content: Yeach that's is exactly why. I had cousins that went through foster care, they were abused by the foster parents. My cousins had to sleep on cots I  the basement, that was barely even furnished, had hand-me down clothes, ate frozen TV dinners, my family had to fight to visit them, they would not celebrate their birthdays, all while the foster parent's kids slept upstairs, are home cooked meals, had friends come over, and had birthday parties. It was tereible, and there was nothing my family could do.