Would you say the same thing if this was a woman being abused by a guy? Lets not hate on victims of domestic abuse, male or female.  I knew a guy whose wife physically abused him, he was athletic, quiet, intelligent, she was extremely dominant and suffered from bi-polar disorder. He loved her and didn't dare to fight back beyond just restraining her when she would go after him. They had 2 kids together. It was a very sad situation... Anyone, man or woman can be a victim of domestic abuse, making fun of an abuse victim just makes you look like a complete scumbag.