One of my best friends is a transman (FTM) I actually get along with him better than I do most of my gay peers :| He is down to earth, and an all around genuine person. Most of the gays here in springfield are fakes, flakes, liars and douche canoes. Something that really upsets me is the ones who lie about their status. (no glove no love) but damn, I about kicked someones teeth in when they told me they were neg, but found out they were poz, I have NO issue with poz people, I am neg myself, but don't lie just to get laid. It is truly a despicable thing to do. (I feel your pain on the dating pool thing, springfield is inundated with lard barges I really miss Florida, had a few good Air Force friends with benefits haha something about those PT shorts drives me up the wall) I wouldn't touch any of the people up here with a 20 foot pole.