Help! Old friend turned super fat and I want him to be healthy. I want to begin by saying that I used to be overweight but as soon as I realized the path I was taking I changed myself and became normal weight. I started working out about three hours a day and cutting calories and everything and I am healthy now (thank god) but my friend didn't change. He got fatter as I moved away to college, and now he has a fat girlfriend. We have been hanging and I can see his bad habits and I try to help but he brushes it off. I also tried to get him to workout with me as we were both on the football team together, but he couldn't even do one lift. I want to get him to become a shitlord and be healthy but I also don't want to lose him. He was my only friend for a while and the reason I have my friends now. What  can I do to help him? He is fading fast so I need to act before I leave in a couple days. Thank you guys!