content: I think that men in general are left out in the cold during their 20s, with no sense of direction. They're thirsty, they haven't figured out how to handle whatever struggles they're going through (because they have to do it alone.) so their woman also becomes the emotional center of their lives. and they don't know that bad women look exactly like the good ones. once guys hit their 30s, sorted their shit out, and aren't walking hormones, most of them can't be bothered to waste their time looking for a girlfriend let alone finding one to marry.