No one actively condones harassment, or says you should just accept it. The problem is that any measure to actually control harassment online would stifle free speech in ways you can't imagine. You would have to banish anonymity. For everyone. Great, now you can find the trolls, but now you've weakened the privacy of every individual on the net, and have stifled their free speech because now what they say is attached to their name (which, more often than not, is NOT harassment, such as sexual preferences, abuse counseling, political leanings, etc).  I'm sorry, I won't sacrifice anonymity just because some softies can't learn how to tune out the white noise. I don't condone online harassment, and I don't think people should just accept it, but at what cost do we attain comfort?