what compels people to date obeasts with no discernable qualities (edit: oh shit im meant to post discussions in another place, my bad) im genuinely wondering this, so please discuss whatever you feel about it, i want to understand: i was on the bus going to the gym, and yet again i saw a skinny average looking guy get on the bus with his fatass girlfriend. now im not interested in them, but she had a permanent scowl and wasnt even the type of fat to dress nice & try to look pretty. i always see average looking girls or guys with the ugliest of fats. i wonder what there is to them? she displayed her personality on the bus and seemed like a horrid person, and he was kissing her. thats what got me thinking. note: all fat people are ugly, i understand some people have weaknesses/clouded views so they may be attracted to them, but given that someone IS fat, shouldnt they at least have a nice personality? or be one of those fats that charades around in human cosplay. a disconnect between what they see and what they believe they're seeing? a bonus: i was going back from the gym, wearing my sports clothes and a oversized puffer jacket that made me almost look her size, i unzipped it so you could see how small i was inside and she actually looked unhappy. when she sat in front of me, she took up both seats, her boyfriend actually had to stay standing. how pathetic and pitiful.