Listen up, LaFupa.  You do not need this sad excuse of repulsiveness to feel that you look OK.  I don't know you, or your story, but I'd be willing to bet that you are much, much hotter than you can give yourself credit for.  The fact that you're verified, by itself, shows that you have enough integrity to not be fat. Again, IDK where you've come from, but you're here now. You are amongst friends. We all struggle, but, really....really, I bet you look pretty damned good to eyes that are not your own.    Believe an old shitlady, or don't. (But I hope that you do. At least a little.) Edit: I misread your comment, but I'm leaving this, just the same.