I am, unfortunately. I'm 20 years old and finally recovered from 3 years of illness, so I've been saving up money to move on with my life, because my life at home isn't worth it anymore what with the constant bickering matches she starts with me. And besides, it's about time I have a life of my own, anyway. I really only have a good relationship with my dad, and he's the one who's been helping me to turn my life around. And he's not a pig fucker by any means--he and my mum haven't been together since I was in preschool, and they don't even sleep in the same room with each other. They actually can't stand each others' presence, haha. And you're absolutely right--you can't help people that don't want to be helped. I'm finished wasting my time. I mostly stay outside and away from her anyway.