content: I agree with the feminist ideals of equality and whatnot, but the divisive, man hating/shaming/blaming aspects just kill it for me. I can't say I'm a feminist because I know people would assume I'm a man hating nutjob. At least that's what I immediately assume when someone says they're a feminist. I just go with egalitarian these days, because I really think its just time to give up the term "feminism" for dead and move to something more inclusive. Women don't have a monopoly on equality or a desire for equality.