Came here to say this. I just figured out what fat phobia really is. It isn't normal people being afraid of hams, its hams being afraid of the world because they're fat, and everything in nature says they shouldn't be fat. Fat phobia is all the things fats are afraid of. And when they call you "fat-phobic" what they really mean is "you're doing something that scares me." Its about the fear inside the fats. I love fat phobia now.