Sorry a fatty had to make you feel as sickly and toxic as they did. I'm sure you do but hopefully you understand now that it wasn't a reflection of you, it was a reflection of their misery that they had to cast on you. "Crabs in a bucket" isn't an exaggeration, it really is how they think. The fact that she insulted you and called you fat tells me that's how she saw herself and wanted you to feel as miserable about it. The difference is, her gunt was real. Hope you're doing A LOT better now. They really do just want handouts. They can't fathom actually working for something so they want it handed to them.