We met quite a number of years ago and it was a friend of mine had invited me to go
out to Sugar Sammy, the comedian, just watch his show and she is good friends with Sam's
cousin so he was there with his cousin and just a group of us.
After that we decided to go to Earl's on Broadway, just go out for dinner and have some fun.
Our first date, I don't know what she's going to kill me, I don't remember the first date.
Honestly, I cannot remember, this is so bad, I'm so bad at anniversaries and stuff.
Yeah, I seriously can't even remember.
I know that once we made it official it was at the same friend who I went to Sugar Sammy
and my friend Joe, it was at her birthday a couple years later after we had been so
I guess you could kind of say her birthday was her first date.
So I guess one thing neat that's a lot better than I do is that she's really organized and I'm not
so I think that really helps balance the two of us.
So whenever we face time, he's very particular about the way he faces the camera because
there's a giant pile of clothes beside his bed and he never wants me to see it.
And I like things to be very organized and very tidy so in that aspect his room's a mess,
his car's always a mess.
When Sam makes me laugh it's honestly just because he's very witty, he's always on his toes,
he's always got something to say, he's always not necessarily making fun of people in a bad way
but he's always got a funny remark to make about what's being said or what's being done or worn or whatever.
You know, just that connection that you feel with someone when you first meet them where you get to really know them
and just kind of how she feels in your blanks.
So I guess that for me is when I knew she was the one.
They liked him, yeah, when my parents first met him, like one of their, my dad's comment was,
oh he's very tall and my mom was like, wow his smile's so nice.
And I was like, yup.
For my side, I am the last one to get married so I think my parents are happy that, you know,
the last marriage and now they're done with this kind of stuff.
The proposal, honestly, is like a phone conversation that we had and we decided that we're going to go for it
and rest his history I guess.
It's almost like we just ended up here one day.
Like it was more so like our parents and they were like, you know, we know you guys have been dating for a while,
like you're at that age, like make it official and yeah, it just felt right and it felt easy so that was it.
So I guess one thing I'm really excited about is just kind of starting the next chapter of our lives together
and seeing where it takes us and what we get into moving forward.
Five, ten years down the line, I hope we have started a family together.
Honestly, I just, I can't wait to see Sam be a dad.
Like I see him with his nieces and nephews and he's such a great uncle that I know he's just going to be an even better dad.
We've had a lot of tough times in the past couple of years that we've had to really become united,
but I think it's just because of our communication that we stand together and they're really,
at this point we both feel like there isn't anything that we can do together.
We have this saying that we say, and it's basically sometimes me, sometimes you, but always we.
And it's just amongst us and it basically just translates into sometimes I'm going to have to lean on him a little more,
sometimes he's going to have to lean on me a little bit more, but together there isn't anything that we can't conquer.
So for me, I guess one thing I'm looking forward to is just spending the rest of our lives together and seeing what that takes us.
Sam, for our wedding, I am really looking forward to both of our families coming together and us just starting the next chapter in our life.
It's been a long time coming, so I'm quite excited that we're finally getting there.
I love you like crazy and I just can't wait to get there and just do the everyday little things with you for the rest of our lives.
Thank you.
Thank you.
