I think the problem is fats are everywhere! I'm straight and I do hear all the time (particularly for Lesbians) that there are too many fats in their community. But I think there are too many fats period. Has anyone done any statistics on fatties in these communities?  Fats don't want to date each other, because why would anyone want to do that? > 75% of adults are overweight or Obese in the USA. That is 3/4's of the population that is completely unfit for dating, right out the gate.  Put in your other preferences and eliminate anything that turns you off and boom, you are left with a sorry excuse for a dating pool.