If she's an uppity, bitchy ham - and it sure is sounding that way s  28c2  o far - she'll get all huffy and snide about it as you leave. She'll be on her high horse (the poor creature).  But she'll have those words echoing in her head when she's alone later that night. When she's in her bed, trying to get to sleep, those words will ping-pong around, ringing louder each time. That's the true win.