I have been sexually harassed often, and have often had to give the person a fierce talking to about their behaviour.  But you know what? I have also had perfectly nice people hit on me or give crude attempts at compliments, and understand that there's a difference between that and harassment. And not once in my entire life have I ever considered the absurd notion that this is a thing "men" do. As in, a man (or any human being) can say vile and rude shit, but it isn't a thing all men do. Nor do I consider it an attack on women. Just me as an individual human being in that moment. Too often I see nutjobs losing their shit over some kind of imagines war between the sexes that is somehow fought by yelling "nice tits" and posting "wah" on instagram. In reality, some human beings are garbage, some human beings are not, and dealing with them is something everyone has to deal with. Just because an asshole says something insulting on a sexual note doesn't mean my entire gender is under attack. They can also say something insulting about my work, or my beliefs, or my choices, or my car, or some other shit. Anyone can say dumb shit just because it's dumb sexual shit doesn't mean there's some evil man corp. at work trying to hurt me. It's just one douchebag.  Sorry for rambling, but I just hate how over-dramatic some people get about this stuff. I do hate having to defend myself against the very rare instances of legit sexual harassment, but just like the instances of people who get mad at me for other vapid stuff, it's something that any grown up can shut down and move on from without having to beg for attention and praise online.  And honestly, you're right about that fatass. Nothing would sexually harass that beast.