Two truths that were once common but now buried deep underground: -Behavior dictates appearance.  -Genetics dictate behavior. Hormone levels are controlled in large part by behavior. It's why feminist women, especially if they've been that way their entire lives, are so ugly. It's why men who don't have any confidence or competence show it in their faces, when their dad is as manly as can be.  As for genetics, that really should be obvious. We share a common ancestor with maggots, and yet we can't stand rotting food. There's some strategic surrender on the behalf of people who disbelieve this, that genetic influence on behavior is defined only on species lines, but that not only makes no sense, but also has no evidence.