Let's listen to a little.
Don't tell me, don't tell me, don't tell me
You both moved to New York State the same exact year she moved to New York City as a
I mean, we were living in the same state for eight years and I never knew and I didn't find her until I came here 15 years ago.
I said, look, if you're not this person, just give me a call regularly and tell me you're not this person.
So, you know, I can keep looking with you or this person and you don't want to have anything to do with me.
Give me a call, send me a letter so I can stop.
And she called me.
I didn't, I didn't see her.
Every time I met her, I would go here.
You like that?
Because I didn't know where this guy was.
So, here it is.
I find a lot of you.
I said, I will go do this.
But, it was just, it's nice to know that I have a shape for you.
A week ago, I get invited to this group and they're a group of Korean and Black women that's on the Facebook page who say,
Patty, you're in Chicago.
Now we should just do a meet and greet.
So, I'm like, cool.
And we're here today at this Korean restaurant in Hyde Park.
And I've been cool ever since I got dressed to come drive down here and I just kind of got nervous below.
I don't know, this is like kind of like, this is so surreal that Facebook connected me to somebody that's so similar to me.
And we've been talking every day through Facebook like crazy in private group messages.
Just to see and hear the similarities between me and these women.
I feel like I'm going to know these women for the rest of my life.
I do.
I feel like a common bond.
I kind of feel like I have a whole other support group when I find my mother.
You know, in kind of, in Jungmi who found her mother and have a relationship now.
Her mother is in Georgia, which I think my mother is.
So, this is just, it's blowing me away.
The feelings, I don't know, they're good feelings that I have.
Patty, Kim, Gail, myself.
