Never in my life, even within the most body positive shows, circles, discussions, literature, academic journals have I ever heard "don't ever lose weight" to be something commonly said. See, what baffles me is why people are so offended by fat people. I'm super fit and healthy so don't assume I'm saying this because I'm a 'triggered fat person' but yes, it never made much sense to me how people get like that but do you know what my brain does? It wonders and assumes that maybe the person could be depressed. They could be self harming (yes, it's a form of self harm), could have had a tough childhood which was only blissful when they ate, could have a medical condition, maybe they were raised by parents who were those things, maybe they were simply uneducated in nutrition and formed habits after they learned but by then, it was too late. Maybe they have some other sort of disability that makes them immobile and fat. Either way, why does it bother you so much? Why aren't you offended by ISIS, by what is happening in the Middle East? Why aren't you offended by the Syrian kids who are left homeless because their parents are dead and homes destroyed. Instead you fucking Instagram image obsessed twats are so offended and preoccupied with what others should look like, you've lost your humanity. Grow the fuck up and get the fuck over it. Some people are fat and some aren't!  Also censored.  LOL.  Looks like a goat got in.  ;-)