Oh believe me I know. Every Friday is like this for me. I've mostly given up on having a fun kinky time and just walk around in my underwear to get some good shitlording by existing done.  It's not as fun, but I clearly see the envy in the eyes of the tubs. And once in a blue moon I do meet someone thin. It's not exactly hard for me to stand out of the crowd (assuming they're not literally blocking the line of sight).