Subjective criteria are subjective, since I have no way to look into OPs mind (aside form his post history on which I base my opinion off him), so other people might see his complaints in a more favourable light. I, however, do not. OP wanted to have a gotcha moment to futher engage in self-victimaziation and so he can ran and virtue-signal to his buddies about those horrible mods in charge of r/KiA are at it again (dun dun duuuun). That the mods of r/KiA obligated to serve his retarded persecution complex instead of keeping it professional is on them, however, that part I can agree on. Again the problem is not that he may or may not have a point (which he might, IMO), it is that he argues in my opinion solely to quote-mine so he can show off to his group how r/KiA in general and the mods in particular are cancer not because suddenly cares for the dignity of a recently deceased NYS adopter. Hence it fits the very definition of "participating in bad faith". Also that he, too, uses the death to further his particular agenda, makes OP also a hippocrite, but that is just an aside.