(RANT) Why It's Not Shallow to Want a Hot BF I'm tired of people assuming that just because I want my future boyfriend to be in shape that I'm a shallow bitch.  No matter how many times I've explained my reasoning in detail, people still insist on attempting to pair me off with butterhuffers, and it's finally gotten on my last nerve. After I've stated that I'm looking for a bf who can keep up with me (aka lift heavier than me in the gym) I'm often met with remarks like "looks aren't the only thing that matter in a relationship" but is that true?  If a guy keeps himself in decent shape, I know without even talking to him that he possesses the determination, willpower, and drive to achieve a body of that caliber, and that he's able to set aside the time and put in the work in the gym and diet department. If he can maintain those standards with his body, it's highly likely that he can put in the work needed for a successful and fulfilling relationship.  Any guy who's overweight or worse obviously has no self control whatsoever, and lumpy cottage cheese limbs that make it hard for him to see his own dick, let alone fuck me with it or even masturbate. His lack of willpower probably makes his grades or work suffe as well, and the only time he's ever stepped foot in a gym is January. Edit: I was tired of being questioned about this and needed to get it off my chest, alcohol has definitely been a factor in this post 😂 thanks for reading!