There is no war on masculinity, there is just a ton of effeminate men who blame society for their refusal to do masculine things.  Get off the couch and go live in the real world.  You can do whatever you want out there.  I know, I know, on TV and the internet it seems that way, but it's time to put the screen down and go interact with people.  If you feel attacked, you are doing it to yourself snowflake.