Yo whats wrong with self harm huh?! Dude just didn't cut the right way. Down the street and all that. Yo real talk I'm all for like, choose suicide - but there eventually is a lot of guilt that comes with it. Its such a strange thing but you find yourself thinking like, "What would mom do?" "How would my sister take it?"  People call it the cowards way out too, and make fun of guys who do it, which adds to the weird feelings. If you don't think about it it's easy to just get drunk and try to kill yourself but then someone could find you or whatever, and then that's when the guilt starts to pile on. I get that the dude is a pussy looking for attention and a disgusting creep, but I think what stops a lot of people, and causes them to puss out is that they eventually do think of how shitty it would be to bail on your life that your parents put money and time into, that type of stuff.