Account Deleted By User A work colleague of mine who is easily 250 pounds plus, has been sharing her dating tales. She's on a BBW dating site and was going on about the guys she's messaging and going on dates with. I was assuming they'd be all beta males who had low standards as you would. But she waddled over to the area I sit in and started showing me pics. The majority were fit good looking guys! I was actually speechless. I genuinely don't get why a guy who looks after himself and is attractive would want to be with someone who eats too much, hardly exercises and has grotesque flab on her arms belly etc. And it's not like she's put up well angled pics of herself, she showed us her profile and she's got her fat body in all its glory in the pics.  Anyone have any clue whatsoever? Call me naive but it's really shocked me