Well, here's the thing, I usually go in with everyone clearly understanding that I am in fact, a woman. It could just be that I'm driving away anyone else from the conversation that isn't more moderate and generally cool dudes. I'm sure out there somewhere there are screen caps of the fact that I exist with captions like "look at this stupid woman not understand that she sucks," or whatever, but honestly, I haven't found many that have really been shitty after hearing them out. I suppose it starts with the fact that they're the type to be willing to open a dialogue in the first place.