You shitlord piece of trash. Don't you know that fat people deserve to be bridesmaids too!! I mean sure, she'll make the photos look hideous. She'll embarass herself by gorging/getting drunk and falling over like a moron. Of course she'll go on and on about wedding details with you when you just want her to leave you alone.  Even when all that happens she still deserves to be your bridesmaid because she's a strong, empowered womyn with CURVES!! Not some pathetic loser who whines about not being a bridesmaid on the internet, no way.