I've seen some garbage poetry by feeders and they get off on the humiliation it seems like. They fatten 'em up until they're useless to the feeder, then they move on to the next fatty. As far as regular enablers go, I think alot of them don't know anything else. Alot of times its a parent/child relationship or a husband/wife. One of the two becomes an immobile fat slob and the other (who is usually fat/obese but still mobile) ends up picking up the slack and catering to the blob hand and foot. I don't know if it's fulfilling to the enabler or what but I wouldn't bring fatty food anymore. Want it yourself? Get up, fatty.