I don't get it either. In my husband's circle of friends, I'm the only one who's had a kid and didn't balloon up afterwards (or start obese to begin with). I get dirty looks from other moms all the time. TBH I'm looking forward to piggering some hams this summer... there's a splash pad within walking distance of my house, and I can't wait to take Baby Ferret there this summer. He's not walking 100% on his own yet, so I will have to go into the splash pad area with him. Gonna pigger all the fatties by wearing a bikini top to show off my flat stomach and fake tits lol