up 8/10 days and I only want to wear heels if I feel like it.    I have found that outside of interviews and very formal settings, I can get away with just eyeliner and mascara for makeup, and spend only 15 min blowdrying my hair and pinning my bangs out of my face so they don't annoy the crap outta me. So I mean it's not terribly oppressive.  I still have to put in more effort than a guy when getting ready, but it's only 20 min worth. And let's face it, women care about what they look like more than most men, so there's that...