I want my wife and daughter (and women generally) to have all the opportunities in the world that they can strive for, and to be justly rewarded for their efforts and successes.  I used to think that made me a "feminist".  I think it still does.  I think they are taking a virtuous concept and twisting it into some persecutory delusion to suit their own deflated egos.  This is fat-loser-ism, not feminism.