content: The phrases--suck it up, move on, and get over it--are violence.  Well, if it's any consolation - she's going to have a terrible mental state, and she's not going to fix that anytime soon, with all the positive feedback she's getting. She's going to accumulate a few interesting mental disorders in addition to the ones she already has. With this much crazy she's probably able to talk herself into developing actual PTSD.