I've noticed that shame is only acceptable if they're dishing it out... I'm unfortunately related (only through marriage mind you) to a deathfat. I'd guess her height at ~5'2" and ~350lbs for a BMI of 64. She has a huge FUPA, waddles when she walks, and easily out-eats everyone at any family gatherings. Years ago her husband had a serious talk with her about her weight and how concerned he was about her health.  She didn't speak to him for 2 weeks. Recently at family gatherings she's taken to shaming her husband "for looking at all the pretty girlies on the internet."  And how easy it would be "for me [her] to find someone that's attracted to me and doesn't need to look at pretty girlies." Nevermind the shaming she dishes out in front of the extended family, the man deserves a fucking medal for staying with her cunt ass, not to be shamed for looking at porn. It doesn't matter where you get hungry, as long as you eat at home.  She should welcome online porn because there's no way that any normal guy could get aroused by a FUPA covered fetid twat.  She's just too stupid to recognize that when husband looks at online porn, she gets laid.