I lost my ex-girlfriend to ham status, when she reached 300lbs she still had excuse after excuse. What hams don't realise is the shit their partners go through. My mates were always laughing at me, my colleagues would be concerned for me it eas embarrassing in public. I tried to stick around to give her a chance to sort it out and because I was worried about how society viewed me. I got tired of coming home from work and finding her lying in bed surrounded by chocolate bar wrappers.