No, it's not so terrible for women. According to a Pew Research Center study, men are harassed more than women, and all of 11% of female gamers are harassed. I can also tell you from what I've personally seen happen with my step-daughter: she has been gifted numerous Steam games from strangers just by being a girl. The worst harassment she has received has been being called a 13yo boy because of her voice. The harassment is real but WAY overblown. Pew Study Infographic