content: @_@ Oh, okay. That makes it fine then, I guess. 14 is a totally mature, reasonable age for people to be making decisions like that. I've never understood why people can't vote, smoke, buy alcohol, be in porno at 14. /facepalm  Seriously. This is not about the age difference so much about the age. 14 is not any kind of maturity - that's around the time you get into the most trouble. Because you have shitty parents that let you bang the babysitter.