The thing is, he's always been like this. Too hard, give up. The knee injury was in the 1990s. We're old. He's been working the same shitty schedule for years because he doesn't have the motivation to find a better job. He has a girlfriend but she's lazy too. I've never met her so I don't know if she's on track to join him in the tank at Sea World. I've pointed out to him that if a 37-year-old mom of two who runs her own business can run or lift six days a week - despite lingering knee problems and back problems - anyone can.