Seriously, this is the type of insufferable cunt that you're dealing with:  Now, people make mistakes, or they’re not always aware of their privilege, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and tried to explain why what she said wasn’t OK. Instead of being gracious, my mother became combative — manifesting first in defensiveness about her behavior, then in complaining about my inability to afford to visit that year, then in dragging my wife into the fray as referee. I tried to set boundaries, and my mother would scoff at them, telling me that I was being needlessly formal or seeing my boundaries as signs I didn’t trust her.   Yea, what a retarded fat bitch. The mental image I had of this hog and the reality are pretty much one in the same. How something that humongous can think it's anorexic is a fucking insult to myself and anyone else who has dealt with an ED in their life.  What creature is so fucking ignorant that they confuse binge-eating disorder with anorexia? An obeast, that's who...