We all have it in us to do some out-of-pocket things when it comes to relationships and
exes.
But how far would you go?
Have you ever stocked or wanted to stock an ex on social media?
The mighty s-word.
Jordan, so you know, stocking exes on social media is a thing.
It's a real thing.
Have you ever stocked your ex before?
I totally have.
Why did you do it?
Oh man, sometimes you just can't help it, but really?
I guess I want to know how they're doing or what's going on in their life.
I just, it's like this desire to know, you know, if I was attracted to them, like, what
we had, what, what are they doing after me, like, what, would it be something that I was
attracted to, you know, what brought?
What were you looking for?
Curious minds would like to know what Jordan was looking for when she was stocking her
ex.
I definitely was looking for just where they're going with her life, if they're dating anyone,
what that person would they were like, you know, I guess you'd say that's not really
that great because you want to compare yourself to other people.
People, right, because does it make you feel better?
It's definitely, I don't know, I don't really know where the motivation comes from because
obviously it doesn't make you feel better seeing your ex with someone else, but it's
just the fact that I know instead of not knowing is like, I don't know, that's something that's
important to me.
But you know how they always say ignorance is bliss?
I know for me, I don't know if I would want to know Jordan.
Yeah, I don't know, I'm not like that, although if they knew that I was stocking them, I'd
be mortified.
So it's cool if they, when they don't know and not cool if they do know?
Yes, then I would be totally embarrassed.
Yeah, only if they, only if like, if it's done on the slide, it's fine.
She's gonna be totally embarrassed.
I don't know, Jordan, I don't, I don't know if I...
You're gonna tell me you've never stalked anyone?
Any ex?
Oh, I, so...
Okay, so one scenario was, there was this guy that faded away on me three years ago, 2012,
and three years later, did I want to, I had this craving to look for him, and I started
to look for him, Instagram, nothing, SoundCloud, nothing, Facebook, nothing, Twitter, gone,
and I was just like, look at God, because I was not supposed to find him.
And so that was the first time I was just like, oh, this is, this doesn't feel good.
Like, this doesn't work for me.
I mean, everyone's different, but it just didn't work for me.
I know for me, I just, the stocking ex's thing for me, just, it doesn't feel good at all.
And if anything, if I ever got to that point, Jordan, I would just have to unfriend them.
I mean, I think it also really depends on how your relationship ended.
Correct.
Like, that's true.
That's true.
I'm saying I had an, not great, but an amicable, you know, break up with the people, so it's
more of like, how are they doing?
So if you all end up on the F stuff note, you would feel some sort of way, would you stalk
them if they end up on the F stuff note?
Probably would, but thankfully haven't had that situation in my life.
That situation, so that was always good.
That doesn't sound like that would feel a lot more negative, the way that I see, you
know, I'm not considering it stalking, I'm just checking up.
It's not stalking to Jordan.
Listen, the only thing I would say is, try and lightly when it comes to stalking anybody
on social media, male, female, it doesn't matter because you're going to find things
you don't want to find and it's going to be, it's going to be on you for digging.
Totally.
There's a spiral.
Digging.
You keep digging.
It does, right?
Unhealthy comparison.
If you can handle it.
That's fair, Jordan.
I'll take that.
If you can handle what's on the other end of stalking your ex on social media, then that's
cool.
You can run their ass, unfollow them because you won't be mad and you'll be, what, taking
it to the head, drinking?
Yeah, that's right.
You might be upset.
Damn, Jordan, that's crazy, okay.
You and I are made conversation and you're telling me that it's cool for the intern
to text you on the mother effing weekend?
It's not a big deal.
