On shame and needing constant affirmation These fat people getting triggered by swimsuit ads or small clothing sizes feel as though they are being shamed. It is their own shame coming from within them. They know they look gross, even though they keep saying they are beautiful goddesses. They need the constant affirmation because they keep trying to hide from the truth. Even with 10 other fat people commenting and telling them they look hot and fierce, they still know deep down that they look bad. That is why they feel "shamed" when people start talking about healthy eating in the same room. No matter how many people tell them they look beautiful and how many shitlords they block, the shame will always exist inside of them. Fat shaming will always exist, no matter how many plus sized models we see in the media. It doesn't come from us, it comes from their own hearts.