content: where's the data on all that? this article features quite a bit of data. Are you saying that men are naturally violent and careless about their health and void of feelings? that makes men seem inherently less human and frankly legitimizes radical concerns about all men being potential rapists and killers.  I think it makes perfect sense for men to reject being boxed in to what is stereotypically masculine. that is exactly what women did -  they rejected the stereotypically feminine to achieve equal rights today (though lots of women are still traditionally feminine and that is totally fine - everyone be who you are as long as you don't hurt anyone). I know countless men in their 40s and 50s who suffered quite a bit at the hands of their peers and fathers demanding they stifle their feelings because they were naturally more sensitive people. yes they hate themselves - because they ARE "more like women" and were told not to be.  This is not to say ever person is the same. Every person's traditionally masculine side and feminine side exists on a spectrum. believe it or not not every man wants to be a high power CEO with a harem of girlfriends and a gun collection. just like not every woman wants to get married and have a bunch of babies, as their parents might expect. the only things i agree with you on is the sexual urges thing. kids are taught abstinence only education. if everyone was told it was OK to jerk off and told what condoms are kids wouldn't get such weirdly puritanical messages contrasted with highly sexual ones in the media. also the over diagnosis of ADD is something that should be looked at.