Well no, that's kind of the point. It's just a place for people to vent because as is often the case, the human in the relationship is normally surrounded by multiple other fleshigamis both in the family and friendship circle. You normally need a tribe of wobbly pyramids to achieve the fabled status of hambeast. It's difficult to do otherwise without the level of opprobrium you attract from humans. The human in the relationship often finds that other humans drift away from disgust. If you read through some of the posts, you'll find that the advice of the old hands living with old hams is to get out. These people are fundamentally mentally broken in my experience. There's a thought. what is the collective noun for obeasts. We have a "murder" of crows, a "gaggle" of geese, so maybe a "smother", "spread" or perhaps a "globule". Dunno. Thoughts?