Yeah, it's rude to sign someone up for a 10k without them knowing... while they're on holiday  and letting them know only a day in advance. Very weird and controlling. I also don't think op's fat. Some of those comments pissed me off though. Does this reek of bacon grease or what?   And if my parents did that to my husband- hell, if they did that to me!- I would laugh until I cried. Then I would go the race and pop up along the course here and there while stuffing my face with all sorts of junk food.