To be honest, I don't get frustrated when someone says I'm "too thin", "too skinny", or "sick looking." Haven't heard anorexic yet, but same deal. Why? Because I'm proud of losing weight, and the lifestyle I took up after doing so. I've been stable at bmi 20.5 for the last 3 years and I still get a thrill out of seeing my reflection, or my image in photos. I just can't feel anything resembling shame regarding my weight. I actually like when fats bring it up. Reminds me that I'm not pudgy anymore (was right around bmi 25.0 until I cut), and it informs me that they are jealous about it.