You should be ashamed of yourself for having such retarded offspring. This is your daughter, you don’t have to fucking coax her like some kind of random acquaintance. If you aren’t a pussy you should easily be able to have her look up to you so you can lead her down the correct path. Stop walking on eggshells, grow a spine, and tell her what’s up and how the world works.  If you don’t, you’re failing as a parent.