Quick update: "Looks like being skinny isn't everything, right?" (rather satisfactory) Hey all. Just a really quick update. If you didn't read my previous post and want to, you can find it in my submissions. A huge thanks for everyone for all the supportive comments. I did read them all, sorry I stopped replying pretty quick. No reason other than eventually I got off my ass and didn't really come back long enough to start replying to anything.. but it actually did mean a whole lot to read everything people wrote, and made me feel better. I meant to sit down and give you a detailed update yesterday, after I found out what happened yesterday morning, but again didn't end up on my ass long enough at the PC to do that. Will try my best now! Gonna do this in bullet point form, mainly for my ease of organising my thoughts/writing the important bits down for yall.  I havn't seen the fat since it happened. Still going to the gym as per, don't feel at all bad about anything now. Apparently the gym owner called up fat the very afternoon after it happened and asked it about what it said. It tried to deny it. He told it multiple other people overheard it (which is a lie, as far as I know only one person overheard lol). The fat claimed it said absolutely nothing to hurt my feelings. Gym owner told it that comments on body were not allowed in the gym in any form, because it's inappropriate (bullshit, they so are, he doesn't fucking give a fuck haha) and asked it to apologise next time it saw me, which it said it would do if it 'accidentally' said something insensitive. Gym owner was thinking of barring it anyway, as he was not at all pleased over what it said to me, but decided to wait to see how it apologised to me. I heard this from the trainer who was taking sessions with the fat, who had spoken to the owner about it. Said personal trainer told me that fat made him uncomfortable, and that he had spoken to gym owner about this. I asked, 'how so?', he told me it was a bit flirty and seemed more interested in general chatter than talking about what he was trying to show it/exercises to the point he felt he couldn't do his job. So it wasn't in my head that I saw it trying to flirt with him and him scarpering off! Haaa! Poor dude though. As a result of this, they had decided to assign her the only female trainer at the gym when she was free. Best bit though, fat had a session Monday morning with the trainer mentioned, and it sounds like shit went down. (I heard all this from him, too - didn't witness any of this sadly) First off, it was 20 minutes late and unapologetic, and no one was pleased about that It got told that after a couple more sessions with the personal trainer dude, she would be transferred to the female trainer at the gym once she had sessions available due to it looking like it would be a 'better fit'. Apparently it was not pleased about this, because it specifically requested personal trainer dude for the 10 PT sessions it booked after seeing the PTs on the website and deciding itself that dude 'fit her goals best' and she wanted to stick with him.  Personal trainer dude informed it he was adding more cardio to its routine. In his words 'she wasn't happy' - but the way he actually describes its reaction, she actually kicked off. It said cardio was unnecessary for its goals, it wanted to lift, that it had a body for lifting. He explained to it that it wouldn't be lifting less, but he added the extra cardio because since meeting her, he thinks it would benefit her fitness to do more than he usually includes in the beginners routine he offers. It then tried to say that it already did a lot of cardio outside of the gym, and it wanted to use the gym to lift only. Apparently he got dead annoyed and actually said 'Well, it seems you don't do enough outside of the gym'. It asked him 'whats that supposed to mean' and was angry and loud, to the point of others overhearing it all and causing a scene. He told it he just meant her fitness level (at this point in recounting the story I just want to point out.. personal trainer dude gave me a really obvious 'But you know what I'm ACTUALLY saying, right?' look and we both shared a laugh :P). It eventually begrudgingly agreed to do cardio if it could stick with him as its personal trainer to 'reach her goals' with 'lifting and being strong'. He agreed but didn't mean it, lol. It flipped out doing cardio at the end. He says he set it just on the treadmill to begin with - no incline, barely a jogging pace, and only asked it to stay on 10 minutes. After 3 minutes it was complaining and huffing and panting, saying it was unnecessary, and unfair that he was treating it unfairly by adding extra cardio to the 'lifting routine'. It stopped, the trainer tried to get her to keep going explaining again that his job was to not just get her strong but also healthy and fit, but it point blank refused - and again, loudly, genuinely causing a scene this time getting all upset about the cardio. It asked him again why he added extra just for her, why didn't he believe her when she explained she already did a lot of cardio outside of the gym. At this point, the gym owner eventually came in to see what the fuss was about. She complained to him yadda yadda. Best bit of the best bit:  So, there you have it. (tl;dr :)She's not at the gym anymore - not as a direct result of what it said to me (although that may have been the case, I can't imagine it making any sort of genuine apology if it saw me) but because it was in general a fucking disgrace and caused a scene and unnecessary drama. Who'd have thought? (Sorry I can't give more detail or make this a more fun read, but I didn't witness anything of this. I just heard it from the personal trainer guy yesterday, and am writing what he told me). Regulars at the gym have all heard about it even if they didn't witness it (at least the ones that were there same time as me yesterday) and were still laughing about it, a couple of them got on the treadmills to walk and were loudly and jokingly complaining about it, being dead dramatic. I kinda see this turning into a 'thing'. I really, really love all the regulars there.  Again, thank you for all your comments on my last post. This was certainly an experience all round. I'll also take the advice I got from you guys.. thank you very much for that, I really needed some of it.