It's a long story. We are distantly related and just met back in 2010. Before I moved here I'd only been around her maybe 3 times though we were connected on FB. When I almost died I accrued tens of thousands in medical bills, sold everything I owned, had to move in with family. She offered a room for rent in a beautiful area and I really do live somewhere most people would love to live. It's a vacation area and I live here full time.  Anyway, I didn't know her that well and it is a good deal on the living expenses. I'm actively working to being able to get my own home again now though.  I had hoped that writing this stuff out would spark some creativity in my frazzled brain such that I could make these funnier but no. That's something the brain injury took from me. So, I write the posts and vent here, knowing it's just confirmation but it gets it out of my head and gives folks something to read.