You hit a good point that I myself have been led to believe, fats are always horrible to be with, treat their partners like shit and are just not worth even saying hi to. Even now, I have a young friend (20) who is dating a massive, childish pig and she doesn't like him talking to other women, is terrible with money, is extremely insecure and tries to "big" herself up like she is hard when she is a fragile, sad act loser in reality. I am worried about him because they are moving in together and he will be giving her access to his bank accounts :( I did tell him I didn't think that was a good idea but people have to make their own mistakes I guess.