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Hello, dear friends!
Today I want to talk to you about the gifts that we make for our children.
I think the question is, should we give a child a gift?
You will all answer confidently.
Of course, gifts are just necessary for a child.
However, not all of them are possible to be determined for themselves what gifts to give, when to give them and how to bring them to the child.
That's all about it and we will talk about it in this episode.
Unfortunately, for many parents, gifts serve as a means of control.
Among parents, such educational means have spread quite widely.
For the last few weeks before the new year, the child will constantly hear.
If you behave so badly, Santa Claus will not bring you gifts.
The child believes in us.
And this interval of time before the holiday often becomes very tense for him.
And if I don't get a gift?
After all, it was so that I did badly.
Is it really so bad that even Santa Claus will come to me?
Once upon a time in kindergarten, I had to watch the stage.
Santa Claus from a big bag pulled gifts for children one after another.
The gifts were bought by parents in advance.
The boys got a car, and the girls got a doll.
And one boy got only a glass of chocolate.
After the holiday, the children unanimously closed the door.
You have the worst gift because you are not listening.
You are bad.
Then, by chance, I was able to find out that parents deliberately arranged such a situation for educational purposes.
The behavior of this boy was really not brilliant.
However, after this incident, it did not turn out better.
The best way to make good children is to make them happy.
There is another side of the question.
Sometimes we change the child from ourselves as a gift.
That is, instead of ourselves, we offer the child a game, a gift, or just send him to the yard.
Imagine that you would feel that if your child were to go for a walk with you,
he would give you a plush bear and say,
go with him, I don't have time now, there is a lot of work.
Already as an adult, one man told about one of the bright unpleasant episodes of his childhood.
It was summer and he, a nine-year-old boy, rested in the village with his grandfather.
After some time, he wrote to his parents a letter in which he asked them to come as soon as possible.
Soon he received an answer, a message, which was a loaded electric railway,
and which the boy had previously dreamed of. Still, the boy was extremely disappointed,
or he could hold his tears. He missed his parents, not on the train.
The desired early toy turned into a hateful one.
Children often acquire a completely different meaning than parents put into it.
Once my son and I went to the store to buy a gift for him in advance.
I looked at the designer and I began to offer him to buy it.
But Matveya saw on one shelf bright colorful puzzles that he really liked.
Matveya saw on one shelf bright colorful puzzles that he really liked.
Matveya saw on one shelf bright colorful puzzles that he really liked.
I began to convince my son to buy a designer,
because we had enough boxes with puzzles at home, and there was no designer yet.
Matveya did not agree at first, but then he started.
When we left the store, I noticed that Matveya looked not particularly happy.
Did you like the gift you asked him? Yes, he said, it would be better if we bought those puzzles.
I realized my mistake, we returned to the store, and I bought my son what he liked.
He was happy.
Dear friends, God gives us His gifts every day.
We are loved by people, by nature, by the sky, by grass, by flowers, by life itself.
He gives us maximum freedom in our choice and does not put any conditions.
Love is eternal, I loved you.
And that's why I pray to you.
It is written in the Holy Scripture.
We will take an example from our Heavenly Father and give good to our children, just because we love them.
We are waiting for your letters and calls.
God bless you and your family.
Love your child with love.
Be not talented, be not successful, be an adult.
I am happy with him, that the child is a holiday that is with you for now.
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The birth is the beginning of a new destiny. The beginning inspires.
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