No shit!  And then you consider how much infertility treatments may have cost.  So she paid to get pregnant with children she can ill-afford.  I don't get it.  Why did anyone want to mate with a 400 pound woman? You'd think any man would nope the fuck out because on the most basic level a woman that large cannot care for children or for her home, let alone both plus a job.  So by all means, pay money to impregnate a woman who weighs more than three times what a healthy woman weighs and hope for the best. Assholes.