This is only semi-fat hate related, but what pisses me off the most is people who insist that once you have kids your life is basically over. I love to (hobby 1 & 2), and as I'm getting through the 8th month of my pregnancy people keep telling me "Well you better get that out of your system now, because once the baby comes you'll never have time for it!!" BITCH PLEASE. STFU. Do you know where I learned these hobbies??! ONE FROM EACH OF MY PARENTS, who did these things before I was born and CONTINUED to do them throughout my childhood. If YOU choose to give up your ENTIRE IDENTITY and the things you enjoy doing when you have kids, that's YOUR BULLSHIT CHOICE. Don't pawn it off on your stupid spawn. AND don't pretend like you're a better "mommy" than me for devoting 110% of your time to your kid. I will teach my kids how to be interested and passionate about things by EXAMPLE- they will see me making time for the things I love while STILL being a great mom. Who's the better role model here?! This comes to a head for me with running. I already have my recovery schedule laid out for this fall (kid's due in August) and my training program for a series of half marathons culminating in a full for next summer planned out. People bullshit about how once you have kids you won't have time to work out/train and it makes me SO INFURIATED. Just because YOU turned into a lazy fat sack of shit doesn't mean I have to. Again, let's compare role models here: Fatass McMommy stuffing her stupid face hole with garbage, unable to run and play and explore and sport with her kids, or ME, showing my kids how to eat healthy, be strong in mind and body, and chase your goals?! /rant.