They always look at their high school friends and see pictures of those friends kids, graduation invitations, wedding invitations, birthday parties, happy smiley children who will go right on to have more children, while the "cool wine aunt" is sitting in a cigarette infused chair, dirty windows, unkempt hair, and a mini fridge filled with the cheapest wine because she doesn't want to actually go to any of the events When her neices and nephews ask their parents why their aunt doesn't have kids, all they can do is say "she just never found anyone" then tell them to go back to running around the park or fortnite as their futures brighten ahead of them