I'm retired Army and can tell you that there is a bit of the whoring and general fuckery going on with a small percentage of the enlisted and even smaller percentage with officer wife's.  You can spot them a mile away and are easy to steer clear of, but have also noticed over the years that the husband is usually and dumb fuck or a douche himself so its a two way street in that regard.  Do your job and don't drag a small town skank along with you to your first duty station  and enjoy the first few years in the Army as a hard core pipe sling-en juggernaut!  20 years will be over in a blink of an eye if you decide to make a career out of it!