This, right here.  If you look at all your coworkers in life who have chronic illnesses, always going to the doctor, use tons of sick time, etc. The one commonality is that they are always fat.  Every single last one of them.  But oh, if you shitlord someone at work, you're going to get in trouble for body shaming or such nonsense. So I tend to remain silent or shitlord by indirect means (Coworker: "Hey Vandilx, why don't you have one of the donuts Steve brought in?"  Me: "It's not worth the miles I'd have to run to offset it.")