A civilian on an army base - observations of dependapotumi in the wild. Hey FPH. I just got back from a over a week on an army base, where my work sent me as part of a civilian contractor project. A few observations: Female army officers - big fucking respect to you for holding your own in a male dominated environment. The ladies I met were tough, smart, badass women, and I'm 'mirin you. How depressing is it to easily be the most attractive female civilian on and off base, just be the sheer virtue of being of a normal weight, and not dressing like total trash?  I really feel badly for the men on the base. I've never been eyefucked so badly in my life, and although all the male officers I met were incredibly nice and courteous, you could tell they were hungry to fuck something/someone that was human sized.  Bitter fatties are bitter: One night, I was invited to a local watering hole where lots of the officers socialized. I swung by after the gym, looking casual cute in my leggings, and was having a nice conversation with the acquaintances I'd made. I notice at the next couple of tables over, that there's a herd dependapotumus wives at their table.. glaring at me, as I chat away with the guys from the base. As I walk past their table, I hear, clear as day "Ugh, she should really eat something, that ass is sad."  The bitch that says this is maybe 5'6, and at least 240lb. Her ass was sagging off the barstool as she spoke. Also, fuck this bitch, my ass is awesome. It's round and perky from being good about doing my squats/leg day! I walked back from the bathroom. A soldier offers to buy my next drink. I say loudly enough for the herd to hear, "Oh, I'm flattered, but I'm trying to watch my weight! I'm worried that I'm going to get pudgy!" I jokingly pretend to grab nonexistent belly flab. Soldiers jump in with "What? You're not fat at all!' type of comments, clearly, confused at having heard type of statement from a human woman.  The dependapotumi seeth.     Why do dependapotami even exist? I didn't think they'd be a phenomenon in my country (I'm not US based), and the army base that I was on was pretty generous with the amenities provided - top notch gym facility, easy access to fresh foods, and plenty of learning/betterment opportunities.  I went to the base gym every day, and each time, I was the only female civilian there. I mean, in the weights room, I could understand - but not a single woman on the treadmills, on the bikes or anything.  Fat women are the worst: "You're only thin because you're Asian." "You have different genes, because you're Asian." "Well, you're from the city, you don't need to do country work like we did growing up." "Oh, you eat so... healthy." "Do you always go to the gym? Aren't you worried you'll get bulky?"  These were all comments from two fat civilian underlings assigned to me. They work at the base, part time, and they are military spouses too. They also LOVED telling me how hard it is to lose baby weight, and that's why they're still carrying said baby weight, after 6-8 years. Also, said baby weight is an excess 30kgs+  So, Army peoples - a simultaneous thank you, and condolences for your situation. I guess you're taking one for the country in more ways than one - serving to protect the nation state, AND taking those heifers off the market. Thanks for the former, sorry about the latter.