I actually know some who insists that she “used to be in really good shape”, but got fat after having kids because they “stretched her out”. And apparently taking care of them also took away her time to exercise? I don’t even respond to her nonsense anymore because she gets hostile if anyone dares point out the holes in her logic. Also, her oldest is 20.  I think she just doesn’t want to admit that she got too lazy to exercise anymore. She even admits that the doctors (that she’s always seeing despite claiming  just a year ago that she’s “perfectly healthy despite being fat”), want her to eat less, but she doesn’t. Skipping meals doesn’t count when you have frequent huge “snacks”  that you add extra butter to!