I tried three different support groups, everyone had the same haircut and was at least 60lbs overweight. That and everything offended them....so I just gave up and ended up realizing that I dont need to be recognized as trans in this city. People treat you like they have to be nice to you if they know. I'd prefer being called 'she' while I'm buying clothes or getting sushi then having people pat me on the back and hold my hand because they're afraid ill scream discrimination.