Except for the fact you are wrong and most trans-women just want to be normal and blend into society.  You only ever see these freaks parade around because they want the attention.  The headline "Ordinary trans-woman gets married and adopts a kid, works out 3 times a week and likes to bake cookies" because it's not interesting.  I am 100% willing to bet you know one or are friends with either a FTM or MTF trans person and don't even know it.  Sorry the world doesn't work the way you think it does.