My obeast colleague doesn't realize she's in a sham marriage One of my colleagues is obese and, there's no nice way to say this, hideously ugly. Even if she lost weight, she'd still be considered like a "2". However, she recently married a 6'4" fit Russian guy whom she'd only know for 2 months. Everyone in the office has been insincerely congratulating her, but there isn't a single person there who doesn't realize it's a green card marriage, except for her. She keeps talking about how great he is an how they're so in love. I almost feel sorry for women in this situation, but they really bring it on themselves. Why else would a fit, good-looking foreigner be willing to marry an ugly, obese woman after a couple months of "dating"?