Fat fuck who ruined my life now obese So when I was 14, this guy I worked with took advantage of me and manipulated my emotions (he was 18/19). He was in love with me for a number of years. He was always fat, but now that he's married he doesn't seem to give a fuck anymore. I saw him yesterday - ironically teaching a kickboxing class - and he is definitely obese. He had 2 muffin tops. It feels so satisfying to watch someone who fucked you over get fatter and fatter while you stay fit.