That is one of my fears but I have always in a relationship been more motivated for my looks and body. The one time I got fat in my life I was lonely working as an au pair and it was horrible the mother always gave me way too much italian food(I think on purpose because she was crazy) and I was to polite to waste much. If I choose my own food I eat small. The weirdest thing was when I was technically obese everyone complimented me all the time on my figure wtf right? Fat shaming my ass! There really needs to be much more of it in my opinion.