Modern feminism is pretty much the most oppressing thing women will encounter in their lives.  I have been flat-out told that women like me simply don't exist or we "don't count". The reason? My existence shoots down all of their arguments, like "Women are weaker than men, so domestic violence against men doesn't count" and "Women always will have a hard time entering male-dominated fields" and "Women don't get degrees in sciences/maths."  Instead of saying, "Oh good, a woman that shows me times are changing" they just completely write me off as non-existent. Yeah, lady, it's the men that are dehumanizing me.