The problem is usually that it is linked to objectification, which is then linked to entitlement from some men. Not all, some. So when a 13 year old girl gets sexually harassed by some creepy man on the bus because he's making inappropriate comments about her breasts, it is seen as a dangerous and threatening issue about sexualizing the girl. Same with "she was wearing a short skirt, totally asking for it." Or "that 12 year old girl has to keep her shoulders covered or she'll distract the boys in her class." It's mostly a lot of bullshit that we still see in north america today, that is often limited to women and girls. Not always, but often. It is in no way an attempt to rewire men, but it is an attempt to get the men that view women as sexual objects to back off. Touching girls in clubs without consent, street harassment, victim blaming, all that crap is not ok and is linked to objectification/oversexualization of women and the entitlement certain men have to women's bodies. Women are encouraged to be sensual, but be safe and in control of it and to have it respected. Oddly enough, more men are now experiencing this objectification and entitlement from fat women. "How dare you not want to be with me for muh cuuuurves" "you sexy guys just need to learn that i'm what you really want" etc. They are unwelcome comments, they appear threatening, they have no respect for the person being spoken to and it just unacceptable. So sadly, not only is it still an issue for women, but it is now a growing issue for men because of fat entitlement. I have no idea where our species went so wrong with this crap, and I am just very grateful that the men in my life do not behave crudely towards women. I have been harassed and assaulted many times since I was 13, by creepy guys who think it's ok to treat women and girls this way, but the men in my family and friend circles are very good and kind people so I still have a healthy view of men as a whole.