Yeah, let's just ignore the  mounds of emotional damage being inflicted on this poor girl.  It's not a big deal that she's living in a constant state of mental abuse and neglect.  The important thing here is not to fatshame... Imagine if this was her boyfriend or husband treating her like this... All the "typical male CIS fat ass pig mysogeny all men are assholes rapists all men hate women fuck all men!" vitriol that would follow?  Not a goddamn thing would be said about that.  Fuck reddit, and fuck their mods.  Fuck that whole "safe place" in the asshole with a cactus.