Not sure how asking a friend I hang out with all the time to help me move some furniture is taking advantage, but whatever.  It's not like this friendship is one day old, and he has literally no idea that I don't feel that way about him; we've talked about it many times.  Anywho, I thought that's what friends are for, mutually helping each other when you need it, whether that be a shoulder to cry on or help with chores. I'm not going to stop seeing my best guy friend just because he has a thing for me.  That's his choice if he can't handle it, he should stop seeing me.