"Hey, I'm really unhappy and it bothers me to see you happy so I'm going to need you to become a lazy, fat, miserable piece of shit too."   Yeah, this sums it up pretty well. The audacity... you'd think just because you feel shitty, you wouldn't try to drag down the one person that actually cares that you're shitty and it trying to help. I think the girl in the story should dump the guy, if nothing else it might motivate him to get back in shape to win her back.