Lack of Self Awareness It was my mistake to be at the public pool in the first place, as I've been warned that there's where obeasts go to wash their rolls and the dirty asses. I never go into the hotubs for this reason, however I do love the swim and I'm nowhere close to affording my own pool. I am happy to say that this story isn't about anything super gross, but just a realization of much the obese lack self awareness.  I was getting dressed in the changing room, when I saw a very fat lady walk in. Not wanting to oogle at her ~real curves, I was more focused on brushing my hair and GTFO of there.  Then I heard music. I assumed it was coming from the lobby as the song was Do You Really Want To Hurt Me by Culture Club, and that's the definition of lobby music. However I discovered the loud music was coming from the fat's cellphone.  What adult needs music to change into their clothes at public? It obviously wasn't thinking of anyone else, and lacked the self awareness to know no one else wants to hear their music. The song choice made it so much more pathetic, I almost wanted to laugh at them.