This is why I don't understand why people get so butthurt about telling their partners about a problem. You are supposed to have an open line of communication with the ones you love. You are supposed to be able to fix problems within a relationship. I told my boyfriend 2 years ago that he was starting to get fat. Sure he was upset for like a day, but he was smart enough to realize that I care enough about him to say something. He lost the weight, and we haven't had a problem since.     If he had been like these whiny assholes and broken up with me, he'd probably be a minimum of 200 pounds by now. He's happy that I give a shit about his health. Nobody else would have told him.